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flowerchildbabe 30F  
21 posts
5/19/2020 12:19 pm
Diagnosis

Am I an addict?

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There's definitely more add; and as the blog evolves, feel free adjust your answer or ask questions.
Sex Addict
Love Addict
Neither
Both


PAWAPh 44M
13200 posts
5/19/2020 12:44 pm

Hey, fcb.

*Welcome To Blogtown*

Jack


SC4wheels 47M
383 posts
5/19/2020 2:53 pm

Sounds like you are addicted to love and sex has been the easiest way to "feel" it. The dopamine that comes with sex makes you feel great at the moment. Love takes more than just sex to develop though.
Have you tried taking it slow when dating? Not having sex right away. It may be frustrating for a while but the end result could be what you are looking for. Build that bond together, then start fucking like crazy


forgotforgetting 54M
7206 posts
5/19/2020 3:31 pm

Impossible to know at this point for explanation I offered in the other post.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


justaguyinalaska 54M  
649 posts
5/19/2020 7:01 pm

Hey! You're neither morbidly obese nor consuming hydroxychloroquine to validate your *womanhood*. On the Crazy Scale, you're not even registering a blip.

In all seriousness, per my comments in your preceding post, I am positive with regards to your status.


Leegs2012 47M
55301 posts
5/20/2020 8:32 am

Welcome to Blog Land!!


rebel_rebel4 62M/61F  
1 post
5/21/2020 4:40 pm

I think you are wonderfully self-reflective and perceptive. But I don't think you're an addict. There are a thousand ways to navigate your sexuality and your love life, and, as you say, labels aren't necessary. What you find troublesome--finding yourself in unfulfilling relationships or returning to using sex in a way that makes you feel used--is, I think, just a part of the journey of discovering what works for you, what doesn't, and what you really want. And, I think, as long as you continue to think through it and be honest with yourself, you will find something that works. Don't limit yourself to what that will be and you will get there, either alone or with someone. But be careful with, and be kind to, yourself and your heart because both are precious.

My wife and I opened up our relationship about 5 years ago after 13 years together, and we have done so honestly and openly. It is one of the best things we have done, because it allowed us to explore other aspects of ourselves both together and individually. And it deepened our love. But it all came from a place, first, of friendship and mutual respect, and open communication. That, for us, was a good foundation as a starting place for this kind of sexual exploration.


undercvrlvrs 50M/50F  
3 posts
5/22/2020 12:15 pm

I think you equate love with sex when they are two different things. Sex is fun and shouldn't be tied to love. Go out have fun and fuck responsibly. You'll know when you are in love but ensure the person fits all your needs.....not just one or the other but most important of all is have FUN!!!


WarnYou93 27M
2 posts
5/22/2020 3:30 pm

good point of view


Olimur56 29M
1 post
5/24/2020 4:16 pm

I think, after you have to do something you love, meeting the right guys is over you cause it's over me too, so keep the faith.
I liked to read that.


Lovemilfscougars 37M
34 posts
5/24/2020 8:39 pm

sex addict


Littlhunt4 40M
15 posts
5/26/2020 5:51 am

I think you are neither. We are in crazy times right now. It’s hard to fulfill your needs when you don’t have the resources available. You want what you want, when you want it. The right man will understand that and fulfill that.


Scottjel 49M
14 posts
6/2/2020 6:31 am

Love to have fun


Hatisizzle4U 39M  
2 posts
8/23/2020 9:09 am

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