Why this site ????????
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Posted:Aug 24, 2012 8:13 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2012 7:36 am
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I'm on this site because I don't want a traditional relationship...because sex is healthy and fun in a relationship...but this site is filled with too many people (men) who get the wrong idea about things...and of course, this site promotes..."sign up and get laid tonight"...and there isn't anything wrong with casual sex...one night stands...different partners...but for me...it is about a certain amount of feelings for someone...truly friends...on going friendships...for me...great sex is being comfortable with someone...liking them enough to want to please them and in return be pleased...
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SOUL FOR SALE
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Posted:May 18, 2011 4:11 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2012 6:16 pm
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Who sets our standards...and for what purpose...to tame us? to socialize us so we "behave" in public? to sell us...cars...perfume...clothes...religion...each other? It just seems to me...we collective are continually being told we aren't good enough...and it is all in an effort to manipulate us into buying what they are selling...so why do we buy into it?
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NSA???
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Posted:Aug 22, 2010 7:50 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2012 7:36 am
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I don't think there is such a thing as "no strings sex" not for me anyway...I want to like the person I am having sex with...and I want to have some kind of relationship with them...not necessarily as life mates...but more than say a relationship I have with my hairdresser...wait I lived with a hairdresser...not a good analogy...hahaha...but you know what I mean...I don't mind strings...as long as they aren't too tight...or around my neck...
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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Hello There...
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Posted:Aug 12, 2010 9:29 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2012 6:16 pm
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I tend to want and keep people in my life who make me feel good about who I am...they mirror some of the qualities I admire and hope to possess...so is that why we like people because they see us the way we want to see ourselves...or maybe because they see the good in us and remind us of that...when we need a reminder...hahaha
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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Love Does Not Conquer All...
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Posted:Jul 25, 2010 9:23 am
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2011 7:59 am
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What I have learned the hard way mostly...like I learn everything...hahaha...Love does not conquer all...it makes you endure more...and when we love people...friends, lovers, our family...we want to make them happy if we can...but we all have our own demons...they come out of our fears...our past hurts...and some demons are bigger for some too...and as much as we love someone and want to help rid them of their demons...we can't...we all have to fight are own demons...we all have to conquer our demons...but some people don't fight them...they live with them...distract themselves from them...and how we choose to deal with our demons is all part of our own individual journey too...part of our life lessons...hard lesson for someone like me who is a romantic...I want to believe...love conquers all...but a relationship is only as strong as the weakest person in it...
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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Fathers...
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Posted:Jun 20, 2010 7:28 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2010 5:33 am
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Fathers are an important part of a 's development...their role is paramount to bring balance and to show by example what a man is suppose to be...strong, dependable, respectful,kind, loving, playful...both with them and with their mother...for all the wonderful fathers out there...HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!! Hope you have a wonderful day...
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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Mirror...Mirror...
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Posted:Jun 18, 2010 9:51 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 6:01 pm
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Are you concerned with your image? How other people see you? I have never much cared...really...or so I don't think I have...but don't we pick friends that sort of mirror who we think we are...people who mirror back our qualities...or qualities we wish to possess...even lovers...don't we want them to feel a certain way about us? Think of us in a certain way...But I believe it is important to be real at all times...not to pretend you are some one you are not...too much trouble anyway...hahaha...much easier to be yourself...
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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Crushed by a Crush...
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Posted:Jun 18, 2010 9:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2013 10:05 am
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As I get older...the men I meet for the most part are older as well...some very sensitive and loving men...but have closed off those feelings because they have been hurt severally over the years...but I can feel them...I know it is in there...but I can't reach it...and I hear "If I only knew you when I was younger." no longer willing to take the risk...no longer willing to trust again...sad for them really...and I understand how hard that is...when you have been crushed by your feelings...but isn't it better to have loved and lost...then never to have loved at all...and maybe...just maybe take some of the responsibility for those choices and be a little more aware the next time...I'm just sayin'...don't a lot of men pick women for all the wrong reasons...oh, women do it too...but if you pick someone who is unhealthy for you to start with...and all the red flags go up...and you proceed...it is at your own risk...and maybe that is what happens...you can no longer trust your own judgment...I understand that too...because I have been there as well...emotions are a mother...hahaha...
have a great weekend,
Moonfire
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Random Thought...
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Posted:Jun 6, 2010 9:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2011 6:25 am
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I still have people on my watch list that haven't blogged in years but haven't removed themselves off of Senior Sizzle either...and I don't remove them because I really liked them and I hope for their return...they were my blog buddies...one man in particular...was in England...very classy man with a naughty side...intelligient, insightful...all done with humor and kindness...because we never really conversed outside of blogland...I will never know what happened to him...he isn't unlike lots of folks I started out with that have all but disappeared...some say farewell...others just stop blogging...guess it is just the nature of blogs.
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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Land of the Lost Schedules...
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Posted:May 8, 2010 7:32 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2010 8:22 pm
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It has been a long enough period of me being home since I lost my job to begin to understand what it is like not to be on anyone else's schedule...it is all my time to do what I want...it is different then when I married and let myself be bullied into staying home...staying home seemed like a punishment then...it is a pleasure now...and my house never looked so good...hahaha...all those little things I wanted to do before but never seemed to have the energy when I worked everyday or the time to really get into it...I do now...and it is fun...I feel like I am on vacation...and maybe I am...
have a great weekend,
Moonfire
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Is your pants on fire?
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Posted:Apr 30, 2010 9:49 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2010 5:59 am
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okay...first I understand that this is a youth worshiping society and also, everyone ages differently but why lie about your age? at least be consistent if you do...if you state you are a certain age like 42...then match your b-day to that age so it doesn't show you are 48...or post a picture that is 10 years older than the age you are saying you are...or worse yet show up and be 10 years older than your posted picture...who are you fooling? and why? I earned every year and I'm not giving any back...hahaha...if someone wants me young and dumb...their problem...hahaha. I don't believe it is so much an age anyway...as an attitude...and I have plenty of that...hahaha
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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The Real Thing...
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Posted:Apr 20, 2010 6:30 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2010 11:22 am
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This was the Daily OM yesterday...too good not to share
The Real Thing
Love Should Feel Good
Love should feel good. Relationships that leave you feeling depleted, sad and making excuses are not based in love.
Often in our lives, we fall prey to the idea of a thing rather than actually experiencing the thing itself. We see this at play in our love lives and in the love lives of our friends, our family, and even fictional characters. The conceptualizing, depiction, and pursuit of true love are multimillion-dollar industries in the modern world. However, very little of what is offered actually leads us to an authentic experience of love. Moreover, as we grasp for what we think we want and fail to find it, we may suffer and bring suffering to others. When this is the case, when we suffer more than we feel healed, we can be fairly certain that what we have found is not love but something else.
When we feel anxious, excited, nervous, and thrilled, we are probably experiencing romance, not love. Romance can be a lot of fun as long as we do not try to make too much of it. If we try to make more of it than it is, the romance then becomes painful. Romance may lead to love, but it may also fade without blossoming into anything more than a flirtation. If we cling to it and try to make it more, we might find ourselves pining for a fantasy, or worse, stuck in a relationship that was never meant to last.
Real love is identifiable by the way it makes us feel. Love should feel good. There is a peaceful quality to an authentic experience of love that penetrates to our core, touching a part of ourselves that has always been there. True love activates this inner being, filling us with warmth and light. An authentic experience of love does not ask us to look a certain way, drive a certain car, or have a certain job. It takes us as we are, no changes required. When people truly love us, their love for us awakens our love for ourselves. They remind us that what we seek outside of ourselves is a mirror image of the lover within. In this way, true love never makes us feel needy or lacking or anxious. Instead, true love empowers us with its implicit message that we are, always have been, and always will be, made of love.
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F **k me like you mean it...hahaha
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Posted:Apr 9, 2010 6:50 am
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2012 11:29 pm
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I'm sorry it seems of late, I have been in sort of bitch mode...but it isn't so much that...as I have had more time to make observations...not working helped slow my pace down...so here's one now...hahaha...when I signed in this morning to Senior Sizzle...I was sent to my home page...since I would be looking for guys...they show all these pictures of male members...exactly...hahaha...but it dawned on me...that this site somehow desensitizes us to sex...almost takes the emotion out of it...lowering it to a base animalistic level...void of emotion...but for me it is best when you are comfortable with someone enough to be however you want to be...soft and sensual or hard and rough...it is the relaxed and safe feeling of being with that person...someone you can enjoy out of the bedroom too... because there is a before and an afterward...not just doing it like a or worse a rabbit...hahaha...on/off...I think for a lot of men on this site and a few women that might be the ideal situation...That's why I like the blogs...there are "inside" people here...people who let you see inside them...okay..enough of this...time to go paint my cabinets...Enjoy your Friday...
kind thoughts,
Moonfire
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