Sexual Favors Vs. 31 Flavors
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Posted:Jul 2, 2014 2:46 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2019 11:16 am
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So I think i need to address the issue of my choice in dating Interracially. First of all its not really Dating "interracially" as I myself am Biracial. Father Italian, Mother African American.
there are a Few Black men in my past for which i did give it a go, but Sex was not what it was with white guys.. I have dated white men the majority of my life. There are two reasons for this.. I grew up with a white Man in my house..lol.. and what doesn't want a man Just like her father? no matter what Race she is. I just feel like i can be myself, unjudged, unchecked around white Men. dont get me wrong, Im going to be myself no matter who it is or what Race they are, It just doesn't feel like alot of pressure.
Secondly, I have noticed that when it comes to Sex.. the choices for Ts women are clearly the more masculine, the better, I find this particularly challenging.. as Men don;t come any more Masucline or masculine proving than a Black man. Which is all good the down side is No oral, and getting fucked is 90% out of the question. This sucks, because if it had anything do with prefrence that would be one thing.. but some how it is always tied in to being a strong black man and, That only sissies, women and punks get fucked in the ass.. Wtf is that shit? lol
No it ultimately boils down to Selfishness, and an extreme lack of education as to "what pleases your partner" no matter what or who it is This of course is not just a Transsexual condition, I have ran into many black GGs (genetic girls) who mirror this same point of view.. This is a dispicable behavior from any Race of Men. I have never looked at myself as either of the above, a punk a Fag, a sissy, because i like to ride a hard one every now and then, so i find that thought process simply out dated, archaic, and down right stupidity.
Sexually I want what feels good to me.. if getting fucked until i can barely spell my name does it for me, or banging my partner until he/she is dizzy.. i want to know that i won'tt be judged for even asking or bringing the subject up. White men are Tops, I have not ran into to much resistance though, as I do with men of color. Nor have any of the white men i have dated, ever been any of the things previeously described, or made me feel they were any lesser of a man because thier interest were souly in making sure i got off. it is my opion that white men are a bit more advanced in the giving department than black men are.. and that is the reasoning for my dating choice.
I have heard sooo many insults regaurding my choice, like " white men are punks and doormats, so thats why you want a white dude": or my personal favorite... " You are afraid of Big Dicks, so thats why you mess with white cocks":.. WTF?? lol Well to set the record straight, On an intellectual level.. i say this..
"My interest is not only in white men, it is in anyone who will grow me as a lover, and in which i can do the same for them, I want to get into the bed, or car, or airplane bathroom (lol) knowing that when i get out, i was completely satisfied, and was not stiffled, or oppressed in any mannor, when it comes to my sex drive, libido, or my sexual organs. I don't want to feel like i am a self service station for a man, where he is only in it for himself, and then the phrase "did you get yourself off": is uttered to me.. it just so happens that the men that are open to such an OUUUUUT-RAGEOUS theory are white men, don't blame me for going with the obvious choice. blame yourself for not being able to evolve".
I am seriously considering writing my own adaptation of "THE TRANSSEXUAL PENIS MONOLOGUES"..LOL
Well gang Im out.. if i don't write before the holiday.. Have a happy and SAFEEEEEEEE 4th of July.. And remember,
The Universe Is much bigger than we have been led to believe.
ciao Muah!
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The Transsexual Condition
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Posted:Jun 28, 2014 10:32 am
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2020 2:18 pm
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I have decided to change my Blog title, to the Transsexual Condition. why? Well for several reasons.. i find it a lot more difficult to be TS on a dating site, than it is in the real world, what a weird Universe, there are over 6 billion souls on this planet, and when you find a site that is open from california, to egypt. its a bit discouraging that a place where finding someone sane and rational, and narrowing down your choices, is actually more of a platform for sex addiction..intamacy challenges, and commitment phobic assholes, who probably grew up watching mommy turn tricks at rest stops. , Of course in this case, this is not only a Transsexual condition, but a human one.
I have learned that the men on this site.. are confused little boys.. who still relish in treating TS women, like that 976 ad in the begining of a porno, or thinkin that We should all look like brazialian and thailand ladyboys..lmao..wtf is that?..lol
If you want to approach a TS, and be taking seriously, don't use words like "he/she', "Shem" She-male", "Lady boy", "Chick with dick", those words fall on the ears like using the "n-word" or disgusting antisemetic terms....very gross. This of course is the TS condition, we are here to feel like we fit, hopefully some of us do, We are here to experince sex, meeting new people, or love, or whatver it is that we are looking for, just like the rest of the "Breeders" ( a term for hetro people.... lol see how disgusting nick names are? lol the ignorant low life will probably say there is nothing wrong with that term" but actually it implies something very sinister, that hetro people are filth, scum/cum buckets, who go around infecting, producing, and multiplying like an insect. Now thats a fucked up condition..lmao.
I say just treat TS women the way you wanted to b treated, which should be with the upmost respect, unless you yourself like to be treated disgusting, and and a circus freak, then i say to each thier own..lmao.
ciao for now..
The Universe is alot smaller than we have been led to believe-
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FUN?
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Posted:Mar 25, 2011 5:58 am
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2020 2:20 pm
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Well, I have been taking alot of time to "Observe" since i became a silver member.. and trust me i can write blogs about the things that i have seen, heard, and read, for yearssssssss. One of those subjects happens to be about "FUN".
I noticed that the majority of people here have in thier Headlines.. rather insulting things about the subject.. " Looking for people who know how to have fun", or If you dont know how to have fun, im not interested". or one i came across this morning saying "seeking fun, Prudes stay away". Now one or two things can be assumed about these headlines, 1. either the people have come across someone that they are into or want to fuck, and that person came off a little to classy, or educated, or just ahead of the bullshit, and it killed the "freak moment" for the other person. Or 2. people assume that we as adults have never been to an amusement park, or had a birthday party, or even school yard rec time. either way its sorta insulting when you think about it.
Why would we be here if "Fun" wasnt some where in the plan of meeting someone? I think people, men in general assume because a girl doesnt engages instantly in sexual talk, that she is a prude, or simply isnt looking for "fun", I think it all depends on what type of Fun you are suggesting... for example one might think sky diving is a helluva hoot, doesnt mean my 80 year old grandmother would find the same activity particularly knee slapping, or healthy for that matter.
I am all for a medium in which one can express themselves in a manor they could never any other way. this usual falls under the category of this site, Most of the people would NEEEEEEEEVER approach anyone in a club or a bar they way they do here, "hey baby wanna fuck"?, "Hey baby can i suck your dick"?, "eat you out"? etc...etc..and so on and so on. But thats just the point. Where is the wooing? where is the suggestion.. that "I am the better fit for you" or "pick me for these reasons".
or " come morning you won't be disgusted with me or your self for even having a quick romp with me" Where is the fun in that?
I digress, if this was a public place i.e. bar, club, grocery store, or laundry mat, if such things were suggested, or uttered, it would be the equivilant to , sexual harrasment, a drink in the face, your cheek would get read someones palm at the very least, and again where is the fun in that?
Yes this is a sexual site,as most of the men here will beat to death, along with thier cocks, but here is the news flash, most of us know that, Most of us join for that very reason.. to be Adults, act as Adults do, Say things in which Adults say.. and not have to feel judged for that, and of course that is "Fun",
But what ever happened to acting responsibly, Learning what Mama taught us, if we had a mama, That with Adult choices, and words, comes Adult consequences, that with Adult Actions comes Adult repercussions, but then as adults we learn there is no fun in that type of thinking. in Meaning You may think its fun to assume the worse about someone simply because they arent what you are looking for, or because fucking the first pretty face you jack off to, pinch your nipples at.. or slide your fist into your warm Quinny about, (lol)isnt on that same plain as you AT THE MOMENT, Because no matter who you are a 15 min, romp is always appealing, a hook up with no headaches is always gravy.
But when you react about that person or people not being as much "fun" as you are, Remember, why you assumed that, remember why you felt as though sky diving didnt appeal to the other person. or people. or why you were unable to sell the idea of jumping out of a plane to someone; Your delievery was wrong, your approach blatantly insecure, The pitch, fizzled at "wanna fuck"? ...but then again who am i kidding.. no one will think about such things.. because there isnt much fun in using your brain to get what you want. LOLOL
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