I kissed a boy there (overreaching ...)
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Posted:Dec 26, 2018 9:09 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2019 5:25 pm
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So, anyway i had a date and it was cool except everything that wasn't cool.
By date, I mean a hookup because with all parties declaring horny that kind of happens. Whatever but let me let everyone know what drives everyone crazy here in case you didn't know (the first everyone meaning..... guys and the second everyone meaning gurls and .. i'm guessing ... girls).
You go through all the trouble of finding out what people like to figure out if a good time will be had by all. It's not much different than deciding what kind of restaurant to go to. That way everyone can relax and no surprises and let's all just grab a fork and stab food with it together. Everyone wins.
The only time there should be losers is when someone misrepresents what they like, or what they want, and that's the biggest problem with hookups. And lunches. Nobody wants to go with everyone to a sushi bar only to find out someone in the group doesn't like sushi. That person is usually me but ppfpffth whatever onto what I came to talk about.
So I'm with this guy, who is I'll say it outright here hot AF and things get off to a good start. There's this going on and that going on and I'm where I am more than happy to be where I am and then, out of nowhere he just bends over and shoves his balloon knot in my face saying "you want this ass baby?" which maybe wouldn't be a problem except we had already covered this activity in chat. And this was, next to a french bulldog or Pennywise joining in, up there on my list of things I had no idea would be part of the festivities.
Rimming is not my thing. Getting or receiving. Seriously I'm pretty open about this and I'm not going to sign up for something I am not comfortable with. I can cover this separately but that's not the point, the point is... a lot of guys overreach. Like they can't be honest right up front and then expect you to comply with this last minute change of plans because you're already there and I'm like "erhm ... ummm ... not really" so he's then all huffy or whatever but whatever.
Same thing with poppers and those kinds of things... FFS you guys and your poppers what's wrong with a regular old orgasm? In case you forgot they are pretty fucking enjoyable. You break out these things to try to make awesome more awesomer and more often than not it kills everything.
Please stop overreaching ... stop lying to yourself and to your partners ... it's ok to be a little selfish, we all are but it's not ok to be selfish at someone else's expense.
Enjoy what you can get and stop trying to get everything you want. You have to understand that's likely what you potential partner is willing to do.
- Adelina
PS I didn't hookup on someone here, it was a grindr hookup.
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What I'm not ...
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Posted:Dec 4, 2018 7:14 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2021 8:35 am
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I am not:
Super Fem
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Here for your fantasies
A bitch
A lifestyle
Ready at a moment's notice to
Your toy
Your right
A female
A transgendered person
Always at your service
Uncomplicated
Inviting you over
Quick to trust
Waiting for romance
Totally smooth
Here to satisfy your "taboos"
Here to be lied to
Here to be deceived
Your fetish
I confident and independent. I also leery, and have been burnt before. And you will to deal with that. I want to be a part of something but not part of your thrill list.
I to gain your trust and if you see me as something in the list above, I will know long before you think I know. I can smell bullshit a mile away, although not undefeated in stepping into it.
I looking for someone who knows what I not. I have told you what I not. Please have the common decency to move on if you cannot relate to being with that individual
Is that too much to ask?
Adelina
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Born This Way
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Posted:Nov 20, 2018 9:01 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2019 5:26 pm
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I enjoy Senior Sizzle. I haven't actually met any adult friends here but that's more me than you. It just takes *forever* for me to get comfortable with someone enough to meet, and most guys are kind of hit and run.
And even then, there's all kinds of butterflies because not a TG or TS or these other people that CDs get lumped into. We are not them, and they are not us. So it takes a long time to figure that out.
A lot of people have different perceptions about how I am supposed to act, and who I am supposed to be on one end, and on the other end there's just me, trying to submerge myself into the whole gender fluid thing I find myself in not by choice, but by nature. I just want to act like myself.
I like metal music, and football, and Gaga, and footwear. And I suffer the same pitfalls of both genders on one hand the desire to devour half a pizza while watching a Marvel movie and on the other hand sipping a sensible Oolong tea on the sofa as I carefully consider my life decisions when it comes to interior decorating.
It's all a delightful clusterfuck of fun to be honest in that aspect, if you're me.
I relate to this other part of me, and I want to spend some time with someone else who appreciates that, and is comfortable with themselves. I don't want a (Bad) Romance, or a Boyfriend, or maybe even someone who Wants To Make Me Happy. Because already happy in my skin. I just want to have a little fun, maybe make a new friend, maybe something more but it's not like I don't have my other priorities.
It's not a fetish for me, it's beyond that. Its home for my psyche. It's fine if it is a fetish for you, but not here for that. here for me, and hopefully you.
Adelina xo
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Webcam Cooking was Hot! Hot! Hot!
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Posted:Nov 12, 2018 4:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2019 5:27 pm
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I will confess to occasionally popping in and watching a couple or gurl get down and dirty on a webcam. I think it's fun, harmless and everyone gets something out of it.
Myself though? Maybe. I think i tried it once by accident ..... but generally, I don't have too much of a voyeur streak in me. I've had a couple times when like someone's wife wanted to watch and whatever that's one thing. That was more for their shared experience and I was happy to oblige.
But just being out there for the world to see, with different expectations, is another. And kind of a nervous pussycat anyway, and would probably just be all scared. I admire those who can just let it all hang out, and really this is the perfect kind of site for doing that but that's living life in the fast lane..
So ... I webcammed me cooking my lunches for the week. This is more my speed. Puttering along In the right hand lane, driving the speed limit +1mph if feeling dangerous. Beep Beep.
Before you curse your misfortune at not seeing me cook in a crisp blouse and incredibly cute skirt, sure I will be doing this again someday. There were up to 30 people who willingly stuck around .. on a hookup site ... and listened to me ramble on for over an hour while I made some honey sriracha chicken.
I was amazed and incredibly flattered that that many people joined me and had a great time while I was just being myself, offering all who wanted to watch me cook and hear my thoughts on everything from 2" heels to the Eagles / Cowboys football game, to blanching broccoli to being stood up on dates.
A couple brave souls even pinged me and asked for my homemade honey sriracha sauce recipe, which was very sweet (the sentiment, not the sauce which was Hot! Hot! Hot!). I can post it here if anyone else is interested, but usually people don't come to sex site blogs to get recipes. Truth be told, I didn't really have a recipe I just threw a lot of ingredients together and it happened to come out amazing. 
Thanks to everyone that joined, I hope you were at least as entertained as I was. Hopefully we can do it again soon!
XO Adelina
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OH hey a ... cock ....... pic .... (I did not see that coming)
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Posted:Nov 9, 2018 3:43 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2018 7:55 pm
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I never got the urge to just snapshot my junk and send it into the interwebs. I might have taken a couple and shared with someone privately and not saying it's wrong, a lot of people have fun with it. But I can't help that, for guys here, that there's a better way to sell yourself.
Yes, you have a dick. Great, and maybe to you it's the best thing since whatever but really it's just a picture of a dick, awash in a sea of other pics of dicks.. some which are more impressive than yours. Scandalous to suggest I know.
So in any given night online, I see approximately 50 pictures of dicks. Big dicks, small dicks, hard dicks, soft dicks, black dicks, uncut dicks, questionably something going on there dick and many varieties of flavors to choose from.
The problem is, not really in the mood for a pic of a dick before I ask for one. It's like walking into an ice cream store and having the people behind the counter just start carpet bombing you with their 51 flavors when maybe just in the mood for vanilla, or maybe not even in the mood for any ice cream. Yet they keep coming because they are sure if they throw enough ice cream at you you'll eat one out of self defense.
Same basic concept here... except with cocks, so already drowning in a flood of dicks and ice cream, some of which i like, some i don't. So when you come along with johnny come proudly probably over it, and not really interested in another "when where? hi" with a pic of junk next to it.
Lead with a nice bicep, or maybe a hint of something fun in your shorts, even a corner of your smile would be an upgrade. Be creative, nothing says I could not have possibly put less effort into a profile than your dick representing you. It's giving a coffee cup on birthdays, it's making salad for the cookout. It's the laziest way out.
not sure I've heard of any CD here that has pinged me on the the side and was like "GgggGGEeaaaahhhh girl did you see BigBozzXX144XX's dick pic? I had to dry hump a hoagie roll just to relieve the pressure. I know right I didn't even mayo. You mussssssst see this pic but wear sunglasses because looking at it with unprotected eyes will destroy your retinas with it's glorious awesomeness xoxo".
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About RIGHT NOW
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Posted:Nov 2, 2018 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2019 5:27 pm
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A lot of guys might find this hard to believe, but not normally sitting around fully dressed, with my sexiest outfits and makeup on waiting for the right cock picture to be dropped into my screen.
Truth is, more often than not "ok let's call it just about every time or even better lets not fool anyone and just come out and say it always" chatting and surfing the site in my regular 'guy' garb. I hope that doesn't ruin the illusion but let's just take a minute to explain why that is.
A wig, especially a long one isn't very cool, and isn't very comfortable. On top of that it's not like I freshly shave my face every day so there's that. And I might not have taken a shower or trimmed my body hair or have any clean panties or whatever the point is ... not a minuteman (minutewoman? minutetrans?) standing guard that can just fling on my jacket and be at your disposal.
It takes time, sometimes a couple days, maybe a couple weeks, maybe an hour but it's a whole different ballgame getting ready. I can barely execute makeup and am less successful removing it, so it's not a thing I do just to hop on here. Not that the practice would hurt, so maybe I should... but wait getting off the point. Whatever that was. Oh right.
Point is "chances are not ready and not going to be in the next hour". I understand, I get it, I've been that guy. Don't be that guy. You'll have more success taking the foot off the gas pedal because once I find a good partner I'm a good partner, and that rarely happens at a minute's notice.
I mean flattered if you try, but I have this whole level of comfort I to get with someone to make sure all the ground rules covered. Chances are on here to meet someone I trust, and you're going to have a hard time getting me to trust you with "I can be there in 20 minutes" as your opening line.
Have fun out there!
Adelina
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Blast Off!
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Posted:Oct 30, 2018 7:42 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2018 7:43 pm
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I didn't mean to start a blog, but i searched for crossdresser in blogs and didn't see any posts. So here we are. A single CD and a cast of thousands.
I've been doing this a while. And i want to help people reach us, because it's been my experience that y'all help. And maybe I help reaching you.
There are many flavors to who we are, and why we do what we do, and how you can be a part of our lives if only for only a little while. Because we want to enjoy ourselves too, but on our terms ot at least agreed upon terms.
We aren't pushovers, and I think we should have a conversation about that.
I want to be respectful to all, because at the end of the day we all just want a couple things just like you.
Angelalou
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