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Pictures. Am I wrong???  

inhance4u 54M  
9 posts
12/22/2018 5:03 am
Pictures. Am I wrong???

Hello, I am curious to what others think about this.

I was chatting with someone on IM this morning and they had no pictures on their profile, which is fine with me when contacting others, however when they wanted to meet for a quickie,
I asked if they had a photo, Without saying yes or no, I was a pic.collector,
What a joke. I am very real.
So my question is. Do people really meet others without having seen a pic first?
Thanks for reading.

Banana_Canyon 44F

12/22/2018 12:15 pm

I don't think it's anything outrageous or unheard of to trade photos if things come to a point comfort-wise that you're planning to actually meet. But I understand that not everyone is at liberty to do so, depending on circumstances. Nevertheless, that's no reason where simple respect cannot be relayed back to you by simply saying something like "I respectfully don't hand out pics because of ( insert reason(s) ).

As for people meeting others without seeing pics first...well, I think "blind dates" have been around for yes, I do think that can and does sometimes occur.

inhance4u replies on 12/23/2018 7:30 am:
Thanks for the input and I agree with you. Showing respect goes a long way.
Merry Christmas to you.

positively4you 73F  
4605 posts
12/22/2018 8:53 pm

Sex is about physical attraction. A pic is not out of line. I find it rude to not send a recent picture. And it is a 2 way street. He has to be attracted to me as well.

inhance4u replies on 12/23/2018 7:33 am:
Thanks for the input and I agree, We are all on here for different reasons, but for me, Respect should always be important.
Wishing you a Merry Christmas!!!!

inhance4u 54M  
25 posts
12/23/2018 7:24 am

Thanks so much for the input. I have also agreed to just meet in a public setting without someone showing a pic and no shows. It happens.

Lanccumlover 62M  
27 posts
12/24/2018 7:02 am

I'm the someone who made the comment about the pic collector..first sorry if I offended you ..just that it seems that people put too much faith in the whole pic thing ..why is it so hard to meet in person its not that hard to just say not interested..I know there are a lot of fakes on here.aka what ever you want to call them.. I did explain that I don't know how to do the pic thing or have the capability..again chill out Merry Christmas to all

inhance4u replies on 12/24/2018 10:51 am:
Thanks for adding to the post, Trust me, this post wasn't just about you.
It happens all the time and I am sure a lot of people on here would agree to that.
For the most part, when someone doesn't want to share a picture. It throws up a red flag for many. I myself just feel that a picture after some converastion shows some trust and also if one is not interested. It saves all from the awkward moment.
Merry Christmas to you too.

smooth84smooth8 64M  
5 posts
4/28/2019 8:54 am


inhance4u replies on 4/28/2019 9:28 am:
I agree and thanks for commenting

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