Can a bad person, turn out to be good? Can a person redeem themselves? Maybe, I had a uncle who was a son of a bitch. He was abusive to my aunt, wasn't a good father. On some payday he would gamble his check and lose all his money , and my aunt wouldn't see him for several day. My aunt had to pay all the bills. My aunt must have really loved this man! She had four kids with him, and never filed for divorce. She was his rock when he was down and out, she always took him back when he left, and when he was sick she nursed him back to health. There was one time he admitted that he didn't deserve such a loving woman. Years later she died, and he inherited everything she owned, two cars, a little money and a house, along with the life insurance policy. Family members was upset, and thought he shouldn't have gotten anything. Later in years, my dad died. He was a good man, good father and everyone loved him. He was 6yrs younger than my uncle. I was upset, why would God take a good man and let a horrible man remain alive? I look at life as unfair, I was hurt. But as time passed by, my uncle started to change. He gave up drinking, cussing, and started to go to church once in a while. His child, my cousin moved in with him. He tried to reach out to the other children, but my oldest cousin refused to acknowledge him. His health start to deteriorate, so my cousin was there to take care of her dad. At times, I talked to other family members and they said he did 180 degree turned. I couldn't believe it, with in a year he died. Then I thought about it, my dad was a good man, and did all he had to do so god took him, and my uncle was spared and given a chance to redeem himself. It took much longer for my uncle, compared to my dad. So the question is? Can we be redeem? Maybe if we live long enough, we can!
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"The pretty one"!
Posted:Apr 17, 2019 6:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2019 4:46 pm
There was a man who had . A wife of course. was the Apple of his eyes, while the other would sometime cry. could do no wrong, while the other , everything she did was always wrong. There is who got A's and B's, while they was happy with the who got C's.

It's not fair, it didn't bother the man for he didn't care, I do admit, was a dime! Even though she was my cousin, she is fine! The might not been born with the looks, but she was the master, when it comes to the books. She was smart as a tack, but her dad treat her whack!

They didn't treat her like the pretty ! For her, life was no fun. We got together once a , in New York for our family reunion. I must had been , back then. Everyone when out their way to greet the pretty one, she was too. So when the other was feeling low, I walked to her and said, "Hello"!

The are treated different between day and night. 'It's not fair or just right. The other was not only smart, she had intelligences off the charts! She could several instruments, was her skill. she could do almost anything was her will. But she wasn't "The pretty one.

Don't get wrong, my uncle didn't abuse her in any way! "I love you", was the words, he didn't say. Even though "The pretty ", didn't have talents like her sister, but her looks, overruled her sister's talent! Even over the , "The pretty one ", got all the fame. It's a crying shame

The other sister had problem never solved, seem like her happiness was robbed! So when my uncle died, he left majority of everything he own to his wife and of course, to "The pretty one "!

"3 reasons why a person........
Posted:Apr 16, 2019 8:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2019 6:53 pm
I had a job I liked. There wasn't much advancement, or opportunities, but I did it. I worked with a friend, and I was second in charged behind him. I didn't make much time, I was OK with it. The placed I worked decided to hire a contractor to do the job, and I got moved somewhere else.

I was mad, they did me a favor, I walked and got a better job. It was an entry level job. This was nice, but something even better open , this time, I got lucky! I was 37 and it was time to get a job with benefits and retirement. Again, I stared off a entry level, the new company. Then after a while, I got another job within the company.

This job was 10X better than what I was doing. But eventually the company close shop and we got put elsewhere, with not enough college, I got put in Transportation. Over there is the one thing, I really don't like to do! There's a reason why or a method to the madness!

What is it? It's not illegal, but I have a phobia about this part of the job. When I do other things in the job, it's not bad and I love coming to work. But one thing I dislike, If I had to do Regularly. I was going trying to bid on other jobs but I have no connects and I was even considering retirement and work for another company.

So, the "3 reasons why a person might leave their job" . Is! First someone might not like what they do. Second, they might have a phobia about something about the job. Third , or worst they might have a fear doing task.

"I came to this conclusion......
Posted:Apr 13, 2019 4:22 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2019 6:18 pm
1. Monday the Va. Cavaliers won the college basketball championship. I'm from Va. and we never won anything! We'll we don't have any pro sports, but we had a little luck and there was fouls that weren't called and we won!

2. In 1969, the New York Jets, beat the Baltimore Colts in the super bowl, they had the worst odds to win it all at that time. They upset the Colts and this was one of the greatest upset at that time.

3.In 1990, the undefeated Mike Tyson fought Buster Douglass. Douglass was a 42-1 underdog and he knocked Mike Tyson out!

4. Miracle on Ice! The 1980 USA Olympic Hockey team, upset the super powered Soviet Union team 4-3.

5. In the 2008 super bowl, the New England Patriots was undefeated 18-0, and played the New York Giants. The Giants last drive, the receiver caught the ball on his helmet, and kept the drive going, and the Giants won the super bowl.

6.The Chicago Cubs haven't won a worlds series in 108 years, in 2016 they beat the Cleveland Indians in game of the world series.

7.In Nov 14, 2015, Holly Holm knock out champ Ronda Rousey, with a kick to the head. in MMA fight, this was the biggest upset in sports at that time.

8.In 2016, in the NBA finals, the NBA champs Golden State Warriors was up 3 to 1 to the Cleveland Cavaliers, and the Cavs came back and won the next 3 games and won it all.

9. In 2016, the NBA Western conference finals, before the finals. The Golden State Warriors was down 3 to 1 to the Oklahoma City Thunders and came back to win the series, only to lose the Cavaliers in the finals.

10. In 1925 the Pittsburgh Pirates vs the Washing Senators in the worlds series, the Pirates came back from being down 3 to 1. to win it all. This was the first team to came back from 3 to 1.

I know there's a such a thing as luck, or sometimes team might get lucky. BUT! "I came to this conclusion, that God must love sport!!!! He creates a few miracles and his team wins! That simple.

"National friendship day".
Posted:Apr 13, 2019 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2019 12:12 pm
I know this is a sex site, but I appreciate the great blogs, you write and appreciate you allowing to view. And I appreciate you viewing mines. So today is a good day for "National Friendship Day".

"After all these years"!
Posted:Apr 12, 2019 6:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2019 11:08 am
About 50 years ago. I was young. Of course I was. I was 7 at that time. There was a girl I grew up with, we was the same age. I was 3 months older. So today, I had this on my mind. "After all these years". At age 7 what do you know about love? But, I guess I was unusual or just a kid in love.

For at a young age, my eyes adored her! I was a skinny kid and not most handsomest child in the neighborhood. But what the heck, I said my peace, and told her I love her, and we'll be married, she'll smile but never said a word. So after age of 10, I started writing love letters and poetry.

I guess I was a romantic little devil. At the age of 13, we when on a date. She want to the movies with me. I was shy and didn't try to kiss her, and The Beatles songs was on my mind. "I want to hold your hand", but I didn't. The date went well, in my mind, I vision her in my future.

A few months later, I found out she was pregnant, I was sad. So I decide to change my future plans. After high school, I joined the Air Force, Over the years, I heard she had many bad relationships. 8 children by different men. I got out military, got married and divorced and had 1 child. I stayed in NM.

20 years ago, give or take a few years, I was going to visit my family in VA. My mom call me a day before and told me, my childhood crush moms, want me to take her back to NM with me and we can start a life together. "After all these years". I was willing to take the offer.

I come home to visit, my mom call her and she came by. I was so happy! "After all these years". We talked, but she didn't say much, I ask her how things, and she didn't give me any eye contact. I said, WOW! So after a while, she left and we hugged. My mom came downstairs with a smile on her face.

She said, in a happy voice. "Are you and Cathy, going to be an item??? I look my mom in the face and said "NO"! My mom say why? I told her, "I'm still not what she's looking for , "After all these years"! For some reason, tears came from my eyes.

"We all love adult humor, right..........
Posted:Apr 12, 2019 10:30 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2019 1:32 pm
We all love adult humor, right? Since it's "Joke" Friday, I said , what the heck! "Joke Friday" is the 2nd Friday in April. So everyone , share a joke or two with a friend. From G- rated to XXX. Happy Friday.

"Let's talk about sex, baby'!
Posted:Apr 10, 2019 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2019 10:53 am
Man, I so glad God created women! I love making love with someone, especially if there's a connection! Some people but sex and love in two different category. But it's not! If you having sex with someone you love, it's not! They both in the same category.

Here' a few love quotes, some might be naughty.

"Oldies but goodies".
Posted:Apr 9, 2019 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2019 7:19 pm
Today, shared a little laughter, so now I was to share my laughter with you. "Oldies but goodies".

"You don't get a second chance"!
Posted:Apr 7, 2019 4:14 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2019 5:06 pm
Adam Sandler wrote a movie called "50 First dates". I could write a book called A million first dates, seem like I been on a million. I'll be a gentleman. we have a good time, laugh and I don't say nothing . After a day or so, I hear the same sing and dance routine. Drew, your a good man, I feel there's no connection and I wish you the best. I almost here it word for word.

Is there a book out there, women have to end things, before it get started? I went on dated with women of other races, said they like black men, and I hear the same thing. I don't think I look like Freddy Kruger? Hell, he might have a better connection. Hey, he might have more game! I notice something, the other day.

Women who is educated, who has a career, or just have the basic. A job, palace to live, and a car. Are the ones who say the same lines. But if there a woman who struggling, or between jobs, or even has a room mate, they are interested! Why is ? I don't ask a person status, or situation when I go on a date with them.

I guess it's different with women, maybe it's just me? I can offer kindness, a good conversation. a man who enjoy the simple things in life. Honest and sincere. educated too! Maybe at times I don't use the proper wording. I always put my best foot forward, and be respectful. Didn't get me wrong, I also love sex too.

When they end it, they don't even want to be friends! maybe I don't fit the bill or meet their criteria. Whatever the case, if you don't "Wow"! them on the first date, Believe me! "You don't get a second chance!

"Adult humor"
Posted:Apr 7, 2019 7:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2019 6:57 pm
Morning, It good to start the day with a little "Adult Humor". It might make your day.

"I wouldn't change a thing"!
Posted:Apr 6, 2019 7:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2019 6:22 pm
What if. you can go back and redo your life, or change things for a different outcome? But the catch you have to go back 30 years or more, depending on your age. You would be given wisdom to make the right choices, and you'll create a new path. You would be guaranteed to be successful!

But the catch, everything you done didn't happen, and the people in your life didn't exist, there was be new people and a new family. You'll would take advantage of every opportunity and you would leave any stone unturned. It would start in high school, you would be a student of honor. Everything would start from there!

You get to be an educated person, if you decide to join the military, you'll be an officer instead of an enlisted. A whole different path, you would have the perfect mate, you'll be in a different state, and you mate would be on the same level. They would adore you and you wouldn't have a divorce on your track record.

You would never have to say "What If", again in life, for everything you desire you would have achieved! A person would be a fool, not to take this wish! This is a win-win situation. I not going to lie. I have depression and there are times I feel like a failure. I'm a underachiever!

Most people be like, "Where do I sign"! I have a daughter in her 30s, two grand children that loves me, a great son-in law. With them in my life, I feel like, "I might had failed, but I'm no failure"! I at times like a so-so life. So if the magic Genie say to me. "Drew, do you want the perfect life"? But, everything must change!

Even though, my life not perfect, but I have people in my life, that's would more than a king's ransom or a pot of gold! I would tell the Genie "NO"! I wouldn't change a thing!

"Fun facts on a healthier life".
Posted:Apr 3, 2019 6:28 pm
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2019 1:54 am
Ditch resolutions.
The trouble with resolutions is that we often don’t follow through and succeed with them. Why? Because a resolution is more like a temporary pledge -- you never really set up your lifestyle in a way that supports the change. Lasting success comes when you create habits that support the changes you want to see in your life. It means not giving up when you have a slip-up and sticking with it even during difficult, stressful times.

This year, be bold and ditch the New Year’s resolution. Instead, use the momentum of the New Year to cultivate healthy habits that you can maintain for a lifetime. Building consistent, healthy habits is the key to lifelong well-being. After all, what we do every day matters more than what we do once in a while.

Identify the areas you need to strengthen for long-term health.
We all know we need to eat right, exercise, get plenty of sleep and drink lots of water in order to be healthy. Many of us think we’re doing a decent job of being healthy. However, most of us are not. One study found that very few adults (only 3 percent) actually meet all the criteria of living a healthy lifestyle. Researchers looked at four keys to healthfulness, including:
Not smoking.

Know what works for you.
Your ability to maintain a healthy lifestyle will depend on coming up with strategies that work with your personality. Take a moment to reflect on the times you succeeded and the times you struggled. What circumstances were most helpful to you and encouraged you to do your best?
What situations did you find distracting? What kept you from sticking with your goals? Whatever your goals are, before you can make changes to your lifestyle, you need to know where you’re starting from and understand your reasons for making changes. Know what works for you and what doesn’t.
Maintaining a healthy weight (a BMI of 18-25), or successfully losing weight.
Eating at least five servings of fruits and vegetables daily.
Exercising 30 minutes or more, five times a week.
Few of us actually do all these things. And while these are important, there is more to good health than checking those boxes. It’s also about having a positive attitude, a positive self-image, taking care of your mental health and spending time with friends and family. So, before you enter into a commitment to begin a healthier “you” in the New Year, decide which areas you desire to strengthen. Begin with your top one or two areas and work down your list.

Make small, powerful changes.
Don’t try to make huge, sweeping life changes all at once. That can leave you feeling overwhelmed and tempted to give up altogether. Start small and build. If you’re trying to get in the habit of working out more often but are out of shape and intimidated by the idea of exercise, start by doing the easiest, least-daunting exercise you can do. Try walking around the block for minutes when you get home from work. Or even just doing a five-minute workout in your living room.
Whatever it is, start doing it on a daily basis. Once it feels like a normal part of your life, you can gradually increase it. If you have a setback, don’t beat yourself up; just go back to doing what you were doing. The goal is to create habits that feel easy to achieve.
. Get enough quality sleep.
Sometimes we overlook the importance of getting enough sleep. After all, if we’re eating right, working out and avoiding bad habits like smoking, does it really matter if we’re getting the recommended 8 hours of sleep a night? It sure does! Sleep plays a vital role in our health and well-being through our lives.
Getting enough quality sleep aids in both mental and physical health. Sleep is key to brain function -- it affects how well you learn, work, think, react and get along with others. Having an ongoing sleep deficiency raises your risk for chronic health problems.

. Slow down and reflect on the moment.
Many of us are so focused on our jobs and everyday tasks that we forget to enjoy the moment we are experiencing.
Pause throughout your day and appreciate the beauty of the world around you, the sound of laughter, how the sun feels on your , how your legs feel as you walk. Make time to enjoy each part of your day, and then step back and enjoy the process you are a part of.
The business world is systematic and requires constant innovation and analysis -- it’s focused on the final product. Learn to enjoy each step of this process. Doing so will contribute to your product’s overall success, and will make the final outcome much more enjoyable.

We also must eat heathier too!

"That the power of the Pussy"!
Posted:Apr 1, 2019 8:09 pm
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2019 3:49 pm
We want the same from a women, but some want something different. But as you read my blog, your know what I mean. There was two old dudes, this a true story. One of the old dudes, decided to have a women that over 30 years younger than him. He kept her fed and make sure she had a roof over her head. When she left him for a man her age, he told his peers. They told him, "She supposed to leave you"! She don't want a man older than her dad!

The other old dude, had a young beautiful woman. His trophy! The rules was, for her to be seen with him. After a while he got pissed! For he wasn't getting any sex,. Someone told him, "Sex, hell you can't even get a kiss on the cheek"! The first guy was a "Sugar Daddy" and the other guy was an "All day Sucker"! Stevie Wonder wrote a song called "All day Sucker"! Not trying to bust them out.

Recently, I met someone. Not sure if we going to be an item. She looks like a lot of women I dated in the past. Slender, short hair. cute. Well, cute to me. I been told I like unattractive women. I'm Ok with that, because I'm no Billy Dee Williams myself! I don't need a dime, hell I'm happy with a nickel! If she had a good heart, honest, and have a good conversation, she got me. Don't get me wrong I love sex too.

But, that not everything. I have friends that think sex is enough. This friend had a crazy lady that fought him, chase him with a knife and told me she going to kill him, but he go back for the sex. My neighbor said, his ex-wife, she had a million dollar pussy! He would pay her for good sex. That's sad, because she was his wife.

There's a couple that argue all the time, and they have nothing in common. I sometimes ask, "Why are you two still together"? He would say, "She has good pussy"! There are a few I known and know that don't want a relationship. They get their money together and maybe 3 time a month, they have an hour of pleasure. They say, "no commitment, dating, relationship, just sex"!

A few think different, but many think the same. Many years ago I asked 10 buddies at that time, various ages. I asked, what would you rather have? A good woman that committed to you, she also a good conversationalist, loyal and just have sex once in a while? Or a freak, that love to fuck, but that all she bring to the table. That all she can offer!

I shit you not! 7 out of 10 said, they would take the sex freak! I ask one, why the sex freak? He said, "That the power of the Pussy"!


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