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Just saying what I feel..  

irishmale5150 53M
9 posts
9/2/2021 8:58 am

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10/2/2021 10:23 am

Just saying what I feel..

Ok, I may get some mixed reactions and I will read them and answer them accordingly. I have posted several blogs with the point blank honest truth about what I want. It really is not that hard to try it if you actually have enough of a willingness to try. What is really so hard is to find a female, who is actually willing to meet for some fun, maybe some casual out of the bedroom fun ( Sometimes ) and have it be as casual as it would be as you think it should be? This place where this is being posted is primarily a sex based site, that is the point of this. We all have needs. Let now waste what time we have on earth by making it more difficult but making people jump through hoops to actually meet someone face to face..

If you don't ever see yourself actually meeting someone ( now that a lot of the people out here have had their shots ), then why are you here then? Why waste that time talking? Someone people spend weeks, months, even years on these sites to never meet? Also, a big issue I have is that people who actually talk, make it hard because of the fact that they are so stuck on seeing a picture, it becomes frustrating due to the fact that someone's looks should NOT be a deciding factor. Everyone has what they claim is their "type"... How about the type being where both people want the same thing actually stop the<b> games </font></b>and meet?? Yes, there is frustration here, but it is honest.. Ok let's see what type of responses happen....

13129 posts
9/2/2021 11:16 am

" the fact that someone's looks should NOT be a deciding factor. "

No it shouldn't, but we're highly visual creatures.
And it drives the hookup-site fantasy that appeals to so many.
But not me *smirk*

irishmale5150 replies on 9/3/2021 7:05 am:
Thank you for your response. Yes, we can say that having a visual of a person is always nice. But What I was saying was that, a lot of people get so tied up to having to see a pic to see if they will move forward is kind of childish in my view.. If everyone got tied up on looks, no one would ever get together.. People can adapt to a persons looks in time..

positively4you 73F  
4605 posts
9/2/2021 12:47 pm

You call it looks. I call it appeal. Yes, it does matter. I am no gargoyle. Yet, sure I am not every man’s appeal. Just as some are not mine. I cant respond to no appeal. Even if he is physically hot, if he is a jerk, I cant go there. I bet most men cant get past some things in a woman. Unless drunk or drugged or paid.

irishmale5150 replies on 9/3/2021 7:07 am:
Thank you for your response.. I do not think that everyone is that way.. But even if I was not able to see your pic, I would still meet with you ( just saying ) I do not make my choices over someone's looks ( appeal ), I value them for who they are and if we have the same needs.

Brownie202 65F  
2680 posts
9/2/2021 1:14 pm

If you look into it you will see that this site is for other things besides sex. Those not meeting can be here. For cams and or cyber and or chat rooms. Looks are important to some. Don't have to like it but how it goes. Myself I was into kink. If I was meeting and the man wasn't why meet him when I would not get what I want?

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

irishmale5150 replies on 9/3/2021 7:09 am:
Thank you for the response.. I do know that there are other reasons why people use this site, but I believe that main reason is for the sexual meetings. Everyone has their needs, why not get those needs taken care of?

TicklePlease 54F  
13851 posts
9/2/2021 4:40 pm

If you want to meet people who don't care if they see what you look like ahead of time, there's adult bookstores and pay-to-play women. No real woman looking for sex for her pleasure is going to meet a man without seeing a picture of him first! Don't be foolish, all women know that if a man won't share a picture, there's something wrong with him!

irishmale5150 replies on 9/3/2021 7:14 am:
Thank you for responding. Well who really wants a P2P woman? If that were the case, I just go find a hooker... wait that is the same.. lol Well it maybe true for some, not all. We all have needs. It only for me is not being or thinking foolishly, it is just need a requirement to meeting someone one. Your point of view saying that if a man does not show a pic , there must be something wrong with him is only valid in some people's world. For me, it is about safety, I experienced a female stalker ( yes a female ) and needless to say, it was pretty bad. So bad that I had to change jobs.. Now with that being said, what is wrong to wanting to meet and going for it? If it is meant to be, people takes someone's looks and get used to them in time..

seems6666 52F
4838 posts
9/3/2021 8:41 am

I KNEW the girls would love this one 😂. What you are basically saying is that you don't look at the mantelpiece when you're stoking the fire! Is it just about the pussy for you! You're not worried about looks because you won't be looking at her face?
Sorry to hear about the stalker. That is bad news. But one bad experience should not dictate your life. If it does. Then she has won.
I personally wouldn't meet without a face pic . There has to be an initial attraction.

irishmale5150 53M
115 posts
9/8/2021 8:49 am

Thank you for your response. What I mean but it not being about looks is that everyone ( or at least a large percentage of others ) get so caught up with ( is she or he hot? ) . Should a persons looks dictate if you will meet them? For some, that is true.. I just do not believe that a person looks should be a deal breaker , that is all I saying.. as far as what you said about looking at her face.. Yes, that will happen depending on the position lol Plus, yes one could argue that it may lead me to vet someone different than I have before I met that crazy stalker. She hasn't won, I am just being a little more careful, that is all.. I understand that for some, an attraction has to be there, but it ( only to me ) should be the deal breaker... ..

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