I miss my playroom
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Posted:Dec 11, 2011 5:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2012 12:49 pm
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Sigh… I miss my playroom. My basement room… not a legal bedroom… but I didn’t do a lot of sleeping there. Was my playroom… all my toys resided there... the king bed but it’s fallen victim to my basement renos. It all started with trying to replace my furnace and quickly became a full basement reno. Eventually I will get a smaller room back in it’s place… but I have no idea when that will be. It’s very sad my bedroom just isn’t the same… no king bed… no nice soft mats to project various body parts from the floor.
Pout… I miss my playroom.
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Some times you just gotta be a little bad....
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Posted:Sep 10, 2011 7:44 am
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2011 12:36 pm
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So for some reason this week I went from quite a morose mood… to the most unbelievably naughty mood. And not just in the obvious way…. I didn’t just want sex… I wanted a HAREM. Preferably primarily made up hot young things(several of my coworkers were considered as options.) And naturally a few older more experienced men for specific needs. (yes I did give this far too much thought)
I also has the strongest desire to just be bad… like get in touch with an ex of mine and spill all those little (or not so little) secrets I never mentioned when we broke up because I was feeling nice at the time… but now a few years on I’m suddenly feeling vengeful.
But I controlled the urge… no harem…(may keep that idea for later though.) No vindictive emails. I just settled for getting back in touch with an amazing former FWB who I’d sort of sworn off. And I cheated on my diet and fitness plan sooo bad too. But it was all soooooooo good.
He he... and I've now added a little online shopping to my list of naughty things... guess it's back to impatiently waiting for the mail again.
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Ways i'm really evil.
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Posted:Aug 2, 2011 7:46 pm
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2018 9:24 am
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So a while back a sent I message to a guy on a dating site. Now I did recognize him as a co-worker… but I gave it a lot of thought… we work in a large company and while technically in the same department… we work several floor apart and rarely cross paths so I figured it was safe enough. Didn’t matter anyway he ignored the email. I did get a vaguely wide eyed and panicked look the next time we happened to pass in the hall. Since then he’s resorted to pointedly ignoring me anytime we should run in to each other. And once actually hiding behind others. I mean really… it was an email on a dating site… not a torrid love affair. Just as well he didn’t reply clearly he doesn’t have the maturity for a work place relationship.
Last week I find out I’m going to need to do some work at a common work area that is literally RIGHT in front of his desk. So naturally to show my equal maturity I break out the 4.5” heels, appropriately tight pants, and super cute top. And proceeded to spend an hour bent over that table right in front of his desk. Ignore that buddy boy.
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My resolution part 2...
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Posted:Jun 6, 2011 5:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2013 9:12 am
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Well I think I’m going to have to back off on this idea of responding to all the emails I get… even with ignoring the one liners it’s gotten a little out of hand. The number of guys who feel the need to argue with “Thank you but I’m not interested” is really amazing. It’s really annoying. And I didn’t count on one of my exs apparently reading that blog entry and deciding it applied to him. Why after two years after what ended up being a very rough split he thought I would have any interest in hearing from him I can’t imagine. There were a few guys who replied nicely… and I appreciated them… but they were by far the minority. There’s also the guys who really try… and I’m not unattracted to… but also don’t have a clue what to say to them.
So while I will keep trying… there maybe some ignored emails.
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Okay I have made a resolution…
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Posted:May 21, 2011 8:52 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2012 10:52 am
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I promise that I will do my best to send some kind of reply to the majority of emails I receive. Even if it’s just a quick response. Only the majority? you ask… well I still refuse to dignify “u wanna fuk” or any other one liner type massages. The one line but a full sentence with punctuation will be handled on a case by case basis.
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He's just not that in to you....
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Posted:May 18, 2011 4:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2013 8:52 pm
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Ok so unless you live under a rock. You have come across this theory of “He’s just not that in to you.” Be it the book, the movie, etc. Most of us will know that in the very briefest terms this school of thought is that if a man likes a woman he will make something happen. He will call, he will find time for her, etc.
So last Thursday my lap top suffered a bit of a nervous break down. (ok it’s corrupted start up files I’m not that clueless) So I approached my long time FWB who is a computer guy with an offer (okay a bribe) to get him to come look at it. He agreed. But as the day went on he had a bunch of things come up and had to say he couldn’t make it in the end. I was mostly okay with this… my only upset was by the time he had to cancel I was pretty frisky and so it was a disappointment on that front.
In the end I called up my sister and we went out for dinner. Now my sister is a fairly innocent girl. And only recently has our relationship reached the point that I’ve mentioned that I do in fact have FWBs. She was surprised any guy would turn down my bribe (and I only told her half of it) and then said… “He’s just not that in to you.” Now my first reaction was rather mediocre… just a “well no I guess not” and a bit defensive… “well it was WORK stuff.”
On further consideration I have realized that no… he really is just not that in to me and I’m really not that in to him… and this is not a bad thing. Because we are not in a relationship… we are FWB. If either of us was totally in to the other it would cause serious complications.
So guess what… sometimes it really is okay if He’s Just Not That Into You.
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Waiting for the mail...
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Posted:May 17, 2011 10:42 pm
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2017 5:13 pm
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So I’m an avid online shopper. I buy everything from household items to pet food to my more intimate items online. Packages arriving at my house are quite the norm. So what is it about an order of new sex toys that has me checking the tracking update like 15 times a day and guessing at if it’ll arrive by Friday or not.
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The one liner... rant.
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Posted:May 13, 2011 10:07 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2015 10:26 am
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Okay I seriously have to ask. Guys do those single line not even a sentence emails ever really work for you? "wanna meet?" or "lets fuck"
Or here's a real winner I got today. Twice. "do u text? wanna hook up?" Really? I mean does any one find that remotely attractive or enticing? I almost replied with "wanna learn to spell" which would have been followed up with a long discussion about proper spelling and a long rant about text speak etc. But then decided it would just give the guy hope that what was clearly a generic send to all the women currently online message had worked.
Seriously if you're going to make a generic message to use like that why not put a little effort in to it and make it something a woman might actually respond to.
I do get that writing an individual email for every profile is sort of a waste of time given that a lot of email goes ignored. Heck I'm fairly guilty of not responding to every email. But if you send me a one liner in text speak I guarantee you I will not respond.
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Do you ever wonder....
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Posted:May 6, 2011 7:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2015 10:27 am
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When you're in a crowded place... or at work... or commuting on public transit. Do you ever wonder if you've ever seen someone near you naked online.
I know I do. Specifically it occurs to me at the noon hour as I'm moving with the lunchtime crowds. I wonder of one of the impeccably dressed "suits" has his junk posted here.
But I'm a bit twisted that way.
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Would it really be so bad....
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Posted:May 5, 2011 2:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2015 10:29 am
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So as I have bondage checked as interest I periodically get messages from guys wondering if I have any use for a houseboy/slave type. They offer to clean my house, scrub my floors, give foot massages etc. Though I have noticed not one of them seems to do windows.
Now the problem with this lays in that I am not a domme. I'll admit to the occasionally fantasy about have a hot young pet. It's just not something I think I could actually pull off.
Though that said… would it really be so bad if I were to give these guys a try just to get my house cleaned.
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A decade of sex...
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Posted:May 4, 2011 6:45 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:42 pm
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Well. It occurred to me today… that earlier this year the tenth anniversary of my "first time" came and went with out me even noticing. And yet some how it seems 10 years of sex should be commemorated.
I have to say that first time wasn't all that great. Wasn't bad… but I got left hanging and horny and he went to sleep… that's the only bit I remember well. Then he moved out of town a few months later and that was the end of that. The only thing I learned with him was… I liked a little bondage.
So ten years and a few more partners later… and well I really like bondage. I'm a little more skilled. And at least now know that yes it is worth all the fuss.
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