Just some Random fun lil' tidbits and facts about Me....
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Posted:Aug 18, 2014 6:16 am
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2014 4:02 pm
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**Actually Reading This and or Other Blogs of Mine, and Asking Me Questions when I am on Cam and or IM, Scores Big Points with Me, when it comes to Who I choose to Respond to out of the Plethora of Responses that I get here when I do Cam or IM. Which I LOVE To Cam.**
I am a Gemini, that Twin, Ying Yang, Duality, "2 sides to One coin" Thing is Strong with Me.
I am equal parts Voyeur and Exhibitionist, Especially with a Camera around.
I Love Who I am and What I do, both Personally and Professionally, and have Zero Qualms about the "Who, What, When, Where, Why, and How" either.
I am a Led Head...Led Zeppelin is one of My favorite Rock Bands, all except 'Stairway to Heaven'...
I Prefer being Naked, but that does not always equate "sex", and if it does to You, You Need to Be Naked More.
Google "Oiran", but in a Nutshell Oiran are like Geisha, except Oiran are Trained in the Sexual Arts. It would not surprise Me if I were an Oiran in a Past Life, and I admire the Artistic Education and Training of Oiran and Geisha.
Catching and Keeping My Attention is Worth the Time and Effort to do so.
I was Raised Privileged, Educated, Pampered, and Hard Working.
I have "synesthesia", I taste Numbers, See sounds, and hear Colors.
Studying Cultures and Sexuality in those Cultures is fascinating to Me.
I Cook. And not just Grill Cheese. And not just Microwave Popcorn.
I would love to learn Sign Language/ASL "again".
England, Japan, New Zealand, China, Germany, are just some of the destinations on My Travel "Bucket List", but I would Love to and Plan on Retiring to Hawaii.
I Love having My hair Played with.
I am Hyper Tactile, ie I Love to Touch, Need to Touch, Want to Touch. If I say Otherwise, I expect that to be Respected Also.
Fair Warning: I am considered, classified, and diagnosed a "Healthy" Class 3 Sexual Sadist- Healthy means that I Seek Consensual Interactions with Masochist.
I have a Huge Laugh that I Love to Use and Good Stand-Up Comedy is one of My favorite ways to Use it.
Green Days are Wonderful!
There are Many Reasons' That I May Contact Someone and Extend a Friend Request. Please, Don't Assume it is Because I Want to Fuck You or for You to Fuck Me or etc Ad infinitum. There could be Many Reasons for the Contact Initiated on My behalf.
When I Cam, I get A LOT Of Responses, and some fall through the cracks, I try to Respond to as Many as Possible, but I give Preference to Locals, To Sub Men, and to 420 Playmates.
I cam for Fun, and to Verify... Not Just to Put on a Show all the time. Which I Love to Do, but Not the Sole Point for Me.
Adding a Couple More FWB, with People who Know how to Keep The Friends in The Benefits, ie Regular Dates, Would be Wonderful. Especially with Fall/Winter Coming.
I Definitely have a Cycles to Me and My Activity and Desires. "Wham Bam Thank You Sam" is beginning to head back down to the bottom of the List, and Gradually Falling Off Permanently. LT/LT Romantic Sexually Active Kinky Relationships Friendships and Connections are Rising to the Top 3.
I DO NOT SWITCH.
Not Everything is For Everybody. I Understand This, Hope You do Also.
I LOVE Straight CD and T-Gurls!!!
I DO NOT Suffer the Bullshit of Active Alcoholics. PERIOD! 
 Share the Love People!! Life is Too Short to suffer through doing otherwise.
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Cam Dates Wanted..../;D
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Posted:Aug 12, 2014 1:50 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2014 11:47 am
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OK.. I Got a New Web Cam that I LOVE to Use, and I Would Love Some LOCAL Real Time in the Flesh Face to Face Dates to Use it With... 
If You are Interested, and Actually Reside in Colorado, Please be in Touch with Me Here some How. When I log on to Cam and Look for a Hot Date to Cam with, Feel Free to Contact Me.... Yes, I am in Lakewood, CO. Yes, I am Real, STD FREE, 420 Friendly/User, Fun, and I PREFER BWC, 
Kinky, Submissive, Masochist, Fetishist also Especially Welcome. You Gotta Love/Enjoy/Crave: BBBW, Mutual Oral, Vibes, Other Toys, have a sense of Humor Personality and be able to Hold a Conversation. Everything Else I am Pretty Open too, Especially if it includes Wine Dine 69, and Something going L/T, FWB
Be Disease/STD Free, and I WILL CHECK....!!
Be able to Verify by cam or share CURRENT Face Pics like I can and do.
Sugar 
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Answering some Questions....
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Posted:Aug 24, 2014 12:19 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2014 11:32 am
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I have had a Clean Play Circle of 8 FWB for about 4 Years. Some of Which I met here. These People Know "How" to Keep the Friends in The Benefits. I am Looking to Expand My Circle.
I Seek Open Poly Committed Relationships.
I Seek Platonic Friendships.
I Don't "Do" Women Sexually, but I Do Love Boobs.
I also Love Moobs.
My "Type" is More of a Personality Click along with Aesthetically Pleasing Qualities. Those can be a Myriad of Combinations. Some of My "Weaknesses" are:
Athletic Men Sincerely Into BBBW
Alpha Male in Vanilla Day / Humbled Warrior Submissive Behind Closed Doors.
Smart, Artistic, Talented, Intelligent, Funny, and Prosperous.
Available.
Yes, I am a Trained Professional Artist. I have a Album here Entitled "Some of My Work" which I will be Updating Regularly. I consider Myself an Abstract Illustrator and Boudoir Artist, but I also Do "Paper Arts" such as Heirlooms and Keepsakes like Personalized Birth Certificates, Marriage License/Contracts/Ketubahs, Announcements, Scrolls, Cards, Calligraphy, Fonts, etc.
I got over trying to Fix the Broken Butterfly after My Divorce in 2007.
Yes, I plan on getting More Tattoos, the one on My Butt is a Good 1st Meet n Greet Date Story.
Sugar is My Name. It is an Old Family Nick Name.
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Me in a Large Nut Shell
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Posted:Sep 16, 2014 6:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 9:18 am
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I Was Perving on My Main Site that I Prefer to Use, and Saw This....
"My biggest turn on and the main subject of my fantasies is being with a woman that I love and trust, a woman that loves me and that I know will always come back to me, a woman in charge of her sexuality that knows she can't be with just one man the rest of her life, a woman I can send off to her lover(s) with a kiss (and a grope) and enjoy her sexuality whether we're together or she's out with her lover(s) on her own.
Most people wouldn't consider this type of relationship a monogamous relationship but I would. Monogamy to me is the emotional commitment and in some level the physical commitment as well but only as long as there is full disclosure and everyone is happy and having fun. I don't want anything going on behind my back unless that's what we agree on. There is some interest on my part to play around with her going out and meeting someone without my knowledge and then coming home and telling me about it later but that's for way down the line when the relationship is on solid ground."
You Know that Sonar "Ping" Sound....??? It went Off in My Head when I Read this... Not Only Because it Speaks to a Huge Part of Who I am as a Woman, but What I Seek in The Rest of My Life....
Just FYI...
Love8
Sugar/;D
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My Aunt's
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Posted:Aug 11, 2014 6:27 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2014 2:20 am
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Recently, One of My Favorite Aunts passed away at 80. While at the Wake, a Family Member was sharing with Me how a Cousin of Mine had lost weight on a "Cleansing" Product that She was selling, She wondered If it was something that I would like to Try and Use... I responded "I have been looking for something that I can Occasionally take to do a Purge detoxify thing, but as far as for losing weight, I Don't want to lose ANY Weight, I just took over a Fetish Gaining Site, and I am quite Pleased with My Shape and Size." So of course the Convo turned to "Fetish Gaining Site? What is that?"
That Opened Up the Entire Conversation. "The Conversation".//;D
I Explained to Her That I am a Pro Domme, She Asked, What is That? and That was the Beginning of Part 4 of "The Conversation".
I Love What I Do....! Love IT! Otherwise, I Would Not be Doing It. Trust Me Honey.... I just Wouldn't.... Life is Wayyyyy to Short. This Entire Conversation Took Place at the Wake of My Aunts Funeral. Life is Tenuous at Best Sometimes.
I am Out to All... But Especially to The Primary People in My Family. People that I wanted to Let Know about My BDSM/Kink/Fetish Ways, Lifestyle Profession or what have You, Especially the Online Part. Those Primary People are My Nuclear Family. My Parents, My Siblings, My that are Over 18. My Mother Enjoys Telling the Less Religious People in Our Family, that I am Both an Artist and a Pro Domme... This Interestingly Comes Out in "Mother Code" During Conversations, that go something like this.... "Tell Such n such and so n so what You do?". My Standard/Vanilla reply is "I'm an Artist/Illustrator." Then She says', "Tell Them What Else You Do?" ... Then The Conversation Begins. I Love Having Good Conversations About What I Do. Both of My Chosen Passions of Life, that I Love and Want to Do as a "Career", come Naturally to Me. I Do Believe it was My Aunt that first said something to Me about "That saying, 'Do What You Love'. It is True...."
My Cousin made some Bomb Diggity Ribs. It was a Beautiful Sunny Day, I got to See People and Family that I have Not Seen In Years'. Nieces Nephews Cousins Aunts Uncles.... We Listened to Old Soul. We Laughed. We Enjoyed each Other.
I have been watching "Richard Pryor- Live In Concert" A LOT lately...(I Believe in "Laugh Therapy")... There is a bit He Does about The Difference between Black Funerals and White Funerals. My Older Sister, (who could not make the Funeral), asked Me about it later, and I had Her Laughing saying "Everybody acted like They Had some Sense...! I was Pleasantly Surprised." All the Drama came Prior to the Funeral while Preparations were being made. My Aunt, Like My Parents, wanted to be cremated, No Viewing, No Long Drawn Out "Service" but just a Memorial Type of Thing. We were to gather Together to Eat, Party, Celebrate and Remember. My Parents want the Same thing. I have been told This Since I was 9 or 10 Years Old. I told My Mother that I would be to Scared to do Otherwise, She would come back and Haunt Me/Us.... "Us" as in My Older Sister, My Older Brother, and Moi. Then, I would NEVER Hear the End of it From My Sister!! Ever!
SERIOUSLY! EV. ER. And Those of You that Have Big Sisters' Know EXACTLY What I am Talking About....
I Love My Family....<3
Love8
Sugar/;D
PS.... If You want a link to "Richard Pryor-Live In Concert", be in touch...
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Profile Update and Re-Edit....
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Posted:Aug 11, 2014 5:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2014 4:03 pm
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I Thought it would be Best to Post this List Here... Which Ones Do You Want to Explore With Me....???
JUST SOME OF MY KINKS, FETISHES AND INTEREST:
Into: !sex then cookies then more sex!, "*gasp gasp* give me a minute..." "hmmm, no." (giving), "aaaaaand my clothes fell off!" (everything to do with it), "and, why isn't your face between my legs?","behave...and you won't get hurt...as much" (giving), "being petted till i fall asleep" (receiving), "blacks walking whites in public" (everything to do with it), "come on show me who owns that cock" (giving), "crush me with all your weight!" (giving), "don't get dressed, i'm not done with you" (giving), "good morning" blow jobs (everything to do with it), "i can't hear you! my pussy is on your face" (giving), "that wasn't a request..." (giving), "the look" that tells you in no uncertain terms that you have crossed the line and earned a spanking (giving), "we-might-get-caught" sex, "who said i was done with you?" (wearing), "why aren't you naked?" (giving),*being honest with play partners* (everything to do with it), 24/7 (everything to do with it), 24/7 365 slavery, 420 (everything to do with it), 420 friendly (everything to do with it), 420 sex, a big, fat, luscious, black ass, a great time laughing and taking pictures! (everything to do with it),, a man who likes getting down on his knees, a predatory grin that says "run, i dare you!" (everything to do with it), a sexy voice (everything to do with it), a woman who knows how to take control, a LOVE like gomez & morticia addams, , baby oil handjobs (giving), bareback sex, bathing (everything to do with it), bbbw (everything to do with it), bbbw punishing white men for being white (everything to do with it), bbw domme, bbw sitting on my face (giving), behave or i won't hurt you (giving), being a slut, but not for just anyone (everything to do with it), being publicly and intimately inspected while naked by women (giving), being pushed up against a wall in a passionate kiss, being stalked by whom i want to stalk me (receiving), being told "cum for me baby" (everything to do with it), being told "I've never had a woman make me cum from head" then making him cum his face off in my mouth from my soul stirring head (everything to do with it) ,being used as mommys' slut (giving), ben wa balls (receiving), big naked thighs (wearing), bitch-slapping (giving), biting (giving), black domme farting in white boys face (giving), black dommes with strapon for white subs (everything to do with it) black women white men (everything to do with it), blindfolding you, bending you over to be caned and leaving you in the dark silence waiting, waiting, not knowing when the first stroke will land (giving), blindfolds, bloom county and outland, blow jobs (giving), blowjobs in the shower, blowjobs while male drives vehicle (everything to do with it), body odor (giving), body service: refers to the attention a submissive gives to their dominant's personal hygiene, i.e. bathing, grooming. (receiving), body worship (everything to do with it), bondage, bring-them-to-the-edge-of-orgasm-but-don't-let-them-cum-for-a-while (giving), cake, cake batter, caressing (everything to do with it), casual nudity (everything to do with it), chastity devices, chocolate (receiving), clothed female naked male, clothespins, clothing optional means you will be naked (everything to do with it), cocksucking (everything to do with it), collar and lead/leash (everything to do with it), consent is like catnip to a sadist, converting curious vanillas into lifestylers (everything to do with it), corporal punishment (giving),crops (everything to do with it), cuddles (everything to do with it), cuddling naked (everything to do with it), d/s, deep throating (giving), denver colorado (everything to do with it), devoting an entire week to Hot Sex, dildos, dilligaf (giving), discipline, doing kegels as he cums (giving), don't do what i do - do what i tell you to (giving) enthusiastic consent, erotic photography (everything to do with it), erotic weight gain (everything to do with it) face sitting smothering queening (giving),femdom (everything to do with it), femmedomme&film (everything to do with it), Tribute Servitude (receiving), flirting (everything to do with it), foot worship (receiving), funky munky (giving), gangbang, genuine and deep submission, the heartfelt kind that comes from trust, respect, lust, and mental and emotional connection, getting clean, being dirty, getting clean (everything to do with it), Gold Nectar and Brown Nectar (giving), hair pulling (everything to do with it), handcuffs, having my hair pulled while you critique my damn fine cocksucking skills (everything to do with it), hey...look what i found at the hardware store, high heels (everything to do with it), huge ass to worship (giving), human bidet, humor (everything to do with it), i am an extreme sadist, i am my favorite fetish (everything to do with it), i am my own fetish (everything to do with it), i am my own party (everything to do with it), i had something to say...but you have boobs (receiving), i love white boys (everything to do with it), i smoke this joint while you lick my pussy, i want you to c'mere, I'm nice just don't piss me off  , if you don't behave you don't get spanked! (giving), inappropriate uses of candy (everything to do with it), intelligence (everything to do with it), internal enslavement (giving), interracial bdsm (everything to do with it), interracial sex, it's been decided for you by me! (giving), it's not a queef, my cooter blew you a kiss (giving), kissing (everything to do with it), lapping up female cum (giving), laughing (everything to do with it),leaving marks (giving), licking her pussy till she begs for my cock (receiving), lingerie (everything to do with it), lotion, love (everything to do with it), makeup (everything to do with it), making home movies (everything to do with it),making my submissive feel safe in every way (giving), making out, male nude female clothed (everything to do with it), male submission (everything to do with it), margaritas and mutual masturbation (everything to do with it), masks, massages (receiving), master/slave, masturbation (receiving), men who can make me laugh (everything to do with it), mistress reminding me who owns my ass (giving), mommy belly and stretch marks, mommy/boy dynamics (everything to do with it), money (receiving), multiple orgasms (everything to do with it), music (everything to do with it), mutual bathing (everything to do with it), mutual masturbation (everything to do with it), my beloved is mine and i am his (everything to do with it), naked(everything to do with it), naked except for a chastity device (giving), natural scent (giving), nipples (everything to do with it), no, please - i insist! go f**k yourself, not all spankings come from anger,nudity (everything to do with it), obedience training (giving),The Black Oiran(everything to do with it) , open relationships (everything to do with it), oral sex (everything to do with it), orgasm control (everything to do with it), orgasm denial (giving), orgasming from a vaginal fisting, outdoor sex, pain (giving), pantyhose/stockings (receiving), pedicures (receiving), people who actually read my profile, photography (everything to do with it), pinching (giving),piss soaked panty gags (giving), playing stretch armstrong with your cock (everything to do with it), porn(everything to do with it), power exchange (everything to do with it), pretty red marks (giving), punishing bratty boys (everything to do with it), punishing white boys (everything to do with it), punishing white submissives for being white (everything to do with it), purposely making him hard in public, pussy worship (receiving), queef (giving), queef in my face (giving), queefing (giving), queening, facesitting, assworship,rack and ssc, red marks in the shape of paddles (giving), reminding him who owns his cock (giving), riding crops, rimming (everything to do with it),sadism/Class 3 Sadist(giving), scent (everything to do with it), scent play (giving), scent training (giving), sensory deprivation, sensual domination, sensual play (everything to do with it), sensual/slave dances (receiving), service (receiving), service-oriented male submission (receiving),sexual objectification (giving), sharpie body art (everything to do with it), sharpie branding (everything to do with it), sharpie marker murals as body art! (everything to do with it), shoes, shutting me up with a kiss, sissy training (giving), sitting on boys and slapping them, sitting on your face as i play with your cock, slave tattoos, sleepy sex (receiving),smoking a bowl during sex,Body Modification (giving), blunt/beer dynamics, daddy-lil girl dynamcis, damsels in distress, gangbangs,love at first sight, open and poly (everything to do with it), shemales (everything to do with it), violet wands.
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May 30th
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Posted:May 29, 2014 11:44 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2014 11:48 am
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Today is My 48th Birthday!!!!
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This Ain't E-harmony but COME ON People....!!
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Posted:Feb 15, 2014 10:09 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2014 1:47 am
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OK, I Understand that on this particular Site, there comes an Expectation of Sex, which I have NO ISSUE WITH, Honestly, I am here, on this Particular Site for a Reason, and that is to Find Multiple Sexual Relationships and Friendships for Long Term Real Time Play. If Romance or other Long Term Relationships Occur, That is Wonderful also. I am Open to letting things Naturally flow, but I am NOT Purposefully here "Looking for a Husband". Now, with all that being said and Explained... The Pounce 'thing', where some Men expect to be Fucking Me, literally within the first 5 Minutes of Actual Physical Contact, albeit New and I just laid My eyes on You , is NOT SOMETHING THAT I DEAL WITH.
I have a Specific Physical Vetting Process that I Purposefully go through on a First Meeting/Date because I Prefer Bareback Play, and Pounce Privileges, for Me, comes with the 2nd or 3rd "Date"/Meet. Very Rarely do I connect with someone that I am Meeting for the First Time and Fucking within 5 Minutes of that meeting. I understand it happens, and can happen with Me, and has happened with Me, but it is rare and not desired often. I Like to make some sort of Connection other than Your Cock Needing to be satisfied and drained and You getting Your rocks off...I Want Some Too! And Believe Me, I do have that "Fetish" of Meeting and Fucking within the first 5 Minutes, but THAT IS NOT THE ONLY DIET I AM ON. This is something that just recently came up, again for Me, because, I had a "First Date" get a lil' to Handsy with Me and I had to set Him back a bit. Now, I am not in the least bit a Tease, but Don't Pounce unless it is Understood/Communicated that, That is what is Expected and Wanted. Quickies and Pouncing can be Great, but it is not appreciated when Eager Pouncing crosses over into Pushy Ass-Hole who is NOT Getting Laid.
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Cool...
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Posted:Feb 5, 2014 9:45 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2014 1:48 am
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I got My own Chat room Here....
I am going to have to set up a Specific chat time ....
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Posted:Jan 20, 2014 11:55 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2014 1:49 am
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The Desired End to a Yummy 420 Session....
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This Is a 420 Session...../;D
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Posted:Jan 16, 2014 8:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2014 1:51 am
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I had a Wonderful Session Recently.... and Crumbs for Tthose Interested..../;D
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SOME of What I am Looking for and Interested....
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Posted:Jan 9, 2014 5:53 pm
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2014 4:05 pm
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I am Looking for Real Time, Long Term/Life Time Committed Real, Subs and Slaves. Collared, Owned, Scented, Marked, and Fluid Bound.
I have a Fond Preference of/for White Males. Between the Ages of a Very Mature 24 years old and a Young 70ish.
**I am also now Looking for a Special Servant (or 2, or 3, or....), who is A White Male. 50 Or Older, No Older than 73, Widowed OR Never Married, No , Retired and Looking to Serve as a Companion / "Chauffeur" / Sex Slave, 24/7.**
If Interested contact Me here somehow..../;D
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To link to this blog (SUGARRGERL7) use [blog SUGARRGERL7] in your messages.
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