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buff geek in C-ville, VA
 
Never had a blog before...so who knows what this will turn out to be..just hoping to find like minded folks on here. If you can't A.F.F. email me...just send me a reply on my blog!
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Back in the saddle?
Posted:Oct 19, 2010 4:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 10:32 am
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Wow, it's been a crazy few years and I have to say, I just haven't had time to blog. Such is life!

I've moved up to Charlottesville VA and am loving it. Alas, it seems that it's harder to find sexually open folks here than it was in good old Atlanta. I wonder why that is? Part of the reason I'm starting my blog again is with the hope of connecting with sexy, open people. If you're local, let me know!

From time to time I may post a few of my musings...but I rarely kiss and tell (at least in cyber-space). Sorry all you internet voyeurs!

As for what's going on in my life now...lots of work and LOTS of horniness. Good God! My older female friends have always told me that a guy's libido goes south after 30...apparently not with me! I think my attitude and lifestyle as finally caught up with my body's desires and now I want more than ever. Arrrrgggg! If you know of a local harem of unsatisfied women, let me know...I'd be happy to help out.

Well, until next time...enjoy life! -B
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Northern bound
Posted:Jun 5, 2007 4:17 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2008 3:36 pm
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On my way up to Mass today...Blag with y'all when I get back! -B
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Too much of a good thing?
Posted:May 30, 2007 8:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2009 11:12 am
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I love the sensation of arousal. Some days, like today, I think I could experience it non-stop. I masturbated twice today and could probably go for more...DEFINATELY if another party was involved. Honestly, I have yet to reach my limit....which begs the question, is there such a thing as too much of a good thing? I understand if it interferes with life, etc...but I wonder exactly what my limits are.

Which brings me to one of my favorite fantasies . I'm at a small private party, surrounded by classy women all dressed to the nines. The evening starts off with me pouring wine, delivering hours d' ouvers, etc...but slowly transitions into other kinds of "servicing"...and the evening doesn't end until each guest approves!

Ahhh the male ego...

Still...a fun fantasy
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What ever happened to making out?
Posted:May 30, 2007 9:26 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2010 4:01 am
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I know, this is a sex site, but does it always have to be about sex? So few people seem to kiss anymore! For me, kissing is second only to the flirt...I love the feel of a woman's lips on mine...her breath on my lips...tongues tentatively touching...sigh

I want to make out like a ...like someone who doesn't know what comes "after" so they can just enjoy the moment. I want to make out for hours. I want to make out in a movie theater or a park or a club and totally get lost in my partner's lips. I want to get so worked up I feel like I'm going to explode...

and I want it nowwwww!!!!

...ok...so I'm a bit demanding. -Bri
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Road Trip!!!
Posted:May 28, 2007 10:40 am
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2007 8:15 pm
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I'll be heading on a road trip up the east coast (VA, NJ, and Mass) over the first two weeks of June. Wooo hoooooo!!! Anybody want to ride with me?
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What's your type?
Posted:May 28, 2007 10:38 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2009 11:15 am
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One of my favorite bloggers, Heidideliscious, recently posted a blog on her "type"...it's inspired me to add my own! Here are just a few to start...more to follow later.

The Amazon Goddess: The was a girl in college who was about 6ft tall, solid muscle. All american in swimming AND track and field. When she walked into a room, everyone turned their heads...she just radiated sex and power. I did figure photography of her once and DAMN she was perfectly sculpted. I've always wanted an amazon godess to size me up like a piece of meat, give me a slight nod of acceptance, and have her way with me.

The Nerdy Ren-Fest Girl: She's mostly covered in those huge period clothes, but the tight corset gives her a push-up that puts everything out in front. Dorky in real life, her costume gives her liscense to be someone else. Even though she's really pretty, she's never quite gotten the attention from the boys...and I want to give it to her...

The Confident Buisness Woman: Form-fitting white blouse, knee high skirt, and horn-rimmed glasses, she knows what she wants and knows how to get it, but never finds the time for a good roll in the hay. I want to be the one that makes her slow down, spend the weekend naked in bed. Teach her how to give up control sometimes..but enjoy it when she wants a hostile takeover

The Hippie Goddess: She's a yoga instructor, fit in an earthy way. She's low maintainance and it's sexy as hell...a natural bush, unshaved underarms, and a gentle ease that comes with knowing her place in the larger picture. Social conventions be damned, she'll strip her flower-dress off in a thunderstorm and dance naked in the rain and help me find ALL of my chakras. Sex with her would be natural, playful, unrushed...and tantric! Woo hoo!

The Rocker Chick: I recently had a student who's in a all girl punk band...she's waify, wears 3 belts at a time, torn up jeans and combat boots. Her "fuck the world" attitude is so damn sexy. I want to meet her after a show behind the bar where she was playing...without a word press her up against the wall and kiss her hard. Afterwords we smile...no words nescessary...

The MILF: If you've been following my blog at all, you know I have a thing for "older" women. Experience and confidence are sooo sexy...not to mention that MILFY women seem to be able to keep up with my libido pretty well. Invite me over while your are at school and ride me until you have to carpool them home, I'm yours!
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Posted:May 14, 2007 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2008 5:17 am
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...ok....I know what you're going to say, but just wait till I'm done with this post. If you follow my blog, you know I'm an avid cammer. Call me an attention , exhibitionist, whatever...

Today I was in a webcam room and I saw one of the ubiquitous "big cock on cam" posts. What did I do? Clicked on the lil cam icon...silly silly me. I was just curious what guys who make posts like that look like. I mean, what is a "big" cock? What type of person posts (boasts?) about the size of their member? SO...the cam pops up and...EWWWWW!

An aside--I'm comfortable enough in my own sexuality to be able to look at a nekkid guy and say "wow, that's one hunk of man meat"...or "that guy's really built"...but today I found out exactly what kind of guy posts "big cock on cam"....

FAT

HAIRY

and, you guessed it....

NOT a big cock...half hard, misshapen, and nasty yes...but certainly not what I call big

So, folks in blogland...have you ever clicked on one of those "big cock on cam posts?" If so, were you pleasantly or unpleasantly surprised at what you saw? Or...what was your worst cam experience?
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the big 3-0hhhhhh
Posted:May 11, 2007 5:32 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2007 9:01 am
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ha! I bet you thought from my blog title that I had some crazy nookie for my birthday....HAHAHAHA! Silly, silly reader. Don't you know by know that except for precious, brief moments (well, not THAT brief!), that my love life consists of a bottle of jojoba oil (the perfect lube, I must say) and my left hand (fascinating, since I'm a righty)...but I digress...

The last year has been interesting. A move from hated, bone-chilling Massachusetts, where most of the people I knew were as cold as the weather; bought my first house...a little POS house, but mine nonetheless; about to become a dad!!!; and most importantly, after about 10 years of trying to convince myself I'm a scientist, throwing that notion to the wind and giving my arsty-fartsy side of the brain liscense to do what makes me happy. Barring the lack of harem and/or naked red-headed twins (female, please) sitting on my lap, I'm actually pretty happy.

SO, here's a checklist for the next 10 years:

1. continue to live my life unabashed and unembarrased of the person I am...most other people suck, so it's really really good to be different from them

2. watch my buisness grow into something that can actually support me financially and fills my soul..

3. watch my grow...in the next decade I need someone to be able to teach me how to program the VCR, after all...

4. finish the renovations on my lil POS house. God, if it takes 10 years...just shoot me now, please!!!

5. Finish my graduate work, be it in the form of a PhD or a cop-out Master's...because as much fun as handcuffs can be, these shackles suck!

6. Surround myself with a circle of freaky, soulful, unreserved, wonderful people. I know you're out there....come out come out wherever you are

7. Maybe get laid more than a handful times a month...is that too much to ask? Really?

8. go camping more...a part of myself that I've lost in the past few years that I need to survive...maybe even more than #7!!!

I'm sure there are other things, but these are the top on my list...here's to living (really living) another year...let's all take a moment to pause and reflect, before we continue to suck the marrow from the bones of life!!!
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mmmm sushi....
Posted:Apr 24, 2007 5:39 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2007 3:25 pm
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It's about time to catch up...it's been a crazy few weeks! Most memorably, I met an Senior Sizzle friend for a sushi date last Tuesday....

...we had been chatting for a few weeks, and FINALLY some free time in our schedules overlapped. The date started with sushi...no, scratch that...the date started with a "hello" and passionate kissing, with her pinned against her minivan. If we were curious to see if there was any chemistry, I thin kthe first 2 minutes of meeting face to face pretty much answered that! After finally pulling ourselves apart, we had yummy sushi for dinner and went back to her place....

...Hubby was waiting...this was the part I was nervous about. I hate guys who try to pull alpha male dominance crap....which he didn't! We all talked for some time...I told her earlier that I would rely on her for a signal that more than polite conversation was in store for the rest of the evening...when she took her pants off I'm pretty sure that was the signal!

The next three hours of sexcapades was blissful! She had a fabulous body and a beautifully dirty mind to match. Our bodies seemed to fit perfectly...transitioning from licking and sucking to fucking to just making out naturally... He was great in that, while he joined in sometimes, he was also cool with us doing our own thing...yay!

If it hadn't been around 2am when we finally finished, I would have stayed longer...hell, I could be naked with her for 24 hours straight and STILL feel the same need I felt after that first kiss. So, Ms CD...you know who you are...you rock! I can't wait to see you again!
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Expectations...
Posted:Apr 5, 2007 3:51 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2007 7:15 am
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Wow, it's been a while since I've posted. Guess that goes to show how life has been lately. The big news is that we're expecting our first ! Woo hooo!!! It's scary, wonderful, and (for her) barfy all at the same time. I can wait to be a dad, moreso because I have the luxury of being the primary caregiver. Mr Mom look out!! What this means is that the progress on my "fuck me" bathroom (see previous blogs) has been temporarily postponed to work on the nursery...I'll post pics when I'm done, for any that care .

The second half of this blog is more of my continuing rant on humanity. I'm an elitist I guess..a snob. I don't expect everyone to have a PhD level intellect, supermodel beauty, or wealth beyond compare...but I do expect that people have a hunger for life. With that hunger comes so many things...a desire to seize the day...a willingness to try new things, to grow. To me, that is what being human is about, yet so few people actually DO it. Maybe instead of being a state of mind, it's a gift, just like good looks or smarts....

While I find most people constantly dissappoint me, there are a few who I respect because they have this quality. I can usually pick these people out of a crowd at 100 paces...I think the verve they exude is as strong as any scent I've ever smelled. I've been lucky enough to meet a few of these people in my life, and it seems one very recently though Senior Sizzle, no less! So babe, this post's for you...a thank you for being the wonderfully complex person that you are...I appreciate it, even if I don't get to lure you into the sack and treat your body like a playground .
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Pics....
Posted:Jan 22, 2007 5:23 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2007 9:28 am
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Sorry to get y'all excited (see, I'm fitting right in here down South ), but there are no new pics of me. I've yet to find a good photographer down here and I'm not really willing to have mediocre pics taken of me just for the sake of updating...for those of you who see my cam show you know JUST what I look like. Alas...I digress...

I want to talk about pics of others. More specifically, bitch about pics of others. I've seen some GREAT pics--pics that give you a good idea of what the person looks like, are tasteful, and erotic. The other 90% of the pics though... I have to say, most of the culprits are guys. I can't tell you how many guys send me cock-shots (sometimes even digitally enhanced cock-shots) with a message like "you can still be straight if I suck you." READ MY PROFILE DAMMIT! a) I'm straight and b) what makes you think seeing your crotch is going to turn me bi? I've found a lot of the same browsing profiles of ladies near me geographically...just "pink" shots. I understand this is a sex site, but don't you think there's a little more to sex than the 2% of your body that those pics show? SHEESH!

Soooo...here is our time to vent...let me know the NASTIEST, most unsexy pic you've ever recieved (male OR female) and then let me know what your favorite (or ideal) pic would be like!
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The real world
Posted:Jan 9, 2007 4:20 am
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2007 5:22 pm
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I hate to bitch and moan, into cyber space even more than in real life, but this is just silly! I really appreciate the comment I get during cam shows and emails that I get through Senior Sizzle complimenting me, but there's a huge disjoint between those comments onnile and the interactions I have with people in the real world.
I'm pretty sure it's not me...I'm friendly and outgoing...hell, I'm downright flirty most of the time! I rarely get a smile out of people though, let alone some fun flirty banter or body language. Have we forgotten how to flirt??? Now, I know people can hook up. You just go to a bar or a club, get-drunk-off-your-ass-so-you-can't-think-about-what-you're-doing and just find someone to fuck. But what ever happened to all that middle stuff? The chase...the courtship? Even if it's not romantic, where has the passion gone from our lives?
Online, sure, people are bold and outgoing...does this mean we've all developed online alter-egos for ourselves that hide behind our mousy real-life selves? If you can't tell, I have a real problem with that and I strive to be as consistant in my personality as possible, no matter what the venue.
But what about you? Do you have an online alter ego? Do you find that the anonymity of cyber space gives you the freedom to be who you "really" are?...or are you openly flirty and sexual in real life as well. If so, how do people receive your advances?
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Timing is everything
Posted:Dec 14, 2006 5:02 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2007 7:09 pm
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We all know scheduling is a bitch...life get's busy right? But what about our natural biological clocks? I have to say, I'm definately NOT for the night life. If I'm up past 10 PM, it's a late night for me. I can function after that, but in general my body is just sleep walking. This makes late night bouts of sex (which most people seem to prefer) not particularly interesting to me. Now, 7 AM (and maybe again at 10 AM...then again at 2 PM)...I'm good to go! While this fits into my crazy schedule...not exactly ideal for most people...

So, are you an early bird or a night owl? Does the thought of getting laid before 7 am make you want to hide under the blankets...or do you think it's the perfect way to start the day? What's your ideal sex schedule (and how often does it actually happen that way????)? -B
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