Why so many married cheaters?
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Posted:May 26, 2019 11:14 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2019 11:33 am
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We try not to place judgement. Of course, everyone has a story, everyone has a past, and everyone can justify their reasoning...
But, our profile clearly says we aren't interested in married singles. From our perspective, if one's spouse doesn't know, then we simply aren't interested. We don';t want the jealousy, the drama, or the guilt.
Despite that, we get regular emails from "single guys" who ultimately end up being married. Sure, in their mind they have a reason, and it might even make sense... but, why? You've wasted our time in the vetting process, and you've not done yourself any favors.
The same happens regularly with married couples that end up being just the single male. "The wife knows about it", they say - but when we attempt to verify, the truth comes out. Their spouse doesn't know, and they never did.
If you can't be honest with your partner, we're definitely going to question the integrity of every word, every action, and your underlying character - and that's simply not what we're looking for.
Sadly, it happens all the time.
Anyone else seeing this happen regularly? 
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What's with the ghosting?
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Posted:Sep 29, 2018 12:35 pm
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2021 1:40 pm
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We've met some wonderful people on this site, and we've had some excellent conversations!
As a couple, we always respond together, and we always try and respond to every email. In fact, as a courtesy, if we chat with someone and the interest isn't there, we always respectfully decline. Seems like a common courtesy.
The one thing we'll never understand, however, is the ghosting. We talk for a bit, exchange pictures to establish chemistry, exchange texts and chat for a bit to weed out the oddballs (there's a few) - and we all decide it's a good time to meet...
...and then... ghosted.
It's actually happened a few times, and many others have also noticed this behavior. Not sure why someone would invest all that time and effort and simply disappear without the courtesy of a reply.
Why do you think this is? Cold feet?
Please share your experiences as well. We'd love to hear them.
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