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Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
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Friday...and the move begins
Posted:Mar 23, 2018 8:56 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2018 9:04 am

Lol.... moving isn't fun no matter how fun you try to make it.

Anyway sexy bloggers,
Read profiles!
Well not you because if you are reading this then there's a good chance you have seen my profile or have a good idea of where I'm at with this.

But to call someone a fraud
My week has been long enough already and I was polite in every response, well pretty much to every message I get. And men wonder why women can get snarky or mean or not respond at all.

I also need to write about Internet bullies (remember the blog battle last year or so when the top female bloggers where slinging mud... and others would message you to not read so n so's blogs or you will be voted off the island).
I had an interesting experience with this on the other blog site where I almost let them "win".

What else on a Friday.
I will take my fraudulent butt and go load the moving trucks this afternoon!
Wish us luck that the weather holds out!!

Sexy bloggers,
When the going gets wtf'ish what is your go to for clearing your mind of negative Internet strangers that rain on your parade?

I know what I do, ignore, block, and then do something else.

Enjoy your day!
So far it's sunny here!
Dayz are flying by...
Posted:Mar 20, 2018 3:39 pm
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2018 6:56 pm
I woke up this morning thinking it was Sinday!
In my groggy foggy mind I was thinking on what to write about whilst I enjoy my coffee.... but ya it's Tuesday. .. right?!

I worked last sat, then a few hrs Monday morning even with a scheduled day off, so my timing is all off now.
Trying to figure out the logistics of the move and fit in a kink play party on Saturday night!

My mood right now and having a to do list a mile long!

And gosh darnit I don't know where I put my corset that I wanted to wear to the kink party. Now I get to sort through containers on Friday night. Lol

Anyway hump day is coming then it's all downhill from there.
Packing day...
Posted:Mar 18, 2018 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2018 3:32 pm
So sinday started with some nice dark coffee with sausage n eggs for breakfast.

5 boxes of books, 3 needed to taped shut so no one would peek.
5 suitcases full of adult toys, playthings, kink, lingerie.

Last little bit of clothes and bedding to sort thru!
Then we are on the home stretch before our move.

Sorry to say that even though it was very arousing to see all my toys laid out in front of me...and touching all my leather gear... I did not take the time to indulge. .
I did have to sort through the penis and phallic collection and discard a few.

Now I get to shower up and take a drive, spend the rest of my sinday on the hwy.

How was your day?
Out for dinner...
Posted:Mar 17, 2018 5:28 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2018 11:14 pm
Again, for the 3rd time in a week. Lol.

It's expensive being a bacherolette with the teen gone.
Much easier to go out for dinner than sit at home amongst the moving boxes.

Its a little cool for a dress but I have tall boots to keep my legs warm.

(I don't celebrate commercial holidays)
But I bet most of you are drinking green drinks tonight. Lol

Then later I have to get my tires n rims out of storage tonight, and keep on packing. Make a few trips to the clothing drop off place for donation, my friends may take a bunch of my heels n boots tonight. ... but first FOOD.

Kinda hungry right now, sort wish I was more horny though.
Ask a question. ..?
Posted:Mar 16, 2018 11:25 am
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2018 10:32 am

Sexy bloggers I am watching the series called 'embarrassing bodies' (yes I find human bodies fascinating)

But this last episode I watched had a few sex related issues and common health problems... I do like the way the hosts approach ailments and would be nice if it was more mainstream in not being embarrassed to talk about your body.
I remember going to my doctor and asking a question then have him shrug his shoulders and say that it's nothing or along the lines that if it doesn't impact my daily life then why worry about. Guess back then there wasn't much thought to the psychological impacts or that the female body is complex and YES our sex organs are indeed organs.

I know it's almost taboo to talk about sexual health but do you really know everything?
Are you fine with accepting the risks involved with casual sex, in that as long as you had fun then it was worth the lifetime impacts, or thinking that you don't show symptoms so that in turn you are healthy.

I was somewhat surprised at how many men feel that they don't need to get tested regularly because they never had a woman complain yet. It may never cross thier mind that she may be embarrassed or he feels he doesn't have to say anything because she's just a hookup (most common attitude I come across).
(I look for men so that is my experience, I don't look for women)

Some cities make it really easy to get sti/std testing done, some cities (like mine) make it seemingly difficult and somewhat embarrassing plus time consuming to find a clinic for regular testing.
Considering how pandemic the hookup culture is you would think that they would make testing easier.

I distinctly remember being told last year that I shouldn't even be having sex at my age. Then going to a second clinic and having the young nurse roll her eyes at me because I wanted an sti test done. (Remember sex is only for the young women).

But I also go to the doctor regularly for my general health but with a doctor shortage here it is getting difficult to stay regular with the check ups.

Anyway, and a and then,

Sexy bloggers,
When was the last time you had an sti test done?
It is recommended every 3 months for sexually active adults.
Do you know what tests are included and that you should also have a throat swab along with the pee and blood tests.

When was the last time you asked someone if theyhave ever had cold sores or fever blisters?
Even if it's just a kiss or oral sex.

(You don't need to answer about the testing but it's something to think about with summer coming along)
Waiting on the steak...
Posted:Mar 13, 2018 8:09 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2018 7:50 am
Yep I treated myself out to a nice dinner.

And yes I ordered the steak, med rare but more rare just not cold, mushrooms and a house pale ale.

Tomorrow will be kinda busy so I am celebrating my bday dinner tonight!
Anyway pondering on sex again, but no surprises there. Lol

Of course with the seemingly surge in age gap relationships, more specifically men and much younger women, where does that leave all those women over 35 and over 40...
Fighting over what's left?

Men like to believe that women have the upper hand when it comes to sex and dating/relationships, it does take two, but men are the ones that are skewing the market.
Just look at lala's latest blog about a man complaining about being undesirable at 55. ARE you fuckin kindling me?! 55? Cry me a fkn river. Lol
Try 35 and tell me about it after you tried to date in an already limited pool of people. (Considering most guys in thier 40's and 50's are not looking for relationships, so yes a skewed market).
Those undesirable 55 yr olds had 20 yrs on the average woman. I think they are more complaining about not being able to consistently score the under 35 yr olds like thier 40something yr old counterparts.

Sure those 'over the hill women' still receive messages, especially if she is also looking for casual sex, but I have a sneaky suspicion that they don't get treated as well as thier younger counterparts... Maybe some do, pending her attractiveness and the age of the person she's meeting with. But many women are also embracing the single life and not looking for more than just sex. I just happen to enjoy knowing where my sex is coming from and I love the anticipation of sexytime with him. But then I may also be open to casual partners and not necessarily monogamy.

As many of you know my struggle with addiction to sex/pleasure hasn't been easy, it's a work in progress everyday. Somedays I wake up and I just want my insatiable libido back, I miss masturbating, I miss having erotic thoughts every moment of the day..my go to stress relief was porn, sex, pleasure, hot thoughts...my go to I'm happy mood was sex, pleasure, porn...
.. but that high libido never done me any favors. If anything it has caused more problems than given me pleasure.
One thing I did learn was that men actually don't want sex handed to them, they prefer to work for it.

So ya...conundrum...
I deeply miss sex and intimacy, but in a skewed market it's going to be even harder to find.

A few years ago...I distinctly remember a man my age telling me that I'm a failure at life if I can't attract a man my own age. (I think a few guys said that to me, and probably a few women also).

Sitting here by the fireplace, eating steak, making more money than the average person here.... all I need is a reliable sex partner, and if the guys my age or older want to dis me.... I guess I can search for younger.

Dinner is almost done, this sounds like a sinday post actually.
I get to go home and keep packing, moving back to the boonies.

But ya...happy birthday to me. Lol
O. And I will be going through my toys tonight as I'm running out of time to pack.
Saturday ladywood
Posted:Mar 10, 2018 8:29 am
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2018 5:10 pm
Yep..couldn't resist!
Plus I went to be with a ladyboner so it was no surprise to wake up with ladywood.
So ya instead of rushing out the door I decided to just give me some self love.

But because I have been on such a long break from masturbation I couldn't only get three out, At least I managed that though!
I haven't had morning sex in maybe 4.5 yrs now, but I have gone to the ex-casuals place in the morning so that sort of counts....but that was last summer or fall.

It did feel good to lounge in bed even though I will be busy today!

Enjoy your Saturday sexy bloggers.

I need to spend the rest of my distracting my mind from sex now. Lol
Another view into my kinks...
Posted:Mar 3, 2018 11:46 am
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2018 6:31 am

~ repost, because it was one of my favorite mornings...

I really enjoy anal play with partners. To me it is very intimate and very sexy.
I was fortunate enough to have a very handsome friend, that is also very much a slut for anal play. We finally had time for a visit. Definitely a great way to spend a Friday morning, playin hookie from work (well not really, I was on holidays lol).

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Any way, sexy boi..texts me at 545am (yup we are early birds here)
Teasing around about me being at work already...
So I ask "are you in town?"
As he is a fly in/fly out kinda guy.
"ya, still in bed"
"are you coming over? "

Me: "Sure! I am not at work yet I was just heading out the door".
Me: I am supposed to be on vaca, but I was going to work for a few hrs..but they don't mind

So. I am there in 15min
I am to go in and find his room. hm, hot, he is still in bed
Still naked too. One thing about this particular friend, he is a strapping 6'2, 33yr, fit, dark haired handsome man with stunning blue eyes. (yup he's a fav!)
I haven't seen him in quite a few months. But he is just as hot as last time.

hm, very hot..
now... As I lay beside him, I strip my clothes off, little bit of small talk and kissing...
I run my hands over his hard body, play with his sexy dark man fur,
yum his cock is nice n hard
I take my taste of his cock, I totally enjoy his appreciation ...he was always a vocal partner.
hm, that precum is nice n sweet
I climb on and slowly slide that wet cock in, oh to hear him take in his breath and slow me down,
My view is ...well, hot, he has a great V shape, tiny little waist, man fur and lovely strong hands...what more could I ask for a Friday fuck.

His cock reaches nice n deep, I can feel it slide over my cervix..been awhile since I had such a nice cock, I cum all over it, nice thick n creamy...

I climb off, and suck my cum off his cock,
I still won't let him cum though
He tries a few times, but its always nice to remember a lover,
So, I know how far to bring him and keep him edging along.

Anyway, my orgasm was quick n fun, but I want to keep him going.
So, surprise, I just good ol'69 him. He's just as appreciative of my pretty little cunt in his face, as I get access to his cute little boi bum.
Did I mention that I love his hands. He is a tradesman, so strong hands and arms He finger pounds my cunt, forcing it to orgasm.

Feeling his cock go through stages of arousal,
listening to him is just making me hot!

My fingers find is ass. I tap on it nicely (of course after a few spanks to make sure he is paying attention), just to be sure that he knows what I am going to do.
One finger then two,
plus I lube up his cute little hole (with a few very appreciative sounds) with a few wet licks..hmm, that will get his attention... All he can do is lay there now, touching my hot cunt, but just enjoying the moment with wonderful sounds of lust..
I let him orgasm, nice cute little spurt.

We lay there, cuddled and chat..but geez I like cock, so take a more comfy position between his legs
and I start to play. I concentrate on his hole first.

Hm, he Tastes so very good, he enjoys every lingering minute. I love the taste of his cock, the feel of it in my mouth, on my tongue, the feel of his skin...
I bring his cock to another orgasm, along with anal play,
there was more cum. Such a Sticky sweet mess, I rub it into his man fur.
His body is sensitive and ticklish after sex..soo hot!
Ah..now he is nice and relaxed. We lay cuddled again, he catches a quick snore or two.

Once he wakes, and checks the time, I know I have a few more mins.
So once again, I cuddle up between his legs, his cute little flaccid cock in my hand and then in my mouth. (Sucking on a sensitive flaccid cock brings great pleasure too)
Once I asked him "does that feel good?",
He answers with a groan and I feel it slowly come alive again, his body responds beautifully to my gentle effort...He is very lustful sounding.
(very hot indeed, and it drives my passion for cock)

Very good, he isn't stopping me, so I continue.
First one finger, then two, finding that sweet spot of his and his cock comes alive in my mouth.
In and out, between one finger and two, his hole is responding,
his body is excited, his moans are pleasure to my ears.
His cock is swelling,
nice n rock hard now,
his hole is accepting my fingers and begging for more. As I rub his sweet spot ever faster in time to my mouth, I can feel him come very close...
...then I back off.

Makin him yearn for it, but not allowing him the release,
such a fun little game.
I feel his cock start to soften (as its already cum twice in 25min), so I start again...relentless in my effort.
One finger then two, mouth, tongue and hand working all together.
I can hear him and feel him as I bring him to the edge
and then I allow him to cum
Oh my, now that was a nice long orgasm!
So much fluid as I milk him for everything he has got, gently rubbing his p-spot, coaxing more out, he hasn't shot a load like that in quite some time.

Now my day is just got a whole lot brighter
And I am off to work and so is he.

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Always time for favorite friends.
Always time for cock
When you are a friend of mine...
Posted:Feb 25, 2018 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2018 5:14 pm
Lets see sexy bloggers,
Sitting here killing time on a sinday night I was going through a few pic folders and found a pic of a quick conversation with my (ex) casual partner.

So yes there is benefits for having casual friends, for one I feel comfortable going to your house. lol. Then I am open to your wants and needs also, also knowing that you will take care of mine. Plus I will bring my toys as I know you wont judge me, even if it takes you some time to get used to the idea that I really do enjoy multiple orgasms and long sessions of playtime.

Of course other messages are far more playful, or just about everyday life then including a time when we can meet that day.

I don't know about you, but I am at the point that I need to have a reliable sex partner/casual friend. I enjoy the more playful times together rather than that awkward hookup stuff (that I swear most of them just do a meh effort so they don't get a call back).


Sexy bloggers,
your messages to your 'sweeties' for that all important night of sex, are you playful or too the point?
Do you make it fun when you get together and still have that comfy post sex chat time?
Carpet service ...again
Posted:Feb 24, 2018 11:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2018 6:48 pm
Cunnilingus, cunnilinguist, oral, giving head...

wait wat..., now I have a craving for oral..

I have enjoyed oral sex for a long time, both give and receive. Some days I like to give lots, some days I want it all

I know the feeling of craving or desiring,
it can become a strong urge, enough for me to seek it out.
Hence why I like multiple partners, some are great at piv and some are great with oral.

If only I could bend in half...I would never have to seek out carpet service again.

Probably the same reason why men where given the penis and not the vag can you imagine how many wrinkly fingers would be out there

Ah well...
Now, add that on my list this week
Carpet service needed asap.
Must be skilled with tongue, fingers, and other tools.
Must enjoy the job, be enthusiastic, and have an eye for detail.
pending job done. May include a 6 and a 9, service to the pipe, hand polish and spit shine.

Send SAE, to:
"Little miss Flower, FingerLickin BC, Canada, S3X 4u2";
c/o She'sPicky Geez
Please include a description of the service you provide and include a photo (one where you are holding a dead fish is acceptable...just not a close up..of the fish),
never mind, just send a picture of your truck.

Sitting here with a bit of time on my hands.
I think I will go for a drive and find some sushi or some finger liken bbq ribs. (Just to lick the sauce from my...)
Ok hungry now.

Who messages who makes a difference. ..
Posted:Feb 19, 2018 9:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2018 7:25 pm

At least on dating sites like cupid!
And of course it depends on how hot or young she is..

According to the crunched numbers on the cupid site, it really depends on your age and the age bracket you message in order to increase your chances of a response.
Older women = over 40 (but some even say that it's 35)(don't like it, don't shoot the messenger).

I am sure many have been through the slow down of messages received from men or even views to your profile (yep, unless you are also looking for casual sex or men 12-20+ yrs older than you). It's no secret that many men prefer that younger age gap for relationships, and even just for sex.

But don't worry Older Women, according to the stats you don't have to settle for what's left over or have sex with much older men, you can target younger men and they are responding!

As some with a insatiable libido I have dated men younger than me ...well since I was 24. I stopped on that search a few ago because I wanted a stronger connection and the ability to explore other things. I already knew about man's preferences for younger because when I was in my 20's I always had men in thier 40's and 50's hitting on me. But I actually thought that I would find a compatible "age appropriate" man (started looking around when I turned 35)...lolol ollol yah I had big dreams alright.

Anyway, when my sex therapist recommended that I should just go back to "dating" younger men, I had to process all my experiences in the last 8 yrs and think them through (and I am still letting go on wanting more..).
Which most of my bad experiences came from dating in a certain age bracket.

So maybe cupid is right, , ... I should give up on my search for a meaningful connection and just look for pretty things instead.

::seeings how a younger man is more likely to respond than an older man.::
But it's still a work in progress, having to give up looking for something that I really wanted so I am still processing that mind track.
But maybe by the summer I will start looking for younger men and fly my cougar flag once again!

Undressed: What’s the Deal With the Age Gap in Relationships? Older men often date younger women, but every can benefit when the age gap is reversed. ~ cupid blogs.
Be nice, it's just common knowledge, the cupid site has a few good data sets if dating trends interest you. Its no secret that men prefer the age gap, esp for a much younger female partner.

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