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First Rule of Friends With Benefits ..Be a FRIEND... No Really!!  

Pyyxz 59F
15 posts
5/2/2021 10:05 am
First Rule of Friends With Benefits ..Be a FRIEND... No Really!!

Guys forget the F in friends with benefits.... No it's not fuck...lol
But ,could,should lead to that IF I like you! really..
As a friend... I hafta...

What I have come to realize is the men who were friends and lovers were true fucking friends
And THAT is rare....
Bonofied friends...
Do anything for friends..and me I was true fucking blue....
{{but here do that and men will fucking use the shit out of that....like get off on a mind fuck then hurt you}}


And OMG the men I have know who have been unfucking believeable friends
Where are those men... not here
Do they exist anymore?
Yeah, yeah I hear it I get it ..men {males not real men} will say this is a sex site}

BUT SEX the good kind... the REAL good kind is with a man that likes ME....me... my flaws my faults my quirks...
Who I can trust..OMG trust
Feel safe... secure guarded
SO I CAN let down my guard and "go places"
ding ding ding

Use to be men... the ones that were without trying to hard & were REAL at that "got that"
Cuz OMG is that the fucking best!

Random thoughts of a work hours overnight still haven't sleep woman that wants a man.......... the real kind

No ..no no please if you have to be a dick burst my bubble give a dose of reality of what is here ..Don't

These are my thoughts
Real raw genuine so don't shit on them

11347 posts
5/2/2021 10:21 am

totally agree

Pyyxz 59F
36 posts
5/2/2021 10:23 am

Why thank you!Appreciate that
Will add more I am sure...

Mdonson57 60M
432 posts
5/2/2021 11:00 am

True words. If I’m not interested in you as a person what’s the point? Has to be some level of feels. Imho.

Kiik Myonguy

Pyyxz replies on 5/4/2021 2:25 pm:
Nods... so very true.... thanks

Logan0867 53M  
220 posts
5/2/2021 11:05 am

Couldn't agree more. I may be in the minority but one night stands have always left me feeling a bit flat. Nothing like sex with someone you actually have some feelings for and can be comfortable sharing things with.

Pyyxz replies on 5/4/2021 2:26 pm:
Absolutely!!! Otherwise yup just blah

classicalrebel4 65M
1685 posts
5/2/2021 11:35 am

You gotta have trust and that comes with friendship. It may be casual friends or deep friends but you gotta have friends.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.

Pyyxz replies on 5/4/2021 2:26 pm:
yes! friends to some degree...

SomewhereSE 63M
299 posts
5/2/2021 11:46 am

I have a diverse skill set and enjoy helping my female friends out even if there are no benefits. It’s one of my favorite ways of keeping opportunistic sex seeking dicks away from my FRIENDS.

“The only way to have a friend, is to be one.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson

“A friend is a gift you give yourself” - Robert Louis Stevenson

flannel_light 58F  
3179 posts
5/2/2021 4:06 pm

I feet the same way as B_Sweet829. Say what you are wanting intestead of leading some one. I had meet a member on here years ago and then when I joined back we got together for a few laughs and we were just friends and no benefits. We still keep in touch. I liked this post very much. You did a great job

May the light bring peace into your life.

Pyyxz replies on 5/5/2021 10:09 pm:
Thank you so much

scoupe42 58M  
11369 posts
5/2/2021 4:27 pm

I agree 100%

Pyyxz replies on 5/4/2021 2:31 pm:
110 % Agree with you!

upsidedownsky 41M  
491 posts
5/2/2021 8:29 pm

I very much like your real raw genuine thoughts.

And I would very much like a bonofied true fucking blue friend!

*. *. *

Pyyxz replies on 5/4/2021 2:32 pm:

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