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Make a new friend  

afl0ribama 53M
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9/21/2021 2:08 pm
Make a new friend

Wouldn't it be great to find the one particular person that you were right for each other right from the start? In societal norms there is the concept of - What would a reasonable person do in any given situation?

This is a concept I have battled against time and again simply because a "reasonable person' doesn't exist.

Each person is unique in their own right. Sure, it's well acknowledged that individuals can share some characteristics, mannerisms, physical features, illnesses, and genetic traits.

Although their make-up maybe close - its still a unique "special blend" of these items.

Also, each person can be influenced by others, their own insecurities, cultures, values and living environment. And since these change at a more rapid rate it creates yet again a different "special blend" of contributors that further add to an individual's uniqueness.

Can you imagine life bland, vanilla? To be seen just like every other person and not standout? Same color, shape size, features, income, work, home, car, etc?
I find joy and comfort in being unique as everyone should.

Life is like the weather, is cyclical. Some sound the alarm and argue the global warming is dire and yet they find more history in every inch of ice that disappears. Others say climate change and we're in a cooling cycle. Everything happens in cycles, just at different rates and durations.

Clothing trends come and go, then cycle back in again. Everything ols is new again, lol.

Relationships can be looked at this way as well. thousands of years ago it was socially acceptable to have multiple partners - separately or together. The same might be said about homosexuality. For years early man, king's, Mormons, African tribes and others practiced this. Then it dwindled down. And now its back in the form of open marriages, polyamory, etc.

I posit that while one relationship is fine for some, others need more. Maybe one for each small or large cycle of their lives. Maybe more frequently for another group.

I do know with a reasonable amount of certainty most people are here because, a portion of their lives are unsatisfying, vanilla, without passion. Some desire more experimentation or want to try something more kinky. Other's maybe feel ignored all together or it's time for a change fue to abuse or other things. And some, believe it or not are looking for that one - which they're probably not gonna find here.

So, enjoy the features here that are free, use some points, chat, read blogs, like or friend someone. You don't have to remain anonymous or voyeuristic. Put yourself out there - the worst you make a new friend, at best you change your life.

The only constant in life is change.

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