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Island Girl  

SoundChaser42 57M
13 posts
5/19/2021 2:46 pm
Island Girl

Continuing my own "My Secret Life" story

My wife and I focused our swinging solely on the house party we'd happily discovered. My wife is very much a social butterfly and she preferred to connect with people face to face, compared to the online ad world. As we attended through those first months, the parties could be a serious party with or more couples, or occasionally they were a bust with only 5 couples, none of which appealed us.

Like any group that meets consistently, cliques did form, but at this point in our fun and frolic, we weren't limiting our playtime any specific group and were really wanting try as much variety as we could. After a couple sessions where we really didn't find anyone we were interested in, there came a night when Island Girl and her husband appeared.

Island Girl was from Jamaica and she came part and parcel with the expected accent. My wife, however, spotted the husband first - a tall, thin, and very attractive guy with an easy smile and soft voice. That he was black was certainly a bonus her since she'd never had sex with a black man, and she wanted- as part of her quest for variety. Seeing as that is a major theme the videos here on Senior Sizzle, it isn't surprising she also wanted some of that action.

My wife made the introductions and we chatted awhile before she laid out our preference of swinging separately. The couple agreed readily and Island Girl and I were left on the living room couch as my wife and the husband slipped upstairs.

Island Girl was without a doubt the most exotic woman I'd ever connected with. Her hair had weaves and a few cornrows, her voice was an amazing island lilt and her body was overweight, but she owned it in a way that made her extremely sexy. I find confident BBW women quite attractive and this woman was full of confidence and<b> desires </font></b>that she eagerly imparted as we moved from kissing a bedroom undressing and beyond.

Island Girl was the first woman with whom I had sex over many different party dates. Unlike my wife, she wasn't particularly interested in variety. She liked repeat and hone her sexual experience with someone, and since we had the same sort-of relaxed style, we got know each other's<b> desires </font></b>very well. That she and her husband played separately was a good thing because he was a hot property amongst the women at the parties and he stayed pretty busy. Island Girl would seek me out when he went off on another bout of exploration. We fucked a lot. We talked a lot. She was the first true FWB I made during these heady days of exploration.

My wife and I had begun planning meet with them outside of the party environment when the husband's job took him to another city. He had a government job that pretty-regularly moved him around the country, so they were off to a new life.

But Island Girl had taught me that swinging sex was not always just wham-bam and on-to the next fuc You could really make connections with someone and have feelings for them that were more than raw sexual desire. I also began realize that all the propaganda I'd swallowed through the about how there was only one perfect match out there for everyone, and that you were only able love one person at a time was simply wrong, if you had the psychological makeup move outside such propaganda (not everyone does).

Around this time, I came across a book called "Everything you know about love and sex is wrong" by Pepper Schwartz. I found it interesting reading. While I didn't agree with everything she wrote, it helped me connect the dots between some of what I was feeling and the reality of the psychology behind it all. And it made me begin examine the possibility of polyamory, but acting on that would take a bit more time...

13129 posts
5/19/2021 8:04 pm

" her body was overweight, but she owned it in a way that made her extremely sexy "

I know / have known woman like that

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