We are a married couple who has enjoyed the benefits of the lifestyle for almost 2 years. Having attended a few parties I have come to the following conclusion.....women we need to speak up more often about our lost orgasms. I feel as if it is our duty to stop allowing men to run thru us at these functions like they are king ding-a-ling if they are not getting us off properly. I am sick and tired of listening to men brag about how many women they fucked at a function but when I ask several women how many of them actually had an orgasm at a party you could practically hear crickets chirp. Don't get that confused with the sexy sounds of a chorus of ladies climbing the mountain, so yes there is alot of moaning and groaning going on at any party. The problem is most of women aren't reaching the summit. Men If you don't believe me ask your lady how many times she climaxed with a different partner....btw it don't count if another lady helped her get there. Ladies ask yourself when was the last time you either heard another woman climax or climax yourself at a large lifestyle function (and men other than your significant, other were involved)? I feel as if some men are so focused on the high volume of women they want to sex in one night they neglect all of the important aspects of good fucking with the 1 woman they are with at the moment. Yes fellas the ladies do talk so hear this, a man who pays attention to the small details scores extra points with any woman. If the sex is good no woman in her right mind will stray too far from you that night...trust, she may even go get 1 of her friends to join in. Most importantly gentleman if you gotta ask a woman if she climaxed you got more fucking to do before moving on to sling mediocre dick on another unsuspecting victim. The last thing you want is a room full of pissed off women who regret allowing you the privilege of jumping up and down inside their pussy. To all my Divas if you have ever left a party feeling as if it was a waste of a freshly waxed and douched pussy please take the time to have the man in your life read this blog.