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Insults
Posted:Mar 14, 2017 12:44 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2017 5:52 am
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A few days ago I got a message from a local guy. I checked his profile and it was one sentence long. His message to me was basically, "I'm interested, let's meet." So I politely turned him down and he freaked out, saying that women beg for him and any woman would be lucky to have him and I should be thankful that he wanted me and I was a conceited bitch and blah, blah, blah. So I blocked him and moved on.

Today a man, 48 years old (out of my age range), heavyset (not my body type), from Canada (way out of my distance range) complemented my new video. I thanked him. Then he wanted to chat. I politely declined. Then he accused me alternatively of sniffing glue and being a crack (I thought Canadians were supposed to be nice, but I digress). So I blocked him and decided to create a poll.

Women and men (I'm sure it's not just us women!): do people insult you when you turn them down?

Leave some of the best insults you've received in the comments!
Women - Yes, I've been insulted when I expressed disinterest.
Women - I have not received insults for turning someone down.
Men - Yes, I've been insulted when I expressed disinterest.
Men - I have not received insults for turning someone down.
2 Comments , 17 votes
Age Limit
Posted:Dec 12, 2016 2:12 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2017 6:54 am
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I have an age limit listed in my profile (that most single men don't seem to read). Really 45 is the top age for guys, and it will have to be an exception guy. Sexy women up to 55, and she will have to be seriously sexy.

Since I joined this site I have been getting messages from guys (only guys, always guys) outside of my range. They say things like, "Age is just a number," and, "I'm really in shape for my age." I've been nicer than I should be when replying to people who either don't read my profile or don't care what my preferences are. From now on I'm probably going to be rude and if the guys respond I'll just block them.

Men and women: how do you handle people outside of what you're looking for when they message you and get pushy?
I'm rude back. They deserve it.
I delete their messages. I don't have time for their BS.
I block them. Why should they get to keep getting off to my pics/videos?
Other (write-in comments)
6 Comments , 32 votes
Proper Grammar
Posted:Nov 17, 2016 6:49 am
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2017 8:25 am
9377 Views

One of my biggest pet peeves is people using improper grammar, punctuation, or text speak when sending me a message. It is an instant turn-off and disqualifies people immediately.

A helpful guide:
You're - you are. "You're sexy"
Your - possessive. "Your ass is great"
There - a place. "I'll meet you there"
Their - possessive. "That is their profile"
They're - a contraction for They Are. "They're a sexy couple"

Does poor grammar automatically disqualify someone who messages you from consideration for sex?
Yes - poor grammar is a turn-off and I won't have sex with that person.
No - poor grammar doesn't bother me enough to disqualify that person.
8 Comments , 39 votes

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