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Are Men afraid of an Independent Woman????  

threewayaction2 61M/61F   
29 posts
5/4/2021 8:37 pm
Are Men afraid of an Independent Woman????

I find it quite interesting... I renewed my site after the<b> death </font></b>of my husband. .. felt it important feel alive again. We were in the 3way for . We had very good fun. I very much enjoyed the fun with him and with the extra man. My late husband and I had an amazing relationship and marriage. I was very much loved by him. He opened my mind the fun we could have with the extra man. He brought into the Swing Life. He built up....strengthened my inner core being.

Now that I am single...something I never thought would happen...thought we would grow and grey together and die in age. My late husband helped bring out the best in . He showed that I can make it in life on my own. I guess my total independence from a man in my life...runs them away lol lol

Guess what... What is good for the Goose is indeed good for the Gander. Why is it so hard for a man.... who enjoys the sexual get scared and never return? I am not looking for strings, take out often in public, meet your family. You will not meet my family. Oh yes.. meeting someone on a sex site is family/life taboo.

Am I just a 'notch' on your belt? My belt has notches too. I do not give a damm either of the "notches'. I am a self sufficient lady. I my own way in life. I take care of my property... and proud of it. Does that scare a man... that I lady can take care of herself, property and her own way in life?

We are given one life live. I choose enjoy mine... the fullest. I am having a fantastic life!!!

13129 posts
5/4/2021 9:38 pm

My belt has notches too

Ultraviolet_Sol 42M  
622 posts
5/4/2021 11:27 pm

I am sorry about the passing of your husband. That is a very difficult thing to go through. No. I like a strong independent woman, as long as they are cool.

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Lkn4funwith2 57M
1216 posts
5/4/2021 11:44 pm

AFRAID of an independent woman?? Some men do not desire an independent woman. it depends on her attitude and personality.

Mdonson57 61M
504 posts
5/5/2021 12:30 am

Sorry for his passing. He sounded like an incredible person. Not all men are afraid of a woman who can stand on her own two feet. Some actually enjoy it. Keep moving forward as your husband would have wanted you to.

Kiik Myonguy

alwaysthinking57 58M

5/5/2021 4:23 am

I prefer an independent woman someone that has their shit together, but I do believe if you end up in some relationship and you still need to play set those boundries

justskin1 70M
13175 posts
5/5/2021 4:57 am

Sorry to hear your husband passed on. Sounds like you have many wonderful memories and grew together well.
Do men like or want independent women? Many men do and many men feel threatened by them.
Hope you find some independent woman loving men here or better meet them in person while going about your area.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.

boobwhisperer69 59M  
8322 posts
5/5/2021 9:53 am

Would you change the oil in my truck???? Just courious?

threewayaction2 61M/61F   
4 posts
5/5/2021 6:09 pm

Thank you, all, for your insight... much appreciated.

As to the change the oil question... for shits and giggles...yes, I can. It does not take a rocket scientist to do that! lol No, I do not change my car oil. I have a brother who does it for me and if he is not available I have an amazing best girl friend who knows more about cars than I ever will lol lol

RavenGB 61M
1430 posts
5/7/2021 4:40 am

I am sorry for your loss which I understand only too well.
I think any intellignet, self-confident man wants to find the same in a woman; it is not a threat, but a bonus. Special people are out there (each of us defines special in our own way), but the vast majority are just average, so it is not surprising that many will fall short of the mark that you set for yourself.

If the encounter was fun, enjoy it for what it was. Lots of people lack the integrity to be honest about their situation or wants - and some men are intimidated by a strong, independent woman: the fools!

FlinchVanilla 52M
1 post
5/10/2021 1:38 pm

Afraid? That shit gets me hard.
Independence is strength.
Strength is capability.
Capability is what some men exciting as hell.

LadiesR2B1rst 59M  
2735 posts
5/13/2021 8:07 pm

Very well said and from an amazing and beautiful lady .

undoubledsolid7 44M

5/17/2021 1:25 pm

I applaud you foe being the way you are, very impressive

hung4fun970 33M
11 posts
7/24/2021 6:49 pm

independent, strong, mature, educated, beautiful woman of my dreams

hotredsox67 50M  
152 posts
10/15/2021 6:39 pm

im sorry for your loss . you seem very sexy and would be open to play with you and whatever you want to please you

Rufles1992 29M
9 posts
11/7/2021 7:23 am

Call me 8652310724 4391000

Rufles1992 29M
9 posts
11/7/2021 7:24 am


Knoxslutwife 46M/43F  
183 posts
12/27/2021 9:38 pm

Problem is, too many women think being independent means they are loud, insufferable, pushy and bossy. Then I read your profile, no to this, no to that no, no no, too many men in your age range have been told "no" to things for far too long, why would they want seek that out? If you are getting guys that show up once and then vanish, maybe it just wasn't that good to them or worth anymore effort? good luck to you.

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