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Calling out – Ninja, Ghost, Ktmn, Mc and Todd, Todd, Todd
Posted:Nov 1, 2015 9:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2016 1:46 pm
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C’mon guys do you reeeally want meeee to reach the top of the “Most Active Male Blog” list? I think not. Do you reeeally want meeee to post up a “CarbonizedHarrisonShitLoad” like post saying, “I’m number blah, blah, blah . . . “. I think not. Worse yet, do you want IT to post up another of its loads? I know not. Step up boys lets see some fresh postings. I do NOT want to be on top.
Ninja – I know you have a shit load of questions to ask – step up bro (I can say bro cause Lala gave me “The Card”).
Ghost – you know why I want you to have more readers – step up . . . er I mean bend over.
Ktmn – Du some ramblin and get the ladies here all wet and wild.
Mc – Geez man, light up some of that creative stash you’re hiding and give me some fodder to annoy you with.
Todd, Todd, Todd – OK I’ll admit it, I jealous that you and Kinks write stuff together, but you and Keith surely can cook up some havoc too.

Let ‘er rip boys!
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Am I Sappy Ole Sex Y’all: The 13th Virtual Symposium
Posted:Oct 31, 2015 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2016 3:04 pm
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I was a young innocent little boy when I first started blogging here. . . . . Whaaaaat? You don’t believe me? . . . OK fine, I did know some things. FWB was Folks With Boners. TV was what you watched when you didn’t have a date. BDSM meant Big Dogs Spank Monkeys (I’m not really into that kind of thing).

That said I was ignorant (not stupid) of the term Sapiosexual. So I looked it up on the inter/web/nets, because we’re all smart and we know everything on the inter/web/nets is true. Like other terms used here I found several “definitions” for this term. Well that’s just great, so it is like other terms that get flailed about here – there does not seem to be one single definition of the term. Just like FWB or NSA. Fortunately there is a common theme to the sapiosexual definitions.

One definition for Sapiosexual according to Urban Dictionary is: “A person who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature”. Another definition read: “A person sexually attracted to intelligence or the human mind”. NOTE: The second definition leaves out the word “most”. Both definitions are similar but different, which raises questions but not awareness.

Is a man not sapiosexual if he appreciates and is attracted to the physical attributes of a woman? Where is the line drawn? Who draws it? Is she cute? What’s her phone number? . . . Oh . . . yeah . . . how smart is she? I’ve digressed . . .

Does being sapiosexual mean I ignore a woman’s looks? OK, lets be real here . . . HELL no I won’t be doing that! Why, you ask? Men are visually stimulated/oriented. I have heard it is part of the male DNA; it is possibly part of our biological survival instincts. We rely on seeing things around us to be aware of things that could hurt us, to protect – to survive. To find things, especially animal protein to eat, we hunt and catch it, using sight as the primary hunting sense – to survive. In the sexual sense, men see women who we are biologically attracted to, in part for our species to reproduce – to survive . . . and “get off”.

Personally, I’ve always looked at a woman as a “whole package” as it were. A woman’s attitude, her intelligence and her physical attributes are all part of my attraction. Intelligence also plays a part in her attitude. It effects what her sense of humor may be like too, and since I am a smart ass the woman needs to be smart to get me.

So, what if a woman I meet was as intelligent as Einstein and looks like Einstein too? Will I talk to her? Sure it would probably be interesting to say the least. Would I be a friend with her . . . possibly. Would I be sexually attracted to her? Most likely not, in fact I can safely say, “ain’t no way . . . no how” I’ll be “doing” her. Does this exclude me from being sapiosexual?

Lets delve further into me. I am male; I have the stick and balls (currently a sad shade of blue) to prove it. I have a hard time dealing with stupidity and smart women are way more interesting in the long run than dumb ones so you could say I’m a sap for sapiosexuals . . . or not. Also, there is the age-old wisdom, which states, “You can't fix stupid”. This is attributed to, as far as I know, a comedian named Ron White. If you haven’t checked out Ron White I suggest you do, he doesn’t BS as he tells very funny stories, drinks and smokes cigars on stage. But I’ve digressed . . . again.

All this talk of intelligence reminds me of one of my favorite movie lines:
“What did you expect? "Welcome, sonny"? "Make yourself at home"? "Marry my "? You've got to remember that these are just simple farmers. These are people of the land. The common clay of the new West. You know... morons.” – Gene Wilder (Blazing Saddles).
So from this we learn that ignorance can be funny when it is the object of a joke. What does that have to do with sapiosexuality. Probably nothing but I really like that line.

Knowing all those things the question still is . . . am I sapiosexual y’all? Maybe I’m semi-sapio-sexual or SSS. Oh this is just friggin great! ! I just created ANOTHER term to be batted about on adult “dating” sites. So what does this all mean for me and my situation here? Does being semi-sapio-sexual going to change the color of my balls? I still have no friggin idea . . . so I’m feelin kind of dumb right now.

For more intelligent and sexual discussions on Sapiosexuality feel free to slake you intellectual thirst by reading the other Symposium participant's offerings Participants In The Thirteenth Virtual Symposium Sapiosexuality Intersection Of Smarts And Sex
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Week 7 NFL Game Picks
Posted:Oct 31, 2015 9:01 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2015 4:10 pm
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There are lots of games that look really close on paper. I hope the officiating goes a lot better this weekend.
Lions Chiefs Close game Chiefs
Buccaneers Falcons Falcons
Cardinals Browns Cardinals
49ers Rams Rams at home
Giants Saints Gut pick Saints at home
Vikings Bears Rivalry game Vikings
Chargers Ravens Close game Ravens at home
Bengals Steelers Close game Bengals – Ben back too soon
Titans Texans Gut pick Close game Titans
Jets Raiders Close game RAIDERS at home
Seahawks Cowboys Close game Seahawks
Packers Broncos Packers
Colts Panthers Panthers
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Adventures In Dating: Should The Series Begin
Posted:Oct 30, 2015 4:56 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2018 4:27 pm
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I’ve had some adventurous dates from here and in the past that were a bit . . . odd. There have been a couple this year and some from the past. One from the past was alluded to in up in the suny high desert , which I promised (or was it a threat? ) Mc I would foist upon, I mean tell, y’all. I call them “adventures” because what seemed simple and easy turned out to be ooohh lets just say unusual.

My definition of the term “adventure” came via an experience in moving. My friend Carl, a racing buddy and who is also a writer (creative and sometime verbose) used “adventure” to eventually describe the move (from near Palm Springs to near Sedona), which I helped his family with. When he asked (or was it conned? ) me to help him he said “it will only be a short 8 hour drive” and I would be gone for just a couple days. I have never believed his time or easiness estimations since then.

The move took roughly 5 of my days. It also included 1 vehicle left in Needles, CA, a stay in Kingman AZ (yyaaaawwwnn ), threats I had to spell out to a real estate agent, a condemned house and 2 nights in a vacation park. But I digress . . .

Two of the dating stories are from this site (a 3 part story because the 2 dates have a odd tie in). 2 stories are from my past, including the one I mentioned earlier plus one where Lala’s [post 3720803] reminded me of a dating ”situation” where the phrase, “We need to talk” started because of what turned out to be an unlikely meeting of people.

If hearing about these dating “adventures” interests y’all let me know. And NOO there will not be any kiss and tell, flying fluids descriptions – I don’t do that.
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Not Just In October
Posted:Oct 29, 2015 3:07 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2018 4:27 pm
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As we all know October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month (we wear Pink). It was publicized here and in the media, NFL officials and players wore pink. It is a very worthy cause. There is another cause equally worthy of recognition and awareness: Domestic Violence Awareness Month, which is supposed to be marked by wearing Purple. It does not receive as much attention. In fact it is almost ignored, especially by the NFL. Both should not be limited to just October.

Everyone who reads my posts should know by now that I am a huge professional football fan. And the NFL is really ‘the only game in town’. It is also no big secret I’m NOT fan of the Dallas Cowboys, for various reasons. Now I will publicly add another.

Greg Hardy. He was convicted by a NC court (by a judge) of domestic violence charges including hitting his girlfriend, and threatened her life when he threw her on top of a large pile of guns. On “appeal” (retrial actually) he got away with it because the victim refused to testify a second time. He was suspended from playing most of last year and the team he was with cut him.

During last weeks game he attacked a coach and other players on his team over a play he was not involved in. He went on a violent tirade. This guy is a mass shooting or deceased gf looking for a place to happen. He does not belong in public let alone earning big buck playing in the NFL. Later the Cowboy’s coach said there would be no discipline. After that the owner Jerry Jones referred to this criminal as a “team leader”.

Domestic Violence Awareness should not be limited to just one month. Women I have known and loved have been affected by domestic violence. It hurt them deeply but not just physically, it leaves deep emotional scars. It hurts to hear that someone you love has experienced repeated physical and emotional violence. If you know of someone in that kind of predicament they may not be able to report it. Do it for them if you can. Help them get whatever help they need.
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Public Service Announcement: Blocking Function Not Working
Posted:Oct 28, 2015 8:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2016 9:06 am
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I found out this am that the blocking function here does not seem to be working. I further found that some stuff was posted about me, which I disagree with. Evidently some people who responded to a post about me are now are under the impression that I “wronged” a blogger here. One responder said I ‘reverted to childhood’, and I am a ‘wimp’. All this without anyone knowing who the person is or what blog post (if any) it may have been about. Further, the blogger who posted emailed me to talk about the disagreement, but then ‘guessed’ I was ‘pissed off’ without me having responded to their email first. It is your right to say what you want, or make guesses – but that was an incorrect guess.

As far as the judgmental responses go, I dislike, and have little respect for people who are judgmental. Especially when their judgments are based on little or no facts. The responder who jumped to those judgments did so without things like facts. To that responder: In my opinion judgment without facts is something that is “wrong with the world in general.” My suggestion would be to consider the following quote; “judge not, lest ye be judged.” It is in your bible. Judgments are more of a reflection on who the judger is.

Some/most of the facts were not in the blogger’s first post about this issue, as I had not communicated with them at the time of their first post. In fact the blogger stated, “I have no idea what the problem is,” That is correct but they chose to post anyway. While I really do not think or feel I owe any explanation – for clarity I will say the following.

My decision to not “watch” the blogger was not from being ‘pissed off’ as they assumed. Yes, the blogger left out that the HUGE, UNFORGIVABLE, HORRIFIC, OFFENCE was . . . I un-watched them. There are ways for me to see and participate in a blogger’s posts other than “watching” them. I do this with many other bloggers. Other bloggers have watched and un-watched me. Some who don’t watch me continue to participate in my posts. If a blogger needs or wants “watchers” that is fine, the “watching” function for me is simply a way to make certain tasks here easier. It is a function for convenience not a popularity or friendship function IMO.

As the blogger indicated in their second post (posted around 2 AM while I was sleeping), I later replied it was “nothing to be concerned about” – because it wasn’t. The blogger evidently did not take that as being true and the next AM when I logged in I found I had been blocked. They had also removed them selves from my friend/fan thing. I’m good with that; it is not a necessity for my blogging or other activities here. Then they sent me a message, which I obviously could not read. The blogger knows standard members cannot read messages unless they are fans.

The results of this are: A non-drama that was “nothing to be concerned about” became a drama and by not believing it was “nothing to be concerned about”: it is now less likely I will participate with either blogger. Or put another way: “I have no time or patience for games.” I learned who my “friends” are. The blogger’s judgmental friend/responder is not someone I care to have any further involvement with.

Either person is invited to post up here. Your questions, answers or comments (agreeing or disagreeing in a respectful way) are encouraged and welcome.
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More Good Premonitions (The Dream Is Obtainable)
Posted:Oct 27, 2015 6:37 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2016 10:00 am
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Once again I did pretty well on my picks I posted on Week 7 NFL Game Picks last weekend. I called 10 of the 14 games . There were 2 games where I should have gone with my gut instead of analytical things. With my Buffalo pick I even wrote that I was concerned about all their injuries. Well the 2nd string QB gave up 14 points in the first minutes of that game. I also went with Indy but felt New Orleans had gotten past their terrible start – dumb, just dumb.

And AGAIN, the refs blew big calls in the end of the Monday night game. Both were potentially game changing plays and calls. The league has admitted one call was blown. Really NFL? With all the money and resources there is yet another blatant wrong call this year.

Then there was a violent sideline incident with a player who has a very bad rep off the field. Given that October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month it is my opinion the NFL should have acted immediately after the game and suspended this guy again, but they did not. I may write on this in another post.

What is your opinion of sports figures and how they are treated when caught committing violent acts off the field?

That said if I had been put up actual cash since I started posting this, the island dream would be a lot closer. You know – THE DREAM, the one where I make millions picking the games and take a pretty Pazzion woman to MY tropical isle.

Well, I have actual paying work to do, and I need to see who are in next week’s games. Sooo, until my next picks Aloooo–ha
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Week 7 NFL Game Picks
Posted:Oct 24, 2015 3:13 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2015 4:20 pm
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Buffalo at Jacksonville Close game Buffalo has injuries
Minnesota at Detroit Minnesota
New Orleans at Indianapolis Close game Indianapolis at home
Pittsburgh at Kansas City Close game Pittsburgh
Houston at Miami Miami at home
N.Y. Jets at New England Close rivalry game patsies at home
Cleveland at St. Louis St. Louis at home
Atlanta at Tennessee Atlanta
Tampa Bay at Washington Close game Washington
Oakland at San Diego Close rivalry game RAIDERS BABY
Dallas at N.Y. Giants Close rivalry game Giants at home
Philadelphia at Carolina Close game Carolina at home

Baltimore at Arizona Arizona
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And the winner is . . .
Posted:Oct 23, 2015 2:24 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2019 3:47 pm
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The votes for my updated “status” Vote For My Updated Status are tied as of now between "Sharp Mind, Warm Heart, Talented Tongue" and "Snuggles Well With Others". I chose Snuggles Well With Others because women here have written about snuggling a lot. But if that doesn’t get any bites then Sharp Mind, Warm Heart, Talented Tongue will be next up.

Now the next thing is . . . my profile.

If you read my last couple posts (the premature disappear-ation and a meh thing that I have now hidden), they clearly prove that . . . I reeeally need to “get laid” . So with that in mind and with the input of another blogger I have updated my profile.

If you think it needs further changes feel free to offer suggestions, I may or may not use them. Either way your input is appreciated.
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Advise And In Case I Disappear . . .
Posted:Oct 22, 2015 4:19 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2016 5:16 pm
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Some profiles have disappeared over the last week for reasons you may be aware of. Sandra was the latest.

I was "viewed" by SiteSupport a little while ago so I am posting this now. That has never happened to me. In case I disappear keep an eye out for a ghost. He may appear like a Dude I love.

I write and save many of my posts in MS Word, in case any unexpected situations arise, it is a work habit I have. If you don’t, or haven’t, I suggest you do.

And . . . to repeat a message I offered before:
To the women who I have chatted and shamelessly flirted with – I hope you enjoyed it. And, thank you sharing your brains, faces, lips, eyes, legs, curves, butts, nipples, cleavage and boobs. Especially the nipples and boobs. Hey ! ! I’m a boobs guy deal with it. Here is a passionate breath-taking kiss, one on your lips, and a long one on your boobs. I wish I could meet all of you.

To the guys, forget it, no such luck for you . . . ‘ain’t nooo way, nooo how’ I’m kissin no stubbly bearded horn dogs. But it would be cool to get together and have a few cold ones and talk warm babes, boobs, football and fast cars.

UPDATE: Since I’m still here I guess I jumped the gun on being deactivated (premature disappear-ation), but the Support guys have never viewed my profile until yesterday. Maybe I need a drink or 3 or 9. Or maybe I need to “get laid”, yeah that’s it I REALLY need to get laid. I wonder if there is a web site for that. This post will self destruct in a week or so.
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Vote For My Updated Status
Posted:Oct 21, 2015 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2019 3:48 pm
9889 Views

A nice blogger suggested I make a couple little changes to my profile otherwise it gets 'stale'. I am working on that. And since nothing is happening now I also figured I would see if changing my “status” might attract more women to the profile. Here are some “catchy” little things I came up with, which one do y’all think is best:
More Than Just Another Guy (My current status).
Snuggles Well With Others
Not Just Another Pretty Face
Sharp Mind, Warm Heart, Talented Tongue
Other (Your suggestions)
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More Good Premonitions (The Dream Is Alive)
Posted:Oct 20, 2015 3:22 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2015 10:40 am
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Once again I did pretty well on my picks I posted on Week 6 NFL Game Picks last weekend. I called 10 of the 14 games correctly.

2 “sure thing” games that screwed me up this week were; the Steelers took advantage of the Cardinals. Their new QB looks to be the real thing. The Seahawks are really messed up defense wise. The Legion of Boom defense seems to have become The Question of Whom defense .

I’m letting sweetVM slide on HER Giants pick cause I lubs her

Once again if I had put up some actual cash the last week’s games the island dream would be a lot closer. You know – THE DREAM, the one where I make millions picking the games and take a pretty Pazzion woman to MY tropical isle. What would your island dream be?

I better start checking out next week’s games and see where it goes from there. Aloooo–ha and stay horny my friends .
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Week 6 NFL Game Picks
Posted:Oct 18, 2015 9:55 am
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2015 4:23 pm
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Cincinnati at Buffalo Bengals - Buffs too many injuries
Denver at Cleveland Broncos
Chicago at Detroit Close call Lions
Houston at Jacksonville Very close call Jaguars
Kansas City at Minnesota Vikings at home
Washington at N.Y. Jets Jets at home
Arizona at Pittsburgh Cardinals are flying high and have some grudges to settle
Miami at Tennessee Close call Dolphins
Carolina at Seattle Seahawks at home
San Diego at Green Bay Packers at home
Baltimore at San Francisco 49ers at home
New England at Indianapolis Patriots even with air in the ball
N.Y. Giants at Philadelphia I will make this pick b/4 MNF
UPDATE: My pick for MNF is the NY Giants, because sweetVM said so.
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