Any Room Here For The Couple Next Door??
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Posted:Oct 21, 2012 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2012 10:05 pm
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There seems to be a trend we've noticed here on Senior Sizzle that troubles us. ( Hey , a blog about how happy we are with everything about our adventures would be pretty boring, don't you think...? ) Anyway, getting back to my point after I've finished interrupting myself... What we've seen on here is a tendency for people to be quite fascinated with the "us" that our profile pics represent, but not so with the "real us" as we see ourselves. Now, please don't read too much into that statement, these pictures we post are genuinely representative of who we are; recent,not photo-shopped,both of us or solo,mostly whole bodied,and taken at diverse places so you can see that we're as real as we try to declare. But....we do pick and choose them based on the principle that we're trying to attract similar people to our profile. Hence, no cock-shots or gynecological close-ups, and certainly no blatant examples of our flaws. AND....like everyone here except for the genetically blessed or surgically altered ( no offense to either...) we DO have some flaws. We have weight where we'd prefer it not to be, we have teeth that are the same age as we are, we have hair that doesn't always do what we ask it to, we have obvious signs of being parents, and obvious signs of injuries and damage, we have relative stature issues, we have features that are either too small, or off-kilter, we even occasionally have a blemish or three to deal with, we have...oh, heck! we could go on and on about what defects we do have, the point is, we're just very much regular folk, and have NEVER tried to represent ourselves as anything but.
Where the problem seems to arise, is when we send off interested parties a "vanilla" shot of the two of us, and the reality doesn't seem to live up to the expectations that our carefully crafted, artistically rendered, profile pictures have engendered in the recipients. We are, will remain, and have no interest in attempting to modify, simply " normal" people, who happen to have a taste for sensual sharing. We are NOT: models,athletes,porn stars,or even part of the "beautiful people", to quote Marylin Manson. We are simply the man and woman who live next door, with some kink thrown in for a little tang.
We are left wondering sometimes what direction we should take this small problem to. Try and create spicier vanilla shots? That seems somewhat oxymoronic, and besides, discretion precludes sending ANYthing over the ether that could be considered reputation-ruining within the self-righteous community that we live in. It is for that reason that we send our somewhat bland shots to people who show interest, one never knows where we might see them again ( once bitten....).We like to think that we have enough good things going for us, that these benign depictions of who we are, will , at least, not drive interested folk away from us. Unfortunately for those of us who DO want to find like-minded playmates, the flakes, the fakes, and the picture collectors have imbued a sense of unease into those of us who can't be quite as open about our lifestyle choices as some others are. Therefore prudence overrides passion in this instance.
But that would then leave just one option left open to us;
using less colorful pictures of ourselves on the profile, so as not cause a discrepancy of attitude between what we suggest, and what our reality might be. This too would leave us feeling somewhat duplicitous, since we ARE actually what those shots purport to be,just not 24/7, 365 days a year. We are sexual, we are sensual, we are reasonable looking ( OK, maybe more-so, maybe less-so, eye-of-the-beholder ),we are well put together, we are provocative, we are aesthetic....We are ALL of that, within the veneer of two unremarkable, walk by us on the street, maybe give us a second glance, people.
To pretend to be something other than who we are, is an aspect of our lives that we both sought to put behind us when we started down this road to sensual speculation. IF we have to pretend to be anything other than what we consider to be a delightful dichotomy, we would be practicing deception on not only those who view our images, but upon ourselves as well. Within the sphere of the lifestyle that we all allege to share, wouldn't that be a more egregious breach of etiquette than allowing people to enjoy the desirability of our profile, while not necessarily looking 100% the same in real life? In the end, we will remain content in the belief that we are not even trying slightly to deceive, just attempting to put our best face forward.
Caveat Emptor, Dear Friends..... 
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Fastidiously Fussy ( Or, How Finicky Do We Get To Be? )
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Posted:Oct 18, 2012 10:49 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2012 4:52 am
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Well.....
In our never ending search to find a Lady friend, or "That Couple", OR perhaps even "Those Couples" IF the stars were to align themselves perfectly, we have bumped up against the question of whether we are selective, OR over-demanding on several occasions. Very early in our Senior Sizzle profile life, we were even brought to task about this, by an island couple who accused us of limiting our options in a far too narrow way. We actually didn't mind the input, but it was brought forward in what seemed to be such an arrogant and elitist manner that we just blocked said couple, gave the finger to the computer screen, and moved on.
However... the question still occurs to us every now and again, and to be frank, sometimes even troubles us enough to leave us questioning the value of leaving our profile here intact. The fact that we don't seem to get a huge level of interest, even within the parameters of our own demographic, could possibly seem to indicate that we're just not that attractive ( ummm.....don't THINK so....) OR, that what we've always taken to be discrimination, is in fact a constraining fussiness that folks find off-putting. Are OUR expectations of the people we might interact with here on Senior Sizzle just TOO restricted, or are the people on Senior Sizzle simply not what we're looking for??
The one thing that we look for with potential playmates that remains non-negotiable, is an interest in us, that corresponds with our interest in them. By that we simply mean; we look for people who will be willing to spend an equivalent amount of time and effort on wanting to be with us, as we will expend on trying to be with them. We believe that THIS is what could be considered "Friendship". Without at least a modicum of that component, what would then remain would be simply physical gymnastics,( MY favorite turn of phrase for mindless sex..) and that we can manage quite easily with each other, or even *wink* all on our own. That feeling of profound physiological release is , in the end, what ALL of this is about, BUT, only insofar as it leaves the psyche of everyone involved satiated, not just their flesh. If, after satisfying one's carnal desires, any of us are left feeling uncared for, or even exploited, will it have been worth it? We don't think so, so have set up the criterion for OUR corporeal companions accordingly. Is THIS too much to look for? Are we unrealistic in our particularity? Or is this something that more people have a desire to also find, but the structure of a site like Senior Sizzle lends itself more to those seeking immediate gratification? Will time and patience give us the answer...?
Now, having said all that, we would be hypocrites of the first degree if we didn't acknowledge that other factors also play a considerable part in the choosing of pleasure partners. Attraction, age, artistry, availability, allure, adiposity, and even affection and attitude will all be details that each of us will consider to a greater or lesser degree. Some of our swinging society will not place as much importance on looks, others on size, still others on chronological maturity. But each of us must always be allowed to set the bar to whatever level will give the highest likelihood of complete and utter satisfaction. Otherwise, we end up in awkward situations, with people we really aren't that in tune with, leaving all concerned with the likelihood of damaged egos, or even worse, hurt feelings. At the end of the day, isn't it always better to just outline what it is that you're trying to find, no matter how implausible your chances of success might be? If not, don't we just waste a bunch of people's time and energy in the vain pursuit of profiles which are inherently inappropriate? With the overwhelming busyness of people both here on a sex site, and in the vanilla world that we all share, wouldn't wasting time seem to be the greatest sin we can inflict upon each other? SO, we just don't do it. We lay it all out there for everyone to see, right from the start, on our profile, in our blog, whilst on cam, heck! even in day-to-day conversations with "normal" people who show an interest in our mores.
For as long as we remain interested in sharing our bodies with a similar fraternity, we will exercise our prerogative to be exacting in our requirements, but those select few who might be interested in experiencing who we are, can be assured that what we look for will be made plain without equivocation, from the start, and throughout any and all conversations leading to the fruition of our shared desires.
Fussy? Not really.... We prefer forthcoming.
Say Hi, potential friendships aren't always that easy to spot!
Prime & Siren
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These Cams Are Smokin!!!
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Posted:Oct 6, 2012 2:51 pm
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2012 11:31 pm
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Hello all!
Prime here, just thinking off the top of my head, making some random observations.....
So, we watch a lot of cams, both myself individually, and together as a couple.I mean, that's kind of the pattern for when we're ON cam, why not replicate that while we're watching...?? And one thing we've both noticed, is the massive number of cammers who light up halfway through their screen time. Are the Senior Sizzle cams the last bastion of individuality? Is this the final resting place for all the smokers who USED to be allowed to smoke at their work, in restaurants, in bars, at parks, at sporting events.....????? Heck, did people ever smoke in church? It just seems that SO many folk on cam choose to light up, there must be some connection. I can even remember one sexy couple we watched, who actually had butts in their hands, WHILE they were going at it!! Talk about a logistical nightmare, we have a hard enough time trying to organize OURselves on the bed, without adding pieces of burning paper to the mix. And we HAVE to openly state, that we are both NON-smokers, so it often makes us hit the Big Red X in the upper right corner when we see someone we'd otherwise be attracted to, sticking a smoke into their mouth. Ultimately, it leads us to question our decision to incorporate " light social smokers" into our searches for playmates. Can't they last through a short cam session without lighting one up? But perhaps THAT is the key to what constitutes "light" smokers, they could at least get through playtime with us, before feeling that insidious need. Probably pretty much a deal-breaker otherwise...
And speaking of deal-breakers, are we the ONLY 2 people on Senior Sizzle without tattoos? Man! I'm feeling like the only guy without white shoes at the senior's dance! What happened to tatts being the penchant of the military or the incarcerated? How did we get to the point where it is worthy of comment ( as HAS been done! ) that I am a 56 year old white guy without a single marking on my body? And unlike the smoking issue,my dearest Siren ( especially ), and myself, are NOT completely down on body art. I like small delicate ones on the ladies, and I think that Tatts the represent a major lifetime achievement being celebrated are certainly something that we can all get behind. Siren herself has said she'd like something small SOMEwhere on her body...( Oooooh! We could all go on a Tatt search together!! ) So, we are clearly NOT Tattaphobic. But where we start to get a bit confused, is with the proclivity of so many to desire to completely cover whole appendages, and perhaps even their entire body. My time in the gym, in particular, is a particularly confounding period. As a huge fan of the beauty of the body, both male and female, I fail to see why so many athletes work so hard to build up their muscles, and then make them all but inappreciable under the ink. Again, the two of us appreciate that this IS a matter of personal choice. But as it regards OUR selection of potential playmates, we'd have to say that an OVER-abundance of Body-Art at the least makes us think twice...or three times. As with anything to do with selecting playmates, every case is individual, and we try hard to NEVER pre-judge anyone on anything other than personality. Who you are, and how you behave, and carry yourself will always be way more important than physical details. But, everyone has corporeal likes and dislikes, and in this case, we'd often rather see more of your body than less.
And finally, ( cause left to my own devices, I'd ramble on forever.... )are we the only couple on Senior Sizzle without a darn motorcycle?? Holy Crap! we feel so left out! I never should have sold my Ninja all those years ago! *sob!* It would be so nice to be able to mount up, and be at SO many places, to visit with so many people, in the relative wink of an eye. And I DO still remember what a stirring sensation it was to feel all that power pulsing, throbbing, and vibrating between your legs, as you sped down the highway, a pretty plaything (or two) waiting at the end of your ride....As with the smoking and the tattoo issues I spoke about above, I hope that all the Bike riders will not rule us out of their search-lists simply because of our lack in this regard. As funny as that sounds, people have made sterner rejections for lesser reasons. Like all things to do with finding the Perfect play-partners, there's guidelines we all have, but the quality of the person(s), whether they be smokers, tattooed, Bikers, or otherwise, should always be the primary consideration. We try Ever so hard to remain true to that dictum. And that's why WE'll always chat with any and everyone, just to get the sense of whether this person or that is right for us as a couple. Many a gem lies hidden under layers and layers of soil, one only has to spend the time finding it. Only after that due diligence has been fully explored, do we ever feel completely comfortable in saying " Not Our Type".
Smoking, Inked, or Walking on Foot, we're all worthy of a look.
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Short and not very sweet...
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Posted:Oct 4, 2012 9:57 pm
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2012 7:27 am
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I'm simply too tired tonight to beat around the bush on this one (all that time working out is SO draining!  ). So here is something to think about for all of you out there whose profiles scream FACE PICS OR ELSE!! Do you ever wonder why people on here complain so often about fakers, and fake profiles? Well, that would be because there are unsavory characters who make up profiles and STEAL pictures from other people to use as theirs. It's a fact, it happened to me. And it's extremely disturbing to realize your naked body is being put on display without your permission and someone is pretending it's them! Therefore, many of us won't post or send face pics to just anyone . Prime and I have to be VERY discreet, for various reasons, so we are VERY careful about dispensing our pics, and even take care to try not to show our faces on cam ; because guess what? We've seen those representations pilfered too! I'm putting this down here because I felt angry when I "hovered" over a profile, and I saw that they insisted that without face pics, all emails were going to be ignored. I'm sorry, but I think that is insensitive and rude. I Know that's just MY reaction to someone else's way of doing things, and I'm afraid I'm too exhausted right now to consider the justifications for THEIR point of view, (I'm sure there are some good ones), but there has to be better ways of confirming identity than demanding that people with families, sensitive jobs, nosy neighbors, or even just shyness issues, put their likenesses out there into the ether for ALL the world to see ( AND capture).... . Talking to each other, until a rapport is established, for instance?? Getting to know one another, until a face to face seems right??
I sincerely hope none of you folks ever have to experience the disquieting feeling of finding your pictures stolen. It leaves one feeling quite violated. But having been burnt by this already, we will continue to exhibit great caution with who, and when, our personal images are viewed, no matter how many potential playmates fall to the wayside.....
I'll try to post something a little more positive next time around...
Stay safe out there sexy people!
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Two Common Questions.....
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Posted:Sep 17, 2012 9:02 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2012 5:50 pm
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One should never be taken by surprise by any of the comments that come in while on cam, but a couple have caused us great befuddlement and amusement. The confusion from the fact that people who DO have the access to information about us STILL ask such a silly question, and the amusement over the lack of common knowledge about physiology that is displayed from our audience.
The first common question that the two of us invariably see is; " Man...she looks WAY too good to be 56!!  " And they are more right than they realize, because the Lovely Siren is in fact 37. A fact that is obvious to anyone who takes even the minimum amount of effort to look at our profile. Even by only "hovering" over our pic, enough detail should be evident to realize that I'm the 56 year old ( And personally, I think they OUGHT to be saying the same thing about ME anyway! ) It really isn't that much of an insult, might even be taken as a compliment. But... as anyone who's gotten to know us a little bit is aware, we're ALL about interaction, learning about people, finding out how they got here, what they like to do, where they like to play, what positions arouse them, what are their taboos, what do they like about us??? So, it still rankles a bit when folk just venture an uneducated comment like that, when we've edited and re-edited our profile to make both of our ages readily apparent to any and all who care to show an interest in us. We did so in order to be as open and upfront about the whole age issue as possible, but clearly it's not as important to some as it is to us. Ah well, as long as they find my Lovely Angel as Beautiful as I do, I guess they don't HAVE to do the research.....
The second comment that we ( mostly, but not exclusively me, Prime, in fact )find more amusing than irritating is; " Whoa! How big is that thing!!?? " Hmmmmm.......what exactly does one say to that? Alright, I have a moderately large penis. Nothing freakish, and pretty much what I've gotten used to, so I'M not that impressed, but it is bigger than most... I guess...
The thing that amuses me is the fact that it's all relative anyway...I'd look huge to a woman used to a 3 incher, and tiny to someone that's enjoyed a 9"x5". What's the old expression? "In the land of the Blind, the One-Eyed man is King" OR, " In the land of the Stubby, the Well Hung man is King" And what really sets us to laughing, is that addendum to the original question; "How many inches do you have there?" My dear friends,the size of my cock is as variable as there are colours in an artist's palette. I'm no longer the 16 year old who'd have to miss his bus stop because the mere scent of a nearby woman set off a massive rock hard erection that I'd have to Hide behind my briefcase while sneaking off at a later exit...... Nope, nowadays, mood, setting, warmth, rest, company,distraction, visuals, and , of course, most of all, arousal, play a huge amount in what you see, in whichever moment you've chosen to look. If I wanted an accurate inch count during a common cam session, I'd be pulling out a tape- measure every 30 seconds or so. And truly, I'd rather be chatting, leering, and being stimulated than trying to come up with an impressive number to share, which might or might not be what one might get if we ever did meet up in person. How much are YOU going to arouse me, after all, will be the final determining factor in how big I am when you wrap your hand around my meat. So... I just keep stroking,thinking of such possibilities, and smile a little every time we get that question.
In the end, we simply love to put ourselves out there for all the world to see, hoping that by being seen, we might attract similar people to ourselves, people that we might get together with, and possibly play together. It is a warming, thrilling, and stimulating notion, so, IF, in order to chase that wonderfully pleasant ideal, we have to absorb a misguided comment or two,then what the heck! No harm , no foul....but we grin and groan nonetheless.
Now where's that Old Girl Siren, I want to slip her my Enormous Cock!
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Can Someone Explain...?
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Posted:Sep 17, 2012 10:19 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2012 6:29 am
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So I'm curious... Prime and I spend a decent amount of time here (ok, mostly Prime LOL, but I check things out regularly too)... and something we've noticed at first bemused but now troubles us: profiles that say sexual orientation is straight, but are looking for couples. WHY? When I come on here to look for potential playmates, I use the search filter "looking for couples." Lately it seems I've come across a lot of people (couples and single women alike) that come up in that search, but state they're straight. It's SO frustrating! Now, are they looking for couples because they're too scared to admit they're curious... or are they looking to be pleased by both of us but aren't willing to go bi themselves? In the first case, I think I could understand that a wee bit more- but here of all places, should one not be able to REALLY be who they are? (Though I've noticed men admitting they're curious is few and far between- THAT particular admission is, sadly, still far less accepted.) In the second case, I'm inclined to be less forgiving- which, if you knew me, is saying a lot. I get that a mouth on you, male or female, is essentially just a mouth- and probably easier for a straight person to accept... But I find it rather selfish (OK, a LOT selfish) to think that someone willing to accept such attention is not willing to reciprocate in any way.Now, don't get me wrong, I've been around the block often enough to realize that a straight couple can find lots of things to do with another straight couple, or even a bisexual one. But single females? Part of me wants to say to them "get over yourself!" And the other part of me just wants to not have to deal with them. So don't list yourself as looking for a couple if you aren't willing to return the attention!! I'd like to think you'd at least want to share something female to female if we were all tangled up in bed together.... If any of y'all have thoughts that might be helpful... please feel free. And if anyone was watching us this weekend- thanks for stopping in, say hi next time. We'd LOVE to be able to chat with people with more to say than "show us your tits/pussy/feet."
Have fun, play safe all you naughty people!!
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Camming To A Town Near You....
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Posted:Aug 29, 2012 9:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2012 9:25 pm
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You know, we get on cam a fair bit, being as we are somewhat of an exhibitionist pair. ( Where else do we get to so freely show off the bodies all that gym time created?? ) And though it never fails to amuse and arouse us, like most things about Senior Sizzle and swinging, camming doesn't remain just an independent act, but rather, an experience that creates it's own set of queries and observations.
For instance...who ARE these people who make comments of such a mean and derogatory nature,and what exactly are THEY getting out of such derision? I mean, without trying to pretend to be an expert in the psychology of the masses, is this just another example of people feeling free to say whatever they feel like, while hiding behind the anonymity of the internet? Are they like the scared and meek individuals who become masters of abusive language while hiding within the erroneously perceived invulnerability of the cocoon of their cars? ( Try following a loudmouth for a while after you've been cussed out, to watch THAT facade crumble...) Is it merely a release for those who have no other outlet for their venom, a way of working out frustrations from daily vanilla life that have no other way of being released? Or are their just sick people, here as in all walks of life, who enjoy the process of trying to knock down others, in order to build themselves up? Whatever it might be, it boggles us sometime that anyone would go to so much trouble just to try to belittle individuals who clearly have a pretty good sense of self-worth, or else why would they be sitting naked in front of a cam for all the world to see? Ah well, as we tell everyone watching us, we already have 11 pages of banned people on our blocked page, what's a few dozen more? There's a special place in Hell ( and on our banned list ) for people who feel the need to try and "direct" us, but that's a blogs worth by itself...
At the other extreme, we are often bemused by those individuals who ask for our permission to watch us. Well, of course you can, Sir or Madam, that's why we're here. I swear, some of these voyeurs are as well mannered as Canadians on a Subway, saying "pardon me, excuse me, would you mind, could I possibly" etc, etc, etc.... C'mon now! We're here TO be watched, the camera didn't turn itself on accidentally! You all feel free to watch away, make reasonable comments,interact, join in, and just generally enjoy the fun we're trying to create. And yes, you CAN feel free to masturbate without seeking our say-so. In fact, if you're not, we're gonna feel slightly insulted. Heck! why do you think we ( OK, mostly Prime! ) pay for our Gold Ball? Why, to watch the cams and pleasure himself, of course! So why-ever would we feel even the slightest discomfort over knowing that several hundred kindred spirits have their hands between their legs, in one manner or another? It's part of the deal, dear friends, no need to ask for our consent.
The people from foreign lands who try to get our attention with untranslatable words lend a global effect to the fun one generates whilst camming. Sometimes I overreact to what's being said, presuming it to be just one more idiot spouting off at us ( see paragraph # 2 above...). It's usually the much more forgiving Siren who points out that English is clearly not their 1st language when they request that we " Tits your ass in the air slutty girl ". Actually, it's quite amazing how well we are received in Europe, and I certainly hope we might get some free room & board from our fans to the east if we ever venture across the pond. Where IS that English to German dictionary I picked up for 50c at the local swap meet??
But speaking of the interaction of our friends from other lands, that brings us to the only major disappointment of our camming time. Amongst the many reasons we like to cam, and you've already heard of several, we THOUGHT that by doing so, we might open the door to some actual intercourse ( pun intended! ) with LOCAL, like-minded, similarly grounded, individuals and couples. But...as time progresses, we find that while we speak often with people across the Atlantic, and we seem to be able to strike up a conversation with folk as far away on THIS continent as is possible, for the most part we find it rare to be chatting with anyone within driving distance, let alone in our own neighborhoods. NOT that we would necessarily view any such conversation as a carte blanche to jump anyone's bones, but it would be exceedingly pleasant to merely TALK with some humanity of a similar stratum. Someone who understands all that goes on in the minds of people like us, someone who knows of the trials and mishaps that occur when approaching these libidinous adventures we all enjoy, someone who has walked the same roads as we do, and has experienced all the passion, excitement, arousal, and stimulation that comes with the territory we cohabit. Someone who knows where the I-5 is, and might know of a good hotel with a surreptitious Hot Tub & Sauna. In other words, someone we could share something with, even if not primarily, a bed. BUT...as yet, the locals seem to be avoiding us. We wonder about this, but it's certainly not going to stop us from trying, and enjoying ourselves on cam in the meantime.
SO.....if you're up late ( Pacific time ) on a Friday or Saturday night, or even have a boring moment or two midweek, take a peek and see if you can catch us online. And if you're prepared to be polite, don't feel the need to try and direct us, speak with something remotely approaching English, and live somewhere on the West Coast....for crying out loud, SAY HI!! We love a good chat, and no telling what might come out of it. In fact, even if you don't live nearby,IF we REALLY hit it off.....
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...And The You Rode In On!!
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Posted:Aug 18, 2012 9:57 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2012 8:15 am
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This is Siren... our female talking... and yes I DO participate in ALL interactions! Just an FYI, this is a little bit of a rant... So, I just got done talking to someone, a couple, that we had entertained the idea of meeting in a vanilla setting. We were on IM, they popped up and so I accepted their page. Thought it would be good to chat, see if we would finalize some kind of meeting. Wow, it was like pulling teeth, to get any kind of conversation happening. Prime is right here next to me, we're laughing about how difficult it is trying to chat with these people. So, out of curiosity, I ask if its just one or both of them. They say "both, why?" I reply, "LMBO, just curious.." and then "having difficulty getting conversation going." To which, they accuse me of being the male and not interested in anything and promptly say good night. 'Scuse me? I'm making an attempt to get to know someone, before we commit to anything, make a joke about it, and you cut me off at the knees? I'm offended. I like to think of myself as a nice person (sometimes to my own detriment), and would prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt. Sadly, incidents like this make me despair... Well, I will simply try to hold out hope that there are conscientious, sexually like-minded individuals out there... ones who WOULD be interested in trying to converse, even when initially it's difficult to get started.
In our profile, and here in our blogs, we've stated many times how we want to get to know people. It's not always easy to make those first attempts. But we're willing, if others are, to give it a chance. Many wonderful things require patience and TIME. And not just because we want a sexual experience- we'd be happy to make friends with people here that we just talk to, share life stories with... you know, like vanilla friends do! Just with a lil twist here and there But it needs to be a two way street- people need to be as patient with US as we hope to be with THEM.
Ok, my mini-rant is over, the steam has eased from my ears, and I'm ready to be gently pulled into my darling Prime's sleepy embrace... G'night all!
Siren (and Prime)
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Gender Stereotyping By Pic.......
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Posted:Aug 17, 2012 11:03 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2012 8:42 am
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Hello all!
We had a thought, and would like to bring it forward for your consideration.....
In the course of compiling what we believe to be a rather nice group of profile pics, there were many shots taken of myself, Prime, the male 1/2 of sirenprime. Not to the detriment of either couples frames, or images of the Lovely Siren, but rather one or two depictions of myself, for the benefit of those people who actually care about what BOTH members of a couple looks like. It seemed reasonable, that, like ourselves, anyone wishing to play with a pair of people, would want some idea of what they were getting themselves into, in both instances. I know that I would never ask Siren to "take one for the team" in an effort to get with an arousing lady, so our presumption is that others would want to do the same due diligence. And yet.....on those occasions when Prime occupies the privileged " Main Picture" slot, we notice that our level of viewership drops precipitously. Now, OK!....I'll admit that Siren is a far more attractive package than myself, but logic would say that couples should be just as interested in what I look like as her. I will happily admit that I look at all the profiles we have interest in, no mater what gender that "Main Picture" might possess. As stated earlier, I have no intention of saddling Siren with a Troll, just so I can have my way with Cinderella.
So, if those of us who make up the Senior Sizzle community are actually what we profess to be, folk who desire interaction of a sexual nature with like minded couples and singles, shouldn't I be viewed with as much of a discerning eye as the delightful lines and curves of my LifeMate Siren?? Perhaps it is just my naivete coming to the fore again, and I overlook the likelihood that 99% of those people viewing the posted pictures are actually singles males pleasuring themselves to these representations of nude bodies that are given up to be seen. { I was one of those myself a while back, and did quite enjoy the show.....} But even with all of that happening, and seeing as we block single males so don't ever even see how many of them are peeking at us, shouldn't the number of viewers remain rather constant?? I would hate to think this was some sort of Homophobic reaction to seeing male flesh. Of all the places in the world where one might expect a superior level of open-mindedness, should it not be right here?
Not that I'm looking for a boyfriend, but if I'm considering sharing the delights of my lovely Siren, wouldn't I at least want to be pleased with the countenance of the fellow who'd be banging her?? Or should I just turn away every time our playmate's cock comes into view..? It's a bit confusing!
Once again, the multifaceted intricacies of taking part in these libidinous adventures that please us all so much are brought to light by a simple observation; fewer people look at US, when it's MY bum in the spotlight.
What do YOU think?
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AGEist?? How Could THAT be??
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Posted:Jun 22, 2012 10:30 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2012 12:51 pm
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Hmmmmm.......We've always tried to keep our profile writeup as open and honest as circumstances will allow, and we've used this blog as a further platform to outline our preferences, but......
There's a little detail that almost makes us wish we'd done what so many folk here on Senior Sizzle have done, and just posted ourselves as a single female, rather than a couple. While we can understand the rationale for that slight duplicity, we've avoided it. We just prefer to receive ONLY contacts from people genuinely interested in a couple, rather than disappointing ( or even angering ) our community of Fun-Seekers, by even implying that we are anything other than what we actually are. While it remains true that the main focus of OUR search is Bisexual Females for Siren to enjoy, we long ago committed to sharing our fun times, even to the point of missing out on potential playmates who might ONLY be interested in one OR the other of us.
SO, what's the detail about our couples profile that has us second-guessing our own honesty?? That would be the fact that as a couples profile, we are listed by MY age; 56. I guess because of that, we tend to get a LOT of looks from Ladies and Couples in their early to LATE 60's. And believe ME, we find many of these folk attractive, because people are people, not just numbers, but let's be frank....Siren is a young woman in her 30's. Despite the fact that I am constantly astonished that such a nubile, sensual, lascivious, and delightful,youthful Woman such as herself chose to partner up with a (relatively) old codger like me, it was a personal choice by Siren, NOT a proclivity for older Men, or Women, or Couples. And as previously stated, we don't prejudge people by their age, ( despite what you may NOW think...) but rather by the qualities we can find with the tools we are given. For instance, IF we see a flirt from someone "older" , AND there is only sparse information, and even worse, NO pictures(s) to show us anything to base an opinion upon, what other choice would we have but to presume you are OLD? Because there is old, and there is OLD. For that reason, and since I consider myself to be on the other side of most potential playmates age preferences, We have made the effort to post some recent ( The Kneeling pic is from February 2012, for instance.. ) pictures of myself to illustrate my relative fitness, vis a vis, most men my age. { whoops! better not let this turn into a Prime bragfest!!} The point being, without SOMETHING to go on, the older flirters DO become just their numbers, and that's how you'll ultimately be judged.
Having said all of that, we do wish there was some way for Ms. Siren to have HER age posted in a more prominent manner.( You might be surprised how many people compliment her when we're on cam, for looking so good at 56!! ) Like anyone in this somewhat crazy world of sexual adventure, one generally tends to seek out playmates of similar tastes AND ages, so we'd be untruthful if we didn't say that We'd Like to be viewed by people closer to our own ages, or perhaps by folk somewhere in the middle of the two of us.....( Though we do see Red X's from Lady's between 45/50, rejecting us for "age"; is it me at 56 being too old, or her at 37 being too young??? Whatever... ) We think we're a pretty well put together pair, fit, in shape, and certainly not suffering from any debilitating effects of age, so THAT's what we try to attract as well, and in most cases here on Senior Sizzle, that would be in the younger subset.( And THAT fact would be the basis of a rather long and detailed blog, all on it's own... ) We do look at EVERYone who shows interest in us , however, so it's WHO you are, rather than any one THING about you, that might pique our interest. But if you want to be truly considered as a friend, you can't make your age be the ONE THING that we can see when we go to look at YOUR profile. We'll just consider you too old, and that will be that....
So here's to being honest and open, and not judging others by standards you wouldn't expect to use when presenting yourselves to the world. We all want very different things here at Senior Sizzle, and If we all continue to put ourselves forward as who we genuinely are, there should NEVER be even the slightest inkling of bigotry of any sort in the choices we make, including Ageism. Rather it will be as it should be, people making informed choices to play with like-minded individuals, who please them for the aesthetic reasons of their own choosing.
Wheew! That kinda tired me out, where's the Geritol???
Prime
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Our Reality.............
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Posted:May 30, 2012 10:58 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2012 2:06 pm
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Well, lately we've been receiving a ton of Flirts, and Hotlistings, and Emails from various couples in the surrounding areas. It's all very flattering, and could easily go to our heads, but for one or two things. Since not everyone on Senior Sizzle has access to our profile, we thought we'd use this platform to outline what those issues might be. Now.....before we get down to brass tacks, let us just say in advance that we DO NOT think that we are SO special as to deserve all this attention. We're just eminently normal folk who kinda photograph pretty well. We think that we are far,far away from what most people here on Senior Sizzle are actually looking for, and with that in mind, let us detail the points that stop us from developing egomania in the extreme.
Firstly, we are mainly looking for bisexual ladies to play with. That is the type of playtime that pleases us BOTH to the max. Siren is an unapologetic Bisexual herself, so for the greater good of all, we prefer to have some form of womanly flesh on our carnal menu. But, it is simply a fact that in our case, there can be no individual desire, but rather, we share the same desires with each other, and with our sensual friends. It is in the expression of these desires that the two of us find the most happiness, and satisfaction. When the two of us are busy pleasing a third, WE feel the blissful exchange of emotion that draws the pair of us closer together. And, our Lady Friends seem to feel this emotion as well, as the circle becomes complete. So, please understand, we'll always cater to the yen that draws us, and continue to seek out female friends to share special moments with.
Now.....having said all of that....we are NOT closed to the idea of playing with a couple. But, as you will see, it will take a lot of patience and effort to move us in that direction.
So.....
Secondly, we take a LOT of work. In the case of most of the interest shown in us, there seems to be a supposition that said interest alone will motivate us to drop both what we are doing, AND our pants, just to rush off to be ravished by the interested parties. Nothing could be further from the truth, both in the case of couples, and ALSO in the case of any females we may be lucky enough to be contacted by. In our case, we live and breathe by the concept of friendship first, playtime to follow. And no matter how good looking you may be, no matter how well formed, no matter how your eyes sparkle, no matter how your smile lights up a room, and even no matter how over-sized either your cock or breasts are..... if you do not put forth the energy needed to both get to know us, and allow us to get to know you, we will NOT even spend the time necessary to head out to share a drink with you. Why, OH WHY, would we want to spend any significant part of our lives, let alone a major part of our flesh, with someone who cares not one whit about who and what we are?? To be sure, we are not looking for you to move in with us, we do not need a lifelong pledge of exclusivity, we are not seeking to make you ours and ours alone.....BUT....there would always have to be a mutual respect, a meeting of the minds, a reflection of similar desires, and a genuine "like", that exceeds the usual cavalier handshake and hump that seem to be the extent of so many people's manners on this site. We envision a scenario whereby the 3 {or 4 } of us can spend the better part of a day enjoying each other, discovering facets of personality, seeing what things bring about mutual joy, sharing in simple acts together....and then, MAYBE tumbling about in bed, kissing, hugging, touching, caressing, feeling, smelling, tasting, licking, sucking, penetrating, and then relaxing together in a sweaty tangle, til 1 or more of us feels the need to start it all over again. But! all of this can never happen IF we never get the chance to find out who you are, and what there is to offer, both to us, and from us.
Sound difficult? It may well be. But on top of all of that, there also remains the issue of compatibility. Because, Siren is my treasure, and if I'm going to share her, do I not owe her at least the responsibility of making sure that EVERYbody in that tangle of bodies actually Likes each other? And that will always comprise SO many components, so many elements, so very many ingredients, and all of these factors will weigh into our decision about moving forward with anyone we feel an interest in. I'm a man, with most of the same idiosyncrasies as much of my gender. As such, I'm fairly easy to please. I find almost all women beautiful in some way. Siren is all woman, changeable, capricious,mercurial,unpredictable. But...she knows what she likes, and is unwilling to settle for less. So , when I say that I consider it my duty to be sure that any playmate we have pleases her first and foremost, you may be assured that such will ALWAYS be the case. There will be no "taking one for the team " in our case, so a synergistic desire HAS to be there. We both have to like you equally, and anyone who plays with us has to like both of us in equal measure at the same time.....
So , you see, it will always be a bit of a chore for you good people to get together with us. Perhaps I've only been able to do a poor job of letting you see the hows and whys of attaining this. ( I started putting this together too late, and let myself indulge in Stream-of-consciousness writing ) But we believe we are very fun to be with, and genuinely do WANT to find friends and friendships here on Senior Sizzle. Just not at any cost. We will savor each encounter we share in, and hunger for our playmates to feel the same way. But we will never sacrifice our self-respect for a few hours of lustful gratification. We would much rather have weeks, months, and perhaps even years of respectful, collaborative joy.
The Flirts, the Hotlists, the Emails are all very endearing, but I do hope I've allowed you to see that we'll need just a bit more. Reply to our emails. Send one yourselves. Bless us with photos, show us a bit of yourselves. Talk to us, chat, communicate, share....We'll do the same ( within reason, we live in uber-conservative locations, we ALL value discretion til a rapport is established ) Let us see what you are that makes you different from the masses. Give us a reason to want to be with you. What is it about YOU, that will make us BOTH tingle? What do you have to bring to the table to allow Prime to feel good about sharing Siren with you ( and vice-versa, for that matter.! ) In short, feel free to woo us, and we will reciprocate if the sparks fly.
Do we sound too vain? We hope not, but in the end, we would presuppose that the people who would most be interested in us, will have similar feelings to those we've expressed here. We too send out our fair share of openings, in the hopes that they'll be received well. We are not demanding anything here, but rather suggesting. We're all on Senior Sizzle to find SOMEthing, and it varies from person to person, couple to couple. But if we never say positively what it is we're looking for, the chances of finding it are indeed dim.NOW We've told you what we're looking for, the baton has been passed to the next runner......
( A very Tired ) Prime & Siren
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Siren's Naughty Homecoming
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Posted:Mar 13, 2012 10:00 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2012 8:13 pm
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It was a long day. Very long. I tramped up the steps, thinking how good it would be to walk through the door, slip on comfy jammies, and pour a glass of wine. If only he were home… the feel of his naked body against mine never failed to revive me. I mused on this as I neared the door. Just the memory of his heat, his muscles, the ministrations of his tongue, his length filling me… mmmmm..., maybe I wasn’t so tired after all! Ah, well… I would have to wait. As I unlocked the door, an inkling of an idea sprang to mind- maybe a cam show for him was in order! That could tide me over until his return.
I opened the door, entered, and turned to lock it behind me. Suddenly, hands grabbed me from behind. A half-second of fear, quickly replaced by relief, as a whiff of his cologne filled my nose. He pressed me up against the door, one hand gently seizing a breast, the other pulling my hips back against his body. I could feel his hardness throbbing against my ass crack. Fire raced through my veins. I tried to turn, but he pressed me firmly against the door, his hands roaming across my hips, my ass, my breasts… His breath hot on my neck, he kissed me. A flaming tingle ran the length of my body, standing my hairs on end. His tongue traced lines along my shoulder and I moaned softly. I tried to turn my head, ask what he was doing home so early… but he quickly covered my mouth, his tongue insistently quieting me. My head swam as his fingers slid into the waistband of my pants, reaching, probing… finding their way to the trimmed top. I moaned again, a little louder.
He pressed himself harder into my backside, letting me feel just how excited he was. Unconsciously, I widened my feet, and he reached his hand down further into my pants. The fingers of his other hand had found their way up into my shirt. Tweaks perked an already stiff nipple, and that soft flicking of my nub, elicited another throaty moan. I was dying to turn around, to feel him inside me… but I was reveling in this too. Oh so many desires! I nearly cried with frustration when his hands came out of my clothing… only to begin quickly unbuttoning everything. He turned me around as my shirt slid from my shoulders. He grinned at me with fiendish delight as he yanked my pants from my ankles. I gazed down on my lover, amazed. His blue eyes sparkled as he looked up at me. He was utterly naked. Strong, handsome, sexy… how did I get so lucky? I could see his enormous cock- thick, long and hard. I wanted it so bad, I could taste it.
He straightened and pressed his body against mine- the heat coming off his body was a sharp contrast to the cool door behind me. One hand again grasped my breast, as his tongue parted my lips. The other hand slid down my hip and thigh, and pulled my knee up, spreading my pussy wide. He teased me, sliding his cock against me a second or two, moistening it with my wetness. Then in one smooth motion, he slid that fatty up inside me. My breath sucked in with the intensity of the filling. His mouth pressed against mine, devouring me. I felt as if every molecule of my body was saturated with ecstasy. He thrust up into me, strokes hard and deep, and the door started to quietly thump behind me. As the intensity mounted, my cries of exaltation grew louder and more animalistic. Suddenly the wave crashed over me, drenching our legs. I clung to him, clawing and twitching.
But he wasn’t done yet.
He flipped me around to face the door again, nudged my legs wide, and drove himself back up into me. Hands on the door, I pressed my hips back, eager for his fabulous cock. I couldn’t get enough of him. Ever. That colossal cock set my insides afire, plunging me toward orgasm after orgasm with each thrust. I screamed out again, the floor under us becoming a puddle. Finally, when I couldn’t stand anymore, he slid out. I dropped to my knees, trembling with anticipation. He was ready. I slurped that fat monster between my lips, feeling it thicken with his coming orgasm. His hands on the door behind me for support, hips pressing forward against my face, he came. Hot cum, sweet and creamy, shot into my throat. I eagerly gulped it, feeling his legs shuddering as I sucked every drop out.
What a way to come home.
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Cams From The Turn Of The Century.......
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Posted:Feb 13, 2012 11:55 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2012 11:04 am
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Just a quick thought here, as I waste a little bit more of my time staring into the glare of our monitor, and taking Things in Hand...( Love The One You're With, and all....)
Now please understand....The cams are one of the reasons why we have our Gold Ball ( That, and the fact that we LOVE to write emails to prospective playmates! Could you have guessed??? ). But C'mon! seriously folks! In this day of relatively inexpensive high-tech products, do we really need to be looking at people with a view that makes me feel like I have early onset Glaucoma? What are they using? The 2 mega-pixel cam they got for their high school grad back in '98?? Did they fling their panty-hose over the cam in a rush to get naked, is that why everything's SO gauzy? Did they all run out in such a hurry that they neglected to get a cam that had even the most rudimentary "focus" feature? Maybe it's just that the cams don't work so well by candle-light, and IF they still haven't heard of HD, then maybe they're having issues with that whole 'lectricity thing as well.....
I fear, as I often do, that we will sound petty, and even perhaps somewhat elitist by voicing these minor complaints. ( WE have an HD cam, and like to use it....)BUT.....we like it here, we LIKE being part of this community, we enjoy chatting and interacting with people who share the same kind of naughty attitude as we do..... So....to say nothing, and just have that experience lessened by poor image quality would be foolish, and rather non-productive.
SO.....to those of you to whom I'm bitching ( you KNOW who you are...)....get yourself over to the nearest WalMart! ( covering pretty much every country in the known Universe...) Spend the $39.99 on an HD cam, and let's all start to enjoy the fruits of all those Microsoft technicians ( maybe I should seek a sponsorship here..."Hello, Mr. Gates? Was wondering if you'd like to help me in my quest to see more and clearer naked bodies from Senior Sizzle?? " ) Let's ALL be allowed to enjoy the beauty and wonder of our fellow Senior Sizzle cammers without the question of whether or not our eyesight is progressively failing!!
Ok, better head off back to my original focus. Hmmmmm...even being as unclear as watching a scene from a cam underwater, this couple is starting to have a decided effect on my ability to hold off.....Better hit "Post" before things come to a head.....
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