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Not My Last Post  

hotdreamer1000 63M
8849 posts
2/18/2022 2:56 am

Last Read:
10/13/2022 1:11 pm

Not My Last Post


It started out as a feeling,
Which then grew into a hope..........
I'll come back when you call me,
No need to say goodbye.

Just because everything's changing,
Doesn't mean it's never been this way before.
Pick a star on the dark horizon
And follow the light.

Now we're back to the beginning
It's just a feeling and no one knows yet.
But just because they can't feel it too
Doesn't mean that you have to forget.
Let your memories grow stronger and stronger
Until they are before your eyes -

You'll come back when they call you
No need to say goodbye.

(Thanks to Regina Spector)

Maybe this link will work so you can listen over on the other side if you want to.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCEUpVukAe8

Somehow I didn't want "Name the Cockroach" to end up as my last post on the original side of the site! I once said that if I ever left I wouldn't make a big thing about it, like - you know - hoping everyone would come and comment and say "oh no pleeeeease Dreamer don't leave us" and all that rubbish. Instead I said that I would probably just post the lyrics to "The Call" by Regina Spector and let that say goodbye for me.

But now we are all moving to what has been aptly nicknamed "the dark side," and this seems appropriate somehow. Something feels different, and I don't think it will ever re-capture the strange mix of friendship, understanding, flirtation and downright lust which used to draw me back year after year. But even though everything's changing.........there is a new sense of collaboration and discourse in the new blogs so I will be sticking with it on and off as always, even if it is only just to see what happens next. I have made new friends and I want to follow their ups and downs and share some thoughts with them.

The people I used to blog for in the old days are gone. Too many to mention, and if any of you read this, you know who you are and you know, I hope, how much you matter to me. Happy memories. You'll come back when they call you.

hotdreamer1000 63M
12409 posts
2/18/2022 2:56 am

It started out as a feeling,
Which then grew into a hope..........
I'll come back when you call me,
No need to say goodbye.

Just because everything's changing,
Doesn't mean it's never been this way before.
Pick a star on the dark horizon
And follow the light.

Now we're back to the beginning
It's just a feeling and no one knows yet.
But just because they can't feel it too
Doesn't mean that you have to forget.
Let your memories grow stronger and stronger
Until they are before your eyes -

You'll come back when they call you
No need to say goodbye.

(Thanks to Regina Spector)

Maybe this link will work so you can listen over on the other side if you want to.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCEUpVukAe8

Somehow I didn't want "Name the Cockroach" to end up as my last post on the original side of the site! I once said that if I ever left I wouldn't make a big thing about it, like - you know - hoping everyone would come and comment and say "oh no pleeeeease Dreamer don't leave us" and all that rubbish. Instead I said that I would probably just post the lyrics to "The Call" by Regina Spector and let that say goodbye for me.

But now we are all moving to what has been aptly nicknamed "the dark side," and this seems appropriate somehow. Something feels different, and I don't think it will ever re-capture the strange mix of friendship, understanding, flirtation and downright lust which used to draw me back year after year. But even though everything's changing.........there is a new sense of collaboration and discourse in the new blogs so I will be sticking with it on and off as always, even if it is only just to see what happens next. I have made new friends and I want to follow their ups and downs and share some thoughts with them.

The people I used to blog for in the old days are gone. Too many to mention, and if any of you read this, you know who you are and you know, I hope, how much you matter to me. Happy memories. You'll come back when they call you.


blonde__venus 29F  
223 posts
2/18/2022 4:16 am

Come on over to the dark side with me, hotdreamer. I will hold your hand.

*evil giggle*


hotdreamer1000 63M
12409 posts
2/18/2022 5:58 am

    Quoting blonde__venus:
    Come on over to the dark side with me, hotdreamer. I will hold your hand.

    *evil giggle*
Hello Venus, thank you, I really appreciate your very kind offer! See you there.


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
2/18/2022 7:32 am

When the new format was initially rolled out, it was a car crash and I thought that would be it for me. But it has improved and I think I'll give it a go.
It will be different, I'm sure.


MyNameIsKay 61F  
11887 posts
2/18/2022 3:33 pm

So there's a go-live date for ending this version of the blogs? I'm on here so little that I must have missed it. Oh well. I'll stop over there on occasion just like I do here. I'm sure I'll find your thoughts just as endearing! Hope you are well.

Swim...Bike...Done


zandigal 57F
13016 posts
2/18/2022 7:41 pm



Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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hotdreamer1000 63M
12409 posts
2/19/2022 7:36 am

    Quoting  :

You are right Enigma, we do, it will be okay!


hotdreamer1000 63M
12409 posts
2/19/2022 7:37 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    When the new format was initially rolled out, it was a car crash and I thought that would be it for me. But it has improved and I think I'll give it a go.
    It will be different, I'm sure.
Yeah I know Spunky, different, but still worthwhile. I'll be seeing you over there.


hotdreamer1000 63M
12409 posts
2/19/2022 7:40 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks Jules. It's weird, having posted this I do feel quite sad, and when I was writing it I didn't realise I would. Whether it is just because I did once tell someone that these lyrics could mark my final post, if it ever came, I don't know. But all the same I think it is a fitting end to this chapter, and I will be picking out a star on the dark horizon for sure. And glitch free is good for sure!


hotdreamer1000 63M
12409 posts
2/19/2022 7:41 am

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    So there's a go-live date for ending this version of the blogs? I'm on here so little that I must have missed it. Oh well. I'll stop over there on occasion just like I do here. I'm sure I'll find your thoughts just as endearing! Hope you are well.
Thank you so much Kay, look forward to seeing you over there!


hotdreamer1000 63M
12409 posts
2/19/2022 7:42 am

Back at cha! Last woman standing! Come on over!


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