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mc_justmc 60M
2017 posts
6/18/2020 4:50 pm
Passionate Kisses

Nothing is harder to do in a relationship than the 1st kiss, but nothing gets things rolling like the 1st kiss. Most of the time you may feel like you know if they want you, but there's still that little voice in the back of your mind telling you he/she "just wants to be friends". You never really know until you get that 1st kiss and that 1st kiss can tell you everything you need to know.

Setting up "the move" can be difficult and is different in every situation. Gone are the days of being young and drunk and just plowing full steam ahead. That approach worked with almost any woman that ever left a bar with me and often the 1st kiss was "in" the bar. Nothing worked better than a slow dance in a country western bar and leaning in and biting her earlobe. That always turned into an "oral meet 'n greet".

Alcohol aside, I always found another good approach was when the conversation stopped and that awkward silence moment appeared. It's either time to kiss or time to go home. I've been fortunate that most of the women that sat for conversations with me were willing to take it farther, not always, but most of the time. One of the most surprising moves I've ever been involved in didn't start with me.

I was set up on a blind date with the sister-in-law of a good friend of mine some years back. Early in the evening I was getting a very strong "friend" vibe from this woman which really relaxed me and let me enjoy the evening for what it was, a nice dinner with a new friend. The evening ended with a hug. yawn.

A few days later she texted me to see if I wanted to hang out, I said sure assuming she liked the very expensive weed I had and I enjoyed her company, so she came to my house. We got high and she was trying to enlighten me on some "new" music that she liked to listen to when she rubbed her eyes and asked if I would mind if she killed the overhead light. I didn't mind, I'd only turned it on to make her feel comfortable. She jumped up and walked behind me to turn it off and as she walked back she grabbed my head and practically performed a tongue tonsillectomy on me. I never saw it coming but surrendered to it like the man- that I am.

I've had very few women initiate the 1st kiss but I've always appreciated them. I totally support a woman's right to make the 1st move. It makes things so much easier.
Do you have a "signature" move to get things going? Have any of you women made the 1st move? Do you have an interesting 1st kiss tale?




mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/18/2020 4:59 pm

Gimme a happym; K, Gimme a happym; I, Gimme a happym; S, Gimme another happym; S
What does that spell?????? SUCK IT


secret_lade 46F
3977 posts
6/18/2020 5:45 pm

I usually wait for the guy to make the first move.... But I'm a willing recipient.


Paulxx001 63M
16737 posts
6/18/2020 6:10 pm

OOooo... I like her style... lol Nice!
It's been a while since I had to think about that ' first' one. I think they just evolved - naturally? I would usually make the first move.


superbjversion2 65F
20315 posts
6/18/2020 7:14 pm

Good kissing is my kryptonite. I usually don't make the first physical move but once that ice is broken - watch out!

Sex is to Fun as Square is to Rectangle


positively4you 70F  
3955 posts
6/18/2020 7:37 pm

I am too shy. I would have to be really hammered.


redrockrascal 61M
21613 posts
6/18/2020 8:00 pm

Do you have a "signature" move to get things going? I guess its kind of a "move". When that awkward silence moment happens I'll lean in a bit. If she leans then smooooooochhhh

Have any of you women made the 1st move? Since I've been here on first dates I've kinda consciously not made the 1st move. Most of the time I've been fairly surprised at what happened.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


LadyLuck2 63F  
8826 posts
6/18/2020 9:53 pm

I've initiated 1st kisses just as a way of breaking the ice. I might as well find out upfront how much I might be interested and get an idea as to just how long the date will last. LOL
Since your topic is kissing, I want to tell a cute true story. I had just started dating a man romantically after we had had a few casual dinners together with no romantic talk. We spent about an hour or so in his car making out that night.A couple of hours later, I hear a knock on my door and it is him. He hands me a rose and has bandaids on his lips as a joke. I laughed! It was a cute gesture!

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


author51 57F  
96518 posts
6/19/2020 12:45 am

I love to kiss and be kissed back.I have made the first move a lot over the years.For me it starts with a touch first and than I take it from there..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


jajo696 65F
2232 posts
6/19/2020 1:41 am

I met a person for a first meet at lunch at a place halfway for both of us..it was a nice leisurely lunch...just getting to know each other. After, we went to his car to talk....and when we said our goodbyes...he pulled me in for a kiss. It was after that moment.....he says he knew ....that finalized that he wanted to see me again. I still remember that moment too....and felt the same way.

nope...i dont have a signature move. In fact, i dont have any moves....lol. A pretty basic woman here. Definitely too shy to make the first move with a stranger....after we know each other.....im good !~~


sexyldy1000 59F  
6471 posts
6/19/2020 4:32 am

Without a doubt, my biggest turn-on is sensual, passionate kissing. Some might say, I am a snob about it. Everything is determined by the first one. If it doesn’t go well, nothing more will happen. I don’t usually make the first move but certainly will after that amazing first one 😊

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens 😊
Here Is What I Believe


smartasswoman 62F  
33178 posts
6/19/2020 11:09 am

A little bit (or a lot) of alcohol definitely makes that first move easier. I for one feel there is nothing wrong with chemically loosening one's inhibitions.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:23 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    I usually wait for the guy to make the first move.... But I'm a willing recipient.
Good to know, good to ..... I'm making notes here...


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:24 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    OOooo... I like her style... lol Nice!
    It's been a while since I had to think about that ' first' one. I think they just evolved - naturally? I would usually make the first move.

It was nice and very unexpected. I had written off any chance with her.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:27 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Good kissing is my kryptonite. I usually don't make the first physical move but once that ice is broken - watch out!
I think a lot of women feel that way and I would prefer to NOT hafta make that 1st move, but somebody has gotta do it.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:28 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I am too shy. I would have to be really hammered.
Hammered? I'm sure that can be arranged!


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:30 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Do you have a "signature" move to get things going? I guess its kind of a "move". When that awkward silence moment happens I'll lean in a bit. If she leans then smooooooochhhh

    Have any of you women made the 1st move? Since I've been here on first dates I've kinda consciously not made the 1st move. Most of the time I've been fairly surprised at what happened.
It's always nice to be surprised, besides there's a difference between a woman accepting a kiss and a woman going after a kiss.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:37 pm

    Quoting LadyLuck2:
    I've initiated 1st kisses just as a way of breaking the ice. I might as well find out upfront how much I might be interested and get an idea as to just how long the date will last. LOL
    Since your topic is kissing, I want to tell a cute true story. I had just started dating a man romantically after we had had a few casual dinners together with no romantic talk. We spent about an hour or so in his car making out that night.A couple of hours later, I hear a knock on my door and it is him. He hands me a rose and has bandaids on his lips as a joke. I laughed! It was a cute gesture!
When I 1st met my 2nd wife I gave her whisker burns so badly that her face was red for days. Her mother, who I worked with told me I needed to buy better razors or get off of her daughter.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:40 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I love to kiss and be kissed back.I have made the first move a lot over the years.For me it starts with a touch first and than I take it from there..
It can be hard to put yourself out there for that 1st kiss, right?


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:44 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    I met a person for a first meet at lunch at a place halfway for both of us..it was a nice leisurely lunch...just getting to know each other. After, we went to his car to talk....and when we said our goodbyes...he pulled me in for a kiss. It was after that moment.....he says he knew ....that finalized that he wanted to see me again. I still remember that moment too....and felt the same way.

    nope...i dont have a signature move. In fact, i dont have any moves....lol. A pretty basic woman here. Definitely too shy to make the first move with a stranger....after we know each other.....im good !~~
Being a guy, we hafta have a move, otherwise it may never happen. That feeling after that 1st kiss can be magical, if it went well, it opens up the mind to all kinds of possibilities.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:47 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Without a doubt, my biggest turn-on is sensual, passionate kissing. Some might say, I am a snob about it. Everything is determined by the first one. If it doesn’t go well, nothing more will happen. I don’t usually make the first move but certainly will after that amazing first one 😊
I think it is the most personal thing 2 people can do, and can really get the juices flowing.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/19/2020 2:53 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    A little bit (or a lot) of alcohol definitely makes that first move easier. I for one feel there is nothing wrong with chemically loosening one's inhibitions.
I agree, it kind of makes me sad that those days of hanging out at the bar are over for me, but I remember the "old dudes" that hung out at the bar. I'm not gonna be that "old guy", besides I don't have the brain cells for that.


lindoboy100 57M
21641 posts
6/21/2020 6:31 am

Aye McMc, that first snog is the make or break one.

I remember not so long ago going in for the first kiss and, well, noses bumped and teeth clacked...........let's just say that the second date never happened!

But I also remember that time when the girl dropped everything she was holding and threw her arms and legs around me......happy daze!!

Pull ma finger.........


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/21/2020 9:02 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Aye McMc, that first snog is the make or break one.

    I remember not so long ago going in for the first kiss and, well, noses bumped and teeth clacked...........let's just say that the second date never happened!

    But I also remember that time when the girl dropped everything she was holding and threw her arms and legs around me......happy daze!!
I've never had one where she dropped everything, much less wrapped her arms and legs around me. Now we're talking a woman, not an octopus, right?


lindoboy100 57M
21641 posts
6/21/2020 9:39 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've never had one where she dropped everything, much less wrapped her arms and legs around me. Now we're talking a woman, not an octopus, right?


Aye McMc, long slimy arms and lips that would give ye a bruise!!

Pull ma finger.........


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/21/2020 12:12 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:


    Aye McMc, long slimy arms and lips that would give ye a bruise!!
The other would be memorable.


luciegirl2 51F  
507 posts
6/25/2020 12:32 pm

Kiss? whats that?? Mc its been such a long time I forgot how to do it!! But I usually waited for him to initiate


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/25/2020 2:50 pm

    Quoting luciegirl2:
    Kiss? whats that?? Mc its been such a long time I forgot how to do it!! But I usually waited for him to initiate
Hmmmmmmmm maybe I can remind you......


TicklePlease 52F  
12785 posts
6/25/2020 5:33 pm

omg I'm crying laughing at that meme!!!!!

Now I'm afraid I'm going to bust up laughing if I ever kiss anyone again, thanks to that!


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
6/25/2020 7:37 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    omg I'm crying laughing at that meme!!!!!

    Now I'm afraid I'm going to bust up laughing if I ever kiss anyone again, thanks to that!
yeah uhhhmmmmm, just don't think about that "kissing" tool. happym;


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