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Question for ladies about being in public  

me_lonely37 51M
26 posts
6/11/2021 9:55 am
Question for ladies about being in public


There is a nice looking lady I see where I ride my bike, I recognize her from this site, she has a tat.
She is always alone and walking when I see her, like me she is married.
Is it okay for me to stop and chat with her, do I let her know I recognize her from the site?

me_lonely37 51M
116 posts
6/11/2021 9:55 am

what to do?


lust4life59 62F
1805 posts
6/11/2021 10:43 am

I was confronted a couple of weeks ago, recognized at the grocery store. It wasn't an unpleasant experience, in fact the young gentleman was quite nice, and we chatted for a few minutes. I did rush home though and immediately hid all my face pictures, realized if he recognized me, no telling how many others have and it might have not been as pleasant had they appoached me. It's actually kind of disconcerting to realize there are several local people I am am likely to run across every day, and that while they could recognize me, due to their lack of facial pictures, I would never recognize them.

The usual protocol, as least from what I understand is to never approach someone except through the site. Is there any way you can contact her through here? Points for IM perhaps? Does she have a blog?


Tmptrzz 58F
96794 posts
6/11/2021 11:01 am

You know that's a tough one there, strike up a conversation but let her mention the site before you say you know she is a member here.


Starsearch1965 55M
1609 posts
6/11/2021 11:40 am

I had a member recognize we talked all went good now we talk regularly


lookin4funMOIL 58M/59F  
447 posts
6/11/2021 11:55 am

if they see us on here there doing the same thing we are doing on here so we dont care if they see us or not


countryqueen1 71F
35 posts
6/11/2021 12:08 pm

I agree with Lust4life. Do not approach her in public. I can't even imagine how awkward and disconcerting it would be to be approached out of the blue in public by someone from this site. If you want to send her a message and explain the situation at least you give her the opportunity of refusing without personal contact


Luv2bottom4u2 64M  
1644 posts
6/11/2021 2:00 pm

I say be polite and yes let them know. Never know where it could lead too ! I did it once to someone I knew that came onto this site. It worked out shortly later to { What you doing this weekend } ? It ended up I was doing them !


ltrskr 73M  
4771 posts
6/11/2021 2:11 pm

Just stop and ask her directions to the Holiday Inn.......LOL!


BiggLala 49F  
29743 posts
6/11/2021 5:45 pm

I never understand posts like these. What is the big deal? I wouldn't say there is a problem striking up a conversation with her. Do you normally strike up general conversations with people while you're out and about? If so...do THAT...be general.

do I let her know I recognize her from the site
-I don't know what purpose it would serve to let her know right away that you know she's on the site. Clearly, you don't want people knowing you're on here, so why out someone right away, and in public? Save the "I know you from that sex site," revelation. I mean...can that topic of conversation not wait until (or IF) you get better acquainted?

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BiggLala 49F  
29743 posts
6/11/2021 5:48 pm

    Quoting Luv2bottom4u2:
    I say be polite and yes let them know. Never know where it could lead too ! I did it once to someone I knew that came onto this site. It worked out shortly later to { What you doing this weekend } ? It ended up I was doing them !
Was that someone man or woman? I only ask because your profile indicates you have sex with men. Nothing wrong with that, but remember he's talking about approaching a woman so what worked for you might not work for him IF your example refers to a man.

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author51 58F  
115999 posts
6/11/2021 10:01 pm

    Quoting countryqueen1:
    I agree with Lust4life. Do not approach her in public. I can't even imagine how awkward and disconcerting it would be to be approached out of the blue in public by someone from this site. If you want to send her a message and explain the situation at least you give her the opportunity of refusing without personal contact
I agree with Country Queen here on this one.. Let her know through messaging her first before talking to her in public about it...

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rickfire22 64M  
28 posts
6/11/2021 10:23 pm

I think I would let them know so it isn't a suprise later. Besides, like someone said, it might work out.


agelesssexylegs 78F
600 posts
6/12/2021 12:07 am

Well talk to her but do not mention you saw her on this site,unless she brings it up


melrosecpl 62M/60F
471 posts
6/12/2021 12:47 am

We've seen people from Senior Sizzle from our area. We didn't make contact and they didn't seem like they recognized us.


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