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WTF Is With Guys?  

SexyGILFNeedsLuv 65F  
178 posts
9/13/2020 10:04 pm
WTF Is With Guys?

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9288 posts
9/13/2020 11:34 pm

"Against my better judgment, I did."
Maybe you should trust your better judgement ...

donaldstill1973 49M
38 posts
9/14/2020 12:15 am

" he wanted me meet him in his hotel room"

That is a total red flag. Please be more careful. This is the internet, who knows, the guys you meet could range from creeps to seriously dangerous. I strongly suggest that your first meeting(s) be in a public place. Trust that little voice in the back of your head

"It was very strange. I felt like I was seen as strictly a sex object and not as a person. Am I missing something here?."

No, not at all. He DID see you strictly as a sex object.

lov2suk1969 53M

9/14/2020 5:16 am

first mistake was sending him nude pictures even tho they didnt show anything... 2nd mistake was meeting him in his room those 2 mistakes made him think you wanted sex

Yours_4A_knight 57M
1502 posts
9/14/2020 5:30 am

Maybe it is the part of the world that I live in, or just the assumption that all men are going to behave like the guy in question, but my experience with this or a more mainstream site is that I must be approaching women wrong because I don't ever even get to the stage of exchanging pictures.

But that being said and as others have perhaps said before, sending overly sexualized, in his mind at least, made this about sex.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

CleavageFan4U 65M  
69374 posts
9/14/2020 6:42 am

It seems you repeatedly ignored your gut feelings. That certainly doesn't excuse his behavior, but still not a good plan.

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Blueyedguy823 55M  
1077 posts
9/14/2020 7:23 am

Never. Never. Never Ever meet a dude in his hotel room unless you are ready to have sex with him. The number one signal to a man that a woman is ready to have sex with you? She accepts an invite to his hotel room. That's the scenario that runs through a man's head. Right, wrong or otherwise... that's the truth.

SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 9/23/2020 12:08 am:
I get it now. Won't do it again. Thanks.

countrygal848 72F

9/14/2020 8:24 am

In this day and age it boggles my mind that women of any age wouold go to a strangers hotel room for a first meeting. I don't want to dump on you however you could have ended up a statistic. Just saying

oral4bothU 59M  
953 posts
9/14/2020 8:35 pm

So..., you sent him vanilla 'nudes', then you meet him 1/2 way between homes, at a hotel. Then you stayed over an hour with him feeling you, & making out. You didn't get up & leave when he started undressing. What message do you think you sent him ? Did he offer you money ?

SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 9/23/2020 12:11 am:
No money offerred but it felt like he should have. Lol

s2ndegree 63M  
9800 posts
9/15/2020 11:08 am

Both of your houses are about a mile apart?
So he got the hotel room just for the occasion?
Not one of his texts even mentioned any apology or
sorry for being out of line?Count your blessings!

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SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 9/23/2020 12:15 am:
No an hour away. Not a single apology or anything like it. He kept asking when he could have sex with me and what "tests" he had to pass. He really didn't seem to get it at all. Yes, I did count my blessings that it didn't go any further.

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