UPDATE on play partner/gf situation…and open relationships
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Posted:Jan 4, 2015 2:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2015 9:24 pm
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Seems like he's still good with playing with me!! (will be seeing him soon, and was talking to him today!!) I cannot imagine him being monogamous--he is DEF not one to be tied to just one person.
Which leads me to…….
I am meeting more and more couples involved in open relationships, and I think that is GREAT! I have seen one really inspiring example of a couple like this recently, and was at their house for a holiday party. I ended up sleeping over 2 nights, and on the first morning, the man of the house was wearing nothing but an apron--totally HOT! He woke me up by laying on me and snuggling, asking me if I'd like some breakfast cooked by 'naked people'. His wife was also just about naked--barely covered by an open silk robe, and woke up the guy who was sleeping next to me by laying on him. How hot is that????
The next morning, I woke up to hear her moaning in their bedroom--door open… I expect to be spending more time with them (he alone--again, and possibly with them as a couple in time if she is into it). Btw, he is not the same person as the one at the top of this blog.
Also of note: during the Fri-Mon I was at their house, the man made sure to give me lots of snuggle time. He only really split his snuggling time between his wife and me. I felt honored that I was chosen.
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When your play partner gets a new gf
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Posted:Dec 25, 2014 7:40 pm
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2015 2:22 pm
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One of my very best play partners changed his relationship status to 'in a relationship' on fb today. Though, I AM happy for him, I don't know if I will fit into the picture anymore with him. I am his friend and want him to be happy. He doesn't seem the type who could be tied to just one person, but with strong enough feelings, maybe he can be.
I do not know what type of relationship they will be having. (mono, poly, open, evolving….?). I haven't had the chance to speak with him yet…
If I am phased out, I wish him the best of luck, but will sorely miss playing with him… I know that everything in life is temporary, though, and still have other play partners to have sexy times with…
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My first play party
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Posted:Nov 18, 2014 11:18 pm
Last Updated:Dec 25, 2014 7:31 pm
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People in corsets, others getting fire swept over them, getting beaten, tied to crosses…. wow.. it was pretty interesting. Naked and 1/2 naked people all over the place! There was a small audience observing as the hot wax was poured over my exposed breasts, while I was also getting kissed and caressed…Very erotic!
Later on, I got a flogging while cuffed to a cross. Again, only wearing my g-string, being caressed on my breasts and kissed in between lashings.. again: highly erotic! Loved watching and being watched.
Loved it so much I will be going to another event this coming Sunday…
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Coffee + BJ?
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Posted:Nov 10, 2014 7:03 pm
Last Updated:Dec 25, 2014 7:31 pm
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Seriously sick of men who expect a BJ after meeting for coffee one time! WTF? Am I just a HOLE for their cock? Obviously, they don't care to be friends or even FWB, so should just go get a instead. Yes, this is a sex site, but it's also a dating site and it says in my profile that I have no interest in one-night stands, but that I would like to build lasting FWB friendships!
HIS LOSS, MAN!!!
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Wet kissing, dry kissing, oral...
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Posted:Oct 24, 2014 10:27 pm
Last Updated:Dec 25, 2014 7:32 pm
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I had a very interesting date tonight.. Excellent conversation during dinner, we both enjoyed the movie we saw, and more great conversation during coffee after the movie. After that was some sexy time.. It started out pretty good, but then he seemed to get squeamish about me kissing his neck and ears, saying it was too 'wet'. So I was like, 'you only want dry kissing then?" I was already feeling a bit turned-off that he was being so uptight..
He had told me at coffee that he had never given oral to a woman before, and wanted to try. I asked him why he hadn't, and he said he just couldn't get past the 'smell or taste'. So.. later on during our sexy time, he asked me if he could try. After a few seconds, he looked completely disgusted and said, "I can't". Now, to be clear: I am very clean and trim, and am a vegetarian, which makes my scent and taste more mild. I have been told I am exceptional..
Anyway, needless to say, it was a real mood-killer! He went to the bathroom to apparently try to wash his mouth out. He apologized and was highly embarrassed..
Of course, he got dressed and left shortly after that.. How awkward.. He is young and I suggested he may wanna get over that, and his uptightness in general. Of course, he may be able to find a woman who isn't into oral, and is into only dry kissing, but I told him that in my experience, life is a bit more messy and less orderly than that.
Oh well…. at least the rest of the evening was pleasant and enjoyable..
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Making pics private
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Posted:Oct 13, 2014 10:51 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2014 8:54 am
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I have thought about this for a while, and have decided to make my pics private to friends only. I use this site quite a lot, so there is an increasingly higher opportunity for someone who knows someone in my family, or at work, etc… to find me here. I'd just prefer to keep things more discreet, even though I realize I may get less activity to my profile.
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Cute, sexy or weird?….
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Posted:Oct 7, 2014 10:10 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2014 8:48 pm
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…. when a younger, really HOT man wants to call an older woman "Mommy"… Opinions?
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Why be on this site…..
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Posted:Sep 28, 2014 7:53 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2014 10:12 am
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…. if you don't actually follow through with meeting in person? Grrr.. yet again, I had tentative plans to meet someone today, and yet again: stopped hearing from the person several days before our almost-definite other than what time and where to meet plans!!
WHAT is the point of making tentative plans, then skipping out several days before without saying anything? If you don't wanna meet me, don't make plans with me. VERY SIMPLE!
Ironic because this person said he is not 'all talk no action'… grrrr!!
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Sneaking around
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Posted:Aug 29, 2014 8:09 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2014 10:31 pm
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OK I am not going to sneak around with a married man. Of course, many will lie, saying they are single, but I am not going to knowingly help someone cheat on their wife. I have no interest in even sexy talk with a married man, since I know that I wouldn't like it if the tables were turned on me. So yeah.. unless you are a couple where both or onboard, I will be sticking to single men.
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Cams
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Posted:Aug 28, 2014 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2014 8:21 pm
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OK anyone on this site can broadcast live on cam, which means: any of us millions of people can watch. There is no obligation that we must reciprocate by also going on cam! YOU chose to put yourself out there for everyone to see you---I did not/will not be doing the same.
Just blocked a guy who's cam I watched many times because of his incessant pouting over me not putting a cam on. Clue: whining is not hot! Whatever..
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What's the deal with MF couples???
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Posted:Aug 15, 2014 11:53 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2015 3:50 am
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I am about to forget about that idea altogether, honestly… Hard enough getting 2 people to click, but seems exponentially more difficult to get 3 people to click, and even when they seem to at the first meeting (not sexual/neutral location), well I have yet to have a couple actually follow through.
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Body language/cues...
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Posted:Aug 14, 2014 9:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2014 12:08 am
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Why do guys automatically think that just because they are attracted sexually to a woman, the woman is absolutely sexually attracted to them?
Guys, if a woman is really NOT into you, she will probably be showing you this throughout your date if you pay attention. I know that, for me, if I am not into a guy, I will not be making any sexy jokes, blushing, looking at them in a sexy way, not touching them at all, not touching my hair in a playful way, and probably not really be smiling.
On the other hand.. I think you'll really be able to tell if I want things to go further, as well.. 
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Testimonials
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Posted:Aug 13, 2014 11:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 2:2 pm
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I want to thank the people who have posted testimonials on my profile! I am glad you enjoyed spending time with me.. I did too! Nice to have compliments posted that everyone on here can see..
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