Can a bad person, turn out to be good? Can a person redeem themselves? Maybe, I had a uncle who was a son of a bitch. He was abusive to my aunt, wasn't a good father. On some payday he would gamble his check and lose all his money , and my aunt wouldn't see him for several day. My aunt had to pay all the bills. My aunt must have really loved this man! She had four kids with him, and never filed for divorce. She was his rock when he was down and out, she always took him back when he left, and when he was sick she nursed him back to health. There was one time he admitted that he didn't deserve such a loving woman. Years later she died, and he inherited everything she owned, two cars, a little money and a house, along with the life insurance policy. Family members was upset, and thought he shouldn't have gotten anything. Later in years, my dad died. He was a good man, good father and everyone loved him. He was 6yrs younger than my uncle. I was upset, why would God take a good man and let a horrible man remain alive? I look at life as unfair, I was hurt. But as time passed by, my uncle started to change. He gave up drinking, cussing, and started to go to church once in a while. His child, my cousin moved in with him. He tried to reach out to the other children, but my oldest cousin refused to acknowledge him. His health start to deteriorate, so my cousin was there to take care of her dad. At times, I talked to other family members and they said he did 180 degree turned. I couldn't believe it, with in a year he died. Then I thought about it, my dad was a good man, and did all he had to do so god took him, and my uncle was spared and given a chance to redeem himself. It took much longer for my uncle, compared to my dad. So the question is? Can we be redeem? Maybe if we live long enough, we can!
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Posted:Jun 23, 2019 10:07 am
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2019 4:24 am
We are a prodigy of our thoughts, our day is determined by our thoughts. If I think sadly, my day wouldn't be productive. I think all the time, hell "I'm a daydream believer." I'm thinking right now, but thinking positive instead of negative make a big difference on how you are perceived by others. I think big, but if nothing comes out of it. It would just be a "Thought".

Thinking is a good thing, I wake up at night, for what's on my mind. I have some dreams and idea about my future. So what my strategy , I got to "Think" on one.

"Look at all that ass"!
Posted:Jun 23, 2019 2:44 am
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2019 8:39 am
Women, are awesome. We love you! I'm not going to lie, I love big butts, what can I say. For everyone else who like big booties, checkout that blog. And you'll say the same words I said, Look at all that ass!

....maybe it's their passion
Posted:Jun 22, 2019 2:59 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2019 4:13 am
At work there are many who are dedicated and very loyal to the job and company, and they expect you to be too! If your not your going to get an earful, and your not going to be on their top 10 list. Everybody work different, there are a few older worker, who just don't work as hard. If you given an assignment and the per who did it previous was a dedicated worker and you don't do it as good as them. You going to catch hell!

They will criticize you, and ask management, why aren't you doing more. Or why haven't you accomplish task quicker. You would think, they paying you out their pockets! Don't let there be OT, if there OT and you refused to do it, or better yet call in sick. They can make work a hostile environment. You might think they are bad people, but believe or not, they not! To you, it might just be an 8 hour job.

You might think they crazy or obsessed. You might say, "It just a job"! It's just a job, but to them it's more. Maybe you valued someone else outside of work. They might called your dreams a "Pipe dream", because at work your not on the same page as them. I have a friend, who's passion is sex, he try to get all he can. But to him, he's not wrong, that his passion.

But at work, they get mad and snitch. Just a job? No! It's so much more than that to them. They actual love it. And you never know, maybe it's their passion?

"I chose good"!
Posted:Jun 22, 2019 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2019 8:45 pm
In this world there is good and evil. Someone must the good, while someone else might choose be the villain. I grew up with a bad gene and I was destine be the villain for I was angry. No rea why I was angry, but it was in my blood. But like Jekyll and Hyde, at times there was some good in me. When I was bad, I could get my ass whipped and didn't feel no pain.

Later, I grew up in a bad environment, where there's was domestic violence, thief's, and I see a murder at a young age, was this my blue print? But as always, wanted be notice, the Joker came . The are 3 censorious, that convinced me chose good or evil. at 9 years old witness a death. Wrong place at the wrong time. There was a man named, Mr. Fisher. He drove a cab.

Everyone knew the Fisher had debt and a gambling problem. One day, they someone collect, and on that day. Mr. Fisher paid his debt with his life! A second situation. I was almost , my mom took my siblings and me to New York for a family reunion. We all was at my grand ma, and hang with the next store, he told me his dad had a gun. For his dad was a cop. he brought back the gun, and told me it's empty.

So, I was some rea mad at my mom, so I aim the gun at her. My uncle saw me and took the gun, guess what. The gun was loaded, for years, I had nightmare about my future if the gun would had went off, and sometimes now. Very scary! The last situation, "The psychopath"! There was my age, his parents and mines was friends. He told me he was going to kill me. What was sad he was serious!

A few years later at a football game, we cross path. No audiences just him and I.I froze. As he was coming I saw my life passed before me. We fought, I died! As he was coming someone came and distracted him, and I escaped. I felted like I got a second chance, for I was slayed. I knew I got be good, for in all 3 situation, it could had be worst! Before the age of , I decided and "I chose good"!

:Quotes of the day".
Posted:Jun 18, 2019 4:20 am
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2019 4:36 am
These are a few quotes might put a smile on your face. It might be a start for a good day.

"Father's day tribute",
Posted:Jun 16, 2019 8:43 am
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2019 8:18 pm
In honor of Father's day, this blogs is ten of my famous TV dads. Starting from to 1. My favorite TV dad was "uncle Bill" from family Affair..

. Red Foxx- Fred Sanford- Sanford and .

9. Charlie Sheen and Jon Cryer- Charlie and Alan Harper- Two and a half men.

8.Robert Young- Jim Ander- Father's knows best.

7. Hugh Beaumont- Ward Cleaver- Leave it to Beaver

6. Peter Boyle- Fran Barone- Everybody loves Raymond

5. John Amos- James Evans- Good Times

4. Andy Griffith- Andy Taylor- The Andy Griffith show

3.Al Bundy- Ed O'Neill- Married with ren.

2. Fred MacMurray- Steven Douglass- My three s.

1. Brian Keith- "Uncle Bill"- Family Affair.

"Gilligan's island humor"!
Posted:Jun 15, 2019 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2019 6:33 pm
Over the years, I had humor of the show Gilligan's Island, so today, I put a few together, to have the Best of Gilligan's island humor.

"Sex quotes"
Posted:Jun 12, 2019 7:05 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2019 9:08 pm
Hope everyone week going good so far. Since today is "Hump day". Why not have some quotes about sex? Or Humping.

Posted:Jun 9, 2019 3:21 pm
Last Updated:Jun 10, 2019 5:50 pm
This is something brilliant to have! To be a leader among men and women. Someone who make a Mountain of a Molehill. Someone who is respected by others, and people would fight for what you represent! This is something that not taught, you can't win this as a prize at the State fair. it's something you work on, but to me, you either have or you don't.

I hoped over the years, it was in me, but It's not! I'm OK with that. I had a friend and a cousin who had this rare gift. But they didn't realized what they had. There's a quote in the movie "Spiderman" goes like this. "With great powers come great responsibility". With it, you caught someone's attention, not it's time to earn their respect. But, my friend and cousin wanted the easy way , and the respect when the window.

To have this gift, it's more than wanting people to be around you. You must be legit! You can't say one thing and do something different. Creditability is vital! It's more that, your style of clothes, conversation and sway. That helps, but now you get their attention, what are you about? Many fail short, some would say they never had it, but I disagree!
Maybe they weren't leaders of men and women?

"On your face"!
Posted:Jun 9, 2019 6:56 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2019 1:05 pm
In 1976, the group Earth, wind and Fire, had an album out called "Spirit". On album they had a g called, "On your face". Awesome lyrics! When I was married or in toxic relationship. I could tell when my wife or lady friends, did something wrong. They didn't have to say a word! I could look at their faces and see the guilt! There was times when they later confessed about what they done. But, I kind of already knew.

If I did wrong, my guilt would show too. There was a time my car was in an accident, so my insurance suggested a place for the repairs. There was this knockout lady there, she was hot! But, I can tell she was dishonest. She suggested for not only me getting repairs done, but upgrade my car. She said, "If you do the ladies, would be all on you"! I asked for another agent. The manager said :Why"? I said, she was dishonest.

I got someone else to handle my repairs and claims. Just like when someone you know want to borrow money, you know they are not sincere! This type of per, you don't have to look in their faces, look at their reputation. One day, this company sent a sales rep to my place to refinance my mortgage, on the phone, they said all the right things!

He came in, no eye contact, I knew he was full of shit. I let him talk. He talked about a hybrid loan, real cheap for the first 5 years, a interest point every years after , and would not exceed 7%. I finally got eye to eye contact and I asked him. I said, "be honest'! "Would you take this deal"? He hesitated for several minutes and look the other way. Then he said, "Yes". I said, "Liar"! For It showed, "on his face"!

Ass kisssers in the work place!
Posted:Jun 7, 2019 7:00 pm
Last Updated:Jun 8, 2019 2:57 pm
What's the German word for ass-kisser? Here's how you say it.
German Translation


Translation of ass-kisser in Spanish:

lameculos, n.

How to say ass-kisser in Italian
Italian Translation


Some different ways to say the same thing!

I'm sure your job, you got to deal with the Ass kissers too! I work with a few, We have one guy who kiss ass so much, he had no pride. I him "Charlie "No Pride". These are the one who's dedicated to the job. If someone miss a day, and there's tons of work to be done, you going to get the 3rd degree from them. Don't even think about talking about the boss, they will snitch.

I admit, they love the job, and would go the extra mile, but most of all, they love the boss's ass! The boss can get on their case, they still would take the bosses side. But, I seen someone of them get ahead. In the military, there was a 19 years who fucked a 62 year old man for a promotion. Also someone who was the fall guy for someone else, so they get into a different position.

To each their own, If there something wrong, I'm not going to be quiet. There was many that got screwed because, people who could had did something, did nothing! They was taken cared of, and many the price. I might not have much, or in a situation that I can advance to something great. No, I don't have that or much. But one thing I can say is not an "Ass kisser in the work place"!

"Cartoon humor".
Posted:Jun 7, 2019 5:11 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2019 7:17 pm
The weekend is just around the bend. So why start today with a little humor? If you like animation "Cartoon humor " is the answer~.

Posted:Jun 5, 2019 6:41 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2019 4:06 am
There's so much beauty in the world. We see beauty everyday in one form or another. Every morning I wake up, I see beauty! The Sun shining through my window it let's me know I make it to another day.

Beauty to me, is the glare of the Sun when it hit my eyes. The happy sound when a cries, you know they are alive. When you see someone smiling from ear to ear, when you go to a sad movie with your lady, and your shirt wet from her tear. Beauty is the act of kindness without any gain. Be sentimental to someone and can understand their pain.

Beauty is saying the 3 simple words to make someone's day. Telling someone "I Love You"shouldn't be hard words to say. Beauty is going to the Casinos or the Races, and seeing the people that won, you can see the happiness in their faces. Beauty is a laughter and a man who give his word. This is something that should be heard. For Beauty is around you and me, open your eyes! You'll see!


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