Weekends..
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Posted:Dec 9, 2012 5:38 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2012 6:57 am
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Weekends! I look forward to weekends. Days where I can sleep in, getting into the routine of morning swims and generally laze around, not having to do anything. I am not the type who like to pack a tight schedule for weekends and maybe because I do not have a lot of friends to begin with so I am "spared" from having to entertain and catch up with a lot of people.
Last weekend I slept late on Friday night, listening to old pop songs. Grooving to the beat of songs from Backstreet Boys to TLC and Aqua. While SS was trying to get me to play songs from Pet Shop Boys which I never heard of. 
Then came Saturday where we had to attend my ex-colleague wedding dinner. It was great seeing them and catching up with them, including SOC.  They still look good. One of them still look hot and sexy despite being a mother of three. She almost seems ageless. The night ended with a little drama on my side while getting home. Nearly crashing into the road barriers as no cars gave way for me to filter into their lane. 
Sunday was out the whole day. Swimming in the morning followed by sale shopping at expo and supermarketing. We were dead tired by the end of everything.
Work been busy and was slightly more relaxed this week and it was bad news on my waistline. As my team then wanted to go out enjoy food before the madness starts again next week. When we are busy, we sat the whole day and eat at our desks. When we are not busy, they want to enjoy food. Equally disastrous on wallet. 
On the way to work daily, I often see this tall guy on his tiny vespa zipping by. It was pretty amusing to see a tall guy slouching over his vespa. It felt as though if he was to brake hard, he might just flip forward. 
Often I grumbled and complain to SS about the lousy commuters I encountered daily ranging from smelly commuters to inconsiderate ones. But I realized the smelly commuters might not be smelly themselves. It was due to the seats that were dirty and transferred onto the clothes. On some occasions, I would be wedged on both sides and dragged into the trains by commuters not wanting to wait for the next train. On one occasion, I was dragged in and the door closed right behind me. When I tried to shift a little in the tiny space around me, I realized I couldn't. The doors caught some of my hair when it closed. I was trapped.  Luckily that the doors opened again and I quickly pulled my hair to the side as the doors closed one last time. 
Onto other things. One night in the kitchen, I was preparing my sandwich breakfast and I opened a drawer. I saw something startled and moved. I too was startled and slam back the drawer, thinking it might be a cockroach. Moments later when I was more composed, I opened the drawer again slowly and saw it more clearly. Yup, a cockroach stomping around among the ladles. I was at a loss of what to do. I couldn't spray insecticide into the drawer and I totally scared of them. Quietly I closed the drawer with my feet (ready to bolt should it ran out suddenly) and quickly do my bread, fearing the cockroach may run out from some corners to get some bread.
This weekend was generally quiet. We had our swim with another friend and went for shopping at expo again. We just burnt a hole in our pockets. But they were good buys. So hope it justify.
On Friday though, I caught up with SOC. It been a long time since we spent time together alone. He got a bike to commute to work and I was happy to be his pillion rider, though it was a little scary. Perhaps not used to the speed on bike as compared to being in a car. Had nice dinner chatting away at Keppal Bay and going to Lab. park for a stroll. We were quite surprised to see a number of people mingling around at the park. Guess I did miss seeing and spending time with him after so long. Spent a few hours being in each other company. Time flew by being with him. Soon we had to leave. I hope to see him again soon. 
SS has been very sweet too. Breakfast in bed.  Giving in to my whims and fancies. I love the guys in my life. 
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Happy holiday..
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Posted:Nov 13, 2012 7:12 am
Last Updated:Dec 25, 2015 9:49 am
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How are everyone? Good so far?
Today is a public holiday, getting my much needed sleep-in. I am sitting here, wondering what to write. Very often I log in to read blogs, check out the emails and looking at the empty page of adding a new post, thinking what can I write. There is nothing interesting going on apart from job and rest.
Work has been good and busy, bordering on overwhelming. Only occasionally that I get to knock off on time and made it home in time for dinner when all buses and trains arrive the moment I walked over. That would be 1 hr if everything are smooth sailing. I often get a little upset that I get home at nightfall, feeling that I do not have much time left before bedtime roll in, guess I was too pampered by being able to get home from work before sunset in the past when working overseas. Therefore I like to be home before the sky turned dark. I am looking forward to get my own transport next year to half my journey time by half.
The team are great friendly brunch. There is a tall leggy beauty, a small size petite beauty and a brainy beauty among us. We kind of turn heads wherever we go. Me? I am the "old beauty" as I am the oldest in the team. 
Anyway, me and SS attend the swing group gathering a few times but it is quite tiring on me. Though SS wants to attend the gathering more often as they are really a friendly brunch of people which I agree too but I don't think I can handle the no-sleep in the night and sleep in the day frequency. I was so tired in the day and it totally whack our system. The weekend will be burnt by trying to sleep in the day so nothing gets done in the end and Sunday night I will be highly agitated that I could not fall asleep that easily within my bedtime which resulted in a crappy Monday morning at work. While I do like to see them more often, I don't think my body can handle the night-owl hours.
And so I heard from SS that one of the new friend, B whom we met at the swing group gathering told SS that he had recently received an email from a group telling B that we are fake. So have anyone knew about that circulating around? I would like to know more. SS tried get more information from B but he could not or refuse to say more except that B claimed that he refused to believe and defended us as he had seen us in person. There is no evidence to support his story, so it is rather difficult to believe what he was trying to say was real or not. Anyone has any information to share more? It would be greatly appreciated.
Nothing much interesting happened between the sheets partially I was too cooped up by work that I wanted nothing but me-time and sleep. I digress but one month flew by so fast in a blink of an eye!  But about a month ago, we had a play date with my other guy along with SS. SS wanted to film it down so he had fun doing that while I enjoyed my fun time with the other guy. We really enjoyed the clip that SS took and he watches it on and off. Apart from the play date, we also made a short trip up north to JB for a weekend stay and some errands and invited our regular couple to join us. We had our own fun time separately and he enjoyed his time with her.
All right, bed time for me now. Good night all. 
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Unexpected weekend gathering and meeting new people.
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Posted:Sep 18, 2012 8:59 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2012 7:05 am
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Bit of ramblings to post it up of disorganised thoughts into words.
We met up with a new couple off here. SS been chatting with this couple on and off for a while and one night spontaneously he decided to go for supper with them and since it was just a supper, I went along with it. It was ok-good however it took quite a few hours which I was so tired by then. They are comfortable and friendly people. The guy was able to break the ice easily thus making the conversations flow smoothly.
Before we parted ways, he extended invitation to a gathering of few couples chilling out over the weekend to us. Impulsively, SS agreed to the invitation while I was super wary and reluctant about it. I kept thinking all the negative aspects of it as I do not like to be make or force to do things that I do not like but do it anyway to please people. Though our new friend assured us that nothing will happened and it was purely chill and enjoyed the gathering, I was still apprehensive about it.
I was so guarded at the start of the gathering but gradually saw that people were truly just hanging out and being comfortable with each other that I did loosen up in the end. We brought some drinks along and everyone were happy drinking, chatting, playing games the whole night.
It was a naked gathering by the way. Everyone gets comfortable in their birthday suit though everyone had a bath robe on. Truly, everyone were at ease with one another. No lewd eyes or remarks passed. There were no expectations except having a good time away from home, family and or whatsoever.
I do not meet up with much people because some of those whom I met have certain expectations. Kind of like isn't that the purpose of this website, meet up with people to have fun aka sex duh. Thus meeting people equate to wanting sex. I not into that, so I do not meet up anymore.
It was a gathering of 11 people squeeze into a villa room. I called it "upgraded chalet". People sleep wherever they can. The villa itself, nothing to shout about as the upkeep was rather poor but no one seem to really mind as it was the company that matters. I planted myself onto the sofa most of the time and dozed off on it too. SS was up the whole night, playing games and chatting with them and then skinny dipping in the pool with them in the morning. We left in the later morning to grab breakfast and rushed home as SS got a headache from lack of sleep.
We enjoyed ourselves during the gathering. It is something we want. Couples comfortable with themselves, looking to hang out with other like-minded couples to chill out together with and if the mood does kicks in to play, play it will be. A gathering of people who are comfortable in their own bodies without judgement by other people. I don't think I can hang around my friends in our birthday suits, it will be so weird for me and for them! We do look forward to hanging out with them next time though no more sleepless nights. We are not that young and energetic anymore.
Back to real life. New job was ok, the staff are friendly and good so far. No nightmares and no stress at the moment. Though the search is slow and ongoing, I am getting tired of the search as my area is so niche. But trying to keep my spirits up and keep on looking for a job that is for me, to start staying long term and start executing my future plans.
All right, time to sleep. Need to get up for work tomorrow. Sweet dreams! 
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Chatted up...
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Posted:Sep 14, 2012 6:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2012 8:02 am
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Was waiting to have lunch with my ex-colleagues few days back. The location to meet was Chinatown. So I went over to Mac to get a drink and read my book while I waited.
Not long later, a guy appeared and threw his bag at the table next to me and went to get food. Not before asking me if that table was occupied. He returned with his tray and sat down at his table.
I went back to my reading but started feeling his eyes on me or my book. And it started. His very first question was if I was from China. Which I retorted with a remark if I look like I am from China. We conversed in English by the way and if I am not local, I believe one can tell from the accent. 
After which he started chatting up with me. Telling me things like a lot of old men wait around the area for their china girlfriends and that I should be careful. And information about himself.
About him being 48 year old, a pilot, and today is his off day thus came to Mac as he craving for burgers. He is single and stays on his own in a house. Nice house, he said. Maybe threw in some words like elegant or cosy description about the house too. Repeated twice about his house. Asking me why I did not ask him why he is single. To which I simply said it is to own preference if one choose to remain single or married. He started saying that he wanted to settle down instead of being single but did not want and looking more for a companion instead.
And the golden question of if I am attached. Upon hearing my answer, he had to double confirm again that it is my stable permanent relationship before remarking that he lost his chance.
He had wanted to sit with me at my table but I stopped him because I was waiting for my people. All those while, I kept wishing for my saviour ex-colleague to pop in and save me. And he did, he popped in and we swiftly got out from there and ran off to meet the others in another place instead.
He was laughing and teasing me about it and told me that he was very surprised to see someone talking to me since I rarely bothered to entertain strangers.
In the end, the plan of reading my book did not make it past more than 10 pages however I had a great lunch date with my ex-colleagues.  And I am not stepping into that area again.
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Flagged..
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Posted:Sep 5, 2012 7:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2012 6:05 am
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Did not really want to post but this is ridiculous enough to post it.
Hmm.. apparently my profile got flagged. (bo dua bo sui aka no respect for "seniors")
All because I backside itchy to go reply to a message and because my profile was single lady profile. The messenger simply demand that I change my profile and threaten to report my profile.
FYI. The messenger profile had just started about 2 months ago.
So I did a double check to ensure that I did state my status correctly as attached and wrote about SS all over in my posts. So it was the messenger who did not bother to take the time to read through my profile and blog before throwing such demands and threats.
Nevertheless, I took a look at my profile and was surprised. My profile is now a couple profile and I did not do anything. Do one need to pay for Couple profile? So all my details become HIS profile. So funny to me at least. Probably the webmaster decided to quietly tweak my profile to appease the messenger?
Anyway, I am not going to change anything at the moment. Probably will do it up on weekend if I am free.
I submitted my resignation letter and a huge rock felt lifted off me. I do not feel that stressed up anymore and I felt fine at work. Now to concentrate on finding new and better job while I count down to final day.
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Losing interest..
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Posted:Sep 2, 2012 3:12 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2013 9:48 am
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We both have lost the interest.. not with each other thankfully but with the website.
We rarely log in anymore. He is busy with his own things, I am too tired to think of what to post or to reply to people's messages. Work days went by so fast and weekends come and go in a blink of an eye.
Things are kept quiet and low key as possible. Nothing exciting really happened anymore. Mostly we spend weekends relaxing or getting some swimming done. I have enough of people crowding around, behaving badly everywhere and all the time that I want to be alone and be quiet in the evenings and weekends.
Haven't been swimming for about 2 weeks due to a lifeguard telling SS that his beach shorts are not suitable for the pool after so long that we been visiting the place. Thus SS had to get a 'proper' swimming trunks and he is not satisfied with the selections the shops are offering so he getting his online. So waiting for the package to arrive before we can start swimming again. I kind of liking my slight tanlines and want to keep the current not-so-fair color. Though SS felt that I didn't have any color changes from all the sunblock that I applied prior to each swim.
Work wise, I have decided against all advice to leave without securing a new job. A huge risk and most probably be jobless again for a while but plans to take on a temporary job to keep some income coming in. It is too much pain to continue. Constantly getting 'prep' talk on the things I should do and tons of things that finally spur me to action. Her offensive BO. Her lack of basic courtesy. Her lack of proper guidance and expecting me to be fully functional on week 2 of new job which resulted in some complicated issues later on and her venting frustrations. And so much more. I look forward to getting away from her.
Lastly the image that SS finally help to edit. A still taken from the clip. SS was wanting to film flying cum while I continue with whatever I was doing. But I was distracted whenever the cum flies. lol
Not sure when will the next update be but I had enjoyed myself from the site, found SS and met some people from here. Hope everyone are happy with what they find from here.
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To stay or to leave..
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Posted:Aug 16, 2012 8:42 am
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2012 8:28 am
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About my job as I do not enjoy the work. I felt that I can't and wouldn't be able to meet up to the expectations. Been feeling rather down and dragging to work everyday. Only looking forward to knock off and payday.
Should one stay or leave when one do not enjoy the work at all? To stay because of the income; better than being jobless and no income or work is never a joy to begin with in the first place.
On to other things. Attended a dinner function and wore this dress. Had the dress for a while but never had the opportunity to wear out. It is a little loose on me but felt it look quite ok with its low bare back. What do you think?
Can't think of anything else to write now. It is late and I am sleepy and hungry at the same time. :S There is still one more picture that I wanted to post up. Waiting for SS to help me edit a little.
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A compilation of thoughts, observations and whatever..
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Posted:Jul 31, 2012 9:11 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2012 7:22 am
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Getting rather tired now at 11.30pm. But thought do a quick post. Pardon me if it is full of errors and make no sense at times.
Things are still the same in my life. The daily cycle is work, eat, relax, sleep. Come weekends, it will be swim, eat, shaking legs at home, sleep. Very much preferred weekends to be toned down and doing low intensity activities to no activities. Just chill and hang around at home. It is too crowded to go anywhere anyway.
Anyway, some thoughts and observations for the past 1-2 weeks daily stuff..
- Had a post-lunch stroll with supervisor to the nearby mall as she wanted to do some browsing to walk off the lunch. And I was tempted by the shoes section sale. Plus there are shoes that I am interested in. But I did a count on my current shoes and found that I have 15 pairs of shoes lying around. Some I hardly wear, few need repair, most are waiting for a chance to be wear out. Most of them are heels so this time I am eyeing on flats as I wear flats more now. However, I am not a millipede. I only have a pair of feet and 15 pairs of shoes are enough to last me a long time. pfftt.. should I still get them or should I not..
- The woes of being on the shorter side. Scored a prime spot right in front of the grab-pole and holding on to it for dear life. And I got two hands shooting out from both sides of me, holding on to the sections of the pole above my head. "Train driver, please don't jam brake and make me fly into their armpits". Oh, I really hate morning peak hours.
- I realised what my occupational hazard is. Supervisor BO. Today was particularly offensively strong. I nearly choked when she came over to my desk. Kept holding in my breath till I almost gagged. It is not helping when the aircon breeze hit her and circulate the air around the room. Later part of the day, I was doing my work when the air suddenly turned offensive. Took a quick glance and saw her hands behind her head.  *faint*
- Our 'musically inclined' hamster is not letting up on her music creation. One night we actually heard guitar-like strumming sounds from her. Hell knows how she did it and we just laid in bed, trying to sleep it off. She is still quite active despite putting her in the ball to run around in the room before our bedtime. Hoping she will be knocked out as well. But she had become my nuisance alarm clock who wakes me up at 4+ 5pm instead of my usual 6am timing.
- Weekend was great. Slept for 10 hrs straight on one day and swam 20 laps the next. After which rewarded ourselves with brunch at Ikea before the crowded descented and flooded the place. But I am still very much sleep deprived.
- Had some fun with semi-regular guy on Fri evening. It was great seeing him again after many months so it was pretty charged up. We even filmed a short clip and I had fun reviewing and rewatching it. Looking forward to see him next time when I craves for him. 
- I crave for chocolates whenever I get stressed up at work. So I went to get some. Now there is a leftover bar in my drawer but somehow I wasn't keen to pick it up. Some strange stuff going on in my head. When I don't see chocolates, I want them. When I see them, I don't want to eat them anymore. :S
- Once saw a caucasian at the food court having his lunch. It was a strange sight. He was having chicken rice with chopsticks and chinese soup spoon even though he had fork and spoon on the tray with him. It was amusing to me at least to see him trying to eat. He ended up pushing the rice with the chopsticks onto the spoon to finish his meal. If he was trying to show his chopstick skills, it is not the correct dish to display.
All right, time for bed. Night people!
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Some questions..
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Posted:Jul 16, 2012 8:29 am
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2013 9:30 pm
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[edited, removed.]
Right, finally done with airing my frustrated thoughts. Off to bed and hope I can sleep well tonight. Last night the hamster was playing 'heavy metal' in her cage that SS smacked her a few times for bad music but she still continued until my dreams had her music in the background till it woke me up to give her some whacking too. Only then she stopped but there wasn't much time to sleep anymore.
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Picture first.. text later..
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Posted:Jul 7, 2012 9:51 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2012 8:48 pm
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This picture was taken very recently when I got back from work and the day was still bright. Spotted my reflection in the mirror and thought to take a picture of it. My body wasn't that good actually, I was sucking in to flatten my lower abdomen. Lower abdominal is actually more rounded and sticking out. More obvious when I wear tight fitting dresses. Sit ups only good for upper abs, I believe. And the only exercise I doing now is just swimming. SS commented that the body without the boobs look like a man's body. Now how can I flatten the lower abs permanently without sucking in??
New job is stressful enough that I wanted to throw in the towel already. The supervisor is strange person; Greetings and farewell wasn't reciprocated. Sentences are often peppered with negative words of stupid, crazy etc. Guidance was only taught one time and expected to understand all. One way conversations tend to be revolve around about how I wasn't the suitable candidate and that many others are more suitable. I don't look forward to seeing her and being with a negative person at work.
Just a few days ago, I woke up with a startle at 4.30am thinking it was 6.30am and was running late for work.  After hurriedly took my cup of oatmeal from the fridge, I checked the time again and saw the correct time. Dropped back to bed for a bit more sleep.
But sleep was disrupted by the hamster making a din at the metal grills. That silly hamster had been keeping us up or waking us up in the middle of the night by her grills chewing for a while now. Various remedies to stop her from doing so were not that effective anymore. As though she enjoys what she doing to us and look forward to see us getting all worked up.
Now I take delight in disturbing her sleep as well. Giving her a taste of her own medicine. So far, it seem to be working or it was that I was too deep in sleep to be woken up by her. Furthermore the aircon had broken down, so the whirring of the fan is loud enough to drown out some of her rattling noise.
Often I find myself being amused by myself upon knocking off work. I would behave like a overgrown pseudo rebellious school girl once again. Mornings I goes to work all prim and proper. After work, I would untucked my blouse, uncuff the cuffs buttons, sometimes unbutton one blouse button when the walk home was too warm.
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A quick note..
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Posted:Jun 30, 2012 12:32 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2012 9:17 am
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It is 3.30am now. I am suppose to be sleeping but time is too precious to spend on sleeping.
Beauty sleep is very important to me. I need 8-9 hrs to be happy but now after starting work. I am running on 5-6 hrs of sleep on weekdays. After work was a rush of events; dinner at home, bit of TV, shower, bit of online reading and sleep. Hardly there was time for anything else and my eyes are so tired and demanding to close by midnight. I knocked out within minutes of touching the pillow. It was amazing considering pre-work, I often sprouted nonsense for a while before dozing off.
No meeting of friends for dinner or going out or staying up late anymore. And I yet to fit in my weekday evening exercise plans yet. Only managing to get some swimming done on weekends if we managed to wake up.
I finally finished on catching up on all the news and 'gossipy'/lifestyle articles. Now I am left with other stuff to catch up on. It is so difficult but I will get there somehow.
Work else, it was..how to put it.. SS said I was being whiny. But I don't really feel good in the job. Hope it is just teething problems and things can work out well in time to come.
All right. To write more next time and hopefully to post a picture or two. Back to some reading before hitting the sack. Take care. Happy weekend!! 
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) or yoga. But this 3mins mood will fade away as soon as I start working, I believe.
