Updates on looking for a fun lady or couple or mrs. right...1 week in
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Posted:Oct 13, 2021 2:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2021 2:44 am
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So far my inbox is full of deactivated accounts. that says a lot of about this site and the chances of finding someone compatible.
6ft7 attractive, athletic great job, love everything in life, love to make people laugh, very well endowed...and that's not a joke lol, love sex and great at it....totally single finally and ready for fun with no strings with a woman or couple....or a relationship with a special lady....and on here it seems pretty improbable.
Thing is I want to make sure someone I meet is sexually compatible too before either ongoing fun or a relationship. that's why i joined. Other sites its taboo talk.
Also I wouldn't mind relocating as I'm starting a new chapter in my life...so that's why the online thing is great....
But so far here and an app you swipe on your cell is just getting me spam or mismatches.
Are they any tips on here how to get past the nonsense to the real and attractive people? I'm sure they are sick of it too and probably bombarded by sausage fests....some of the comments on pics and in general....eesh... I wouldn't want to be a woman or couple on here if that's how the real accounts are going to act.
Anyhow...any tips on how to actually meet someone awesome on here (and please don't say abandon standards or need for attraction...i've seen people say that to others.....I'm like WHAAAT????
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Apologize if butterface joke was insensitive. Could apply to both sexes and is subjective. Cmon!
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Posted:Oct 12, 2021 6:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2021 11:22 am
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I guess you can't make a joke these days. I was not being sexist when I was noting that I was getting a lot of replies from very nice bodies that said "trust them" they or their wife is gorgeous when I asked for face pics and they don't to send them or make you chat for hours / days before you see them.
All I said was its sad and awkward when you end up liking someone and they have a great body, but once you see their face there is no attraction. I said when someone has a hot body and personality butterface... I am sure women who like women, or women may have a different line for men...and it's just a joke people!!!! If you can't laugh at the world, or yourself, chances are you're gonna be single a lot longer than most!
Plus as I said it's subjective, one person's gorgeous is another persons "meh." It wasn't directed at anyone in particular...just something since I've been here just under a week, that I've been experiencing.
It IS frustrating since in person, you always see a person's face as you get to know them. So spending a lot of time getting to know someone without even knowing there's physical attraction is frustrating. It's not like we're all on here just for friendships.
I've never had a hard time meeting women, but I'm sure I'm a butthisface to some lol. To each their own.
All I know is if I'm going to have NSA fun, I need attraction, and if I meet someon for a real relationship that's gonna last, I need to look into their eyes and feel that magic, or adoration. When that's real it doesn't go away...at least not for me. Without it...there is no spar
Does that mean I'm shallow? NOOOOO, hell I'm here optionally for a real relationship, and will stop casually dating if Mrs. Right comes along...and JUST looks won't do it either.
I'm dealing with getting a gorgeous woman who was the spitting image of Marilyn Monroe out of my life right now (no , no relationship...just moving on things). I adored her, but she literally had mental issues that I thought she was over when I met her, and I ignored some red flags, but they came back to bite me. I loved her tlll the day she turned on me a second time, and that was it. But I never lost attraction, and I still care about her as a person.....but she just went too far. That's the only reason I've been single for the longest time in my adult life, 1.5 years.
So I'm here to get back into the swing of things...have some fun...but if Mrs. Right comes along with no red flags...I'm diving it with no regrets...whether she be close to home or in a place I'd rather relocate to anyhow.
But to the lady I was speaking to who complained about my old blog post...it wasn't directed at you.....but the fact you couldn't tell I was just trying to be funny, and almost paint me as a sexist, just shows we aren't compatible. Sorry.
Anyhow, I hope everyone had a great weekend and hope you all find what you're for.
So far the only leads I had were fake accounts of women who end up either wanting me to watch their camera lol, or they say they're in some other country on business but will be back soon, or others who you can tell since I speak 4 languages, that English isn't their first language. They always mess up and say English is their only or first language, when there are easy grammatical giveaways.
Why do these people spend time talking to me? The cam ones, at least theyre quick and to the point, these others...do they think I'm going to give them my credit card info or ? Sad thing is I'm sure some poor suckers will do that.
Anyhow...I'm sure there's someone wonderful on here. I met my ex online ..and had she not have had a few issues it would have continued. Too bad.
Anyway, ciao people, keep smiling...and sorry for the lactose intolerant joke.....
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Yes, I'm 6 ft 7, real, willing to relocate eventually, ISO real or fun for now. Let's talk
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Posted:Oct 10, 2021 11:35 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 9:7 pm
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Okay, so I've spoken with some people on my first blog. It appears are real people here after all, thanks! Also I tried reply, but when I refresh doesnt seem show up. Also when I'm using Microsoft Edge, the notifications dont show up, just shows loading, but meanwhile on my phone works. Might change browsers.
So a couple times I've spoken with women, and they literally told me to get lost, that I was catfishing, pretending to be something I'm not, saying I'm not 6ft 7 and my pics are probably someone else. OMG talk about hero to zero in a second. And actually I am legit about everything. Oh well...I guess girls been jaded online too....however I think more men are honest on here than women...so many fake female profiles.
As for couples..I've had some reach out, but NO, I can't travel all the way to Burbank in the middle of the pandemic lol.
However if I meet the right woman, and we are a match I would relocate. I'm ready to move on in my life and start fresh. Love Michigan, Florida, Texas.
Let's talk!!!!
I know 's a beautiful, fun, genuine, sexy woman on here for me if I can just get past the fakes, and they can as well <3. Being a more optimistic today.
And until I find Mrs. Right, I'm open to other suggestions, so couples feel free to write.
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New here but not impressed. Offering a lot on here is wasted on fake accounts, games or unnoticed
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Posted:Oct 8, 2021 2:30 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2021 11:49 pm
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Well I thought I would try a different type of dating site. Bad mistake. Most of this site when it comes anyone my type is fake or other.
It's my birthday today but coming is frustrating and depressing. I'm at a crossroads in my life and ready start a new adventure but there are no roads here visible!
I am way taller than average, athletic, accomplished, educated, eclectic and never had a hard time meeting women in the past...but after a long relationship and CHOOSING be single for 1.5 years, I thought I'd try because possibly sex would also be something a wonderful lady might also value part of something real.
I was open minded as what I could find . I am not really a swinger, but I'm open fun until I find Mrs. Right. But I have standards. I'm not looking for people my age or less that look like they've been smoking cigarettes and drinking since birth, or eating at Burger King every day. There are people who look great younger and older than I am...but everyone here who I've found attractive is either a fake profile or overloaded with replies.
So far here's my experience....
a) pretty women who are cam girls looking for money
b) pretty women who are fishing for your contact information for spam
c) pretty women accounts who are actually men or an unattractive woman
d) women who are much older or don't take care of themselves
e) women who are unattractive or a body type I'm not interested in
f) women who just want talk about nothing 2 replies a day, going nowhere
g) women who are overwhelmed with guys and there's no way get them
Couples I'm open until I find my Mrs. Right, just for fun but with that, 's what I've experienced
a) a husband pretending be the wife, getting off and disappearing
b) couples who are overloaded with attention and don't notice
c) couples who are way too far away
d) couples who want make the sacrifices, no shared effort
e) couples who are creepy or unnatractive
f) couples who are not safe be with in my opinion
g) couples who just like talk with no intent
I thought I coudl find a woman who also valued sex top of the rest of the things we look for in a real relationship. I give that about a 1% chance on this site. So I think this 2-3 month experiment will be it for me .
Plus I've looked at so many gross pictures that it's almost turning off of sex altogether...and the sexy ones are fake or a waste of time.
Prove me wrong please!
Otherwise peace out!
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