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Big Balls ... :)  

trixietrixster 54F  
3256 posts
9/7/2021 8:05 pm
Big Balls ... :)

... is one of the best songs AC/DC ever made ...

Meanwhile, back at the ranch ...

Bout four months ago or so, someone reached out to me and we hit it off pretty good. We texted for the next several days - moving up to phone with a four hour chat. We texted as time allowed and a few days later I got this:

Him: “If you are available tomorrow nite, would you like to talk on the phone again?”

Me: Sure! That would be awesomeness! Let me know what time is good for you", with a smiley face …

And, poof he was gone … until today …

“Hi Trixie,

It has been a while, are you still around ? I took a break for a bit, I regret losing touch with you. I hope we can still connect. How have you been?”


My response was simply this:

“Uuummm – are you fucking serious?!

You don’t deserve the time and energy for any further comment” …


As opposed to this:

This should be clear enuf … CRYSTAL FUCKING CLEAR …

You've got a lot of fucking balls writing to me, you FUCKING DOUCHE BAG. You are a FUCKING FIRST CLASS JERK-OFF WASTE OF A SPERM AND EGG CELL. You have proven yourself to be a FUCKING LIAR and UN-FUCKING-TRUSTWORTHY with extreme LACK OF CHARACTER. And, I have absolutely NO FUCKING RESPECT FOR YOU. If you were the only man left on earth, MY LUV OF SUCKING COCK WOULD FUCKING STARVE TO DEATH … FUCK … I DON’T EVEN WANT YOU BREATHING THE SAME FUCKING AIR AS I DO ...

And, kindly, FUCK OFF ... mmmkkk, thanks ...


Why do some men (women) think they can blow you off for months, then write you out of the blue, and expect you to be like nothing happened. Like you should feel FUCKING PRIVLEDGED …



On a brighter note ... road<b> trip </font></b>coming up soon ... WHOOT!

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...

Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
9/8/2021 2:54 am

Hmmm... I sense your anger. 😶

Perhaps he was in a car accident and was in a coma... for three months? 🤔 I know when I'M in a coma, I'm not good on the phone.
Just spit-balling here. I've seen too many movies. 😎❗❗

cumnuts1 56M  
187 posts
9/8/2021 5:40 am

right on sister good for you keep the chin up

scoupe42 59M  

9/8/2021 6:36 am

Hang in there, you should be mad!

jc_powerman 62M
254 posts
9/8/2021 8:29 am

Being ghosted really sucks. It has happened to me in the past and I am sure it will happen in the future. Those that do that generally get deleted from my list of plus friends not unless there are good soild reasons that happen.

CedarsPrince 43M
1608 posts
9/8/2021 8:51 am

We need a study relating to this phenomenon "Ghosting"

jajo696 67F
4287 posts
9/8/2021 9:02 am

Trix......why dont ya tell us how you Really feel? lol

Seriously though....i wudda asked him...what happened.....are you ok? Then....i wuda said.....did you really intend to be such an insensitive foolish one? " be gone...and i hope you dont treat another like that and that you find just what you deserve "

Ugh @ the nerve of these guys. Tsk Tsk on them ~~

jajo696 67F
4287 posts
9/8/2021 9:06 am

I also remember telling one of this same scenario, when he said he took a break for awhile. "Ohhhh?? How nice. So now you will understand and wont mind , if i take a break for awhile " and thats that. Washed my hands of that nonsense~

Tmptrzz 59F  
107039 posts
9/8/2021 10:25 am

Good for you my friend, he doesn't deserve your time. I don't know why some people do this to others. The least they can do is let you know that they are taking a step back. That is so important, that way there are no misunderstandings.

I hope you enjoy your road trip you have coming up..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..

lonlyforlove2 79M  
32704 posts
9/8/2021 5:36 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    I also remember telling one of this same scenario, when he said he took a break for awhile. "Ohhhh?? How nice. So now you will understand and wont mind , if i take a break for awhile " and thats that. Washed my hands of that nonsense~
I like that... Return the favor.... or the golden rule.. "Do to him as he did to me".....

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'

sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/8/2021 5:40 pm

Unfortunately, it's often the nature of this and similar sites. People are treated like disposable commodoties. After all, the impression through the promo material is that this is an easy hookup site. Also, some think women are just waiting for whoever will give them some attention even if it's at the drop of a hat. We all should stand up for ourselves and that's what you did without being crude or profanity-filled.

MrRareity 62M  
4589 posts
9/10/2021 10:34 am

Trix, well if I ever piss you off I will sure know it. I am kind of old schooled I would have just dropped out of your life like that. Although it can be hard I would tell you why (the name of a good Eagles song by the way). I don't understand putting in all of that time talking and later just ghosting you. My guess is you were fulfilling a need he had at the time and when it was over he left. When he needed it again he came back to you.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious

justme51 71M

9/10/2021 11:28 am

Right on

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