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It's A Beautiful Day In The Neighborhood...  

mc_justmc 60M
2017 posts
7/23/2020 4:42 pm
It's A Beautiful Day In The Neighborhood...

...a beautiful day for a neighbor
would you be mine?
could you be mine?

Nice profile, I really wish you were my neighbor...

that's all I can read of the message in my inbox, because I haven't renewed my gold membership, yet. I'm waiting for the price t.o come down. But I can still hover over the pic and get a preview. 42 yr male. Dick pic for his profile. Wait, it gets better. Actually, it's a orange condomed dick stuck up the hairy ass of another guy. Be still my heart...... in Fremont, Ca, fourteen hundred + miles away, thank God.

I don't know why, but my whole life I've had dudes hit on me. Sixteen yrs o.l.d in downtown Dallas I'm sitting at a red light and a car pulls up next to me. Dude motions for me to roll down the window. I do, and he asks me if I want a blow job. I roll up the window and drive through the red light. Hitch hiking home after spending an evening in the city jail for unpaid traffic tickets, I was lucky enough to be picked up by a plumber who was between jobs and had some time to kill and offered to drive me home. After a mile or so he asked if he could suck my dick. I said no thank you. He continued. I politely refused. This continued until we caught a red light where I informed him that "this" was home, thanks for the ride, and jumped out and walked the last few miles.

So, you girls, when your posting about the guys messaging you from halfway across the country, or right there in your hometown, and there going on and on and won't take "No" for an answer, I know how how you feel. If that dude in Fremont, Ca was my neighbor, I would move.

So my question today is: Has this happened to YOU? Do members of YOUR sex try to persuade you to switch sides?




mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/23/2020 4:48 pm

Now I want that "gold" membership even more so I can tell the dude to "kindly fuck off"!


CharlesD6996 50M
263 posts
7/23/2020 4:56 pm

I've only had one or two flirts from men. They were insta-blocked. What puzzles me is when you check out someone's profile and they've stated that they are straight, but are looking for someone of the same sex. I guess it's the new definition of straight, though I truly hope not. Else my ban hammer is going to get a hell of a workout.

All the best,

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superbjversion2 65F
20315 posts
7/23/2020 5:23 pm

I've only been hit on here by a woman, once or twice. Politely approached. Politely declined. Accepted with no drama.

I can just imagine the Texas gay community wondering, "Why are all the cute guys straight?!"

Sex is to Fun as Square is to Rectangle


sexyldy1000 59F  
6471 posts
7/23/2020 5:24 pm

I have been contacted on here by females. When I politely remind them that I am straight, they leave me alone. In college, I had no idea, a good friend was 'in the closet'. When she told me, we went out for a drink at a bar she liked to go to. Now that was an interesting experience

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mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/23/2020 5:44 pm

    Quoting CharlesD6996:
    I've only had one or two flirts from men. They were insta-blocked. What puzzles me is when you check out someone's profile and they've stated that they are straight, but are looking for someone of the same sex. I guess it's the new definition of straight, though I truly hope not. Else my ban hammer is going to get a hell of a workout.
there was a blogger here for years that blogged about wanting to suck a straight guy's dick. He argued that sucking a dick didn't make you bi or gay and allowing someone to do it to you also did not make you bi or gay. He got a lot of comments, people arguing with him, mostly.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/23/2020 5:47 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I've only been hit on here by a woman, once or twice. Politely approached. Politely declined. Accepted with no drama.

    I can just imagine the Texas gay community wondering, "Why are all the cute guys straight?!"
that's all I want, accept my refusal and move on. "thanks, but no"


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/23/2020 5:49 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I have been contacted on here by females. When I politely remind them that I am straight, they leave me alone. In college, I had no idea, a good friend was 'in the closet'. When she told me, we went out for a drink at a bar she liked to go to. Now that was an interesting experience
that's nice that the girls accept it without incident. these guys go on and on and...... well, I'm sure you are well aware.


secret_lade 46F
3977 posts
7/23/2020 6:06 pm

No, apparently women don't find me attractive. I can't recall ever really being hit on by a woman.


lindoboy100 57M
21641 posts
7/23/2020 6:20 pm

Now I'm guessing that Fremont CA is the new top of your list in your house-hunting endeavour McMc??!!

Aye, it's happened to me a fair few times here and in real life. Cheese, my driving instructor made a pass at me when I was 17yo. I don't mind it at all, been around gay people all my life. Here, hey, I wear a skirt, and it's just people trying to get the leg over, fairly normal activity for humans. I usually say they're not my type and politely decline, then wish them well in their search. I think I only ever had one response from that which was perfectly pleasant. Otherwise, the guys just disappear, and that's fine. (Far better than the abuse the ladies hereabouts are subjected to from guys they reject.)

My funniest ever experience was in a gay bar in latin america, my girl pal and her partner who are gay took me and my ex in for a beer. I've never seen so many guys primp and preen and basically climb over themselves to get to the tall white guy ( hey, in latin america I'm very tall!! ) with the three fag hags' as they were called back then (I hope that's not offensive to anyone, it was just a name back then.) Ended up having a really good night, a guid auld swallae - man, that bottle of Patron was battered that night - and I even taught some of the guys some salsa moves with them as the 'lady' partner. Happy days, I'll add hesitatingly that we danced the night away with gay abandon!!

Ye've just got to laugh it off and take it as a compliment McMc.

Pull ma finger.........


pagancountrygirl 62F
5256 posts
7/23/2020 6:30 pm

I've received a few messages from "couples"...although I suspect it was probably just the man. I declined the offers. I've received an email from a woman but I declined her as well. All of them have been blocked. It's easier to just block than to have someone try to argue their case for why I should change my mind...or to receive hateful replies from them.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/23/2020 6:35 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    No, apparently women don't find me attractive. I can't recall ever really being hit on by a woman.
I can tell you this, if you're not into it, there is no thrill.


redrockrascal 61M
21613 posts
7/23/2020 7:37 pm

I've had a few guys hotlist me here. No indication on my profile that I would be interested. I blocked them. End of story.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/24/2020 3:33 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Now I'm guessing that Fremont CA is the new top of your list in your house-hunting endeavour McMc??!!

    Aye, it's happened to me a fair few times here and in real life. Cheese, my driving instructor made a pass at me when I was 17yo. I don't mind it at all, been around gay people all my life. Here, hey, I wear a skirt, and it's just people trying to get the leg over, fairly normal activity for humans. I usually say they're not my type and politely decline, then wish them well in their search. I think I only ever had one response from that which was perfectly pleasant. Otherwise, the guys just disappear, and that's fine. (Far better than the abuse the ladies hereabouts are subjected to from guys they reject.)

    My funniest ever experience was in a gay bar in latin america, my girl pal and her partner who are gay took me and my ex in for a beer. I've never seen so many guys primp and preen and basically climb over themselves to get to the tall white guy ( hey, in latin america I'm very tall!! ) with the three fag hags' as they were called back then (I hope that's not offensive to anyone, it was just a name back then.) Ended up having a really good night, a guid auld swallae - man, that bottle of Patron was battered that night - and I even taught some of the guys some salsa moves with them as the 'lady' partner. Happy days, I'll add hesitatingly that we danced the night away with gay abandon!!

    Ye've just got to laugh it off and take it as a compliment McMc.
The last time it happened face to face the Ex and I were walking in downtown SA and a black guy walking the other way said,"Oh yeaaaah, just look at yo fine self". It took a second before I realized he was talking about me. That was a running joke around the house for a while.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/24/2020 3:35 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I've had a few guys hotlist me here. No indication on my profile that I would be interested. I blocked them. End of story.
right? I've got nothing that says I'm interested in men, why do they assume?


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/24/2020 3:36 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    I've received a few messages from "couples"...although I suspect it was probably just the man. I declined the offers. I've received an email from a woman but I declined her as well. All of them have been blocked. It's easier to just block than to have someone try to argue their case for why I should change my mind...or to receive hateful replies from them.
Yes, I agree. No matter how nice you say "no", the response is often bad.


smartasswoman 62F  
33178 posts
7/24/2020 2:56 pm

Since I am heteroflexible leaning toward bi, being hit on by a woman would not necessarily be unwelcome, but it's been quite rare.

There is my friend MM who has been very encouraging of those tendencies, but I know she would have backed off immediately if I gave any indication of not being interested.


Paulxx001 63M
16737 posts
7/24/2020 3:12 pm

I get the periodic inquiry.
Used to be more frequent when I first got on board.
In real life it's happened a couple times. Without a happy ending.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/24/2020 3:58 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Since I am heteroflexible leaning toward bi, being hit on by a woman would not necessarily be unwelcome, but it's been quite rare.

    There is my friend MM who has been very encouraging of those tendencies, but I know she would have backed off immediately if I gave any indication of not being interested.
It's nice that she respects how you feel. Some of these guys only think how their junk feels in their hands when they're messaging you.


mc_justmc 60M
6315 posts
7/24/2020 4:08 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I get the periodic inquiry.
    Used to be more frequent when I first got on board.
    In real life it's happened a couple times. Without a happy ending.
with dudes it's never a happy ending. they are so clingy and don't take no for an answer.


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