I tried to seduce a couple last night and failed….bad.  

SilyconBond 54M
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7/13/2020 6:58 pm

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7/14/2020 2:10 pm

I tried to seduce a couple last night and failed….bad.


I was actually pretty skeptical of this site when I first started here. Now, I know. It’s all on me.

It’s a sex site, and you would think I would have a dick picture ready to go…I don’t. I am still trying to get over the brainwashing of my upbringing. I had no problem posing for some shots for women I was seeing.

I can’t seem to get over my primal fear of the picture being used against me, since one was when I was a . That picture circulated among the parents of my high school for my entire four years there. It caused me a lot of problems. Popular nerd with his dick hanging down between his legs on a moon shot, yep that was me. I should have been proud, instead I was embarrassed by it. I thought I had rooted out embarrassment long ago.

I have gone years without feeling the emotion. Life throws you a curve ball sometimes. I am going to have to work on a system to overcome it.

I have now been invited twice…cell numbers, and face pictures, body picture, no problem.

Dick picture? Nope...Deal breaker it seems. Two separate couples now, two photo exchanges…and I blew it because I couldn’t send a picture of my dick.

What's even funnier to me, is my social group would just accept it. Most of them have seen me half dressed anyway. Showing up at my door at<b> weird </font></b>times. I should have been the neighbor that yells at the to "GET OFF MY LAWN!" Instead of the one that built them a lemonade stand. Those cranky old guys are smarter than me.

Weird, I had no problem being shot at, being yelled at, speaking in front of thousands of people...and yet I can't take single picture of my anatomy? My fellow soldiers would not believe it since I didn't care when someone stole my towel in the barracks. I just walked back to my room naked. Talekd to my platoon sergeant's wife on route and my next door room mate's girl friend and didn't care. Shit always happens in the barracks.

SilyconBond 54M
148 posts
7/13/2020 7:09 pm

I was actually pretty skeptical of this site when I first started here. Now, I know. It’s all on me.

It’s a sex site, and you would think I would have a dick picture ready to go…I don’t. I am still trying to get over the brainwashing of my upbringing. I had no problem posing for some shots for women I was seeing.

I can’t seem to get over my primal fear of the picture being used against me, since one was when I was a teen. That picture circulated among the parents of my high school for my entire four years there. It caused me a lot of problems. Popular nerd with his dick hanging down between his legs on a moon shot, yep that was me. I should have been proud, instead I was embarrassed by it. I thought I had rooted out embarrassment long ago.

I have gone years without feeling the emotion. Life throws you a curve ball sometimes. I am going to have to work on a system to overcome it.

I have now been invited twice…cell numbers, and face pictures, body picture, no problem.

Dick picture? Nope...Deal breaker it seems. Two separate couples now, two photo exchanges…and I blew it because I couldn’t send a picture of my dick.

What's even funnier to me, is my social group would just accept it. Most of them have seen me half dressed anyway. Showing up at my door at weird times. I should have been the neighbor that yells at the kids to "GET OFF MY LAWN!" Instead of the one that built them a lemonade stand. Those cranky old guys are smarter than me.

Weird, I had no problem being shot at, being yelled at, speaking in front of thousands of people...and yet I can't take single picture of my anatomy? My fellow soldiers would not believe it since I didn't care when someone stole my towel in the barracks. I just walked back to my room naked. Talked to my platoon sergeant's wife on route and my next door room mate's girl friend and didn't care. Shit always happens in the barracks.


japaneseass 55F
50231 posts
7/13/2020 9:44 pm

There is always a risk of the dick/naked photo you have sent, abused and misused. I suppose you totally understand that risk, from what I see and read from your post. Perhaps, that's why you don't have any profile pic either on the site like this.

But if they are to seeking a person to meet, it is natural to ask you certain types of photos. Especially if you have zero photos on your profile. (Believe me, most of the male members have way too man dick photos, I don't even have to ask them to produce such a photo, but...lol)

Maybe you can just snap just a parts only, not full frontal view. I would not definitely send a naked photo including face, but parts only might be sufficient enough? If they insist you to send them full nude photo, including head to toe, I would consider that's a red flag. I heard from some of the other member, later, the photos were used to blackmail.

It's really your choice, I am pretty sure, there are people who don't care how the parts look like, anyway. Plus, even if you produce the junk photos, they still might back out from real meeting. So, I don't think you are really losing anything. You should really go by your rules, don't give in.


SilyconBond replies on 7/14/2020 3:41 am:
Good advice. Thank you for commenting on my blog. I read some of your blog after getting this comment, and your profile. Wow, you have an artistic eye. I especially liked the small Hulk post. Never seen that before. Something so silly was very erotic. A dual dopamine hit to me. You are great at choosing body parts, which one do you recommend?

author51 59F  
130010 posts
7/13/2020 11:18 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    There is always a risk of the dick/naked photo you have sent, abused and misused. I suppose you totally understand that risk, from what I see and read from your post. Perhaps, that's why you don't have any profile pic either on the site like this.

    But if they are to seeking a person to meet, it is natural to ask you certain types of photos. Especially if you have zero photos on your profile. (Believe me, most of the male members have way too man dick photos, I don't even have to ask them to produce such a photo, but...lol)

    Maybe you can just snap just a parts only, not full frontal view. I would not definitely send a naked photo including face, but parts only might be sufficient enough? If they insist you to send them full nude photo, including head to toe, I would consider that's a red flag. I heard from some of the other member, later, the photos were used to blackmail.

    It's really your choice, I am pretty sure, there are people who don't care how the parts look like, anyway. Plus, even if you produce the junk photos, they still might back out from real meeting. So, I don't think you are really losing anything. You should really go by your rules, don't give in.
I could not have said it any better than my friend did here as she hit all the same points I was going to mention after reading this.. I have met members here sight unseen without even a face photo because I go by the connection and personality alone when deciding to meet..Keep holding onto your beliefs and morals and never do something you do not feel comfortable with doing...xoxo


SilyconBond replies on 7/14/2020 3:47 am:
It a pleasure to see you here again. I read your latest post, and few others. Does the poetry just come to you, or do you have to fixate on something and then it comes? Two artistic visitors today, man, I'm blessed. I only know one creative artist in my personal life. You two...are not like him. Not at all.

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