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I haven't decided how much effort I will invest into this site yet
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Posted:Jun 18, 2020 12:13 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2020 12:47 pm
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2:52 PM 6/18/2020
I don't really want start by 'introducing myself.' But that is kind of what I'm doing.
I had started writing a sort of blog over on POF, but I was just writing it on my profile page. I got annoyed with POF because I noticed it was ignoring my search criteria. I haven't done enough thorough testing on this site see if, or how badly, this site ignores my search criteria. I have read reviews of various dating websites, and some reviewers have complained that this or that site ignored your search criteria and just showed you whoever they wanted show you.
I don't know the character limit on these blogs here, but I've seen some pretty long ones, so I'll just go until I feel like stopping.
I have tried a couple different dating sites, briefly, over the . I hate all of them, and I end up leaving in disgust after being on it for only a short time, or setting my profile be invisible, and not bothering go back the site for and , only go back and see that the exact same guys are still there, with the exact same profile pictures. It wasn't the kind of site where you get results, and then leave the site and move on because you've solved your dating problem and don't need a dating site anymore.
I'm not sure how energetic I am actually write everything I hate about dating websites right now - I'm sick today and I'm not very mentally focused. I just sort of have snapped, as a result of not feeling well the last couple days, and felt like I needed to try looking for another real human being to direct my energies into.
I don't feel like putting up pictures at the moment. I might possibly put one up in the future. I've lived around the area for over twenty , and people can see my picture and instantly say, 'Oh! I know exactly who she is! She used work at XYZ, and I saw her every day!' Not only that, but I don't really like go out in public and feel as though people are staring at , thinking about the possibility of having sex.
It's not so bad if they merely recognized me from some place or another. But I don't really want my body be looked at as a potential sex object, by men I'm not attracted . Even when they're nice about it, or even when I am attracted them, I don't really like emphasize the idea that 'I am an attractive sex object.' I want emphasize more whether or not somebody is able communicate comfortably with in an interaction. That's much more important .
Not only that, but I have many flaws, and I'm not the most beautiful woman on earth, and I'm also not the ugliest. Again, it would just be much more productive focus on whether someone is able talk or not. And that's something that I know pretty quickly.
Maybe I will try testing the search function, and finding out whether it works the way I want it , or whether it does anything weird and ignores my criteria.
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This may function as a readable profile for non-upgraded people
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Posted:Jun 17, 2020 3:22 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2020 12:53 pm
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I'm just testing this at the moment. I haven't paid to upgrade anything, and I'm finding out what the site doesn't let you do if you don't upgrade. I can't look at profiles, but I can read blog posts. I would have to find the little tagline that appears by someone's name in the search results, and I would have to edit that to say 'look at my blog' or something like that.
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