Let's play a little game!  

secret_lade 48F
14467 posts
11/15/2021 11:59 pm
Let's play a little game!


We'll call it....

Is this comment 'Work Appropriate'?

We're doing a little holiday raffle at the store. Employees fill out a card with their name, department, and favorite Thanksgiving tradition / food / activity to give to me for entry.

Easy peasy.... Right???

As I was posting the flyers, I was also letting the employees know as I passed them throughout the store.

People get excited when you're excited, even if it's for something simple like a Thanksgiving Raffle where you might win a turkey or pumpkin pie.

Leave it to the Brand New Guy who was in my orientation last week to make it awkward and uncomfortable.

"Whatcha posting?"

"We're doing a Thanksgiving Raffle! To enter, you just turn in your name, department, and favorite Thanksgiving holiday tradition, food, or activity for a raffle ticket!"

"What if my favorite Thanksgiving activity is sex? Can I turn that in?"

Really?!?

By now he was standing right next to me reading off the posting in my hand. I think I've found this week's 'Douche Bag of the Week'....

"No, no you may not."

I'd turned on my heel and was making my quick escape when he called out behind me...

"But that's my favorite Thanksgiving Day activity."

"Not if you want to keep working here if your name is drawn and [Boss #2] reads your entry aloud."

Yah, I walked away from that conversation feeling sketched out and sexually harassed. Not going to lie, definitely don't like the Brand New Guy now.

Who does something like that on their third day of employment??

This week's Douche Bag of the Week, that's who!

Ugh...

Happy Tuesday!

MrWrong4RghtNow 56M
2439 posts
11/18/2021 12:58 am

Maybe he meant sex with a turkey. No? Oh well.

But yeah. Anyone who makes a comment like that in an environment that's clearly family friendly needs to be let go Pronto. I understand you wanting to give the benefit of the doubt but the slimmest possibility that he could learn from his firing is the best option.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


lonlyforlove2 79M  
32704 posts
11/17/2021 7:35 pm

maybe some remedial training is in order..
First film ,, how to look for another job
Second flick... looking at a man as he packs up and leaves.

No place for this action in the work place, do let upper management know, do put it on paper and in his file.. It only takes one bad apple to mess up a good a barrel full...Sow him no mercy!!!

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69ereatwetpussy 60M
6784 posts
11/17/2021 5:22 am

How young is he
Now make you wonder sex with apple pie or pumpkin pie.
Sex before dinner or after
During football or dishes.
With his girlfriend or brother wife
Watch out he may ask you to come to Thanksgiving Dinner
When he wins the free turkey or pie.
I bet he look at you from now on wanting to be between your thighs.
What was the ?
Thomas X XXXXXXXXX
My department
home cleaner, maintenance man, pet care taker, pool boy / life guard for dogs, gardener, lawn care, snow removal, cook and dishwasher.
It's great to be retired
My favorite Thanksgiving
Family, we used to go small game hunting sunrise till 11am
Then get over to the apple farm stand we hunt at and get the fresh hot apple pie go home.
Favorite part of the meal.
Moms stuffing boy do I miss that and her cole slaw
Mom loved Thanksgiving the most I miss her the most.
Back when I watch foot ball both games.
Or if it was nice out We kids would go out and play football with all the neighborhood kids.
Now it me and the wife and dogs we cook our turkey the day before for my wife likes cold turkey sandwiches more then hot out of the oven. So you can say we have leftovers all of them.
I don still go bird hunting with my dogs but it not the same no family come up and we don't go down. Till Christmas.
I don't watch foot ball at all the past 8 season now .


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 4:05 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    He might be nervous and just trying a little banter.... now if he slapped your ass he might be a douche bag
Maybe.... It's still inappropriate none-the-less.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 4:02 pm

    Quoting Weeload2:
    He's fishing in the company pool. Let upper management know about the conversation. Obviously he isn't there just to work.... not professional

    ~Wee~

I feel bad for his wife.... I'm certain she doesn't know that he does this stuff.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:57 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Oh no! You've found a brand new douche bag
I have and this one is the worst kind.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:56 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Did you report him for his highly inappropriate comment?
I did not.... I was hoping it was a one off thing and gave him the benefit of the doubt. I'm learning that it probably is not and will need to be addressed.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:24 pm

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    There is always at least one moron in every workplace.
    This wouldn't be the first or last time says or does something inappropriate.

    Maybe it's time for your annual sexual harassment in the workplace video to be played on loop for a week.
It totally wasn't.... He was in my office today working my last nerve and making me uncomfortable all over again.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:23 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Im betting his favorite and actual activity are 2 diferent things. Or, its sex with himself..
I'm 100% in agreement with the 2 different things theory....


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:22 pm

    Quoting  :

I guess we now have ours.... And I totally see him trying to make a habit of this considering he was winking at me today. I see a conversation happening between him, me, and leadership in the near future if he continues with this behavior.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:18 pm

    Quoting Blueyedguy823:
    I know this is a sex site, but sex is about the last thing I'm thinking about on Thanksgiving. But maybe by the time Saturday or Sunday rolls around... Or it might be the next week depending on how many leftovers there are.
You gotta have the sex first.... Before all the cooking and eating. Silly man.... LOL


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:17 pm

    Quoting topherific:
    who can fuck with all that food in them
Apparently this guy can.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:16 pm

    Quoting hogknot:
    Sometimes thoughts and activities need to stay in your mind.
I totally agree! You have to know your audience before you start sharing stuff like that!


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:15 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I would hope it went to HR and Upper Management..So inapropriate and an instant red flag, both for his character and mental health in my opinion. Yikes!!!!
I'm HR, so.... Yah. It went to HR. Definitely a red flag and definitely low class.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:11 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Just don't mention the word Giblets around him...lol
Ha ha ha ha Love the turkey!! It looks like it could be one of my runnians!


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:11 pm

    Quoting salty_one_65:
    I'm guessing "Douche Bag of the Week" totally lacks social skills. If so, he won't last. When it happens...make it very, very public!
Oh, he thinks he's a Don Juan. I'm going to say something the next time he does something that makes me uncomfortable. I really am the last person he should be doing that too.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:09 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I don't think he's going to last long in the job!
I don't think he is either. He winked at me 4 times today in my office, I'm not liking this guy at all.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:07 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Gotta admit, sounds like something I would say.
I feel like you would be tactful enough to not say it to your HR lady on your third day of employment.... Call me crazy.


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 3:06 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hmmm... it happens to be mine as well. πŸ˜Άβ—β—
Would you enter that answer in a raffle?? LOL


pagancountrygirl 64F
6466 posts
11/16/2021 3:03 pm

Did you report him for his highly inappropriate comment?

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


citizen4722 64M  
74582 posts
11/16/2021 1:15 pm

Oh no! You've found a brand new douche bag


Weeload2 59M
1104 posts
11/16/2021 1:09 pm

He's fishing in the company pool. Let upper management know about the conversation. Obviously he isn't there just to work.... not professional

~Wee~


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seems6666 51F
4838 posts
11/16/2021 10:59 am

He might be nervous and just trying a little banter.... now if he slapped your ass he might be a douche bag


CUMHANDLEME 59F  
794 posts
11/16/2021 9:07 am

There is always at least one moron in every workplace.
This wouldn't be the first or last time says or does something inappropriate.

Maybe it's time for your annual sexual harassment in the workplace video to be played on loop for a week.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


positively4you 72F
4605 posts
11/16/2021 8:52 am

Im betting his favorite and actual activity are 2 diferent things. Or, its sex with himself..


Blueyedguy823 55M
1077 posts
11/16/2021 7:36 am

I know this is a sex site, but sex is about the last thing I'm thinking about on Thanksgiving. But maybe by the time Saturday or Sunday rolls around... Or it might be the next week depending on how many leftovers there are.


G000dbuddy 34M  
1676 posts
11/16/2021 6:32 am

Douche Bag of the Week'....


goodbuddy781


topherific 59M
5209 posts
11/16/2021 6:27 am

who can fuck with all that food in them


hogknot 55M  
1059 posts
11/16/2021 6:26 am

Sometimes thoughts and activities need to stay in your mind.


author51 59F  
130010 posts
11/16/2021 6:21 am

I would hope it went to HR and Upper Management..So inapropriate and an instant red flag, both for his character and mental health in my opinion. Yikes!!!!


benard69 64M/64F  
6298 posts
11/16/2021 5:58 am

Just don't mention the word Giblets around him...lol


salty_one_65 57M
67 posts
11/16/2021 5:42 am

I'm guessing "Douche Bag of the Week" totally lacks social skills. If so, he won't last. When it happens...make it very, very public!


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
11/16/2021 4:41 am

I don't think he's going to last long in the job!


mc_justmc 62M  
6929 posts
11/16/2021 3:51 am

Gotta admit, sounds like something I would say.


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
11/16/2021 2:40 am

Hmmm... it happens to be mine as well. πŸ˜Άβ—β—


secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
11/16/2021 12:00 am

We'll call it....

Is this comment 'Work Appropriate'?

We're doing a little holiday raffle at the store. Employees fill out a card with their name, department, and favorite Thanksgiving tradition / food / activity to give to me for entry.

Easy peasy.... Right???

As I was posting the flyers, I was also letting the employees know as I passed them throughout the store.

People get excited when you're excited, even if it's for something simple like a Thanksgiving Raffle where you might win a turkey or pumpkin pie.

Leave it to the Brand New Guy who was in my orientation last week to make it awkward and uncomfortable.

"Whatcha posting?"

"We're doing a Thanksgiving Raffle! To enter, you just turn in your name, department, and favorite Thanksgiving holiday tradition, food, or activity for a raffle ticket!"

"What if my favorite Thanksgiving activity is sex? Can I turn that in?"

Really?!?

By now he was standing right next to me reading off the posting in my hand. I think I've found this week's 'Douche Bag of the Week'....

"No, no you may not."

I'd turned on my heel and was making my quick escape when he called out behind me...

"But that's my favorite Thanksgiving Day activity."

"Not if you want to keep working here if your name is drawn and [Boss #2] reads your entry aloud."

Yah, I walked away from that conversation feeling sketched out and sexually harassed. Not going to lie, definitely don't like the Brand New Guy now.

Who does something like that on their third day of employment??

This week's Douche Bag of the Week, that's who!

Ugh....

Happy Tuesday!


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