Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Reset Link Sent
Password reset link sent to
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

Carpe Diem!!  

pootyhounds 49M/42F
9 posts
5/12/2013 5:59 pm
Carpe Diem!!

It's not just a catchphrase from a great mid-90's movie (Dead Poet's Society); it's a way of life.

I've been doing some serious soul searching, thinking about my sexuality, my sensuality, and how I can get what I want in a lover. I'm sure everyone has their lists of what they like and don't like; what they will and won't do. And considering of all this, a sudden simple thought struck me: just live!

"But, Minx," you may ask, "what does this have to do directly with a "friendship" or "casual encounter" website?"

Seizing the day is about taking advantage of opportunities presented through this site and other such venues to meet other people. It's really easy to stay at home and look at/chat/cam with people online, but we miss the great potential for real life connections with like-minded people.

For example, my husband and I have had many opportunities to chat with people on this site from all over the world and to occasionally meet couples and singles in our area. What we've found in speaking to so many people is that it's hard to find attractive like-minded folks. This is ludicrous, as we're all working with the same tools.

Granted, not every meeting ends in an "encounter," but you can't always know a person and whether you'll "click" by reading a few terse sentences in their profile. Trying to chat is also hit or miss, so I recommend going out and meeting people you find appealing. The best part of meeting people in real life is that you can feel that sexual tension building throughout your meeting. If things go well, what you do on your own time is your business...

At the risk of sounding promiscuous in several years, we've only met two people we knew were not going to go anywhere, a few people that didn’t end up so well…but, the encounters we’ve had with those who we clicked with were well worth the search, and leave us longing for more!

From the Minds of the Pootyhounds

iwant2lickuthere 55M  
3537 posts
5/13/2013 4:59 am

A very good point of view and catches the phrase at it's truest depth. Hopefully my girlfriend/lover is one that you long for again.

Become a member to create a blog