Episode IX: Venturing Out: Mr I See You!  

bustinout20202 65F  
859 posts
1/1/2021 11:56 am
Episode IX: Venturing Out: Mr I See You!

OY! The word gremlins are at it again! Read the first comment for the full story!
Thanks for stopping by!
~Busti

By this point I had been conversing online with folks on a regular basis. Some were my avatars guiding and prepping me as I stepped into the lifestyle, mentally, at least.

“Maui Wowie” had been in the lifestyle for quite a while. He was the first one that I told my full story to. He wrote messages in a mini essay form that were both humorous and inquisitive and I did the . He relished my words, wanting hear every detail of my adventures and my cast of characters. He even laid odds on I would with first! [He was right on with his predictions, by the way]. One thing “Maui” told me that stuck with me was the comment that people in the lifestyle, and on this site would flow through my life like water so I needed to steel myself for that. That thought was hard to take because I had grown accustomed to hearing from them, most on a daily basis. But as I lay in bed in the morning, after saying the usual good mornings and sexy pic exchanges with my friends, I talked myself back to reality and told myself that was – I wasn’t looking for any further complications than that.

I ventured out fairly slowly. Again, 34 years of monogamy and suddenly being set free explore with no questions asked was kind of daunting. It required a huge paradigm shift on my part; one where I would flip flop between “Wheee! and What the f**k?!!” at least ten times per day. I assumed TOG [Torso of the Gods] would be my first adventure out in this world. We talked/texted pretty much daily; all times of the day. But Covid and life’s obligations certainly puts a crimp in plans.

So, he was not my first.

My very first meet and playmate was Mr. ICU. He had sent brief messages to me on Senior Sizzle for about a month or so telling me to text him. Of course that’s frowned upon on the site, and the brevity of his comments turned me off. Besides he threatened to report me to the authorities as a fake account if I didn’t respond. Go ahead, Dude! I had no skin in the game [ha! yet], so fine with me!

One Saturday, I was bored and decided I’d respond to his request. I texted him a hello. He responded nicely and after a few texts he asked for a picture and my . I told him my and his reply was, “Holy Shite! That’s you??! No need send a picture I know exactly you are!!”

Well, that made me smile!

He went on say that I was his “Holy Grail” [Now how’s a refuse that??]. He said I was pretty much everything he was looking for: height-wise, age-wise; eyes and smile that he liked. Well this sounded promising! He wanted me go on an app where we could talk, etc. Once I did that, he immediately contacted me for a video chat. He was very anxious get this show on the road! I had never skyped or zoomed before so I felt really uncomfortable. Texting is still somewhat anonymous; I feel more comfortable with that. After a couple of awkward conversations, we agreed meet.

was a brief meeting, minutes or so, but my heart was in my throat! I was so nervous meet him; his straightforward style in and media was a bit off-putting at first. But, I figured I had dip my toe in the pool sometime!

I stepped out of my car as he drove up. He was smiling as he got out of the car. was an immediate embrace greet each other. He was handsome, with piercing green eyes, and strong muscular arms.

He held my hand out an arm’s length, asked me twirl around…I now know what a cow on an auction block feels like! Apparently, he was satisfied with “Bessie” as he wanted see me again.

That was really hard do. We were in full lockdown at that point. We met once at a local park walk and talk further about what we wanted get out of this. We stopped to sit and snuggle on a picnic table right beside the walking path. We ignored the people walking by until one lady was rubbernecking while we necked.

She called out my . UH-OH!

I recognized her voice immediately. I was panic stricken as I abruptly pulled away from Mr. ICU. He stared straight ahead looking out at the ocean away from her. I walked away from the picnic table at a good social distance and said a polite “Hello, how are you?” We exchanged a couple of pleasantries as her feet kept moving, Thank God! She kept walking and gawking till she was past our scene. Mr. ICU exhaled with an “Oh My God!!” With that, I laughed and said, “Yeah, I have a feeling that’s what she’s saying right now!” I went on explain that she was my “Church Lady”. I knew her from the last church we had attended.

She knew me. She knew my hubs.

I think she must have prayed in tongues all the way home!
Amen!


~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


bustinout20202 65F  
1080 posts
1/1/2021 12:01 pm

By this point I had been conversing online with folks on a regular basis. Some were my avatars guiding and prepping me as I stepped into the lifestyle, mentally, at least.

“Maui Wowie” had been in the lifestyle for quite a while. He was the first one that I told my full story to. He wrote messages in a mini essay form that were both humorous and inquisitive and I did the same. He relished my words, wanting to hear every detail of my adventures and my cast of characters. He even laid odds on who I would play with first! [He was right on with his predictions, by the way]. One thing “Maui” told me that stuck with me was the comment that people in the lifestyle, and on this site would flow through my life like water so I needed to steel myself for that. That thought was hard to take because I had grown accustomed to hearing from them, most on a daily basis. But as I lay in bed in the morning, after saying the usual good mornings and sexy pic exchanges with my friends, I talked myself back to reality and told myself that play was play – I wasn’t looking for any further complications than that.

I ventured out fairly slowly. Again, 34 years of monogamy and suddenly being set free to explore with no questions asked was kind of daunting. It required a huge paradigm shift on my part; one where I would flip flop between “Wheee! and What the f**k?!!” at least ten times per day. I assumed TOG [Torso of the Gods] would be my first adventure out in this world. We talked/texted pretty much daily; all times of the day. But Covid and life’s obligations certainly puts a crimp in plans.

So, he was not my first.

My very first meet and playmate was Mr. ICU. He had sent brief messages to me on Senior Sizzle for about a month or so telling me to text him. Of course that’s frowned upon on the site, and the brevity of his comments turned me off. Besides he threatened to report me to the authorities as a fake account if I didn’t respond. Go ahead, Dude! I had no skin in the game [ha! yet], so fine with me!

One Saturday, I was bored and decided I’d respond to his request. I texted him a hello. He responded nicely and after a few texts he asked for a picture and my username. I told him my username and his reply was, “Holy Shite! That’s you??! No need to send a picture I know exactly who you are!!”

Well, that made me smile!

He went on to say that I was his “Holy Grail” [Now how’s a girl to refuse that??]. He said I was pretty much everything he was looking for: height-wise, age-wise; eyes and smile that he liked. Well this sounded promising! He wanted me to go on an app where we could talk, etc. Once I did that, he immediately contacted me for a video chat. He was very anxious to get this show on the road! I had never skyped or zoomed before so I felt really uncomfortable. Texting is still somewhat anonymous; I feel more comfortable with that. After a couple of awkward conversations, we agreed to meet.

It was a brief meeting, maybe 10 minutes or so, but my heart was in my throat! I was so nervous to meet him; his straightforward style in text and media was a bit off-putting at first. But, I figured I had to dip my toe in the play pool sometime!

I stepped out of my car as he drove up. He was smiling as he got out of the car. It was an immediate embrace to greet each other. He was handsome, with piercing green eyes, and strong muscular arms.

He held my hand out an arm’s length, asked me to twirl around…I now know what a cow on an auction block feels like! Apparently, he was satisfied with “Bessie” as he wanted to see me again.

That was really hard to do. We were in full lockdown at that point. We met once at a local park to walk and talk further about what we wanted to get out of this. We stopped to sit and snuggle on a picnic table right beside the walking path. We ignored the people walking by until one lady was rubbernecking while we necked.

She called out my name. UH-OH!

I recognized her voice immediately. I was panic stricken as I abruptly pulled away from Mr. ICU. He stared straight ahead looking out at the ocean away from her. I walked away from the picnic table at a good social distance and said a polite “Hello, how are you?” We exchanged a couple of pleasantries as her feet kept moving, Thank God! She kept walking and gawking till she was past our scene. Mr. ICU exhaled with an “Oh My God!!” With that, I laughed and said, “Yeah, I have a feeling that’s what she’s praying right now!” I went on to explain that she was my “Church Lady”. I knew her from the last church we had attended.

She knew me. She knew my hubs.
I think she must have prayed in tongues all the way home!
Amen!

~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


CleavageFan4U 65M  
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1/1/2021 3:50 pm

Guess you should have just met him in a more private location - like a motel room.

That's one reason I more or less only date bloggers now - we "know" each other before we ever even meet face to face.

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bustinout20202 replies on 1/1/2021 4:34 pm:
Only bloggers, huh? Good to know! Happy New Year, btw!

boobwhisperer69 59M  
8323 posts
1/1/2021 6:17 pm

Oh well!! Live your life and dont worry what others think!!!!!


bustinout20202 replies on 1/1/2021 9:16 pm:
That's what I'm learning to do! Thanks for the read...stay tuned!

astonct8 41M

1/15/2021 1:26 pm

It's easier to connect with someone you've had consistent discourse with over time.


Coach4BustyFWB 53M
51 posts
2/3/2021 2:12 pm

That's a great story. I bet many people who venture out like that are afraid they will run into someone who knows them well enough to complicate things.


bustinout20202 replies on 2/5/2021 8:34 am:
Yeah, I wasn't expecting that. The park is close to my home, but I was more concerned to be far enough from his home so that he wouldn't be recognized. It's a bigger risk for him than me.
It made for a good laugh, though!

cyclingfool 60M  
6666 posts
2/3/2022 9:37 am

I have run into a few women I know directly or indirectly a few times. Even played with one for a while years ago. The one thing seems to be that thee is a code in this world of adult websites.
I did have a co-worker show up on here and I laid low until after I retired. Just reached out and said Hi.


bustinout20202 65F  
1080 posts
2/3/2022 10:18 am

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    I have run into a few women I know directly or indirectly a few times. Even played with one for a while years ago. The one thing seems to be that thee is a code in this world of adult websites.
    I did have a co-worker show up on here and I laid low until after I retired. Just reached out and said Hi.
a code? You mean being discreet?

~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


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