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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2018 6:56 pm
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And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

The Fun Stuff - about me

On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

Toys r'us Request to see my toys__New toys

My kinks: My master list for BDSM 2018
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
Sinday mornin __Seems I have __ confidence and attraction are they two different things
Photo time Male nude partial nude d15c
A post for some retrospect I suppose -- Trying to sleep -- Lustful thoughtsmind wanders at work

Virtual Symposium
1st time for the 12th VS International Intrigue -- 13th Virtual world and blogs -- 14th vs First dates
15th VS Black and White __ 16th vs Casual relationships __17th The First Time __18th VS Its a Secret&vs18its a secret__19thVS Its science time__20thVS My life as a __VS23 Dreams

Ponderings
Sexy saturdaypenis thoughts__ Adventures in dating land for tues__Mornin ladywood
Carpet service required__Sinday mornin well lunch time__Sex chat __Thirsty Thursday free time
world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
Strokin wat __Where o'where are you hiding


Just for daily FUN
Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
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Humpday awards
Posted:Jun 20, 2018 7:58 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2018 8:45 am
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Give this guy a medal!


Or someone set that chick straight.

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Its a monday..
Posted:Jun 18, 2018 9:26 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2018 8:03 pm
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Heat wave hitting sourhern BC...



Lol
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Sinday coffee and fwb
Posted:Jun 17, 2018 10:08 am
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2018 7:22 am
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I went with the medium grind coffee this morning paired with butcher made bratwurst and friend potatoes.

I was pondering over the casual partners I had over the years (don't confuse them with nsa hookup guys), and I have rarely had a partner that was available when I WAS HORNY...

But from what I have read on several discussion groups and in blogs, its rare for a women to be able to call a fwb up and ask for sex first AND receive a positive response.
When I have messaged men first they would rarely respond but would expect me to respond with a yes when he wants sex. Considering I am female with working female parts all with its hormones and blood, I think my schedule is harder to work around.
Finding that elusive man that is open to ongoing and doesn't scare at being messaged for sex first is always a challenge. In my experience men are not as hard pressed for sex dates as they claim. Lol

The dragon hunt is finding the man that enjoys mutual pleasure, who isn't afraid of her having sexual and sensual fun, or afraid of her orgasms.... but then those guys tend to have a stable full of women and you still have to wait in line.

Where was I with this, ...
I prefer ongoing because I like the anticipation and I know the kind of sex I/we will be having vs a hookup where its mainly about his orgasm and most times awkward and not that much fun.
But it depends on how hot you are, meaning the hotter/more attractive you are the better he will treat you, so of course there will be circumstances where she always has awesome sex.
Whereas I require ongoing because its hard to find men plus I know he will treat me better than a hookup guy will.

I distinctly remember a casual partner telling me that if a woman messages first for sex it usually means she wants a relationship, so I made it a point of not messaging him when I was horny or at any other time....which meant I would end up going weeks to months between sex. Lol
I have also chatted with guys that did not like being treated as a mattress cock, but I think he found someone young n hot and wanted more from her thus complained about being used for sex. Lol

Its such a search to find a guy good at sex.... maybe 1 out of 10 when it should be 8 out of 10. Lol
But then i also think that women should be asking for better sexual performance instead of settling on the mechanical hookup. Its two sides trying to stay selfish with sexual pleasure, but end up with mediocre sex .... anyhoo

Sexy bloggers,
More specifically the ladies, how often have you found a man that was receptive to you calling him first for a night of sex or a quickie?

(A 'casual nsa friend' or 'fwb' not a new hookup).
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Truck nation...
Posted:Jun 15, 2018 12:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2018 7:55 pm
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And sizes matters. Lol

Were I live and work there are trucks, trucks, and more trucks.
Even with soaring fuel prices we still drive the less economical vehicle, unless it is a work truck and its part of the job.

I drive a small SUV though, my truck is currently parked and I am thinking about buying a vintage truck. But high fuel prices and a long commute means I am not in a big hurry to drive a truck. Taking the newer Silverado ex-cab 4x4 to town and back is a 75$ trip just to keep the fuel level at the same spot. Lol (dads truck, not mine)


That is ^^^ eye level and I am 5'4.

Some days I need to have a bigger vehicle to fit into the lineup at work.
Where size matters, and how your engine purrs when turned on.

But I do love me some vintage vehicles and one day I will own a couple.
Pops also owns a late 60's chevelle that was redone. (He takes it out for a burn when grandma isn't home. Lol.)
(Yikes my bad... not a nova)

Sexy bloggers,
So how about you, when it comes to vehicles are you more excited over brand new or vintage?
How about sport cars, muscle cars, or stock vintage?
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Male pics?
Posted:Jun 11, 2018 8:37 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2018 6:20 pm
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And what to post...

I find this really sexy and hot,


This, well not soo much.
But it actually looks like the head is photoshopped onto another body.


As much as I enjoy nudes and the occasional dic pic, Some days I really wonder if the guy actually thinks its a sexy photo when its a dic with feet pic or a boner over the toilet (always a hard Hell No for me)...

I do appreciate nudes in a profile and a cock pic or two, but you really dont need a beer can for reference or a remote control. I do like fun and artistic photos like what GardenBoy posted over the years.

I put a bit of effort into my pics with lighting and contrast, plus the audience that i post for want to see nudes and explicit nudes. So I'm not a hypocrite because i show what my audience wants to see, but I have had a few guys complain about the explicit ones before but then the sites I have posted on meant I have no intention of meeting men from there. Whereas men think most dic pics will attract women to them.
(Remember I dont show anything sexy on the dating site, because men have separated sex from relationships).

I don't know ... well but I do know I need new pics!
Lol
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Sinday and an easy blog today
Posted:Jun 10, 2018 12:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2018 6:55 am
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What intensifies your sexual plensure ?

During your sexual play with a partner, what intensifies your sexual plensure ?

Is it the techniques of sexual play ?

Or the chemistry and connection between you and them?

Or some other factors ?


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Nice thing about summer
Posted:Jun 9, 2018 12:21 pm
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2018 7:54 am
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Summer dresses!



I went with the black polka dot one for dinner tonight instead of this blue/white one. (Dinner with kink friends, not a date, but its the only time I get to dress up)

Just have to remember to shave my legs after work. Lol!
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Wednesday I think
Posted:Jun 6, 2018 10:03 am
Last Updated:Jun 8, 2018 11:41 am
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Yep...
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How do want to be approached - men
Posted:Jun 2, 2018 11:32 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2018 8:14 am
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So sexy bloggers here's a question I haven't asked in along time,

How do you want to be approached with an initial message?

When is a good time to ask about your erectile health/function?
What kind of questions would you honestly reply to about your penis health?

Do you want honest talk about sexual expectations or just a flirty ego stroke?

And,
How responsive are you really when she says "can you do 'that 'this way" or "don't stop!" (Which means do not change what you are doing at that moment which guys have a terrible habit of switching gears at that moment).

After 7 failed dates because of erectile issues and a failure to be honest, what kind of discussion do you actually want to not end the night in embarrassment.

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Visually motivated 😎
Posted:May 28, 2018 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2018 10:14 am
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I am very visually motivated when it comes to sex, but I also require the sounds and scents that come with it. Oh and I need my mind fully engaged in the moment to be at a heightened state of arousal where I'm floating in sexspace.
You know that point where everything outside your bubble is a blur.

Ok so ya I need a bit more than just a pic of a cock before I'm aroused enough for sex. BUT I certainly don't need romantic love in order to engage in sex. So don't confuse my need for connection with love. I just want to 'care' enough to think about your pleasure also

So between my porn and watching my dildo go in n out I can orgasm ...
Is that weird to become even more aroused by watching your own body go through the stages and of course the flood of feel good fun. Eh at any rate I was addicted to it. Lol
I used to watch myself on cam and have that out of body orgasmic experience, lol

Where was I with this...
I do require visual motivation along with the mental game in order to crank up my libido and to drive my primal urges for penetration plus the taste of cock.
My awareness is heightened with knowing that you are genuinely turned on by my orgasms and body. (And yep I get it, I'm not for every one)

Sexy bloggers,
Sexual/physical chemistry along with mental stimulation to get sexy with that person?
Or
Can you just go more on the visuals alone and most likely just sexual chemistry?


Yes! New cell takes great photos. Lol
(Shameless exhibitionist pic)
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You said!
Posted:May 27, 2018 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2018 5:00 pm
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I lol'd at this!!


You know how many times I heard "I can go all night long" but then the sec is like 15 min and I still have the WHOLE night to do something. Lol.
So I usually end up just masturbating at home or going to a movie or a drink at the pub. Lol
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