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flannel_light 58F  
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3/23/2021 9:23 am

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May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 9:25 am

Lossing Interested


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CleavageFan4U 64M  
65482 posts
3/23/2021 9:33 am

This can be a brutal place at times.

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benard69 63M/63F  
5800 posts
3/23/2021 9:59 am

You are More than Good enough for both..You've just run into a few selfish idiots..


WilmingtonFun137 40M
156 posts
3/23/2021 10:18 am

It gets painful when we hit this place. Getting mistreated by the few that don't just stand us up or ghost us. Knowing we are decent people just looking for that connection. Painful. sorry you are going through it.

You see light dappling on the water and forget the deep, cold dark beneath.


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 10:27 am

    Quoting benard69:
    You are More than Good enough for both..You've just run into a few selfish idiots..
Thank you. It really has done a number on me this time around.


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


RavenGB 60M
1264 posts
3/23/2021 11:03 am

This site, more than many others, makes the old adage about having to kiss many, many frogs before you find your prince ring true. Everybody (well, almost everybody!) deserves happiness - keep looking!


Paulxx001 64M
18809 posts
3/23/2021 11:42 am

It's a bummer when things get you down. But life is short — ya gotta say 'screw it', and get out there.
Otherwise.... they win.


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 12:01 pm

    Quoting RavenGB:
    This site, more than many others, makes the old adage about having to kiss many, many frogs before you find your prince ring true. Everybody (well, almost everybody!) deserves happiness - keep looking!
I think after my membership ends in July, I will not be a gold again and this time around it has really done something to my faith and hopes


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


justme51 69M
871 posts
3/23/2021 12:24 pm

Never give up just part of life. World is full of nuts.


jajo696 66F
3194 posts
3/23/2021 12:34 pm

wow girl. Take your time...re center yourself, lick your wounds, heal and carry on. Its crazy to think that you are coming up against all these jerks. Yes....we do have to kiss many frogs....

The only thing positive ( i guess ) is that you havent met these jerks a few times and caught more feelings and then they ghost ya!

There is always a Blessing to be found somewhere~

Huggsss girl...


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 1:16 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It's a bummer when things get you down. But life is short — ya gotta say 'screw it', and get out there.
    Otherwise.... they win.
Thanks for sharing


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 1:18 pm

    Quoting WilmingtonFun137:
    It gets painful when we hit this place. Getting mistreated by the few that don't just stand us up or ghost us. Knowing we are decent people just looking for that connection. Painful. sorry you are going through it.
It does at that


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 1:19 pm

Not at times; ALl THE TIME...


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 1:20 pm

    Quoting justme51:
    Never give up just part of life. World is full of nuts.
We shall see how it goes till July


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 1:21 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    wow girl. Take your time...re center yourself, lick your wounds, heal and carry on. Its crazy to think that you are coming up against all these jerks. Yes....we do have to kiss many frogs....

    The only thing positive ( i guess ) is that you havent met these jerks a few times and caught more feelings and then they ghost ya!

    There is always a Blessing to be found somewhere~

    Huggsss girl...
I don't have much faith and hope in that right now


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


citizen4722 63M  
70860 posts
3/23/2021 2:30 pm

Of course you're good enough. It's their loss, not yours


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 2:59 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Of course you're good enough. It's their loss, not yours
Thank you


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


q_d_mcgraw 102M  
101 posts
3/23/2021 4:01 pm

That attitude profits noone, least of all you. You can't shoulder others' shortcomings. What did they do to deserve such a favor? About twenty or so years ago, I was in a very dark place. I was hurt and I was very, very angry about it and everything else. So I started trying to find a way to deal with it. After a while, I figured out a way. I decided not to worry about, not to even waste a Planck Time second on anything I couldn't or wouldn't at least try to do something about. The light that came into my life at that moment was biblical. I still have to work on me but, everyone else is just fucked. That's their problem for them to work on. Lighthouses are special, don't you think? I got a new blender today. I'm gonna have a chocolate shake for supper. Love, sigrhetman.
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flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 5:37 pm

    Quoting q_d_mcgraw:
    That attitude profits noone, least of all you. You can't shoulder others' shortcomings. What did they do to deserve such a favor? About twenty or so years ago, I was in a very dark place. I was hurt and I was very, very angry about it and everything else. So I started trying to find a way to deal with it. After a while, I figured out a way. I decided not to worry about, not to even waste a Planck Time second on anything I couldn't or wouldn't at least try to do something about. The light that came into my life at that moment was biblical. I still have to work on me but, everyone else is just fucked. That's their problem for them to work on. Lighthouses are special, don't you think? I got a new blender today. I'm gonna have a chocolate shake for supper. Love, sigrhetman.
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Thank you for sharing


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


Owatalife 64M
1598 posts
3/23/2021 7:30 pm

Life for many folks just now is anything but a walk park so am sorry to hear you get so down on your luck with any sort of relationships. Maybe a break & the warmer weather that is fast approaching will cheer you up enough to get out & about once again. Being depressed is difficult yes but shouldn't be enough to keep you from enjoying what this world has to offer, even if Men are beastly creatures at the best of times.


BiggLala 49F  
29545 posts
3/23/2021 8:38 pm

I don't have any words of wisdom to share (except that I somewhat agree with what mcgraw said). I know how you feel. I quit trying about 4 years ago. I don't even chat with guys who fall outside my parameters. Of course, I also expect to be disappointed, so...I'm never disappointed.

This feels trite to say, but hang in there.

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flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/23/2021 8:48 pm

    Quoting Owatalife:
    Life for many folks just now is anything but a walk park so am sorry to hear you get so down on your luck with any sort of relationships. Maybe a break & the warmer weather that is fast approaching will cheer you up enough to get out & about once again. Being depressed is difficult yes but shouldn't be enough to keep you from enjoying what this world has to offer, even if Men are beastly creatures at the best of times.
I am really thinking of giving it up


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


author51 58F
112228 posts
3/23/2021 11:38 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    You are More than Good enough for both..You've just run into a few selfish idiots..
I quite agree here.You my friend are too good for them actually. It is unfortunate about being stood up.Take some time away from looking for a bit.When you do, it often finds you.xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life..xoxo

CAN I SEE YOU


PonyGirl1965 55F
14929 posts
3/24/2021 12:43 am

I'm sorry you met a jerk. You are wonderful. It is their loss.
Kiss some more frogs and Prince Charming or his cousin will show up in time.


lindoboy100 58M
23183 posts
3/24/2021 4:43 am

I really don't understand people who make an arrangement to meet then don't follow through with it. That's probably the most rude thing you can do to someone else, to stand them up like that. No wonder you're scunnered McLight!

But keep the faith please.......maybe one day, if not here, then somewhere else.

Pull ma finger.........


cphose1 49M
80 posts
3/24/2021 6:48 am

I"m so sorry as that should not have happened. You are a wonderful caring and sexy lady. These men are fools. Please keep trying as you are beautiful.


marineone1967 71M  
1 post
3/24/2021 11:12 pm

i NEVER WOULD DO THAT/ YOU LOOK SO TASTY, I REALLY WANT TO EAT YOU.


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/25/2021 6:12 am

    Quoting cphose1:
    I"m so sorry as that should not have happened. You are a wonderful caring and sexy lady. These men are fools. Please keep trying as you are beautiful.
C thank you. It is very hard. I seem to be attractiving the wrong guys


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/25/2021 6:13 am

    Quoting marineone1967:
    i NEVER WOULD DO THAT/ YOU LOOK SO TASTY, I REALLY WANT TO EAT YOU.
Nice of you to say


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/25/2021 6:17 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    I'm sorry you met a jerk. You are wonderful. It is their loss.
    Kiss some more frogs and Prince Charming or his cousin will show up in time.
I have meet more jerk's on here than anywhere


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/25/2021 6:18 am

    Quoting author51:
    I quite agree here.You my friend are too good for them actually. It is unfortunate about being stood up.Take some time away from looking for a bit.When you do, it often finds you.xoxo
It is sure something to think about


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/25/2021 6:20 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I really don't understand people who make an arrangement to meet then don't follow through with it. That's probably the most rude thing you can do to someone else, to stand them up like that. No wonder you're scunnered McLight!

    But keep the faith please.......maybe one day, if not here, then somewhere else.
It is very rude indeed. Thank you


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


Mmmaria2018 53F  
52 posts
3/26/2021 5:16 am

I went thru this for a while, then I stopped chatting with a bunch of loosers. I
learned if they were just playing games online, or if they were truly interested in a real in person meet/greet. Unfortunately most didn't make the cut.

You need to regroup, ground yourself, and find your self worth. NO man, or woman can find self worth in another person. Never let another person steal your joy, or self esteem.

Look at it like this, if they choose not to keep a date to meet, its THEIR LOSS. And it keeps you from wasting your time with loosers. Put them to the curb. They were just playing hurtful games. And NEVER catch feelings before you meet any of these men. Learn the gaslighting/love bombing well before you meet them.

Im sure you'll find a friend. Theres someone for everyone. Best wishes.! Raise your head high. You are a GODESS!


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/26/2021 7:01 am

    Quoting Mmmaria2018:
    I went thru this for a while, then I stopped chatting with a bunch of loosers. I
    learned if they were just playing games online, or if they were truly interested in a real in person meet/greet. Unfortunately most didn't make the cut.

    You need to regroup, ground yourself, and find your self worth. NO man, or woman can find self worth in another person. Never let another person steal your joy, or self esteem.

    Look at it like this, if they choose not to keep a date to meet, its THEIR LOSS. And it keeps you from wasting your time with loosers. Put them to the curb. They were just playing hurtful games. And NEVER catch feelings before you meet any of these men. Learn the gaslighting/love bombing well before you meet them.

    Im sure you'll find a friend. Theres someone for everyone. Best wishes.! Raise your head high. You are a GODESS!
Thank you. I deer you an email


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


s2ndegree 62M  
9750 posts
3/27/2021 6:44 am

It's always nice to hear someone actually responds.
With the frequency I hear about this across the site.
The more I am to believe that it's people that are trying
to make men out to be the bad guys!

Using more than all the road!


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
3/27/2021 8:36 am

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    It's always nice to hear someone actually responds.
    With the frequency I hear about this across the site.
    The more I am to believe that it's people that are trying
    to make men out to be the bad guys!
When men stand women up, they are the as you say bad guys. I know women do this as well but I will not stand any one up or ghost then.


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


riri40001 61M
17 posts
4/6/2021 1:48 am

désolé pour vous !


flannel_light 58F  
2736 posts
4/7/2021 4:57 pm

Merci


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


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