The Battle of the Sexes.........the saga continues
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Posted:Nov 14, 2007 10:37 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2013 7:44 pm
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Today I read yet another post, one in a number posted recently, in which the basic line was 'all men are bastards'. At one time these sweeping generalisations used to annoy, now I am just bored with them. It would appear that whenever a girl here comes across an over-sexed and usually under-educated moron, immediately we, the male of the species, are tarred with the same brush. The really strange thing is that, to the best of my recollection, I have never read a post by any man making such a statement. And trust me not all women are sweet angels with perfect manners, however that seems to be the way of things. I do wonder though what these women are like in real life, I can't believe they are man-haters, after all why would they be on the site? So, I am left with the conclusion that most of these posts are just spleen venting.
I truly believe that I personally have never deliberately been rude or over-stepped any line. So please any girls who may read this, should you be unfortunate to be a victim of rude, boorish behaviour, try to remember that we are all not like that, some of us can even be quite nice and considerate. And also try to remember that we men can also be the victims of the less kind among your sex. But perhaps we are conditioned to be treated in such a way and therefore do rarely make such a fuss over such things.
Anyway, thats it for now my, ever so slightly, irritated spleen has been vented lol
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I've opened a new room
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Posted:Oct 24, 2007 10:02 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2007 3:20 am
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Hi just a quick note, today I started the process of closing down my old chat room. But, I have opened up a new one  the old room was on a specific topic, but it seems that there are more than enough other rooms to cater for everyone, so this time round the room will have NO particular target group, it will be purely for chat. And what that chat will be is entirely up to those taking part, be it fun and laughter, mundane or naughty, with or without cams. So, basically thats about it. If anyone reading this is curious, come along to CyberCircle (it can be found under the Group Topic of 'Other' ) But please remember to read the home page of the room
A direct link to my new room is : CyberCircle
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It's a two-way street isn't it?
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Posted:Sep 6, 2007 2:32 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2013 7:48 pm
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I have always thought that in the real world the best sex always involved two or more people. It seems though in cyberspace this does not apply. A room in which I was a moderator has recently been closed much to my regret. The main reason for this closure was the lack of people willing to participate fully in the room. I and my fellow moderator, a girl, would feel obliged to spend as much time as we possibly could in the room to welcome visitors both new ones and the regulars. Indeed part of that obligation extended to perhaps using our WebCams more often than we really wanted to.
Eventually though it became obvious that fewer and fewer people would join us on their WebCams. Obviously when my fellow moderator went on her cam the room tended to get busy! The guys would come into the room and jump on her cam and stay until they were satisfied occasionally someone would actually fire up their cams. I know that this sort of thing is standard procedure in most of the rooms. However, my point is that it also works the other way it has become increasingly obvious that many of the female visitors seem to be more and more reluctant to go on cam. It would appear that many of the guys here are quite happy to go on cam and be viewed by any woman, or alleged woman, who for whatever reason is not on cam. Why is this? Are we that desperate? Or too trusting? It seems to me that this being basically a sex site it would be reasonable to expect most people to be willing to use their WebCams. However should you dare to ask 'do you go on cam?' of any woman in the room you usually either get a somewhat tired excuse or a terse no. Do this too often and you get labelled cam-hound. Now I believe it is quite reasonable to expect that both sexes should participate fully in the rooms activity and that if it is okay for a woman to expect men to go on cam then we men should expect the same. In fact I believe this to such an extent that at this moment in time and for the foreseeable future I shall only allow those on my cam that I know to be real women. These women will be ones that I know from past experience either have cammed in the past or ones that are on cam at the same time.
Now I expect this will result in far fewer viewers! And as an exhibitionist this is not what I would want. I do think though that if we, as men, were more reluctant to ' perform' willy-nilly perhaps more women would be willing to use their WebCams. I am under no illusion that this is perhaps purely pie the sky. After all given the ratio of men to women why should women bother? I do get rather tired of the same old excuses such as, I'm too shy, or, I might be recognized, or there are people around. Now come on this is a sex site hardly a place for the shy! And who would recognize you? Only other members. I'm not saying that everyone should be on their cams 24/7 or that they need be naked showing their faces etc. nice though that may be! It would just be nice to know that the person you are talking to or is viewing your cam is what they claim to be and that they are enjoying what they are watching. Words are sometimes not enough.
Not only am I an exhibitionist but I'm also into watersports so sometimes, in fact most times, what we view is not specifically sexual in nature although we do find it very erotic. Because of the nature of this our WebCams are open to be viewed by both sexes and most of us are quite happy with that. I personally will only watch women, but the exhibitionist in me means that I'm happy to be viewed by either sex. But naturally I find it much more arousing when I know that I'm being watched by a woman and that she is enjoying what she is seeing.
So, what about it girls? Are you willing to play fair? Or are you happy to be freeloaders and take advantage of the situation? Yes I do know that many of you do in fact use their WebCams on a regular basis but in my experience the so, so many that do not. I also know that this is been a regular bone of contention for so long in so many rooms. Just remember though that just like in the real world sex is indeed a two-way street even in cyberspace. By the way, if anyone is curious I can usually be found most days in ParkPees lololol
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One year on
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Posted:Aug 28, 2007 2:01 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2007 10:36 pm
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Hi everyone, well, I have now been a member of the site for one year. A lot of things have happened in the year, I have met some great people, and discovered a great deal about myself.
It has been my good fortune in this year, to have had the opportunity to meet some of the members of this site in the real world. I have spent a great deal of time in the chat rooms, talking to many people from all parts of the world. Many of these chats have been about day-to-day experiences and I have to say that some of these conversations have been the most enjoyable! However, there have been other times, when the conversations have been a little more fruity in nature!lol
So, what will the coming year bring? Who knows? Perhaps more of the same, perhaps whole new adventures. In any event, I'd like to take this opportunity to thank all those that I have spoken to, those that I have shared intimate moments with and those that have provided me with a great deal of fun, pleasure and happiness.
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It's not all about sex!!!
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Posted:Jun 25, 2007 1:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2013 7:57 pm
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It may come as a surprise to some, but it's possible to have good friendships that although built upon online chatting carry over into the real world. It's been my good fortune to have several good on-line friendships, a few of which have resulted in meetings away from the internet. These meets have been quite platonic, indeed one of them was with another guy! And both of us are very 'straight' lol. It's a wonderful feeling to create a situation whereby sufficient mutual trust is built up between 2 'strangers' that allow a face to face meeting without any form of sub-text or hidden agenda, even when the person you are meetings is of the opposite sex.
This feeling of mutual trust cannot be built up over night, it does take time and of course a degree of openness and honesty that many feel they are unable to give on the site. However I do truly feel that if you are willing to be yourself and be willing to see beyond the supeficial, it is possible to gain more than just casual passing acquaintences and therefore get more out of this site than you may have believed possible.
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A bit of news
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Posted:Apr 21, 2007 1:44 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2013 7:58 pm
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Just thought I would pass on a bit of family news, just as a change from anything about this site lolol. My second eldest is getting married on May 31st and in addition, and probably related............she also tells me that I am to be a Grandfather for he third time
UPDATE
Well, I have some bad news and some good news, a few weeks after writing this entry my lost the baby  However, I can now reveal that she is once again expecting, and all is going very well
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It's a funny place
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Posted:Apr 11, 2007 12:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2013 7:58 pm
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I've been a member of this site for quite a while, and over the months, one thing has always struck me, should any Psychologist become a member and read some of the stuff that gets posted in rooms or bulletin boards he would think he has struck gold! There is so much going on here, the jealousies, the strange virtual-friendships, the bitter battles, the desperation of so many for so much, and thats before you consider the huge spectrum of tastes catered for!
I have seen so many instances of where the border between the 'real world' and cyberspace has become blurred it amazes me, where members react to others and to situations as though it was real life, whereas the truth is that the vast majority of people here live behind a false persona, and would never in a million years behave in such a way in the real world.
The whole point of this site, as I see it, is theoretically to meet like-minded people, however the reality is that it allows so many to live out there desires without fear of any come-back, that the limits imposed on them in the real world are no longer there.
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