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Posted:Jul 8, 2014 4:23 pm
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The Under F**ked Pussy Epidemic (Every Woman Needs To Read This!!)
“A good orgasm is satisfying, but a great orgasm can be a revelation of your deepest being, unfolding the truth of who you are in ecstatic communion with your lover.” — David Deida
Recently I was speaking with a young woman about her orgasms and her state of emotion. She shared with me how she had been diagnosed with depression and ADHD, how Peri-Menopausal Symptoms (PMS) was terrible for her and how she felt that she needed a man in her life to protect, save and hold her. She had been abandoned by the men in her past and had gained an ill understanding of her own heart and soul. Disconnected from her pussy and from her true self she exhibited self-hatred and shame, she felt embarrassed and lacked confidence, yet tried to hide all of this under a bubbly, loud personality with a beaming smile and flashy sex drive. Practically throwing herself at men, begging for their attention so she could survive one more day and pretend that for that moment she had love in her life.
The Importance Of Gourmet Orgasms
As I sat there listening to her story, watching the emotions cross over her face I could feel her pain, I found myself wanting to just embrace her and tell her that everything would be okay, but that was the protective mama bear in me.
Instead I chose to be honest and share the facts, “Sounds like you need to be properly f-ked my dear,” is what I responded.
She looked at me and said, “What?”
I restated it, “It sounds like you need to be properly f-ked, I don’t mean go have sex, just some junk food sex, I mean you need some gourmet, yummie, fulfilling f-king. You need an orgasm that fills your whole body.”
She looked at me a bit taken back and then responded with,”Oh I just had sex, I had an orgasm, a good one. It was very good.”
“But was it fulfilling and gourmet?”
“Yes, yes I think it was. Maybe it was not exactly as gourmet as you are speaking of, but it was awesome.”
“Did it fill your whole body with rapture? Were you tingly and full of energy for days to come or did you grow tired and the orgasmic feeling passed through you within a few hours?”
A confused look came upon her face.
Orgasm Is Mandatory For A Woman To Live an Abundant, Happy & Healthy Life
Here is the problem: this world is suffering from the majority of women not having real orgasms, shit most women don’t even have orgasms at all, they fake them, they hide out in their minds and they grow bitter toward life. Those who do have an orgasm normally rely on a clitorial quick fix or tighten their bodies up so much during an orgasm that it is short lived and never fills their whole being; body, heart and soul. They lack the orgasmic rapture that they need. Orgasm is mandatory for a woman to live an abundant, happy, healthy, full life. And not just any old orgasm will do this. The deeper, more penetrating an orgasm, the more life and creative energy, love and surrender a woman will bring to the world. To you.
When her emotions become muted and she is closed, lacking expression toward life she is close to running on empty in her orgasmic bank account.
When she is overly hateful or stuck in depression, full of what seems to be crazy hormonal ups and downs she is lacking in her orgasmic bank account.
When she lays down and has sex but is indifferent to what happens in the bedroom or cannot share her desires, her boundaries and her fears she is lacking in her orgasmic bank account and this is where the trouble resides.
The Darkness of Pussy Frustration
Worse yet, she won’t tell you the truth about what is going on because she herself does not understand. Even if she has a clue her voice will be seized by the darkness of her pussy frustration and her ego will have hold of her so strongly that she won’t be capable of vocalizing the unspeakable to you. That unspeakable being that she needs to be f-ked wide open by a man that can penetrate not only her flesh but her heart and soul. She needs his strength, his firmness, his masculine energy to be unleashed in her at a cellular level and TAKE her beyond the point of no return and right into the heavens of rapture. Only at this level can she trust her man and allow herself once again to be seen.
As Nicole Daedone, author of Slow Sex states,
“Running on empty is not what you want your woman to be, unless you like irritability, impatience, hypersensitivity, and for everything to be your fault. Because in the space between what she asks for and what she really wants, resentment will begin to fester. And you, sir, will be the one she blames.
Find out what she is hungry for, and give it to her. Never accept her first answer. Ask again. And again. Make it a part of your game plan to prod and push until she releases what she is withholding and her desire comes flying out. At first, her desire might sound like anger. She may need to blow off steam. Don’t take it personally, even if she says hurtful things.
“Keep asking until you feel her true desire release. You will feel it in your body when she finally lets go. Regardless of how much resistance she has, don’t stop asking until you feel it. You are helping her unravel a lifetime of conditioning – old beliefs and habits and rules that are suffocating the bright, lovely, sexy woman within.
“That’s the woman you want to be with. So if you have to ask all night, ask all night. You’ll know it when she finally speaks her desire because you will be able to feel it, landing with a satisfying *thunk in your body.
“Then give it to her, and you’ll be giving her the thing she never thought she could get: not just the desire, but approval for having the desire at all. ”
Women: Ask For What You Sexually Want & Need
What Nicole is stating here is the powerful truth and it is hard to understand for many men because men have the ability to state what they need or want clearly most of the time. Men have also been raised differently then women and do not have the same shame placed upon them for wanting or needing sex. It is expected that a man craves, thinks about and will ask for sex. It is common thought in many marriages and in society that it is the woman’s place “to make sure to keep her man happy, else he will surely stray and find it somewhere else” but for a woman to be open about her cravings labels her a or slut. Even if we are not aware of this low grade consciousness and believe ourselves to be above this sort of thinking, the consciousness and programs still exist for all of us. They lay there in the covers of darkness within our psyche and if we are women they make themselves known pretty quickly as soon as we face our undernourished needs.
Men: Ask Your Women What She Desires
So gentlemen or those in the masculine role of the relationship, never stop asking your woman what she desires. Never stop inquiring about her deep hungers. Dig in her cavern and find the treasures she has hidden there, tell her frequently that you love her, that she is your babe, your special lady, your love. Touch her often and playfully and set aside time to REALLY be with her. This is not meaning a movie and dinner or even snuggle time on the couch, this means eye to eye, deep focused communication time. Communicate your love with words, looks and touch and ALWAYS keep asking. She will open to you.
Kendal Williams
http://Senior Sizzle.com
I found this article online today and thought it was worth sharing. Hope you all find it useful or at least a good read!
~VL
– VisceralLioness
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CONDOM ARGUEMENTS
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Posted:Jul 2, 2014 4:59 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2014 9:26 pm
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THANKS TO ISANEILLUSIONS
The condom argument.
I get so sick of having the condom argument. You meet a guy and you're getting along, you're attracted to them, and they seem to be attracted to you too. You start to talk about hooking up and then comes the condom argument. He doesn't want to wear one. He's clean, he's too big, he can't keep it up when wearing one, he's allergic, he'll pull out. He promises.
Well let's think about this logically. I'm clean too. I know I am because I saw the test results from the doctor when I went and got myself tested. Do you have your test results? How many women have you slept with that let you go bare? Do you have their test results? What about all the other men they slept with? If you could talk them out of making you wear one do you think they made the other men? Did you ask them if they were clean? I mean you haven't asked me and you don't even know me. So you trust me now? There seems to be kink in your logic here.
So the answer is no you can't go without a condom. I don't care if you ask again. I don't care what the issue is that you have with condoms. The truth is I don't trust you and all the women you've slept with or the people they have slept with.
I don't understand why this is always such an argument. I'm so sick of the same conversation over and over again.
Ok /end rant
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AnAwkwardGirl -- The Curse of the Strong Girls, the loud girls, the girls with big personalities.
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Posted:Jun 8, 2014 7:27 pm
Last Updated:Jun 8, 2014 7:50 pm
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The curse of the strong girls, the loud girls, the girls with big personalities
I’ve always been loud, and I’ve always liked to talk. The only things I ever got in trouble for in school was talking. My mom had to try extra hard to teach me not to talk to strangers.
I’ve also always been very big into standing up for what’s right, and not letting people get away hurting others. When I was 8 years old, and discovered that my name (Jocelyn) means “just”, it felt so right. In school, I always stepped in front of the being bullied, and had words to match the hateful words those bullies were spewing.
I’ve always been ready and able to defend others. But I’ve always had a hard time defending myself. When the words were turned on me, I had no words to give back. I had panic and stress issues that made me have to go home sick from school. I learned in third grade that if you let people see that they hurt you, they would just hurt you harder. If you let them see you cry, then they got what they wanted.
So, I hardened myself to protect myself. I stayed loud. I adopted outrage over injury. People don’t tend to try to hurt people who are outraged. Outrage makes people uncomfortable, and they leave you alone. Eventually people did leave me alone.
But something else happened along the way. I thought I had protected myself, but I had only hardened my shell. On the inside, I was still fragile and easily hurt. But I couldn’t show it anymore. I didn’t know how to show the pain when it mattered most. When I needed to show it in order to protect myself in a different way; so that when people I trust and care about hurt me, I can let them know and they can stop.
Instead, the outrage comes out. I can’t stop being loud. I can’t stop talking. I sound angry, I sound disgusted. But in reality, I am bleeding on the inside. My heart is broken. But I can’t say the words. I can’t show the pain. And I end up making it worse for myself.
This is the curse of the strong girls, the loud girls, the girls with big personalities. We are seen, and we are heard, and we have the image that we can take anything that’s thrown at us. Along the way, people start believing we can’t be hurt. And we do it to ourselves, with our strong shells and hard words. We try to say that we’re hurt in every way but saying the actual words. Because those words feel like razor blades on our tongues.
And this also makes us targets. People still have animal instincts. When they’re backed into a corner – even when they’ve backed themselves into it -- they will do anything to get out. They will lash out and they will put the blame on others. And when people think you can’t be hurt, you’re the answer to their problems. It’s a victimless crime at that point. You can’t be hurt, so what does it matter if you carry everyone’s problems? You carry the smoking gun, while they escape in the cloud. And then you’re hurt, and you can’t say that you are, because those words are razor blades on your tongue.
– AnAwkwardGirl
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The Good Girl by Selandra
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Posted:Jun 7, 2014 9:21 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2015 9:09 pm
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Thank you Selandra for your eloquent writing!
The 'good girl'
I am writing this in response to the overwhelming response to my note.. Why being a 'good girl' sucks sometimes...
Yes, i am a 'good girl' so what does that mean to me?
It means that you are my top priority... even over myself.
It means i will give you my respect. Why, because you deserve to be respected.
It means i will believe what you say, because i trust you have my best interest at heart.
It means i will do everything i can to fulfill your desires. I may not like them or want to do them but it is your will.
It means that i will overlook those days when you are distant or less than wonderful because i know you are human and have bad days.
HOWEVER,
It does not mean i will allow you to make me forget who i am.
It does not mean that you can treat me as less than human and keep my respect.
It does not mean i will let you get away with lying and cheating.
It does not mean i will forget i also have desires and dreams.
It does not mean i will give you a free pass to be an asshole.
Why, because i am a good girl... not a doormat, not a second class human, not a mindless robot.
And you really don't want me to be that way. Why?
Because i am full of life and laughter.
I am playful and will drive you crazy with my silly antics.
I will see your stress and be quiet and rub tired muscles.
I will see the evil gleam in your eyes and my heart will race in delightful anticipation.
I will embrace the depravity of your mind and wallow in the deliciousness of your darkness and afterwards i will walk out the door every inch a lady of decorum and elegance.
I will treat you as if you were the only person on the face of the earth that i wish to serve.
Because you are and because i am a good girl.
– Selandra
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Of Loves And Loss And More
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Posted:May 31, 2014 10:10 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 7:13 pm
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I give credit to Kiyana whose posting this from somewhere inspired me to repost as well!
The four people you're going to lose in your life and how to get over them
People walk in and out of our lives every single day. Whether for work, friendship or love, letting people into our lives is never easy.
Letting people in means being both vulnerable and responsible for whatever may happen between the two of you.
However, once you let someone in, he or she is in. This person is a part of your daily life, and we never really think of what will happen when he or she leaves.
If letting people in is hard, losing people is even harder. Losing someone means losing a part of you, as well. The people I’ve lost have taken away a part of my time on this planet and have shaped memories in my life I will probably remember forever.
Moving on from different types of relationships is inevitable, but each loss hurts in a different way and some will even hurt forever.
Here are a few different types of losses we all deal with while growing up:
The one you never had:
They say you can’t lose something you never had. I beg to differ. If you were, for even the shortest amount of time, someone in my life, I had you. You had parts of me. I couldn’t have made it all up in my head. You took parts of my time by spending minutes, hours and nights with me.
You took a piece of my mind when you were suddenly part of my thoughts. You had my body when we were together. You took a piece of my heart when I began to care. You’ll always have that and you will never even know it. These are the people who hurt you and will continue to hurt you forever.
The one who disappointed you:
Letting people in and trusting them is quite challenging for me. Life has taught us to be skeptical about everyone’s intentions and motives, but once I trust someone, he or she has my complete trust.
The one who disappoints me not only hurts me, but also makes me feel angry; angry at myself for wasting my time and trust on someone who never truly deserved it.
Then you’re changed a little. This person takes away parts of your willingness to let other people in. He or she took and wasted your time and also took parts of the trust you have for yourself. Those intangible things will never come back.
The one who is here but isn’t:
People change. People evolve and move on to whichever stage of their lives they chose to be in. The one who is here but isn’t is a different kind of hurt, because you haven’t really lost him or her but there’s that slight possibility that eventually you will.
It’s the person who you can feel drifting away right in front of you. It’s the anticipation that hurts; the not knowing when he or she will go away and when things will forever change.
It’s the thinking back on how things used to be, how they are right now and how it all might disappear. People say you don’t know what you have until you lose it. The one who isn’t here makes you realize what you have and how you are slowly, day by day, losing it.
The one who went away:
Losing someone to distance is inevitable. Life and its circumstances bring cities, countries and oceans between us and the ones we love. Of course there are still countless ways to maintain contact with the ones who go away; yet, it will never be quite the same.
The one who went away takes a part of your mind, a part of your soul that will never be yours again because he or she will be somewhere else; wherever that person is. Though this hurts, I count it as a blessing, as well.
Loving and hurting for those around the world gives me hope; hope for travel, hope to see them again some day and hope that in the end, I’m not as alone in this world as I think I am.
While I can't take credit for it, I had to post this. Knowing a few people in my life who are dealing with some forms of loss right now I felt this was an amazing piece that needed to be shared with others.
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Submission
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Posted:May 26, 2014 9:09 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2015 9:13 pm
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Borrowed with the utmost respect from forestsylph.
Never think that her submission is because she cannot be her own warrior.
She has fought battles and lived to tell the tales of the scars that mark her very soul. No, her submission does not come from weakness, it comes from the very centre of her beautiful strength. What she offers you is worth priceless riches. What she surrenders is her heart~~
Submission is not about sex. Submission is not something one can learn. It is not dirty. Submission is a beauty that comes from the very soul of a submissive woman. It is breaking down walls built up in her lifetime, allowing the beautiful, sensual woman to come through. Submission is about sensuality. It is about trust, communication, vulnerability, caring, and honesty. Submission is about knowing who you are and what you want. A submissive is not a weak person but just the opposite. She is strong in herself and in the knowledge of who she is. She never submits out of weakness or desperation. She submits out of strength, love, and trust. Submission is freedom. It is letting go of one's self, knowing that her partner is there to catch her if she falters. It is about pushing to be the very best one can be, not only as a submissive, but as a woman. Submission can actually engender power: realizing that you have something to give and that you are capable of mastering your own will to give it up the way it is wanted instead of the way you think it should be wanted. It can inspire pride, not the false pride of an inflated ego but the true pride that, like humility, comes from knowing the depths of yourself.
~ William Henkin
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Poetry by Eva_Lution
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Posted:May 18, 2014 2:35 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 7:13 pm
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Lap
May I?
May I crawl
Into your lap?
It looks so
Inviting,
And I was wondering...
While I'm snuggled
All warm and safe there,
Would you?
Could you?
Stroke my hair?
And maybe,
Just maybe,
Talk to me
In a soft voice
And tell me
Everything
Is gonna be okay?
I'd really,
Really
Love that.
sigh
– eva-lution
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From GurlGoneWild -- Just because i had a fella cuss me for having one in place
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Posted:May 17, 2014 4:20 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 7:13 pm
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The Safe Call
One of the easiest, most sensible ways i keep myself safe is with a safe call. Simply put, if i'm going to play with someone in private, or meeting them for coffee for the first time, or going anywhere i might find myself vulnerable, i set up a call.
It's easy and reasonable, and i make sure to tell my date i have done it, and that i have given his address to my friend. Part way through the date, at a specific time, i call my protector, Kamakaze. (No, i don't text cuz anyone could be typing for me.) i let him know that i'm okay, or if i'm not okay, i give him a code word. That has never happened, btw. It's simply a precaution. Your safe call person does not have to be kinky, just someone responsible whom you know will not hesitate to call the cops if anything goes wrong.
i make the second call when i'm home safe. This one can be a text because there is no way for a baddie to know that the second call is required.
If the call doesn't come, or if the trigger word is spoken, he will come to me. If he is unsatisfied that i am okay, he will NOT kick ass, but will call the police. Let them do the ass kicking. Or they will do a simple extraction. Could be a misunderstanding, or it could be that the top lost consciousness and i'm tied up and can't get to the phone. Or whatever. Shit happens!
Most of the time, things are fine and the safe call is just a formality.
BUT
There have been times when i have mentioned that i have a safe call, and sometime shortly after he mysteriously cancels, never to be seen again. Maybe i put my foot in it, or he got a better offer, or whatever, but the truth is, i will never know what didn't happen.
Note, this is not a guarantee of safety. Really, there are no guarantees ever. As i previously mentioned, shit happens.
All we can do is be aware of the risks, and mitigate them in the best way possible.
If you need a
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This comes from KarlyMonster -- and sadly some men just don't get it!
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Posted:May 17, 2014 4:05 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2014 4:30 pm
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My response to "Want to fuck?"
This is my general copy/paste response to someone sending one of those lovely, "I want to shove my _____ in your ____" messages. Feel free to use it with no credit to me.
"While I'm flattered that you've displayed interest in penetrating/playing with any or all of my orifices I have to respectfully decline. To avoid any further communication on the subject (which is bound to be horribly uncomfortable for you) I have compiled a short list as to why I will not partake.
1) I don't want to.
Have a great day!"
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This comes from HotKiss67 -- and it is very well written! -- A Cock
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Posted:May 14, 2014 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2015 8:18 pm
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Why "size" really, truly, honestly means nothing to me...
Body issues and body shame certainly do seem to effect how both genders view themselves. One of the biggest fallacies, to my mind, is the male mindset that says that bigger is better, especially in relation to cock size. I don't know where it starts, whether it be the locker room at school or porn, but most men I've ever known have had a thing about the size of their cock. Most believing that it should be bigger, thicker, stick up when erect instead of out....something.
I can only speak with authority about myself, but I'm willing to bet a good majority of women feel the same way I do about this issue. Actually, we women talk, so what I am about to say I have also heard a lot of other women say too.
Your cock size doesn't matter.
I'm going to say it again.
Your cock size DOESN'T matter.
No one iota. The size of your cock will NEVER be the determining factor in whether I think you are sexy or a good lover. Not now, not in the past and certainly not in the future.
Your cock size will never determine how manly in my eyes you are or are not. Your behaviour toward me and others will, but not your cock size.
Why not? Well, simply put, I have this nifty thing called a vagina that actually accommodates a significant size range. It contracts and expands as needed and during orgasm, it's been known to actually push out invaders during orgasmic contraction. Now, I ain't special fellas. All vagina's tend to function that way. Another interesting factoid is that the nerve endings that give those same vaginas pleasurable feelings don't extend that far up into the vagina. Once again, size is not the determining measure in a woman's pleasure.
Another thing most men don't seem to know is that the simple basic in and out isn't the be all and end all. Quite a few well-endowed men seem to think that all they need to do is stick their cock in and out and we womenfolk will be awash in pleasure. Um, nope. Chances are he's more in love with his cock than I would ever be and he is what I fondly refer to as a "one trick pony". The main problem with this is that a guy that relies solely on the size of his cock hasn't likely developed any other skills. That in turn means at some point I'm liable to be looking up at the ceiling and thinking what colour I should paint it. "Beige, I think I'll paint it beige". To be blunt, if that's all that's gonna happen, I'm going to get bored quick no matter how big or small your cock is. In conversations with other womenfolk, I am aware that I am not alone in thinking and feeling this.
While I'm at it, I might as well address another big fallacy that a lot of men seem to think they need to do. You do NOT have to be hard for hours on end and never cum until I'm well and truly satisfied. Seriously. Stop it. I'll let you in on a little secret. My ego is secretly pleased when fucking me feels so goddamn good to you that you cum hard and fast when you are inside me and "can't hold back". Again, conversations with other women has confirmed I am also not alone in that primal response to premature ejaculation. I want you to feel like sex with me is amazing! Who wouldn't?
Here is a bit of a warning, though, and where one trick ponies run into trouble. Just because you came, it doesn't mean everything's over. Once you've recovered from your own orgasm, don't forget to help your partner get to a good place herself. Be inventive. You have only one cock, but you also have two hands and a mouth and a visit to your local head shop will provide you with plenty of toys to assist your lady in getting to her happy place. Use whatever she and you are comfortable with and enjoy.
Many women have the luxury of being multi-orgasmic. This is a key piece of information for you guys to pay attention to. Even if I cum when you do, I'm ready, willing and able to cum lots more. The BEST lovers know this and use this information to their advantage.
I have yet to hear a woman say "He made me cum so hard and so often that I couldn't even stand or say my name when he finished with me, but he has a small cock so I'm gonna have to dump him". It just isn't gonna happen. Do you really care HOW you came, so much as whatever she is doing to you felt so good that you DID cum? Handjob, blowjob, vaginal sex, anal sex....does it really matter how? Then why in Hades do some of you men think it matters a fig to women HOW you made them cum, just so long as you do indeed make her cum? If you've taken the time to know my body well enough to make me orgasm over and over again, the LAST thing I'll be thinking about is the size of your cock, or how long you went without cumming yourself. I'll be too busy trying to catch my breath and trembling from aftershocks to be worried about that. In fact, I may be so wet and wrapped up in my own reactions that I might have to actually ask if you came or not.
Wanna know an even bigger secret? If you ARE able to make me forget how to speak and think of nothing but how good you make me feel, those good feelings are going to be associated with YOU aaaaaaand I'm going to want to do that again with you. I'm going to want to do it again, a lot!!! With you. Not Johnny SoandSo with the 10 inch cock. YOU! Cuz you showed me you actually know how to play my body like an instrument to get the desired result and weren't relying solely on PIV sex.
Now in general, I don't think cock shot pictures are all that wonderful to look at and don't in general get turned on by the mere sight of a man's cock. There is a huge "BUT" here, however. If you and your cock have made me feel like the sexiest woman alive, and I've cum with you over and over again - I'm liable to really have a huge thing for YOUR cock. I will want to play with it, make it hard, make it soft, make it jump and twitch. I will become fascinated with YOUR cock and think it is indeed a thing of beauty and strength and happily worship it and you. The feel of it pressed up against me will make me hot and want you. The size of it will have absolutely NOTHING to do with that.
Just thought some of you men could use knowing this.
– Hotkiss67
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