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Anal sex is the best if done right... Instructions  

Sexplay692000 42M/42F
4 posts
2/7/2021 10:44 am
Anal sex is the best if done right... Instructions

Try anal training. If you're worried about tearing or pain, you can work your way up to full-blown anal starting with a butt plug, anal beads, or fingers. "If you're comfortable with any of these things in your anus for about to 20 minutes, there's a good chance you're at a point where you can successfully insert a penis" or a dildo, explains Shawntres Parks, a licensed marriage and family therapist in San Diego. The biggest challenge, she says, is getting the sphincter to relax enough for something to penetrate it. Don't stress, it's not unusual for it to take a few tries. But when you feel your sphincter relax whether it's a toy, finger, or penis coming through, you'll know you're ready.
Lube, lube, lube. To make things way more comfortable, remember that lube (and lots of it) is your best friend. "The anus is not self-lubricating in the same way that the vagina is," says Parks. So it'll need a little extra from a store-bought friend to make the experience smoother. Parks recommends water-based lubes since anything petroleum- or oil-based will break down the materials in your condom (if you're wearing one) or a silicon strap-on.
Prep the pipes. Anal douching is always available to you, but your best bet is just going poop before the act. If you're having trouble, Parks says to try an herbal supplement or tea such as Smooth Move that goes easy on the stomach. "If you try it the night before, the time you wake up in the morning you'll probably have a bowel movement" and again later that night, says Parks.
Talk it out. Be sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling when it comes to anal. If something doesn't feel right: stop! Even after the act, Parks says the conversations should continue. Check in afterward and ask your partner what they thought of the experience, how it made them feel, and what they might like to do differently next time.
Cleanliness is key. If you're planning to transition from anal to vaginal sex, be sure to thoroughly clean yourself in between, especially if you're not using a condom you can change, says Parks. "There's a big increased of STIs when you're transitioning from anal sex to vaginal sex because of that transfer of fecal bacteria into the vagina." When<b> shopping </font></b>for body-friendly wipes, Parks says to "look for things that don't have harsh chemicals" and try them out for a few days. If you find you're able to use them on a day-to-day basis without irritation, then they're probably a good bet for a post-anal wipe down.
Hop in the shower after. In addition to wiping yourself down, you and your partner should take a shower to clear yourselves of any bacteria. "The challenge sometimes with showering happens when couples are trying to build up arousal," says Parks. The time spent in the shower might the mood for a round two of vaginal or oral sex. She recommends showering with your partner to keep the sexy time going during the transition. It'll get you both clean and ~prepped~ for the second act.
Clean the place up. It's not just your bodies you should clean post-butt sex. Make sure you immediately get rid of condoms and throw any towels or sheets that may have gotten a bit messy in the laundry. You don't have to go overboard with buckets of bleach or anything, says Parks. Just be sure to special attention to anything that might have fecal bacteria on it and get it in the trash or washer ASAP. Otherwise, "general practices for keeping your space clean are enough," she says.


TJTWGT2015 48M/45F
1 post
3/27/2021 10:57 pm

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The2ofus007 55M/54F  
59 posts
4/29/2021 10:48 pm

Thanks for sharing this helpful blog and also your amazing pic you posted


JackOffjr 51M
1 post
6/12/2021 1:15 am

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The2ofus007 55M/54F  
59 posts
7/25/2021 1:36 am

Would love to slowly slide into your beautiful ass


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