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Posted:May 3, 2010 1:16 am
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i know its been a very long time and i have to apologize for not writing. things have been a bit hectic and busy both here at work and at home. things have not changed at home but in the family it has. my girl friend and hubbys ex, has moved here to live close to our and grand . and that just piss the old man off to know end. but i dont care. she needs her family and i am a part of that. but she is trying to start a new life here after having left another yet disasterous relationship with an alcoholic. he ended up in jail due to another dwi. she tried to make the relationship work but when she almost died of an intestional rupture and laid in the hospital for two weeks. all he could think of was his stuff. was it safe. and why didnt she call? she couldnt call she was out of it in the hospital then he told her she was selfish for not making sure he was supplied with his phone card so he could call. anyway to make a long long crappy story short. i want the man of her dreams to sweep her off her feet and give her the confidance and passion that she needs so much in her life right now. she is 60 and is a young 60.
she walks 2 miles a day and is very frugal with her spendings. she does smoke but wont smoke around others that do not. she loves wine but not too much. she likes the old fashoned manners like opening the doors and the pulling of the chair in a resturant. she hasnt been treated like a human much less like a lady in many years. she is kind and will do anything for anyone that is respectful to her. she is a good person and she is my best friend. so if any of you gentlemen that are single and you must me single please let me know and i can get you two together.
and yes she loves sex. long slow sensual sex. i wouldnt do this for just anyone but i want her to be happy.
keep safe you all
mystic.
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the gift
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Posted:Dec 29, 2009 2:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2011 9:06 am
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as you all know, i have been going through some tough emotional times this past year and i have shown that we are all alike in many ways as sexual beings. i wanted you all to see what happens to your spouse when you do things like drink too much or stray. and like you things in my relationship are nt the same as in the past, the passion is not as hot or even there.
i have done an experiment with my spouse to see if what i did would change the way he treats me.
i joked around with him, pinched and patted his butt kisses him on the cheek at unexpected moments, did little things for him. vethings you would do in your first year of marriage except for the sex, i didnt even nag about the drinking, it was all good, he was happier and we laughed more we got along but and the but is not good, no matter what i did he still had his way and drank. he did drink less and didnt even drink on christmas, and here is the but, the day after it was like it never happened. he started drinking around noon and i over looked it but then he had been stocking up and drank more. i was just glad that i went to work that night because the snoring was more than the cats could stand not to mention the smell. stale beer is not one of my favorite aromas and especially when on ones breath,
but that one night of not drinking was my gift he said, no kissing, no passion, some cuddling and a 8 min blow job for me which wasnt at all that good, i just wanted to go back to sleep. if you cant put an effort into it then dont do it,
anyway the experiment was to me a bust and a success it proved to me that iwas right all along, its not what i do or how i do it or what is involved i will always be the last on his list of things, i will always have to "get over it" and go on,
no matter how many times he said he loved me or loves me i will alway know that im not the love of his life when he has that beer in his hand i will never win an argument and he will never "get over it" with the affiar i had three years ago, the one he found out about. in his mind i will always be the or retarted bitch that fucked someone else even thou he offered himself to one of his female co workers that we stayed with while moving. i heard every word he said to her and he didnt even apologize for it the next day but i had to "get over it"
so my friends the gift i recieved was the knowledge that its not me that has failed in this marriage, i took a month to make a difference and it went back to the same old shit,
all i do now is pray for freedom to come my way without any drama. keep safe my friends and have a happy new year
xoxoxox
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what i want for christmas
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Posted:Dec 16, 2009 11:32 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2009 2:14 am
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i read a friends blog and his question was what if i could, wish for Christmas.
it didnt take long to think about. i want freedom. freedom to be myself, to choose what i want to eat (of couse i would have to make it myself) decorate the house the way i want it keep what i want go where i want and if i dont want to do i dont have to. have friends over (i really miss that) i use to have baking parties and movie nights with friends. make love when i want and not when he wants it( and thats not very often) i want to have my come over when ever they want and not feel like they are not welcomed, or have to go home. and to light candles, that is the most romantic thing, to make love with candle lidht dancing off of naked bodies that are intwined.
but to be the person that is deep inside of me that is loving and giveing and happy and sensual, that is the person that wants to be let out again. im getting old just keeping her inside.
i dont wish death on anyone i just want some freedom to be myself and to love with all my heart.
keep safe this holiday my dear friends.
smile at someone that is not smiling, say good morning to someone that is a stranger and smile like a with a pocket full of candy.
Merry Christmas xoxoxoxo
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Merry Christmas
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Posted:Dec 12, 2009 2:41 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2009 10:38 am
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well my lovely friends and readers, at this time of year i go through a kind of depression as most do but not because of the season, i love the season, its because i lost my father in dec 5 20 years ago and my late mothers birthday was on dec 14. i miss them both very much and i know they are still with me because i can, ever once in a while smell my fathers old spice and i can still hear my mothers laugh at times when im watching funny on the tv. but it goes to show that one day our will be missing us and then again maybe not.
we as parents have to give our something to remember. my father loved to go fishing and taught me alot about it even cleaning and cooking the fish over an open fire. i can do it really. and with mom it was baking her famous sticky pecan rolls that i know the secrete to the soft dough and the sticky sause that drizzles over it as you turn it upside down and pull off the pan. ooooooooooooooo baby. and the cookies. we have our family cookie that i have made a few improvements on that is out of this world people still talk about it at church and its been over 20 years.
like i said its time like these that our will remember in the long run.
i know im getting off the regular subject of lust and sex and passion but if you think about it, this is passion, a passion for our childrens memories and that look of love in their eyes when you take the time to share something of your past. and the way things are going now we need to teach them when we go camping on how to survive in the wide open spaces.
have you taught your what to do in case they are stuck in the snow? like carry a blanket and a candle with a holder and matches? that will keep them warm till help arrives. and to never run the car to keep warm especally if they are surrounded by snow. they could be efixeaited. ( you know what i mean). there is nothing like looseing a to something that could have been prevented but teaching them survival.
i have even gone as far as to fix them an emergancy kit with granola bars and chocolate and a few bottled waters, three candles with holders and waxed matches, fleece blankets and some extra thick socks just incase theirs get wet from trying to push the car out. and last but not least, a bag of cat litter. this not only adds weight for traction but if you have to use it to spread out in front of the tires to give traction. these things are taught and not common sence people.
give them some good ideas for them to pass down to their . keep them all safe this year.
well thats it for now, you all have a safe and wonderful
Christmas and remember the reason for the season and dont be afraid to say Merry Christmas its our right to say it. its called freedom of speech and religion.
dont let some ass hole tell you that its political incorrect to say it. and tell him to just remember his up bringing.
keep safe my lusty friends
Merry Christmas to all xoxoxoxo
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Posted:Nov 14, 2009 1:22 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2009 2:24 am
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i know this is kind of weird of me and let me tell you this whole year has been on the weird side but i am looking for someone for my (get this) my best friend and the hubbys exwife (see i told you it was weird)
she is a good hearted woman that has been through hell with the last boyfriend that treated her like property. she almost died this summer and was laid up in the hospital for over two weeks and he was in jail for drunk and dwi charges and all he could think of was where his stuff was. anyway to make a long story short i want her to meet a very nice person around 55-65 that will be a true gentleman to her and not ask for sex for awhile because of her surgery. but i would like to see if any one of you single men only single because she is really adimit about that. she loves to laugh, go to movies, out to dinner she likes the local wine. i will fix her hair and help her with her make up but really she is a beautiful person inside and out. she is 58 and had been brow beaten for a long time. she has told me herself tht she wouldnt know how to act on a date if she went out on one and wouldnt know know how to dress. she is a smoker but wont smoke around a non smoker unless she asks. she is polite and generous to a fault. she needs a companion for the moment untill she feels confident enough as a woman to let a man get close so if any of you all are out there and want to take it slow she is your gal let me know and we can make arrangements i want to thank you all in advence for those who answer. like i said she is my best friend after all these years and and all that has happened.
she is my sister in a way.
like i said i need a true gentleman that wants to take it slow and easy.
thanks again xoxoxo mystic
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Posted:Nov 7, 2009 5:41 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2009 2:25 am
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well my good people i cant see the profiles anymore for some reason. not even the older ones that i have been chatting with for ever.so bear with me and if you do write me please send your info and a pic thanks m
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Posted:Nov 6, 2009 1:23 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2009 1:40 am
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sorry i havent written in a long time but the mood was not with me and its hard to write when your heart isnt in it. i am surprised everyday at how many still read my blogs over and over again even tho i hadnt written. its good to know that all of you i consider friends and i know i havent been on here much activly but i have had some adjustments to keep the peace at home. not to mention all the extra things i have to do at work. you know you all need to do some traveling. the hotel business is slow and our group sales are down it would be nice to see something in my name for a change instead of all the uppity young ones that bring in revenew. they want me to work harder at it but hell i work nights who the hell am i going to get to sign up in the middle of the night? and even then they are too tired to hear my speele. all they want is a warm smile and a warm bed. and not much else lol but thats ok with me. im slowing down a bit but i guess its because im missing a certian special person that i have shared wonderful passion with. i just wish he lived closer. but anyway dont get me wrong i still have drive its just in nuetral at the moment.
i know i have written this before but it was in o8 and i want to revise a few things.
why we are here
there is not a person on god's green planet that does not need sex. even those that are gay or in the priest hood need sex. in the 16 and 17 centurys the catholic priests needed sex and would turn to the nuns for that. they were serving god in a special way and then things changed with the womans movement in the 1800. thats why you never hear of a being molested untill the early 1900 up to now. they didnt need too the nuns were there to help out. ok i got off on a tangent
but like i was saying we all need sex to be healthy for one and for the other to feel good about ourselves inside and out. our cheeks are rosy and our eyes twinkle and we feel better all over in every aspect. if i could just get the wives and girl friends to read this it would help you men out alot.
you see, we women we loose ourselves on our journey through life. like you, but we just ignor it till the are gone or we retire. then we are left with the empty nest syndrome.
we as women wear many hats we are daughters, wives,lovers, mothers, cab drivers, cooks, laundry people, maids and so on and so forth. did you see sex goddess in there? no you didnt because we dont thing of us that way. we have to learn to like ourselves all over again. throught the years we gain weight, work at home and at a job we dont have time to really cook a healthy meal we just eat out or bring it home. we dont spend time with the hubby because he is either watching tv or out in the garage or on the way home from work. we dont spend enough time talking positive about our future or the way we look.
we tell ourselves not to worry, that things will change in a few months or next year and then it never does.
my marriage hasnt changed its just that i have adjusted it to keep the peace and the suspiction off of me. dont get me wrong, i still love sex and the way it makes me feel, hell yeah, but i had to look at myself and change a few things or my way of thinking and that is the way for all of us is our way of thinking. we have grown lazy in coming up with ways to make our sex lives more interesting or passionate.
try to think of what you would do to spice up your existing relationship. and yes i know passion with someone else is at the top of my list for excitement, you betcha it is but and its not a big but. but like i said we women loose ourselve along the way and we need help to find us again. i started by writting an action story that turned out to be romance too. i had to learn how to write a sex scene because i hadnt had it in so long that i forgot. and that is the way it is for us we forgot how to be sensual.
and it goes for some men too. a good man is always taken advantage of and those are the ones that are the sexist to me.
and i am ashamed to admit it but i have taken advantage of a few good men in my life and God did it feel wonderful.
lol keep safe my wonderful men
and if i dont write anythng between now and the holidays
have a safe and sexy one xoxoxox
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an apologie to you men
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Posted:Aug 4, 2009 1:14 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2010 12:58 am
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i want to apologize to all of you men out there that have read my blogs and emails.
YOU are the reason we all want more out of life and i see now that there are passionate, understanding men out there that want just as much in a relationship as we women do. you also miss the tenderness that two people can share in the bedroom.
and for the longest time it had me wondering if it was just me that felt alone and used. but here i have found the most wonderful friends male and female that want so much more in our lives and to you i want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart. you have given me and a few other women out there some hope that we will find the right one that we will call our soul mate. and for being such wonderfully warm, sexy, and funny i have a story for you and this will be from one of my stories that i have written. so enjoy and know that i really enjoy talking to each and every one of you when i get the chance
keep safe and keep writing xoxoxo mystic
the trip was a long one and all he wanted to do was to check into the hotel and take a shower and get some rest. he called the hotel and told them that he would be late but to please hold the reservation. the woman on the other end was quite nice and jovial and was a pleasure to talk to. as a matter of fact you talked to her for the 40 minuets that it took to drive to the hotel. as you drove up you could see her in the window thinking that with a voice like that soft, sultry, intriguing. surly she is short and fat and a face like a bull dog. but as you drove by it was hard to see. so you parked the car and got your bags out and headed for the doors. there at the desk was a smiling face. to you she was very pretty but to herself she was just a plain jane. you again talked as she checked you in and she gave you the schpeel of the aminites of the hotel. as she handed you your key card your hands touched and you decided to do something you never did before, you kissed her hand and thanked her for keepping you awaked while driving. she blushed and had a very interesting look on her face that looked amost like she was flirting with you. you said good night and headed up to your room which was very nice. you stripped down and took your shower. you laid in the bed naked trying to relax but all you could do was to think about her. was she flirting or being coy? you tried to sleep but it was fitfull. so you got up and put on some shorts and went down to get something to drink.
you looked around to see if she was at the desk but she wasnt, so you looked around and saw that there were things out for tea and hot chocolate, maybe something hot would relax you. as you headed for the dinning room you saw that the kitchen door was open and you heard someone singing. it was her getting things ready for the next morning. as she was bringing out the breads she saw you and asked if things were ok and if she could help you. you said that you had trouble sleeping and thought maybe something hot would help. she put down the breads and went over to you and said that she would fix you something special and for you to sit down in the lobby and get comfy. youu did and she brought you a tea made with milk instead of water and it was pretty good. it was sweet and warm. she sat down beside you and asked about your day and made you feel very welcomed... as you talked you mentioned that your neck was a bit stiff and she offered to massage it for you it felt good, her hands were soft and knew just were to massage. but as she massaged your body responded in a different way and you had a very noticeable hard on trying to creap out of your shorts. you grabbed a pillow that was on the couch and covered it up but not before she saw how aroused it made you. you decided that you better head up to bed and thanked her for the tea and the massage and beat feet to your room. there in the safty of your own privacy you decided to fantisize about her. you started to massage your balls and your shaft thinking that it was her making you hard. just as you were about to really get into it you heard what you thought was the door opening. but it must be your imagination. you started again and this time you saw a figuar in the door. it was her. "you know i saw how aroused you were and since i havent had sex in a while i thought maybe you and i could fulfill a fantasy." she undressed and revealed a nice body. and as she took off her bra you were speechless. not too big and not too small. her nipples were large and very hard just wanting to be sucked and licked. she crawled in bed with you and you started kissing, her lips were soft and her tongue was slowing inviting you to join hers. your bodies were one in passion and in lust. she ran her tongue along the side of your neck giving you goosebumps and sucking on your earlobe. the feeling was incredible. then she started kissing her way down to your throbbing cock. takeing her tongue and tickeling the inside of your inner thigh next to your balls and making her way over to the other side, swirling her tongue over your balls and up the shaft. it sent shivers all through your body. then she licked up your shaft and under the head just the tip of her tongue and then flicking over the head blowing cool breath over the top as she went. you wanted to just cum right then but she wouldnt let you. again she teased your cock with her tongue making you almost cum again but this time she placed a condom on your cock and straddled her body over yours and slowly lowered her body on your throbbing shaft. her pussy was very wet and very tight she slid over you like a glove only stroking the head at first then one long thrust down. she loved the feeling of you being inside of her. with your hands on her hips you guided her to the rythem of your body. she could tighten her muscles inside of her and it was like being stroked from the inside. it was a feeling that was too awsum to describe in words. as she rode you, she grinded her clit in to your body so that she could feel that wonderful feeling of orgasm to build. it was then you could see and feel the tightening of her pussy. you couldnt stop this time it was all you could do to hold on to her. her fingers reached back and massaged your balls and that was it your let it all go and exploded. all you could see was speckes of colored lights in your head. she rode you till she came and milked you till you it was all gone. you both laid there for a moment like to puppets without strings. exhausted. in the morning when you awoke she was gone. maybe it was a dream maybe the warm milk tea worked.
as you got up to take a pee you looked down and there was the condome still on your cock it was full of cum and now you realized that it wasnt a dream.
you looked at the clock and saw that it was 8 am you hurried to get dressed to see if she was still there but as you opened the door you noticed a note onn the floor. " i hope everything was to your satisfaction and hope to see you again in the near future" signed with her intials and a smiley face.
after a shower you dressed and went down stairs. everyone was new and it was sad that you didnt get to say goodbye to her or at least had coffee with her.
just as you put your bag in the car a truck pulled up playing country music really loud and pulled up behind you.
you turned around and it was her. your heart was beating a mile a minuet.
you walked up to her and said good morning. she told you that she had a wonderful time and that she was also working tonight. you said you had to leave but would be back soon. she said that she would be looking forward to it and blew you a kiss and licked her lips. once again that feeling of tightness filled your pants. you drive carefully ok? she said as she put it in drive and drove away waving
you knew then that you had to make this a stop over as much as you possible could
happy trailes guys xoxox mystic
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why we need sex
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Posted:Jul 8, 2009 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2009 7:10 pm
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i was just now inspired to write this because i see that not to many of us know that sex had a greater part in our lives other than pleasure. its a well known fact that sex makes us alive and feel young but there is so much more to it than that. studies have shown that married couples that have sex well into the golden years are less likley to have alzhimers and parkensons and thats just the men for women our chances for strokes and heart attacks drop by 20 percent. also our symptoms of menopause are cut in half and instead of feeling bad and sweaty we get horney and want more. and its true. we need sex to keep healthy. have you noticed that when we have sex our well being and emotional health is leveled off? we feel on top of the world. our body language and our disposition is proof positive that all the chemicals that are released when we release keep our bodies
in tune with the way they are suppose to be. our bodies are like cars. we have to maintain them to keep them in good working order. and listen to this men, if you dont ejaculate at least once a week that semen will get stagnent and could cause testicular problems not to mention colon and penile disfunction, and urinary trac infections.
wow! i on a roll now. and get this you know how your joints hurt and you get tired more easily? well when you have sex and you orgasm, chemical are released into the joints to keep them lubed up. and the same for women.
but like i said before sex aint nothing unless you have the passion and love behind it to make it all happen the right way. its the way we treat each other and the touching and the kissing and all the forplay that builds up to get you to that everlasting point of no return. that heaven that we all seek with that special someone.
now a few of you may be skeptical so go to webmd or mens health.com and read away.
and to mention a few bennies that go with having more sex in your life is better outlook, clearer thinking, you smile a whole lot more, your hair will get darker and may even get thicker. but the best part is that your testosterone level will increase along with dhea which is important in mens health. with these levels raised in your system, your muscles tone will improve and your weight will go down to a level that is healthier for you. the results are outstanding when passion and sex is on a regular basis. so get going guys and gals. our young people know nothing about great sex and lets keep it that way lol
now go to your dr and make sure your testosteron levels are good and if not ask about a cream that will help out, not the pills the cream. and if you need some extra help, dont be embarrased to ask the doc for some pills that are right for you to get it up and going.
and as always, get in shape, you will see that once your weight is down and you start getting the eyes of the women, you will feel like a million bucks.
so what are you waiting for get going get out of that chair and go for a walk NOW MISTER lol keep safe all
xoxoxoxoxo
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wonderful people
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Posted:Jun 14, 2009 12:53 am
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2009 3:46 pm
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i am just flabbergasted at the total responce to my ranting and venting. you are all so sweet and wonderful to offer a sholder to cry on and moral support. thank you all of you, we have all been there one time or another and we were alone. i know that i am not alone.
i have all of you to sound off too and know that there is always someone there.
on a sad note. most of you know that i work at a hotel and last week was a sad one for me. one of our guest felt that he could no longer face a lonely and jobless life and committed suidcide here at the hotel. i had just talked with him for a bit in the morning along with two other guests. he got his coffee and went back to his room..i keep thinking that maybe if the others had not been there, maybe i could have talked to him more and he would have changed his mind. i know i have been there and by the graces of the man upstairs i was spared my stupidity and was given a chance to make a difference.
and yes i went down that road of wanting to end my life and tried to cut my wrists with a very sharp piece of broken glass. but as hard as i could press the glass did not cut my skin but just my finger tips. i felt so ashamed of myself that i promised God that i would not ever do it again. and that night i was told that i had a special purpose but i had to find that purpose myself. im not sure that i have found it but i think im on the right track. i guess its to enlighten those in need. to help where i can. but for the guest i was not able because of maybe of the others in the room.
i also want you to know that i am here for you too. you can vent to me and i will not judge. we are all on the same boat. thats why i stay on here it gives us all a chance to explore what might be. to be ourselfs if we want or to be the person we want to be. not the husband or the wife. not the caregiver or the father. but the passionate, loving and horney as hell people that we all cum to love. lol
keep safe my friends and thank you all again
xoxoxoxox mystic
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Posted:May 16, 2009 9:28 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 11:51 pm
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well here i am sitting the the darkest corner of the basement with my heart aching and my eyes all swolen from crying over all this crap. all i wanted was for him not to drink on my night off. is that too much to ask? just try to spend some time with me instead of a 16oz and three of its friends? i have not nagged him once in the past three weeks about his drinking to see if that would do any good i thought it had since he was talking about really quiting and getting our (his) lives on the right track but that was just another lie to keep me going a little while longer. give me a glimmer of hope only to pull it out from under me. then to top it off he went out to get more and when i confronted him with his own words i get called a cunt and told to suck his ass that im to blame for him not wanting to do anything with me after i hurt him from having an affair three years ago. the truth always comes out when he is drunk. im not a bad person but then again maybe i am. maybe i do deserve to be alone and miserable.
all the dreams i ever dreampt are now no more than a pipe dream, up in smoke.
i once had a dream to go out west and work on a working dude ranch to then someday beable to have one of my own.
i love the outdoors and working with horses and dogs and cats. go camping and cook out on the open range and show people a more simple but hard working way of life. i guess in a sence a cowgirl but one with strength and fanise. but most of all to have a man in my life that feels the same as i do and that i can work beside without arguement. to be a compliment to each other instead of oppenents. to feel in love every minuet of the day and to show that passion every night till the day we die. to make love way into the golden years. to have my heart skip a beat when i know he is around or hear is voice on the phone.
but like i said its only a dream. a lovely dream till reality rears its ugly head in my face with the smell of beer and bad breath.
Oh what i wouldnt give for a fairy god mother or father or just some wonderful soul to whisk me off my feet, pay the asshole off, and grant me my dream. but that would be wanting too much and there would be drawbacks. remember the old saying "be careful what you wish for" that would be my luck.
so now as im eating a huge bowl of icecream and blowing my diet can anyone of you tell me why i stay? why i keep putting myself in such a state of depression with a person that obviously keeps me hanging on to threads and cant go beyound my indiscretion but continues his? can you tell me why i still cling on to the hope that he will eventually stop drinking and be the man that i was once in love with? or why i punish myself in staying? is it because that i did hurt him and i feel guilty?
or is this a punishment from above because i broke the rule?
there are just so many whys that it makes me even wonder why im still here in earth. am i so low on the totem pole of life that i dont deserve happiness or someone that loves me for me?
why is it that i feel i need to help others when my life is in such a shamble? sorry to be in such a mood but if we were all together we would have a fire out back and shareing and laughing and crying together because that is what friends are for. right?
well for now all i wish for is a shoulder to cry on and a comforting hug and someone to just hold me till i fall asleep.
but since that aint going to happen ill just get a blanket, another bowl of chocolat icecream and well ill contemplate on that for now
keep safe my friends mystic
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sex and lots of it
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Posted:May 6, 2009 12:28 am
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2009 12:55 pm
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boy did that get your attention!!!!
i was going to call this one the research of men but i wanted you to read this lol
most of you know that i have a bit of in-site when it comes to problems of the heart and sexual interest.
for a while now (25year or so) i have been watching people and doing different things to see what the reaction would be. i work in the public as you know and i have the greatest opportunity to study both men and women in their natural habitat.
for example when i put the breads out like wheat bread, bagels, and english muffins and i lay them left to right, the people will take the ones on the right, if i lay them front to back they take the ones out of the middle it happens every time. and when men are away from home they like to flirt till they get a call from their wives. i was having a very nice conversation with one gentleman at the counter about the town and he was all happy and talkative till he got a call from the wife who proceeded to rant and rave over the phone about him being gone and the car pooped out or something but i could hear her. but as soon as he answered the phone his demeanor change to sullen and a bit embarrassed. and i felt bad for him. no wonder he is here in stead of there. and i can see why men and women want to have some fun while they are away. and i also know why so many of you read my blogs its because you don't hear the nagging or the condescending tones that you would hear if your wife or girl friend was saying it. words on paper are far better to read from someone that is bias than from your spouse. believe me i know. if someone told him how he treated me while he was drinking, I'm sure that he would think twice before buy more beer. but then again that person would have to be a true outsider and would have to be a constant factor in our lives like a neighbor. but regardless of the person, it is still far better to read than to hear and i know sometimes when i chat that i come across differently that what i am trying to say tone wise. so when I'm just being funny, ill put lol behind it or a smiley so that person will know that its a good thing instead of a bad thing. i know it sounds like I'm rambling but I'm trying not to. i know alot of you read my blogs and i really appreciate it. i thank you soooo much for giving me the chance to express myself and being a part of your lives and if i have helped you in anyway, then i feel blessed in knowing that i have given you in-site. keep safe my friends and with all this flu going around please cover your coughs and sneezes and wash your hands all the time or use a germ killing gel. i was sick at both ends the last two days and its not fun.
i know i know too much info lol
my love to all
mystic xxoxoxoxoxoxo
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