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One Woman's Guide To Bedrooms, Boundaries, and Boyfriends
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A 48 Hour Day And A 14 Day Week...Would That Mean a 4 Day Weekend???
Posted:Sep 5, 2007 4:00 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2008 2:02 am
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Well, it's been so long since I've been here let me see if I still know how to write a blog post. Oh, yeah...that's right, I just jump in and go. Got it!

All kidding aside, things have been completely insane around here and I apologize for not keeping up with my correspondence. Hubby and I have been on the proverbial rollercoaster for what seems like forever. There just doesn't seem to ever be enough time in a day...which brings me to believe that we need a 48 hour day just to fit it all in. Of course, we would then need a 14 day week to accomodate this new series of 48 hour days. However, something tells me that we probably wouldn't get a 4 day weekend out of the deal, so scratch that idea.

What we need are just a few hours away from the hustle and bustle. Maybe we could just turn the phones off for a while and not tell anyone where we were going. Who knows? Maybe we could even just get away for the day and have an adventure...

Do you ever wonder what life would really be like if you could just take back some of your time and use it as you wished? What would you do with that extra few hours? Would you spend it creating memories that would help you through your next week? How about meeting someone new or going out on a second date with someone you really like?

What a wonderful world it would be if we could just release ourselves from the constraints of time and comittment. If there was no accountability or need for explanations. (sigh...)
But then, those things are necessary for a civilized way of life.

I suppose one of the bright spots in my day is coming here and seeing new posts or corresponding with my friends. When you post a comment or send me an email, I can escape for just a moment and imagine the possibilities. There's always something you say that makes me glad that you're here.

So to all the friends who have made the effort to interact with me, THANK YOU! You are better than a 48 hour day or a 14 day week...the jury is still out as to whether you're better than a 4 day weekend...HA! Just kidding.

Kisses!
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Suggestions Please...
Posted:Aug 14, 2007 9:44 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2007 8:18 am
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Well, the WIN A DATE WITH ME CONTEST went better than I could have ever expected. My date with the winner was great and it looks as if there will be a second one very soon.

Recently, Hubby and I posted a blog poll to find out what you guys wanted as far as contests. We listed some options and invited everyone to leave comments. There were several votes, but no comments or suggestions.

Voting wise, it was very close between "No, I do not like contests", "I would like another WIN A DATE WITH ME contest with different rules", and "I would like a WIN A PHOTO SHOOT WITH ME contest".

Since there was such low participation in the last contest, Hubby and I decided to approach things differently. So, here's where we stand:

For those who voted "No, I do not like contests", just do what you always do, which is nothing. Ask nothing, receive nothing.

For those of you who voted "I would like another WIN A DATE WITH ME contest with different rules", YOU MUST TELL US WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE DIFFERENT. THE ONE RULE THAT WILL NOT CHANGE IS THE "NO SEXUAL INTERACTION ON THE FIRST DATE" RULE. Otherwise, we're open to suggestions.

For those who voted "I would like a WIN A PHOTO SHOOT WITH ME contest", tell us what you would like to see happen. How would YOU set it up? What would be YOUR rules?

This is a point of decision for us here. Your participation and comments, or the lack thereof, will determine just how involved we stay. The contests are just ways to have fun and meet the type of guys I would like to meet. It shows me that you have a little more going for you than most. It's a way to interact and get to know each other.

So, the ball is in your court. Lay it on me!
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A CONTEST WITH 2 WINNERS: MY DATE WITH AGENTORANGE1022
Posted:Aug 11, 2007 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2007 3:35 pm
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It's now official! I have gone on a date with the winner of my WIN A DATE WITH ME contest. The gentleman's screen name is agentorange1022 and let me tell you, he's just a wonderful guy.

For those who followed the contest, you'll remember that each contestant was supposed to describe their ideal date with me. The date most appealing to me would become the winning entry. The winner and I would then go on that very date as the first prize. Well, in theory at least...

It was Friday. Agentorange1022,(from this point on, let's call him AO )and I had been talking on the telephone. I had really enjoyed our conversations and found him to be cordial and warm. So by 4 p.m., I was beginning to get excited about meeting this new friend.

On Thursday, AO and I agreed that the traffic to Kemah would be so bad that we would spend too much of our date driving. We decided to meet someplace closer in. We ended up meeting at a nice Italian restaurant uptown. When AO got out of his car, I was pleasantly surprised at how attractive he was.

After exchanging greetings, we went inside and waited to be seated. I must admit, I had been a little bit nervous before meeting AO. But standing beside him now, I found myself at ease. Once we were seated, the conversation began flowing and we learned a lot about each other. We talked about everyday things and everyday life. I learned about his background and he learned about mine. We just had a great time being a woman and a man getting to know each other. The date was going very well.

After a delicious dinner, AO and I decided to dance off a few calories. We headed over to a nearby dance club which had been part of AO's contest entry. Now, this is where it really gets good!

We arrived at Bikini Beach where Hip Hop music was blaring full tilt. AO was completely at ease. He knew all the songs and all the dance moves. We danced and had a great time.

All evening, he had been a perfect gentleman and was very attentive. As our date wound down, I started looking forward to our next outing.

A gentleman to the end, AO presented me with a beautiful boquet of flowers before leaving. With a quick goodnight kiss, we parted ways. It was a wonderful date.

I'm already looking forward to our next date. This time, Hubby will be along and I'll have the attention of two great guys! Who knows what will happen next?...
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Webcam For You! What Do You Want?
Posted:Jul 17, 2007 6:39 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2007 10:18 am
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IMPORTANT NOTICE!

We are still taking votes and comments for the upcoming webcam show. Even though the WIN A DATE WITH ME contest is under way, you may still vote and post comments about what you would like to see on our webcam. So, read on!

What do you want to see on our webcam? Vote more than once if there's more than one thing you would like to see! Voting is anonymous, so don't be intimidated.
Me Jacking Hubby Off
Hubby "Jacking Me Off"
Hubby Using Toys On Me
Hubby Giving Me Oral
Me Giving Hubby Oral
Me Pleasuring Myself (again, not sure about this one!)
Me Modeling Sexy Outfits
Hubby Giving Me A Quick One (not sure about this one, either)
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If You Build It...Will They Cum? Our Webcam Future May Be In Your Hands
Posted:Jul 17, 2007 6:26 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2012 11:23 pm
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What a predicament I find myself in at this moment!

As many of you know, Hubby and I took some new pics this past weekend and uploaded them. Got some great responses, great compliments, and great suggestions about our next photo shoot. I'm already thinking about what lingerie I'll wear for it. Hubby has pointed out that the "pink" pose has been viewed the most times and suggests that we give you fine gentlemen a little more of it. Would you like that?
I'm thinking maybe some crotchless articles, thongs, no panties, and a whole lot more. Of course, Hubby is revelling in the fact that his favorite pose appears to be everyone else's favorite, too.

Anyway, because (1)he was right about the poses and (2)he has behaved himself EXTREMELY well, I may be ready to try the webcam. My question to you is this:
If we do it, will you watch? I would like to have an idea of how popular the idea is and who might be interested in seeing me in action.

Also, what exactly would you like to see? I suggested to Hubby that I could give him a massage with a "happy ending" for the camera to which he replied that you guys probably don't want to watch him get jacked off. Well, how does that strike you? One gentleman suggested me masturbating, but I'm not so sure on that one. Who else would like that? Who would like to see Hubby playing with me?

These are all things I'd like to know ahead of time so that if it does happen, you will enjoy it.

I may post a blog poll that will give us a clearer idea of whay you might want. Until then, don't be afraid to speak up and let me know what you want!
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What Do Guys REALLY, REALLY Want?
Posted:Jul 16, 2007 6:09 pm
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2007 7:32 pm
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This weekend found Hubby and I taking a few pictures for our friends here. I was determined to maintain a level of class and sophistication with the poses. I wanted to tease and titilate the fine gentlemen here. Of course, Hubby was trying to get pictures of my tonsils by coming from the other end...if you dig my meaning. This started a discussion about what guys really want versus what women are willing to give, picture wise that is.

At Hubby's suggestion, I wore the black platform heels with the red fringe outfit which I chose. Not a bad combination, if I say so myself. About the only complaint is the degree of difficulty involved in posing for the pics! Even laying down proved to be more of a challenge than I had imagined. Then, while I'm trying to exude class and poise, Hubby is trying to get shots for the OBGYN portions of the medical journal!

Now, I must admit that he did come up with some decent poses. The one where I'm sitting on the edge of the love seat didn't strike me at the time the picture was taken. I begged him to delete it. Fortunately, he refused. It is now his favorite of all and I even like it more now. Obviously, that sentiment is echoed by the guys here because it has been viewed the most times so far. Who knows? Maybe that will change.

So, my question to YOU is this: WHAT DO GUYS REALLY, REALLY WANT when it comes to pics? I suppose it depends on each individual. So give us your preferences. I'm not saying I will accomodate everyone's request. But we will try to get as close as comfort will allow.
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New Pics...Hopefully...
Posted:Jul 16, 2007 2:01 am
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2007 2:37 pm
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Hubby and I did a quick little photo shoot and ended up with some pics we both like. I hope you will like them, too. For some reason, though, they seem to be taking longer to be approved. Maybe it has something to do with Senior Sizzle changing their setup. Let's hope the pics make it!

When you can finally see them, it will look like we uploaded 2 of the same pic. Well, we did and we didn't. One of them is much larger and shows a little bit o' pink...of course, that was hubby's favorite. He even took some "intimate" shots (if you know what I mean) but I wouldn't let him upload them. Oh, he's a nasty, nasty man! (hehehe)

Next time, I'm going to up the anty and dress up more. This one was just a warmup for the next one. Let me know what you think and put in your requests for the next photo shoot!
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Hubby Gets Lucky Tonight! And I
Posted:Jul 15, 2007 12:25 pm
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2007 9:52 pm
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Hubby is happy today. Why? Because he gets his "ration" tonight. I've already agreed to let him take some pics of me and we will upload them.

We've been going around and around about pictures. Of course, he wants to get "gynecological" with the pics. I want to do "tasteful" photos. Maybe we will compromise and both get a little bit of what each of us wants.

Let us know what you would like to see from this round of pics and we'll see what happens!
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Size, Experience, What Does It REALLY Matter?
Posted:Jul 15, 2007 1:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2007 6:52 pm
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It wasn't until I began receiving emails about my blog, "To All The Men I've Loved Before...Well, Maybe Not "Loved"", that I began to realize there was a possible wrong inferrance.

Let me get a few things out in the open so we're all
"On The Same Page".

(1) Size Matters...But Not Always...

Yes. I've had some MONSTER cocks in me. Thank God! I know what it's like to be so full of cock that you cannot move a muscle from fear of permanent injury.

Then again, I know what it's like to have a cock inside you so large that you can't wait until the sex is over so you can send the guy home. Not a good feeling.

The Point:
Don't worry if you don't have a "MONSTER COCK". It's not the end of the world. I've had plenty average and small ones. Hubby is a "small average" compared to most. After he eats me, he FEELS huge.
About the only complaint "size wise" is that we can't vary our positions. Don't sweat it if you aren't John Holmes. I'm not Jenna Jameson.

(2) No Experience Necessary!

I've had guys who've been with, no exaggeration, THOUSANDS of women. And, MY GOD, could they prove it! Yes! I won't lie to you. Those experiences were the best sexual encounters a woman could ask for...in a way.

Then, there are those unexpected little "miracles" that happen in a woman's life. Times when she meets a guy and immediately wants to "make contact". I've had times when I met a man and within 5 minutes we were screwing in the corner of a nightclub. Of course, it didn't last but a few seconds...but that was enough to create a lasting memory of something very special. Had those guys been with many women? I don't know and I don't care.

The Point:

Let's create our own experiences. Don't hold yourself to any standard set by anyone else. Be the very best "YOU" that you can be and that will be enough for me.

I want to experience the real you. Perfect or not.
You are who you are, regardless of where either of us has been. And who knows? Maybe I will be the turning point of your sexual experience...I'd like to think so.

Don't worry about who's been there before. Concern yourself with who YOU are and let me get to know that guy. Let's create our own experinces that we can both tell for years to come.
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What Do YOU Want...?
Posted:Jul 14, 2007 7:23 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2007 1:23 pm
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Hubby and I just had a discussion about what to do next to show our appreciation to all the great guys who have emailed, sent pics, and given me some wonderful compliments.

We're already planning the photo shoot. So we're asking YOU what shots would you like? Tell us and we'll try to accomodate you.

Also, we're discussing a webcam. I'm really not wild about the idea, but hubby is EXTREMELY excited about doing some live webcam stuff. Would anyone like to see that? And if so, what would you like to see?

Again, I'm not too crazy about the thought of a live webcam...but then, there's a first time for everything.

Give us your input and let us know what you think.
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Thank You, Sir! May I Have Another?
Posted:Jul 14, 2007 4:56 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2007 3:39 pm
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Well, once again the gentlemen members from this fine site have come through! You guys are simply wonderful. I'm getting face pics and very nice emails from some HOT, HOT GUYS. I'm meeting some real gentlemen who pay attention and aren't getting pushy. Thank you, you terrific sexxxy men!

Thank you also for your compliments. You make my day with your kind words.

I've talked with hubby and we're going to set up a photo shoot and upload some more pics. If there are some particular shots you would like, let me know and we'll be as accomodating as possible.

Thank you again for your wonderful emails. You guys are the best!
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As You Wish...
Posted:Jul 13, 2007 2:30 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 10:55 pm
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Well Halleleiujah! Somebody is actually reading and responding. Not that it's the "end all be all", but obviously some guys have read my blog and are sending me face pics right off the bat. Well, thank you kindly! (There are some cute guys here!)

It's refreshing to open an email and see a cute face. If I like THAT, then we'll probably meet up and I'll get to know THE GUY. If I like THAT, then I'll just about bet you I'll be seeing a "cock shot" soon after.(giggle!) That's the order in which I operate. In fact, there's a certain individual who's about to get an email from me asking him if he's ready to meet. And you know what? He was THE FIRST guy to do things in the right order.(without being asked, I might add!) Isn't it amazing how that works?

Guys, if you want to get better results, let her see that cute smile. She will let you know when she's ready to see "Ol' One Eye". And by then, she will probably be good and ready!
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How Wild Am I...Really?
Posted:Jul 6, 2007 12:15 am
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2007 4:01 pm
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Where are your boundaries? Have you ever crossed them? How close do you get to the fire before surrendering and jumping in?

I am inclined to believe that there are far more people who are sexually conservative than sexually liberal. Sure, we fantasize about this and that...but can we really go through with it? And if so, can we live with ourselves afterwards?

Personally, I am not as wild as some. Oh, I've had my wild life. But now that I'm older and hopefully wiser, I choose my steps a little more carefully. At my age, there aren't many second chances. I simply cannot afford a cavalier attitude. My choices are a little better thought out. Am I the only one who thinks like this?

Truth be told, most people here are just looking for something out of the ordinary. Maybe put a little spark back into their lives. Perhaps it's not so much whatyou end up doing but rather with whomyou do ordinary things.

Sex between a man and a woman is normal and natural. Sex between a married woman and a man other than her husband, pretty normal these days. Sex between a man and a married woman while the husband watches...hmmm...what do you think?

To me, it's not something I was born with. To my husband, it's as natural as breathing. Whatever the case, here we are.

I'm not the wildest one in the bunch. And you'll never talk me into doing something I don't want to do. I'm comfortable with who I am. There's just a little more out there with the right man. Someone who understands the situation and appreciates its simplicity.

I want to meet new people and have a great time. I want to meet like minded folks who are into the scene and are comfortable in their own skins. But when I do, we'll probably end up doing some very normal and natural things between us. After all, how wild am I...Really?
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