85% of the time we have had great experiences and most people are real. What I don't understand is the guy who contacts me and say he is coming to my town tomorrow and would love to play while he is here. Now I have already met this guy and we had a great connection. We set and time in the evening to meet and he is going to come to our place. All is good. Next day comes and I text him late morning just to confirm time. Then radio silence, absolutely nothing that entire day until way past the time he was suppose to arrive. He was golfing so I even at 5:00 in hopes that he would still call I got all ready to meet him at 6:00. I know why even bother , right? But I always want to give them the benefit of the doubt and if he showed up I wanted to be ready. Well 6:05 and still nothing so no loss, my husband and I went out to a great dinner and came home to great sex with each other. I still don't understand the turn on of doing that to someone. At the very least send a text. These days with technology there really is never a good excuse except death.
When I see that someone has messaged me to tell me they would love to hook up. Then I look at their profile and they have no pictures at all. Don't they understand that if they hadn't seen my pictures then they probably wouldn't have message me. IT was the pictures that drew them in to wanting to message me.So how can they expect me to just want to meet them with out any face or body pics for me to see and get excited about. So for me that is a red flag and I probably won't answer you back. Waste of my time if you can't show that body that you think is athletic. Please just show who you really are. That is way more attractive then lying about it. The end game is to actually meet, have fun hot sex. So if you are not who you say you are it will never happen.