A man's ass......................REALLY???
|
Posted:Mar 24, 2012 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2013 12:47 pm
52738 Views
|
This has been bugging me for a while now. But since coming back online, I see WAY TO MUCH OF IT.
Whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhy, if you are a STRAIGHT man is your profile picture, just a picture of your ass or you back side while you are laid across th bed?
Whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhy?
I need this explained to me, PLEASE!!
|
|
|
1
comment
|
|
Appearance vs. Personality
|
Posted:Mar 24, 2012 1:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 7:44 pm
50984 Views
|
"Your appearance can catch anyone's attention but it's your personality that makes them stay with you."
This is the stuff that always gets me. I clearly state in my profile that I am not a “meet and fuck” kinda girl.
So that means that no matter how tall you are, how cute you are or even how big your dick is……It is not going to happen.
I want to get to know you. What sports teams do you pull for? Are you a real fan or band wagon fan? Do you have a job? Are you fucking every single woman you meet?
While these things may not be important to other women on this site, it is important to me. If that is what you are looking for, I am good with that and I can give you the names of those women that will do those things that you want as soon as you meet them. It just won’t be me.
So when I saw this quote today, I had to share it!
Your appearance can catch anyone’s attention but it's your personality that makes them stay with you.
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
Been gone, but now I am back......................
|
Posted:Mar 24, 2012 8:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 7:44 pm
51167 Views
|
I have been gone for about 4.5 years and now I am back. I am here to HAVE FUN and ENJOY LIFE.
One of the things that strikes me as funny and maybe a little childish, is that even after being gone for the length of time that I was, some things never change.
I am very active in the INTERRACIAL chat room. Upon entering back on Senior Sizzle, of course I went there first to see if any of my old friends were around. I was pleasantly surprised that many were still here having fun. What disturbed me was that some of the same fights were still going on even after I had been gone for almost 5 years.
This got me to thinking.......is this really YOUR LIFE??? You can only exist in an "E" world where you rule because you are good and quick thinking on a keyboard. Can you not interact this way in REAL LIFE?
I will say that I used to buy into all of the insanity and was even caught up in it as it was a “different world”. But being away, I feel that while I matured in the time away from Senior Sizzle……….several of the members here did not. What I do not understand is why have they chosen to dwell in the past and live there? I mean it is 2012 already - - MOVE ON!
I am not here to compete with ANYONE over any DICK! Yes, that includes your DICK too. I love all of the people that I have meet, both male and female. I will continue to meet folks and have a great time. If that in any ways interferes with your life, then I apologize up front!
Now, let’s go have fun!
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
WHy do Women Compete with Women?
|
Posted:Oct 21, 2008 7:08 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2016 9:50 am
63794 Views
|
Women compete with each other at a societal level, the criteria for winning is usually set by others and the results are subjective and intangible. Women are usually judged by characteristics that they have little control over; something that they did not create, and that exist outside of themselves such as their physical appearance. Her success is based on subjective, biased, external validation by others. She can’t see how to beat her rival because her rival is in no more control of the outcome than she is. How can you really be more beautiful than another woman, when the decision is nothing more than someone else’s opinion of beauty?
How can you change someone’s personal preference for a certain body size and shape, a particular eye color or a fondness for blondes? How many people are needed to think that you are beautiful before it is a valid or meaningful judgment? Who do you need to tell you that you are beautiful before you can believe it to be true… construction workers, truck drivers, the man walking down the street, your pastor, the Pope, your boss? Women compete with each other for male attention and compliments as if it feeds their self-worth and self-esteem. Women try to dress sexier and have shapelier bodies than other women.
Women instinctively know that men have little power when it comes to sexual intercourse in male and female relationships. Women know that if a platonic relationship exists between a male and a female, ninety percent of the time it is a platonic relationship because the woman does not want to have sex with the man instead of visa versa. Most women do not feel that men are psychologically or biologically capable of resisting another woman’s sexual prowess because of their undying love, loyalty and respect for their committed relationship with them. If a man does not engage in a sexual relationship with a woman who is drop dead gorgeous, most women believe that it is because the other woman was in control of the outcome of the type of relationship. Women intuitively know that most heterosexual males find extraordinary beautiful women sexually irresistible and if that extraordinary beautiful woman wanted her man, he would be hers for the taking.
Women are so busy competing with each other for male attention that they do not have the psychological, intellectual or emotional insight to change the social climate that is causing them to suffer from low-self esteem. Women think of men as being promiscuous, unfaithful, lying, cheating dogs. But what most women need to come to grips with and understand is that research shows that a man is most likely to have a sexual affair with a woman’s best friend, relative or neighbor… a woman whom she trusts, loves and respects. One of the reasons that men who cheat are so successful at it is because women allow them to because they are in competition with each other.
Women believe that they are superior to other women if they are physically more attractive. In a commercial for a diet pill a woman bragged, “I am now smaller than the woman my husband left me for.” This statement leads me to believe that she felt that she deserved her husband’s infidelity when she was over weight. Her motive for losing weight was to be physically smaller than the other woman that her husband left her for. She viewed the other woman as competition more so than feeling betrayed by her husband’s disloyalty. The wife’s motive for losing weight was not to improve the status of her health or increase her self-esteem but be smaller than her competition__ the other woman. The weight control commercial is blatantly telling women that they need to look a certain way in order to earn their husband’s love and fidelity. It doesn’t matter whether or not you cook his meals, raise his , and support his dreams… what matters most in a relationship is whether or not you are physically attractive enough to keep your man at home. There is an assumption that it is natural for a man to cheat on a woman who he feels is no longer sexually appealing. Many women believe that it is their fault when their husband or boyfriend cheats on them because they are not attractive enough to keep him faithful.
A woman’s perception of self-worth is validated outside of her self from others and this affects her internal psychological concept of her own value as a human being. Women compete indirectly with other women because they have not learned how to recognize and channel their internal desires, feelings and goals into physical, tangible realities. Once women learn that they can not control or live vicariously through their or the man in their life; they will stop hating each other and focus on their individual unique gifts, talents and assets.
Why do women hate other women?
1. Women feel that their biological prime-time is limited. She can easily be replaced by a new younger, more beautiful woman. Youth is a woman’s fair-weathered friend.
2. Women feel that other women control their man’s sexual fidelity.
3. Women feel that their level or degree of physical beauty is based on luck as opposed to something that she controls.
4. Women feel that other women can take something that they have worked hard to earn by using their beauty on the job, school and the legal system because men will be taken by her beauty.
5. Women feel that other women can not be trusted. They gossip too much, they are phony and they would take your man right before your eyes.
6. Women feel that other women divert attention away from them.
7. Women feel psychologically competitive with other women to be more attractive.
8. Women subconsciously believe that if they merely looked like another woman, they could inherit her life, her diamond, her man, and people would look at her with the same admiration.
The following dialogue was edited from a variety of websites discussing how women relate to each other:
Points to Ponder:
• You can never stop a man from looking at or admiring another woman’s beauty. Do you really feel that another woman is more valuable as human being than you are simply because of her physical appearance?
• You are more than your physical body. What talents, gifts or skills do you have to contribute to society?
• You can not control what other people think of you. Once you truly accept the truth that you have no control over other people’s thoughts about who you are or how you should live your life; you will be free to design your own life from the inside out.
• You can never compete with anyone but yourself.
• The only person who you can control is yourself…period.
• Whatever you seek in other people develop in yourself. You don’t need to marry a doctor; become a doctor.
• You are the most important person in the world who must believe, acknowledge and recognize your own authentic and unique beauty. Why should anyone love and respect you more than you love and respect yourself.
|
|
|
1
comment
|
|
BEST 'HEADACHE' JOKE EVER
|
Posted:Sep 24, 2008 11:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2012 6:19 am
63128 Views
|
A husband emerged from the bathroom naked and was climbing into bed when his wife complained, as usual, 'I have a headache.'
'Perfect,' her husband said.' I was just in the bathroom powdering my penis with crushed aspirin.
You can take it orally, or as a suppository, it's up to you"
|
|
|
2
Comments
|
|
WOULD YOU........................................
|
Posted:Sep 24, 2008 11:16 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2012 6:19 am
62378 Views
|
Think about this for a minute...
If I happened to show up on your door step crying, would you care?
If I called you and asked you to pick me up because something happened, would you come?
If I had one day left, to live my life; Would you be part of that last day?
If I needed a shoulder to cry on, would you give me yours?
This is a test to see who your real friends are or if you are just someone to talk to you when they are bored . . .
Do you know what the relationship is between your two eyes?
They blink together, they move together, they cry together,
They see things together and they sleep together,
BUT THEY NEVER SEE EACH OTHER ... that's what friendship is.
Life is lonely without FRIENDS .
It's 'world best friends week'.
Who is your best friend?
Send this to all Your good friends.
Even me, if I am one of them.
See how many you get back.
If you get more than 3 then you really are a lovable person...
Save the Earth... it's the only planet with chocolate!!!!
Lord, Keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth...AMEN..!!
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
~*~ CONCENTRATE ~*~
|
Posted:Sep 18, 2008 11:02 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2008 5:01 am
30139 Views
|
I received this in an email today. After I read it several times, I thought how appropriate this would be for Senior Sizzle Blog Land.
'To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.' When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Concentrate on this sentence... 'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'
Now lately, Senior Sizzle land and Chat rooms has gotten ugly. There are a lot of rumors flying from all around by all kinds of people. Some people are being really MEAN and HURTFUL. The sad part abut this is that those that are being mean and hurtful.............know they are being this way and they DO NOT CARE. They do not see the wake of hurt that they are leaving behind them, nor do they care. It is all a HUGE GAME to them and they think they are WINNING. When the sad realty is, they are loosing BIG TIME.
Some of this used to effect me. BUT NO MORE and hasn't for a very long time. I am VERY HAPPY with me and my life.
So when I received this email today, it truly hit home with me and I had to share.
'To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.' When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Concentrate on this sentence... 'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'
|
|
|
3
Comments
|
|
Today is.........................................
|
Posted:Sep 16, 2008 6:22 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 7:44 pm
21715 Views
|
Today is
International Disturbed People's Day!
I don't care if you lick windows,
take the special bus
or occasionally pee on yourself..
You hang in there sunshine, because you are TRULY special!!
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
PMS and Light Bulb
|
Posted:Sep 16, 2008 6:19 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2012 6:20 am
23095 Views
|
Q: How many women with PMS does it take to change a light bulb?
Woman's Answer: One! ONLY ONE!!!! And do you know WHY??? Because no one else in this house knows HOW to change a light bulb! They don't even know that the bulb is BURNED OUT!! They would sit in the dark for THREE DAYS before they figured it out. And, once they figured it out, they wouldn't be able to find the #&%!* light bulbs despite the fact that they've been in the SAME CABINET for the past 17 YEARS[/SIZE]!But if they did, by some miracle of God, actually find them, 2 DAYS LATER, the chair they dragged to stand on to change the STUPID light bulb would STILL BE IN THE SAME SPOT!!!!! AND UNDERNEATH IT WOULD BE THE WRAPPER THE FREAKING LIGHT BULBS CAME IN!!! BECAUSE NO ONE EVER PICKS UP OR CARRIES OUT THE GARBAGE!!!! IT'S A WONDER WE HAVEN'T ALL SUFFOCATED FROM THE PILES OF GARBAGE THAT ARE A FOOT DEEP THROUGHOUT THE ENTIRE HOUSE!! IT WOULD TAKE AN ARMY TO CLEAN THIS PLACE! AND DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED ON WHO CHANGES THE TOILET PAPER ROLL !!
I'm sorry. What was the question?
|
|
|
2
Comments
|
|
Your so vain, you probably think this post is about you................(Part 2)
|
Posted:Sep 10, 2008 11:02 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2008 8:51 pm
21920 Views
|
To all of the
“You”s
I have
written of
My words may have
been
ignited
by you
but they are not
for
you.
As there have been
many
“You”s
who see them selves
as
Inspiration
You
all of
You
are
blinded
by your own
ego
self importance
The words
are for
me
A Map
of where I have
been
Showing me
how far I have
traveled
and how far
I have yet
to go.
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
Sex and the Cougar Woman
|
Posted:Sep 1, 2008 5:20 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 1:20 pm
23402 Views
|
How do you feel about the COUGAR in you? I have always thought since I have the three boys, 15, 17 and 18, that I could not do younger men. I have always had several that have approached me. Even at a "meet and greet", I was hit with a code violation 23!!! (OMG! That was great!). That was over a year ago. Well, in the past month, I have come to know another code violation, but this time it is a 29 one and not a 23. All, I can say is OMFG! Where do they get their stamina from? After this weekend, I am happy to be the COUGAR...........especially with this CODE VIOLATION 29!!!
Ok ladies! If you've got it, flaunt it! The latest, hippest accessory: a sexy, younger man.
It appears lots of us women are thinking differently these days. The truth is, we don't need men to provide for the family, which has always been their traditional role. We have thriving careers and an independent, anything goes mindset. In other words "we've come a long way baby".
Today you see it more and more - older woman, younger man. Demi Moore 44, is married to 29 year old Ashton Kutcher, Halle Barre is dating 31 year old Gabriel Aubry and Susan Sarandon is 17 years older than lifetime love Tim Robbins. And, you don't have to be a movie star to enjoy this fringe benefit. My best friend is married to a man 12 years her junior.
Valerie Gibson, who wrote the book "Cougar: A guide for Older Women Dating Younger Men" describes a cougar this way: "a very sophisticated, very attractive, a very sensually-aware woman, very much in control of her life. She's got a lot of energy. Today they're very fit they're very healthy. They're very successful, very independent and sophisticated."
According to a recent on-line survey, 67 percent of women say they've dated a younger man and 49 percent of men admit to dating an older woman. Gibson says now the men are driving the trend. "They love it. They go out on their own - they're called 'cougar hunters.' They have websites on where to find cougars, and, what to do with them when you do find them".
Apparently, the term cougar started in Vancouver, British Columbia, as a put-down for older women who would go to bars and go home with whoever was left at the end of the night. But now, it more positive - describing women women from 40 to 60 who are financially stable and mentally independent and looking for a younger man to have fun with.
So what do you think? I say "why not"! Women are becoming stronger and more confident and that's a very good thing. Amy Kean relationship writer says, "these women are taking what they want. It's about time. Men have done it forever".
|
|
|
2
Comments
|
|
What goes around comes around...................
|
Posted:Sep 1, 2008 2:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2008 12:20 pm
21792 Views
|
Karma: the belief that what goes around comes around. As you sow, so shall ye reap. What you do to others, you are really doing to yourself for when it comes back it is you who are receiving the punch in the nose, having the wallet stolen, or getting a ride home. It’s justice. It’s sometimes called the three-fold law, but it is not multiplied. Justice is an eye for an eye. Karma does extend even to thought, and if you allow yourself to think of some things, chances are you will think of that again. If you think about it again chances are you will do it, so there you might get the three from.
There are two good arguments I’ve heard against the law of karma. First is the idea that the gods will mixed with free will is the reason good and bad things happen to us. If that were true, a well trained magician would rein supreme on this planet, and the only things that would affect him, are the things that he would allow to affect him. (I use the masculine tenses only because it is good english, and not because I think higher of men over women). Now I should argue the existence of magick, but that is beyond the scope of this essay. The second argument is that all is chaos, minus the laws of physics. Whatever happens to us is pure chance. I honestly have no good argument against that. I feel it is an argument of the less spiritually minded, and the concept of karma definitely falls into the realm of metaphysics.
The greatest sin is hurting another’s feelings. Just think of how easy that is to do. Just think of all of the crimes that hurt feelings as well as the karma laden criminal act itself.
Everyone is responsible for their own actions, or inactions. You cannot assume responsibility for others unless they are subordinate to you, such as an employee or . Even then you are only responsible if they do as instructed, or you fail to correct their actions or inactions.
If you choose to give advice you get some of the karma if the advice is followed and sometimes if it is not followed.
Karma is logically being burned all the time because our environment is constantly affecting us, but since we are logically affecting our environment our karmas are constantly increasing, often at a faster rate than the burning. Karma is the key factor that is keeping us here, on the material region. If we had no karma with the world, we would immediately ascend to the next highest level where we did have karma. If we had no karma with any of the regions, we would float right up to the home of souls where we belong, and everybody knows our name. If we had no karma we would have no connection to the five passions: ego (vanity), lust, anger, pride and attachment.
To perform an action, and have no karma, one must have no desire for compensation or reward of any kind; this includes the even desire for “thanks”. All actions done thusly have no karma attached, for they were done without attachment to or for the results; the deed was done to be in compliance with God’s design and not of the ego.
All desire is suffering. To desire something, is to add to karma, and to seek to get that which you desire, is to add much more karma. The only wholesome desire is to desire God’s love and grace, and to desire to get the hell out of Dodge. A need is something you probably don't want. A want is probably something you don't need.
Karma determines destiny. Your future is sealed, for time is a constant. All that has happened and will happen is recorded in the akashic records. Before you were born, you accepted your life and everything that came with it. You earned it. Dharma is the karma that is manifesting in this lifetime for you; it is your destiny. Karmaless beings i.e. saints have no karma however what they are going to do in this region is predetermined. While they are all powerful, they are equally powerless. It is an impossible thing to comprehend unless you’ve done it, that is become a transcended being yourself.
|
|
|
1
comment
|
|
MENTAL HOSPITAL PHONE MENU
|
Posted:Aug 27, 2008 2:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2008 11:50 am
22082 Views
|
Hello and thank you for calling The State Mental Hospital.
Please select from the following options menu:
If you are obsessive-compulsive, press 1 repeatedly.
If you are co-dependent, please ask someone to press 2 for you.
If you have multiple personalities, press 3, 4, 5 and 6.
If you are paranoid, we know who you are and what you want,
stay on the line so we can trace your call.
If you are delusional, press 7 and
your call will be forwarded to the Mother Ship.
If you are schizophrenic, listen carefully
and a little voice will tell You which number to press.
If you are manic-depressive, hang up.
It doesn't matter which number you press,
nothing will make you happy anyway.
If you are dyslexic, press 9-6-9-6.
If you are bipolar, please leave a message after the beep
or before the beep or after the beep.
But Please wait for the beep.
If you have short-term memory loss, press 9.
If you have short-term memory loss, press 9.
If you have short-term memory loss, press 9.
If you have low self-esteem, please hang up.
Our operators are too busy to talk with you.
If you are menopausal, put the gun down,
hang up, turn on the fan, lie down and cry.
You won't be crazy forever.
If you are blonde, don't press any buttons.
You'll just mess it up.
This coming week is
National Mental Health Care week.
You can do your part by remembering
to contact at least
one unstable person to show you care.
(Well, my job is done. Your turn!)
|
|
|
2
Comments
|
|
To link to this blog (blkdcklvr) use [blog blkdcklvr] in your messages.
|
|
|
| Sun |
Mon |
Tue |
Wed |
Thu |
Fri |
Sat |
1
|
2
|
3
|
4
|
5
|
6
|
7
|
8
|
9
|
10
|
11
|
121
|
13
|
14
|
15
|
16
|
17
|
18
|
19
|
20
|
21
|
22
|
23
|
24
|
25
|
26
|
27
|
28
|
29
|
30
|
31
|
|
|
|
|
Most Recent Comments by Others
| I have been BAD..... (11) | letshavefunnaz
Feb 23, 2022 12:30 pm |
| Size.....Does it Matter (8) | DirtyBrunette76
Jan 20, 2022 10:17 am |
| You have to listen with a dirty mind.... (1) | letshavefunnaz
Oct 30, 2021 5:02 am |
| Liar, Liar...pants on fire!!! (7) | Sugarbaby5510
Apr 5, 2021 9:46 pm |
| How long is too long??? (6) | summertimeb2014
Sep 5, 2019 7:47 am |
| NEW WINDOWS (7) | StrongBlakDick4U
Sep 14, 2018 10:09 pm |
| TRAIN TICKET (2) | StrongBlakDick4U
Sep 14, 2018 10:05 pm |
| Feeling a little NAUGHTY today!! (4) | StrongBlakDick4U
Sep 14, 2018 10:01 pm |
| Sex and Weight....does it matter? (6) | StrongBlakDick4U
Oct 11, 2016 10:32 am |
| Is SLUT a bad word? (23) | MANDINGOBBC
Aug 15, 2016 9:13 pm |
| SIDE CHICK VS STALKER (1) | nerdygirl721
Aug 12, 2016 1:29 am |
|
