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Thoughts and ramblings from David in Sydney
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Sexy Body Painting
Posted:Oct 24, 2010 12:56 am
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2015 2:08 am
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Sexy Body Painting
© David Newton - 24/10/10


Recently I've seen some pictures online on the regular newspaper sites showing how some top models getting themselves painted with amazing very tasteful pictures on their naked bodies. Its very good stuff you know.

Gives a whole new meaning to the term "life drawing" because here the painters work directly with warm skin and a body that no matter how pretty the picture is, after the photo shoot, its probably going to be washed off before night time.

Yes, you can try this at home ...

At a weekend seminar once I did exactly that, some naked body to body painting. We were all paired up in boy girl pairs and then given some colouring bits and stuff in a small plastic box.

I was laying down with my eyes closed when a lady came up and began doing some painting of me. After she'd half finished, I opened my eyes and was amazed at the lovely drawings she did on my body. At the end of around 5 mins we all stood up and everyone looked at everyone else.

It was very sexy.

Then the roles reversed and we came out painted the ladies on the next round. It was amazing again seeing both the difference between what the guys painted and expressed compared to what the women did in their session. But we all hugged and kissed our painting buddies at the end of the sessions. It was a lot of fun.

You already know I love massages, but this was different, and anyone can do this to connect with their partner in a fun close warm way. Then you could have a sexy bath afterwards and wash each other off. How yummy.

hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo....
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My Face Is Up Here Pal
Posted:Mar 21, 2010 3:19 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2010 6:59 pm
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My Face Is Up Here Pal
© David Newton 3/21/10

“Ï can think of nothing more intimate – and erotic – than suckling the warm, milk filled breast of a woman I care deeply for.”
- Lechehuver

Mountains In The Wild

Walking along the street a few weeks back I saw a T-Shirt on a well busted lady that read “My Face Is Up Here Pal” written on her well breasted chest.

Around the same time, I was surprised to see another T-Shirt on a likewise well breasted lady, with the words (in much smaller print) Touch Them. what a coincidence?

These days its hard to know where to look, even a short stroll thru the supermarket and you’ll see one lady after another who maybe walking down the isle bearing breasts with a huge V Cut top. I mean Ive been to New Years Eve Parties where its often the accepted norm to see woman’s breasts either falling out or just about there.

Could This Be A Busting Social Dilemma?

I often wonder when Im at a dinner party and when sticking up a conversation with a lady who has her breast almost out would think – “Is he talking to me because of my breasts or because he likes me?”

You know Im not arguing about seeing a lady letting it all hang out, I’m just wondering how can you tell if talking with her is going to be seen as friendship, or would she see approaches as all one sided and that guys only want one thing? OR could she really be after some attention? How do you tell for sure without looking silly doing so?

But On The Other Hand

I’ve met some women in social settings who don’t mind a bit of fuss over their breasts and seem to bring it out in the conversation to disarm those with them. with such a contrast of openness and stark conservatism, knowing how to treat talking with a larger breasted woman its clearly cut.

hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...
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Do You Kiss With Your Eyes Open?
Posted:Jan 23, 2010 2:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2010 3:02 pm
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Do You Kiss With Your Eyes Open?
© David Newton – January 23, 2010

"A sex symbol becomes a thing. I just hate to be a thing."
- Marilyn Monroe

When You Kiss, Do You Look Into Your Lovers Eyes?

Okay I know what you might be thinking, …Hey is David cracked? How can you look into your lovers eyes while kissing … I mean gee you’re all over their face and mouth aren’t you? Yeah, I know it sounds funny, but Im trying to make a point here.

And here it is, do you kiss to connect and when you make love do you look into their eyes and BE with your partner and feel their experiences of orgasmic pleasure when you make love?

Often I wonder about how people derive enjoying sex without being fully present when making love, kissing and when being together. Yes, I do know that some people only want casual love making, but that doesn’t mean missing out on enjoying the whole full experience too?

I was shocked to hear stories from lovely women Ive met over the last few years who said they’ve dated lots of guys that a minute after those guys made love, they were out of bed and putting on their gear and ready to head out the door.

Now I do know having a quickie people can jump back into their clothes fast, but when you’ve had a great time together, what’s wrong with sharing time, hugging and maybe even a little snooze before getting out of bed? Maybe even a shower together after your sexy time?

I really do love skin on skin. I think its why nature created sex to be so inviting was to get us together and to share hugs and touch. Its been proven so I’ve learned that if you spend time with your lover and really connect, you’ll be 30% more productive at least a day or two afterwards. Its that powerful.

Be Thankful For Your Time Together
You know its quite a privilege to spend time with another person – especially when it involves any kind of intimacy, the friendship, the physical union and the trust in sharing that time together is very, very special indeed.

With tenderness, love and respect
hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...
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Pictures
Posted:Jan 3, 2010 3:19 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2010 3:03 pm
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Pictures – A Window To Intimacy
© David Newton
January 3, 2010

Its quite a privilege looking at the pictures on this site. When you think about it, if you were to go to a nude beach, looking at similar views would still be classed as perving.

Nude Art?
In my world I own a walks tours group and take my social group around various suburban art galleries once a month. We see a few galleries and learn things from the gallery owners or managers about what’s on display. In some galleries they do show nude art, however not as like what Ive seen on this site where the art is even more personal. (PS I do have other social groups too)

Body Bits Or A View Into Another’s Soul?
When I first joined this site I was amazed if not found it a little confronting seeing such a display of body bits. But over time, I’ve seen beyond that. These days I see such wonder in what is there. Showing a close up of breasts and pussies is m ore than what it seems. I feel we are being shown a doorway into the soul of that person and their feelings in the sheer art of the picture taken. This is one thing you can’t take forgranted.

Size Doesn’t Matter
When I am naked with a wonderful lady, I’m not there to compare the size of a woman’s breasts with others nor am I there to see how tall or short she is. Why? Well we are all individual we are all unique in our own special way. I’ve leaned massage and giving and receiving massages – you get to see we are all different.

Un Touched Photos
It seems that the magazine world has finally caught onto what adult dating has already known for years. Un touched photos with all our wobbly bits are more romantic, more sexy and more a turn on than air brushed photos we were dulled into seeing over the years before.

So when I see lovely pictures of naked women – Im truly seeing a doorway into their soul, and into their heart. How precious can this be? How thankful can we be?

No Barriers
I think the other thing is, when we are naked, there is finally no division between people. When we wear clothing there is a barrier. You know how you feel walking around naked. Even at a nude beach you feel free and striking up a conversation on a nude beach is similar to being on this site. Nudity breaks down the barriers and it allows freer, open communication.

hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...
P.S. Please join to my friends network so we can stay in touch, and hopefully, in touch
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I
Posted:Dec 28, 2009 1:26 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2013 12:48 pm
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I’m a 100% Single – What More Proof Can I Add?

Do people really read profiles or just jump to conclusions?

Its amazing Ive sent out a few emails and then one person send back an auto reply saying they only wish to date single men. Well Im single, so what gives? What’s more I can prove it 100% I was divorced in 1982 and that was that.

I guess women have the same challenges with guys not reading their profiles and getting the wrong types of males responding , but now and then and more recently, it seems my profile seems to be no being read.

I hope I'm communicating correctly, after all, that’s why I go to extra trouble with writing out blogs and away from that I have a social life, however im on my own.

Is this a case of definition?

Yes, there could be a case of what one person defines a single and another could say different. But this case, I’m clearly single.

hugs and kisses from
David Newton (A SINGLE GUY)
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...
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Wet Kisses
Posted:Nov 15, 2009 5:13 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2009 5:18 am
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Wet Kisses

November 15, 2009 - © David Newton

“Sex without kissing ‒ is like Champagne without the bubbles”

When you kiss is it a wet one? Does the thought of long soft slow kisses melt away your body to a shiver while entwined arm in arm with your lover?

In my days of early dating I think I was very lucky to meet a few of the right women who quickly brought me up-to-date with my kissing techniques and manner. I was also able to glean from friends other tips about kissing that have made all the difference in later life.

Science research has told us that kissing is for locating an ideal partner in which our senses of smell and taste play a big part in who we really date. These choices can be influenced by the time of year, what we eat and even how much sunlight our skin gets each day.

But for me what I like best about kissing and you’ve seen me write a few earlier blogs on this is that kissing is a wonderful way to connect. Naturally each kissing session will be different, if you want to really connect with your partner better you could; -

Remove as much clothing as possible before or during your kissing time

Kiss each other gently from their forehead to their neck and ears before engaging directly on the mouth kisses. Build the suspense a little.

Kissing can be a great prelude to enjoying sex (ah derrr that’s so obvious isn’t it) but its also better to engage in some oral kissing and sucking ‒ make sure you have water to drink and have a little wash before eating each other.

Say nice sweet things to your partner and allow them to share with you too.

On another note; dry kissing is used on some situations. And Ive met some ladies who expressly ask for dry kisses, its not very often but it does happen.

Wet kisses are a fantastic way of linking, and bear in mind the first time you kiss may not be perfect, but the situation will always be perfect! Treasure the moments and enjoy what is a most natural high from kissing and your sex will be even better still.

hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...
(Naturally, I still like to sacrifice my self for the great good of learning better kissing methods.)
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Wet Dripping And Moist
Posted:Sep 20, 2009 5:47 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2010 12:25 am
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Wet Dripping And Moist
9/20/09 © David Newton

It was a hot day in summer, we had hired a boat at the marina and decided to have a picnic at a local island hideaway ‒ away from the holiday makers and be on our own.

Like all tropical spots by the time the sunshine gets high in the sky and the humidity takes over who needs clothes or swimmers to wear during the day? After all we were on our own completely.

My friend stripped off first and me too. We waded out to the boat and got our things, a small esky with our food and drinks. I looked at her wonderful body in the water her breasts dripping with moisture from the water and her pussy wet and watery as she slowly took things from the little dingy we hired that day.

There I was standing erect and next to my friend closer and hugging her from behind ‒ she bent over slightly and motioned my manhood into her warm pussy slowly and gently I moved about inside her next to the boat. We then broke apart and went back to collecting our things and making our little lunch.

Like all picnics little ants seem to be the big winners when you eat outdoors, even at the beach.

My lovely friend wanted to lie down and have a siesta after making such a great lunch. And motioned to me that it was my turn to give her a massage. As she laid their eyes closed and open to warm touch my hands opened the oils and rubbed them onto her skin and curvaceous body. We both knew that while on holiday we made every day count and after my hands were able to complete a massage we were soon making love and in such a wonderful setting it would give us many great memories during the year. Our bodies were entwined and sweating sexily joined together. Back in the water floating and making love was just as fun. Such as the tropics can offer.

Whenever I walk past a small beach frontage my mind sometimes wanders to thinking how nice a setting this could be for close intimate times. The conversations, the sexiness, the hugs and the time together.

MMmmmmmm…………………………………

What are your thoughts on water, sexiness and fun times at the beach? Please comment.

hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...
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Giving and Receiving Gourmet Kisses
Posted:Sep 6, 2009 4:07 am
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2009 3:28 pm
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Giving and Receiving Gourmet Kisses
© David Newton
September 6, 2009


"Kissing someone is pretty intimate, actually very intimate, and your heart always kind of skips a beat before you do that."
- Keanu Reeves

"I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth."
- Chico Marx

Last year I wrote in Best Kissing Places In Australiamy blogs here about Australia’s ideal romantic kissing locations. But the questions remain ‒ how do you get great kisses? How do you make your kissing time together yield really wonderful memorable kisses that both of you can cherish later and even lead to some warm and tender sexiness together?

Okay Let’s Make The Setting
In a lot of cases, it will be your first kiss with this person that will either lead to seeing them again or maybe not. Plus the first time you both kiss is even better if you got a good location to start with. Maybe that’s why I can recall wonderful times kissing at places like Arthur’s Seat on the Mornington Peninsular, or kissing at Dawes Point under The Sydney Harbour Bridge and not to forget Kangaroo Point lookout in Brisbane. I could kiss for hours if given the time, it’s an activity I love to share with a passionate lady of like mind.

So what the secret to meaningful kissing and passionate times?

Plan For Your Kissing Time

Okay so you’ve seen a few movies from the 50’s where couples drive off to a spot overlooking the city and in the car they kiss. Or you may have seen couples on a park bench together sitting close and kissing. You need to have a time window of at least an hour and upto about 3 hours to make it work and be worthwhile.

Lighter Loose Fitting Clothes Are Best
If you wear clothing that allows you both to be free and unbuttoned or unzipped its easier to feel at ease when kissing.

Make Your Setting Comfortable
You may need to maneuver your car chairs or sit in the back seat to get good positioning. If you’re on a park bench you may wish to carry a towel in your backpack to make things comfortable there too. I’d also suggest bringing tissues and water to drink ‒ kissing can be a steamy event.

A Quick Freshen Up
After eating a meal or lots of coffee, even a wash of your mouth with water can do wonders. A splash of water on your face to clear away the day is good.

Heart In The Right Place
If its your first time together, ask before putting your hands all over their body, and don’t move in too aggressively taking over the scene. Give them some space BUT also don’t be too shy either!

Feel Your Way Via The Kissing
When you begin kissing move gradually towards tongue kisses and allow your time to get to know how they are kissing. You need to hear what they are thinking by the way they kiss. If unsure, simply ask them. its all about feedback and tenderness.

Take Your Time
Kissing isn’t just for seeing how fast you can jump to sex. Even though that’s always a given. Some of the best sex can be appreciated after kissing for a few hours. You see kissing stimulates all types of chemicals in the body and the hugging with your kissing does the same. Kissing can also be a great for after-play which can be just as important.

Whisper Kind Words Appreciating Your Partner
Yeah, I know this sounds funny to some who don’t want a commitment, but I’ll bet any money it’s just what we need, so don’t be scared off. I’m okay with casual relationships too. I don’t want to push anyone into a commitment they can’t keep. But there is an over dramatization that if you say one nice word to a partner it means your asking them for a commitment. This isn’t true!!!

Kind words do and give you the meaning for being there. Saying warm and appreciative comments gives us the boost we need and no better than to hear that from a new and close friend you’re with.

Give your partner praise and feeling. Give them a boost without expecting anything back. If you treat them like an angel and see they have beauty and wonder, all things will fall into place.

Facts About Kissing:
Women say they are more likely to have sex if it includes kissing ‒ and men say they are more likely to have sex without the need to kiss a partner. Both men and women use kissing to see ‒ if at the first kiss weather they should continue seeing that person again. .

Please share with me and others who read this blog your tips for a better kissing experience …

hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...
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A Sensual Wet Fantasy
Posted:Aug 8, 2009 6:07 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2009 3:39 am
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A Sensual Wet Fantasy
080809 - © David Newton

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt

A playful afternoon ‒ a time to connect ‒ it was just some spare time to create lasting memories.

There we were ‒ at a nice home next to the seaside. It was a cloudy day and you could hear the waves on the shoreline. Her home was small a little room under a huge house above and it was quiet. Light music was playing and the lamps were turned down at a gentle light though the place.

We chatted a while and shared conversation about what’s been happening during the week. She helped me get out of my gear slowly and I helped her disrobe as the spa bath was filling up. We playfully kissed and touched each other then stepped in to the bath.

So soothing and bubbly, I grabbed the soft soap and put some in my hand then ran my hands all over her body in slow gentle motions. Gliding my hands from her neck down to her to arms, and her breasts which glistened in the water and bubbles. All of her body was relaxed in the warm waters. She motioned my hands down between her legs where I continued to stimulate her body.

With a warm smile she then looked at me and said let me reciprocate. I laid back and let her go ahead. She leaned over me and her breasts massaged my body along with kisses. My manliness came up and she gently stroked me to full desire.

We turned on the tap to re-warm the waters and let the music play a little in the background and smiled as we sipped a glass together. After some time and spending the time with her in my arms and vice versa, we decided to rinse off and spend time in the bed.

It was fun to rinse off the soapy waters and bubbles on each other, with smiles and laughter. Then drying off was funny as our skins were wrinkly and highly sensitive to touch after a long bath time together.

The bedroom was next door, the sun had gone down and all you could hear was the waves from the beach nearby. Her eyes looked back to me with a special glisten. Arm in arm we entwined and caressed until we were at the height of climactic bliss. It’s amazing how good sex feels after having a bath together.

Without saying much we then hugged each other spooning each others bodies, warm, gentle and in even breathing tune with each other. We softly drifted off into a short sleep. What a nice start to the evening, even dinner tasted so much better afterwards.

“Reality is wrong. Dreams are for real.”
- Tupac Shakur

hugs and kisses from
David Newton
Marrickville, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...

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Topless Freedom In Sydney
Posted:Jan 2, 2009 2:23 am
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2017 2:59 am
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Topless Freedom In Sydney

© David Newton 2/01/09

I love going to the beach ...

Just around New Year time, a NSW Polly wanted to push a law to ban topless bathers from all of Sydney's beaches. In a move that would set us back at least 30 years he thought our beaches were not a night club or a strip club (strange news to the rest of us?) all because he reckoned that a little bit of exposed nipples would shy some (conservative) bathers away from the beaches.

What's so bad about a bit of topless freedom?

And why do we have to "ban" everything especially the freedoms we all enjoy so much?

Why so much shame with the human body after all?

I asked a lady artist recently why she painted so many naked women, .... and she said, that women are "The Perfect Form".

If I go to a beach and see women with bear breasts I have a choice to see it as something sexual &/or something simply normal. Breasts come in all shapes and sizes and breasts are adorable. Western society and that of a few other well known cultures want to "demonize" our naked bodies and make us somehow "feel inferior" to even show our bare bodies in public in any shape or form. (No wonder society has some huge hangups about nakedness.)

At best most of us can adore nakedness in only artistic forms at say an art gallery - and be able to look generously without being concerned about it. And even that freedom is slowly being challenged too.

You know, just recently at the beach I sat near a topless bather and she even asked me if I could spread some suntan lotion on her bare top. No inhibitions at all. Some women are oblivious to even being topless when at the beach it seems.

It’s a personal choice issue. If politicians want to remove our freedoms (hey I thought they were batting for us?) how can we stand by to watch our freedoms disappear?

I don’t think that this ultra conservative politician will get far with his claims. Our freedoms are worth holding onto even if our clothing isn’t.

Do you like your freedom at the beach?

hugs from
David Newton
Neutral Bay, Sydney
xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxooxxo...

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He Said and She Said
Posted:Dec 27, 2008 1:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 11:53 am
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He Said and She Said

27/12/08 © David Newton

Do we express our love differently?

While I was away in Wagga, I just purchased the old 1991 classic movie "He Said - She Said" and found it refreshing to watch.

It’s a story about love - and well his version then the same story from her version. What makes it such an amazing movie is that love is expressed colorfully from two viewpoints and is very similar.

The movie more or less derives its charm from the two lovers in opposing viewpoints on a TV show and how both share those insights with each other and the rest of the world.

The movie inspired books on the same subject such as Mars and Venus and Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps (etc)

But is it any different here?

If you look at the way males and females write messages to each other and communicate you'd say there sure are some differences! On the other hand, there are a few similarities.

What are your experiences with different sexes in communication?

with hugs and kisses,
from David Newton
Wishing you amazing
abundance for your 2009
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxo

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7 Things You Can Do For Your Lover Over The Festive Break
Posted:Dec 9, 2008 1:30 am
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2015 2:10 am
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7 Things You Can Do For Your Lover Over The Festive Break

What’s the ideal gift at this time for your partner?

I wont speculate over physical gifts you buy at shops. That’s not my arena. But what I do feel strongly about is what you can do for your partner or friend with benefits or casual link-up friend.

We all need affection

But how any of that is going to happen is via; giving them your TIME.

On the other hand being able to receive a gift of affection is much more vital and to show you appreciate it rather than fob off taking a bow from your friends is what is also needed.

Here are my favourite gift ideas over this festive season:

1. A massage ‒ yes see my other blogs as I’ve gone into this in a big way already. Our bodies always need touch. And its so much more needed at a time like this.

2. A bath together ‒ but make it a bubble bath and share time hugging, washing each other in a loving way and caring for each other.

3. Then time for sex together ‒ true enough you’ll do this anyhow, but why not with a twist to it, make it fun, make it where you explore each other’s bodies, try to see each other in a different light. Chat with each other, have sex in full lights on, watch for the expressions of orgasmic pleasure on your lovers face. Talk about your bodies openly and adore your partners sharing and kiss them.

4. Take time out at a late night café with each other and then go to a spot where you can see the city or the sea and kiss while holding onto each other. You may even try a dare like having sex in a public place. Hey, this is a time to make memories with each other so you can look back at it later in the year.

5. Read out to your lover a sexy story of how you want to take them and give them a sexy time together. Share with them your feelings about what you really enjoy and want. Be willing to share and be willing to listen. Dare and Dare again.

(Dare Example: You know it’s amazing how many people tick that they want threesomes on their profiles and are yet very ardent about monogamy, now hey guys and girls, who are you kidding? Don’t tick the box if you don’t want to hear about that topic okay.)

More ideas:

6. Give each other the best oral experience you can think of, naturally make yourselves ready and prepared for it. You could try doing this at a beach, or be daring at a movie or maybe inviting your lover to meet you at your work.

7. Go out to a dinner together and both of you have no knickers on. See if you can hold back the sexiness of touching each other at a dinner spot without anyone knowing at the place. Darker clothing might be needed in case of spills.

So what are you going to do this festive time?

What ideas would you like to share here to add to this little starter list?

Let us all know what you might have in mind, it might be fun for us all

Wishing you a great time and fun for the new year cumming up soon.

© David Newton
12/9/08

From David Newton
With big hugs and kisses
To all my friends and friends Im yet to know.
Xoxoxoxoxo


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Fore Play and Friends
Posted:Oct 13, 2008 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2015 2:11 am
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Fore Play and Friends

Much is being said on profiles about the need for and desire for some pre-warm up to lovemaking.

Only quite easy to understand - almost anyone could get some kind of fast relief. But at a deeper level our lovemaking can be enhanced via a bit of lead time and focusing on building desire and expectation of a great night or day in with a partner.

Did you ever see the 80's movie "The Woman in Red"

In this movie a guy wants to have some fun and behind the wife’s back so to speak. In fact his wife seems to want him more and even another girl at the office - but the object of his affection for the story in the movie is a model and he's nuts about her. Every move he makes is a fumble and as time goes on they do get to learn about each other.

Before the movie ends you get to feel like they do know each other and you can see what effect this can have in the bedroom.

Why I'm saying this is that even that its a fun movie - well like all great movies, it has a little lesson in it.

Foreplay isn't always about just spending time in the bed trying to wake up your partners genitals on the first date. In fact first hand dates can often be a fumbling time trying to get to know each others bodies, normally the next few dates is where you can "perfect" lovemaking for both of you.

Its the getting to know you part - that's where the sexual "expectation" grows best.

No two situations are the same.

Some time ago I met a wonderful lady who met me just before she had to go away on a long overseas trip. We actually had some enjoyable sex on the first date. BUT, while she was away I felt our best time was getting to know each other and communicating every day or so via texting or SMS messages. When she came back - we had in effect over 5 weeks of foreplay and our lovemaking was at a peak due to such a lot of fun sexy and sometimes humorous texts and emails while she was away.

This to me shows we can build up proper expectation and what more communication plus desire to really BE with the one we are foreplaying with. Okay not all times we get the chance to really communicate as much, often its much less than we really expect. Our busy lives and jobs take away much of the time think we have. But its worth a try to use the time we have to develop a new friend where and when we still can.

Hi my dear readers and friends -
So nice to see your comments and
views on these topics.
Big Hugs and kisses
from David xoxoxoxoxox


© David Newton
10/13/08

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