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6 Tips On How to Successfully Blog... While Drinking... ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Žโ—  

Paulxx001 63M
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8/4/2020 9:05 am

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6 Tips On How to Successfully Blog... While Drinking... ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Žโ—

Drinking, while doing anything - except partying - doesn't work. And even then, it should be done in moderation. You say you want to drink and write? Well THAT'S, a recipe for failure. But what if , someone challenged you to a game. Let's assume the question was - 'Can you successfully blog while drinking?' Here are six tips to help you win that bet.

1. Choose a Title or Theme, Ahead Of Time:
Don't count on thinking with impartial clarity while that bottle is open. Develop a theme, outline, and title - before that cork comes off. A 'good idea' - while your brain is fuzzy - is often, not as good as you think it is.

2. Eat Beforehand:
Never drink on an empty stomach. A tasty balance of starches and carbs provides your gut with a satisfying surge of energy. More importantly, it will coat your stomach with a protective layer of nutrients to prevent those alcohol molecules from overpowering your brain too quickly.

3. Don't Mix Drinks :
Choose your favorite beverage and stick with it. Don't mix red with white or beer with hard stuff. What would you lean towards?

4. Choose a Good Word Editor:
Nothing worse than a poorly crafted sentence or one with tons of mistakes in it. I use 'Word' to manage my prose and eliminate typos and grammar errors. 'Grammarly' is a good choice as well. Copy and paste your final version into your target document.

5. Edit, Edit... Then Edit Some More:
Don't get carried away. Just because you have 2 thousand words swimming in your head, doesn't mean you're obliged to put them all down. Less is more. If you can take a paragraph and put it into a sentence, then chop that sentence and find one word that fits - do it. A thesaurus is a great tool, especially for the tipsy mind.

6. Be Safe Before You're Sorry:
Before you finally press 'enter' and send your thoughts out into the web, triple and quadruple check what you've scribbled. You don't want to offend or piss anyone off - unless THAT'S your goal. Remember, once out there your words can't be taken back!

And there you have it. A guide and 6 tips to successfully combining the bottle with the blog - or any written words, for that matter.

Personally, I never drink while typing a written piece of anything. Those vodka pineapple slushies - I'm fond of - are for weekends by the lake. Now, mind you, if it's a letter to my bank or a comment to a person who's brushed a nerve - my inner monologue disappears and I might let some un-sanded words fly.

Can you think of anything I've missed? How do you edit your words and thoughts before pressing 'enter' and letting them flutter?

...................................



Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 9:06 am

I wouldn't drink tequila: I'm not a huge fan. ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—๐Ÿ‘
What's your least favorite?


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 9:06 am

Oh, and one other thing - know when to stop. No need to get completely blurry-eyed! ๐Ÿ‘

Be safe and happy writing! ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐ŸŒด๐Ÿ˜Ž โ—


1seeking1 55F
3221 posts
8/4/2020 9:26 am

All good advice, hopefully site will not remove words, which still happens to me.


lust4life59 61F  
687 posts
8/4/2020 9:40 am

I've never tried to drink and write, nor wanted to, why ruin a good buzz? But one rule I learned a long time ago, If it's something that might be controversial, or involves more than myself, or written in a heat of passion or anger to get something off my chest, I might jot it down it, but revisit again in 24 hours before hitting enter. And that applies to responding to someone else's writings also. It's amazing how unimportant things might become in 24 hours.


lindoboy100 57M
22163 posts
8/4/2020 9:53 am

In your 'apology' to me for kicking me repeatedly when I was down, you said that Jameson had a lot to do with your written comments. Maybe you would be kind enough to explain how you square that off against your assertion that you 'never drink while typing a written piece of anything'? I don't mean to kick you while you're down, but I'm having difficulty in reconciling the two statements.

A gentleman of colour recently demonstrated to me the true meaning of humility and of the ability to stop and listen before truly being able to understand someone else's perspective. I always thought myself pretty good at that, until I read the fellow's words. I'll happily point you in the direction of his comment if you think it would be of use to you?

Pull ma finger.........


Paulxx001 replies on 8/4/2020 1:51 pm:
Never use the word 'never' - was THAT your point? ๐Ÿค” lol

Thanks for the reminder. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Žโ—

Paulxx001 replies on 8/4/2020 2:00 pm:
By all means, please share. And thanks for that! ๐Ÿ‘

pdxgirl24 24F
6 posts
8/4/2020 10:13 am

fake


Tmptrzz 57F
84748 posts
8/4/2020 11:40 am

Good advice, I have never had an issue with this personally as you should never BLOG while your DRUNK!! Have a great Tuesday..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


author51 57F  
99827 posts
8/4/2020 12:25 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I wouldn't drink tequila: I'm not a huge fan. ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—๐Ÿ‘
    What's your least favorite?
Tequila makes my clothes fall off, so when blogging I never drink it, nor do I drink when I blog..My least favourite is any Hard liquor like Whiskey.Rye especially..Merlot is my drink of choice but in a 6 ounce glass with 3 ounces of Merlot, and 3 ounces of water. One with lunch and one more with dinner..and not every day.....

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


smartasswoman 62F  
33368 posts
8/4/2020 12:35 pm

Hm, I used to drink and interact in the chat room quite frequently...hopefully I never offended anyone...well, a few times I meant to. Ha!

I don't use any tools like Grammarly, but it probably wouldn't hurt. The one thing I sometimes catch myself doing is using the same word twice in the same paragraph. In my last post it was the word 'wonderful'. I didn't see it until after I hit post, but it bugged me enough to go back and change the second one to 'fantastic'.


Paulxx001 replies on 8/4/2020 3:18 pm:
This site will give you an idea about your word density. It's helpful.

https://wordcounter.net/

and... it counts words... Go figure! ๐Ÿค”

looking4u69ca 60M
4251 posts
8/4/2020 12:48 pm

Seriously. What kind of reply is that?


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:06 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    In your 'apology' to me for kicking me repeatedly when I was down, you said that Jameson had a lot to do with your written comments. Maybe you would be kind enough to explain how you square that off against your assertion that you 'never drink while typing a written piece of anything'? I don't mean to kick you while you're down, but I'm having difficulty in reconciling the two statements.

    A gentleman of colour recently demonstrated to me the true meaning of humility and of the ability to stop and listen before truly being able to understand someone else's perspective. I always thought myself pretty good at that, until I read the fellow's words. I'll happily point you in the direction of his comment if you think it would be of use to you?
There's no way around that.
But, with all due respect - ya had a good point. After, I'd read what you went through, I changed my pov.
Yep. You have a good point. Now,
should I say, "Thanks for pointing that out?."
Sure. I never should have said 'never'.

In any case... I understand what you're saying.

It's about modifying the future based on the past. I'm working on it.
Thanks for sharing and pointing out which direction I should be headed., ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Ž โ— ๐Ÿ˜˜


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:09 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    All good advice, hopefully site will not remove words, which still happens to me.
Thanks for sharing.
I don't know if you noticed, but they never mess with another.
What do you think?


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:13 pm

tits... or ass

Which one? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:37 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good advice, I have never had an issue with this personally as you should never BLOG while your DRUNK!! Have a great Tuesday..
No, you never should.
Even if you're prepared? ๐Ÿค”
I guess you've never been fooled by - ("Good looking, fancy stalker)
" - yep


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:42 pm

Perhaps... we'll NEVER know.
You look reasonable to me, have you ever made a 'boo boo' and sent something off, while it was tinted with alcohol? ๐Ÿค”
Thanks for popping in. ๐Ÿ‘ and sharing! ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:48 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Hm, I used to drink and interact in the chat room quite frequently...hopefully I never offended anyone...well, a few times I meant to. Ha!

    I don't use any tools like Grammarly, but it probably wouldn't hurt. The one thing I sometimes catch myself doing is using the same word twice in the same paragraph. In my last post it was the word 'wonderful'. I didn't see it until after I hit post, but it bugged me enough to go back and change the second one to 'fantastic'.
Try 'Grammarly' as a logged in guest.
It works really well.
You... in a chat room?
Well, now I'm stumped. I can ONLY imagine how that went.
I wish I was there... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Dja keep the transcripts? ๐Ÿค” lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
So... what is your preferred beverage? ๐Ÿค”

if only... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:54 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good advice, I have never had an issue with this personally as you should never BLOG while your DRUNK!! Have a great Tuesday..
No and I believe you that you never have, and you never will.
But... there's tipsy. Have you ever been there, while on the web? ๐Ÿค”

Can I say 'Cheers' ๐Ÿฅ‚. I'll stay off line for the rest of the night. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Žโ—๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 1:58 pm

    Quoting author51:
    Tequila makes my clothes fall off, so when blogging I never drink it, nor do I drink when I blog..My least favourite is any Hard liquor like Whiskey.Rye especially..Merlot is my drink of choice but in a 6 ounce glass with 3 ounces of Merlot, and 3 ounces of water. One with lunch and one more with dinner..and not every day.....
I'm visualizing clothes fall off...

lol..

Ok then. Whiskey ๐Ÿฅƒ beer chasers weren't the thing in your band? ๐Ÿค” We'd only drink on the last set.
Thanks for sharing. I think I get your povy. Good for you! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿฅƒโ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 3:17 pm

This site will give you an idea about your word density. It's helpful.

https://wordcounter.net/

and... it counts words... Go figure! ๐Ÿค”


positively4you 71F  
4020 posts
8/4/2020 3:32 pm

From the tone of the blogs over the last few days, I thought maybe drinking while blogging is a requirement.


positively4you 71F  
4020 posts
8/4/2020 3:33 pm

I will have a margarita, thanks


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 4:05 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    From the tone of the blogs over the last few days, I thought maybe drinking while blogging is a requirement.
You're funny, perceptive and... quite probably right. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿทโ—๐Ÿ˜Ž๐ŸŒด
So... you've never had a drink and written a poem? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐Ÿ’ฆ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ˜˜


japaneseass 53F  
49709 posts
8/4/2020 4:17 pm

That's a quite interesting, or should i say, rude comment, coming form a person who is on this site for little over a year...obviously you do not know how to act right...

Personally, your profile sounds a fake, somehow I feel it's a male half of a couple just set up a female profile. in fact, it states, "married-couple exploring a hotwife lifestyle." you should have properly set up a couple profile, if it is a couple thing. does your wife know you put her naked pic on the site like this?

good luck on your search.


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 4:41 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    That's a quite interesting, or should i say, rude comment, coming form a person who is on this site for little over a year...obviously you do not know how to act right...

    Personally, your profile sounds a fake, somehow I feel it's a male half of a couple just set up a female profile. in fact, it states, "married-couple exploring a hotwife lifestyle." you should have properly set up a couple profile, if it is a couple thing. does your wife know you put her naked pic on the site like this?

    good luck on your search.
I noticed her/ his comment but...
Well, maybe it was 'Happy Hour' for them and they got carried away? ๐Ÿค”

So... cheers ๐Ÿฅ‚ to you. ๐ŸŒน ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿ˜Ž โ— โญ• ๐ŸŒด All's well?


smartasswoman 62F  
33368 posts
8/4/2020 5:19 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Try 'Grammarly' as a logged in guest.
    It works really well.
    You... in a chat room?
    Well, now I'm stumped. I can ONLY imagine how that went.
    I wish I was there... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
    Dja keep the transcripts? ๐Ÿค” lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
    So... what is your preferred beverage? ๐Ÿค”

    if only... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
I didn't keep transcripts but my username might give you an idea of what went on.

Preferred beverage depends on time of year. Winter, red wine at home, maybe a martini if I'm out at a bar or restaurant. Summer, white wine or a margarita. I bought a bottle of pre-mixed margaritas at Costco and it was actually halfway decent, so that's my new thing.


Paulxx001 replies on 8/4/2020 8:43 pm:
I wish I was a fly on the wall. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Cheers ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿ˜Ž โ—

mc_justmc 60M  
6483 posts
8/4/2020 5:45 pm

I've never blogged drunk, but I do like to blog stoned. I use spell check, but that's the only thing have, I just type it and let it fly.


EnigmaInitiative 52F  
3978 posts
8/4/2020 6:07 pm

I so rarely drink that a glass of wine sends me to tipsy land. I just plain don't like the taste of alcohol, nor what it does to my head. So, I have nothing to add to your list.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 8:41 pm

Cheers ๐Ÿฅ‚ ๐ŸŒดโ—๐Ÿ˜Žโญ•


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 8:51 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've never blogged drunk, but I do like to blog stoned. I use spell check, but that's the only thing have, I just type it and let it fly.
Ahhh... Letting it fly. ๐Ÿ˜Š
I think it's more 'doable' with the herb ๐ŸŒฟ as opposed to the liquid ๐Ÿฅƒ.
So THAT'S, your trick! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ‘โ—


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/4/2020 8:54 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    I so rarely drink that a glass of wine sends me to tipsy land. I just plain don't like the taste of alcohol, nor what it does to my head. So, I have nothing to add to your list.
No worries... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Good to hear you're so clear-headed. And that's the best way to be, isn't it?
I was going to say, "Cheers", but I'll just say, "Good night". ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ŸŒด๐Ÿ˜Ž


sexyldy1000 59F  
6819 posts
8/5/2020 4:47 am

Nope, I have never blogged while drunk, not even tipsy. I rarely drink and never alone.
I too, create my writings in Word first so I can review and edit before posting. Have also learned some tricks to prevent certain words being dropping by the site.

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens
Today Is World Suicide Prevention Day


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/5/2020 7:04 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Nope, I have never blogged while drunk, not even tipsy. I rarely drink and never alone.
    I too, create my writings in Word first so I can review and edit before posting. Have also learned some tricks to prevent certain words being dropping by the site.
Good for you. ๐Ÿ˜Š You tipsy? ๐Ÿค”
My posts aren't messed with but I do recall some of the tricks that I had to use.
Do you feel like sharing any of yours?
I like Word, although Grammarly is a good back up. Have you ever used it? ๐Ÿค”


sexyldy1000 59F  
6819 posts
8/5/2020 9:06 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Good for you. ๐Ÿ˜Š You tipsy? ๐Ÿค”
    My posts aren't messed with but I do recall some of the tricks that I had to use.
    Do you feel like sharing any of yours?
    I like Word, although Grammarly is a good back up. Have you ever used it? ๐Ÿค”
No I am not tipsy and if I was, I certainly wouldn't be on here blogging or commenting . I have never used Grammarly and I am sure you don't need any of my tips.

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens
Today Is World Suicide Prevention Day


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/5/2020 10:51 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    No I am not tipsy and if I was, I certainly wouldn't be on here blogging or commenting . I have never used Grammarly and I am sure you don't need any of my tips.
hmmm... okie dokie ๐Ÿ‘Œ
I don't, but perhaps there are others. Then again, they probably contact you privately for any tips you can give. ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ๏ธโ—


sexyldy1000 59F  
6819 posts
8/5/2020 12:10 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    hmmm... okie dokie ๐Ÿ‘Œ
    I don't, but perhaps there are others. Then again, they probably contact you privately for any tips you can give. ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ๏ธโ—
So your question about 'tricks' was rhetorical? Some conversations should be private. Isn't that why most bloggers have a private mail box?

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens
Today Is World Suicide Prevention Day


lighthousecollec 58F  
659 posts
8/5/2020 12:51 pm

I go in the chat room and i have had a few on a Friday night but I do not drink when I do a Blog

I have set up a private mailbox on my Blog for your convenience.


missthee 54F  
4271 posts
8/5/2020 1:06 pm

Writing will definitely not be possible with alcohol. A drink will do either of two things, make me drowsy or in the mood. But now that I think of it, I have posted photos of me featuring various alcoholic beverages so technically I do drink and blog !
I will have a margarita now that it's in the middle of summer.


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/5/2020 2:06 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    So your question about 'tricks' was rhetorical? Some conversations should be private. Isn't that why most bloggers have a private mail box?
That's true, or emails or phones. Which one do you prefer? ๐Ÿค”

Rhetorical? No, I was wondering if there were any tricks you wanted to share publically. I think I've found them all, but hey, I might have missed a few.


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/5/2020 2:08 pm

    Quoting lighthousecollec:
    I go in the chat room and i have had a few on a Friday night but I do not drink when I do a Blog
Ahhh... the chat room. Now THERE is a scary place. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
So, as long as you have your inner monologue working - ya should be safe there. Right? ๐Ÿ˜— ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ”ฅโ—๐ŸŒด


EnigmaInitiative 52F  
3978 posts
8/5/2020 2:09 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    No worries... ๐Ÿ˜Š
    Good to hear you're so clear-headed. And that's the best way to be, isn't it?
    I was going to say, "Cheers", but I'll just say, "Good night". ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ŸŒด๐Ÿ˜Ž
Uhhhh, errrr, I would not go that far. I am a long time stoner.

As a matter of fact...I just took a nice long drag off my pipe.

Cough Cough



In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/5/2020 2:11 pm

    Quoting missthee:
    Writing will definitely not be possible with alcohol. A drink will do either of two things, make me drowsy or in the mood. But now that I think of it, I have posted photos of me featuring various alcoholic beverages so technically I do drink and blog !
    I will have a margarita now that it's in the middle of summer.
I like that technicality! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐Ÿ’ฆ
Good drink choice. I lean towards those pineapple ๐Ÿ vodka slushies, myself.
Cheers ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿ˜Ž โ— ๐ŸŒด

I'll have to check those pictures! ๐Ÿ‘


sexyldy1000 59F  
6819 posts
8/5/2020 9:54 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    That's true, or emails or phones. Which one do you prefer? ๐Ÿค”

    Rhetorical? No, I was wondering if there were any tricks you wanted to share publically. I think I've found them all, but hey, I might have missed a few.
Meaningful communication happens on the phone. I prefer spontaneous conversations where someone has to 'think on their feet' instead of having time to re-think and edit. No doubt, you have all the 'tricks' up your sleeve.

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens
Today Is World Suicide Prevention Day


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/5/2020 11:48 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Meaningful communication happens on the phone. I prefer spontaneous conversations where someone has to 'think on their feet' instead of having time to re-think and edit. No doubt, you have all the 'tricks' up your sleeve.
Phone ๐Ÿ“ฑ, huh? ๐Ÿค” Hmmm... I imagine talking with you would be a lot of fun.
Tricks, moi? Nah. Trix are for kids.
And I certainly wouldn't keep mine, up my sleeve. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ”ฅโ—๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž


lindoboy100 57M
22163 posts
8/6/2020 4:37 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    There's no way around that.
    But, with all due respect - ya had a good point. After, I'd read what you went through, I changed my pov.
    Yep. You have a good point. Now,
    should I say, "Thanks for pointing that out?."
    Sure. I never should have said 'never'.

    In any case... I understand what you're saying.

    It's about modifying the future based on the past. I'm working on it.
    Thanks for sharing and pointing out which direction I should be headed., ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Ž โ— ๐Ÿ˜˜
1. You leave three completely different responses to my comment but only the first one appears here. I'm not sure what your intention is with that, but I'll reply to the visible first one.
2. The paragraph in which you claimed never to drink and post seems different to when I first read it. Indeed, in conjunction with my comment and your visible response it could now be inferred that it was my fault that you chose to leave irresponsible and inappropriate comments on my blog at a time when I could have done without them, with what seemed to be nothing more than self-aggrandising intent. In your subsequent so-called apology you took little or no responsibility for your actions.
3. My point was not to say 'never say never'. It was to ask for clarity - do you or don't you post when drinking - and to offer some help to you in finding something that seems to elude you - that being humility. Thank you for confirming what I already knew, what I think most people you go at already know, that your words are often written somewhat injudiciously when youโ€™re under the influence of alcohol. If you are genuinely interested in trying to learn the true meaning of humility and understanding, please feel free to visit a post I did a few weeks back about the pinnacle of racism. A gentleman called Forgetforgetting left the most amazing comment Iโ€™ve ever read from anyone here, demonstrating a level of humility which is astonishing in the circumstances, something to which I can only aspire. Iโ€™ll be happy to chat further when youโ€™ve acquired the merest fraction of it, alcohol-free too, of course.

In the meantime, I donโ€™t really have much more to say that wouldnโ€™t fan the flames and perhaps stoke what appears to be the disproportionate value you place on notoriety and fame. Oops, I just said it.

Pull ma finger.........


pocogato12 68F  
34151 posts
8/6/2020 7:03 am

pdx is the airport code for Portland Oregon yet "she" lives in PA and says they are a married couple- that profilew is the FAKE LOL

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pocogato12 68F  
34151 posts
8/6/2020 7:09 am

I imbibe vodka, nit always slushies and happened to spy a bottle of Pink Lemonade Vodka in the NH liquor store. Yep, I bought 2 of them as it was going to be discontinued- kinda like my blogging has been on hiatus( what ho a big word here). I can t type when I am consuming alcohol but I have had a few drunk verbal conversations- they dont always go well at all. And I loved reading this

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Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 7:38 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. You leave three completely different responses to my comment but only the first one appears here. I'm not sure what your intention is with that, but I'll reply to the visible first one.
    2. The paragraph in which you claimed never to drink and post seems different to when I first read it. Indeed, in conjunction with my comment and your visible response it could now be inferred that it was my fault that you chose to leave irresponsible and inappropriate comments on my blog at a time when I could have done without them, with what seemed to be nothing more than self-aggrandising intent. In your subsequent so-called apology you took little or no responsibility for your actions.
    3. My point was not to say 'never say never'. It was to ask for clarity - do you or don't you post when drinking - and to offer some help to you in finding something that seems to elude you - that being humility. Thank you for confirming what I already knew, what I think most people you go at already know, that your words are often written somewhat injudiciously when youโ€™re under the influence of alcohol. If you are genuinely interested in trying to learn the true meaning of humility and understanding, please feel free to visit a post I did a few weeks back about the pinnacle of racism. A gentleman called Forgetforgetting left the most amazing comment Iโ€™ve ever read from anyone here, demonstrating a level of humility which is astonishing in the circumstances, something to which I can only aspire. Iโ€™ll be happy to chat further when youโ€™ve acquired the merest fraction of it, alcohol-free too, of course.

    In the meantime, I donโ€™t really have much more to say that wouldnโ€™t fan the flames and perhaps stoke what appears to be the disproportionate value you place on notoriety and fame. Oops, I just said it.
1. My objective? Two thoughts came to mind after โ€˜quotingโ€™ you, so I added them as โ€˜commentsโ€™ rather than โ€˜quotesโ€™. There was no need for redundancy and clutter.

2. Is your goal to chafe at an old wound? Iโ€™ve already apologized to you. Am I now supposed to recall (verbatim) what I wrote two years ago, reflect on it - and offer another apology? Could self-aggrandizing intent be applied to your remarks herein? Or, letโ€™s take this off-line and study the details together - someplace where they serve good coffee?

3. I hardly need a libation to - as you put it - โ€˜go atโ€™ people. As for their perceptions and opinions, everyone is entitled to their own. Humility? Yepโ€ฆ got tons of that as well. I also employ quite a bit of self-deprecating humor and sarcasm in everything I write. I understand sarcasm, in particular - although the simplest form of the chuckle - requires some intelligence to digest. I frequently make fun of myself, this island, and its inhabitants. Some people take themselves too seriously, including you perhaps?

โ€œโ€ฆdisproportionate value you place on notoriety and fameโ€ฆโ€ - there ya go again. Thatโ€™s my sarcasm and its poked out and painted the wrong picture for you. No worriesโ€ฆ Iโ€™ll write more s l o w l y in the future.

I'll read that gentlemanโ€™s remarks. Thanks for popping in. Drop by any time.


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 7:40 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    pdx is the airport code for Portland Oregon yet "she" lives in PA and says they are a married couple- that profilew is the FAKE LOL
Hmmm... reeeleee... Oh well. What else is new?


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 7:45 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I imbibe vodka, nit always slushies and happened to spy a bottle of Pink Lemonade Vodka in the NH liquor store. Yep, I bought 2 of them as it was going to be discontinued- kinda like my blogging has been on hiatus( what ho a big word here). I can t type when I am consuming alcohol but I have had a few drunk verbal conversations- they dont always go well at all. And I loved reading this
Conversations that don't go well? Hmmm... lol... No worries, keep on practicing!
Cheers to vodka and all those frozen fabulous possibilities !

What a beautiful picture. Puts perspective on things. Thank you!!!


funtime78045 18F
39 posts
8/6/2020 8:57 am

I love t be fund like her in the nude


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 11:22 am

Okie dokie. Sounds like a plan! ๐Ÿ‘


lindoboy100 57M
22163 posts
8/6/2020 11:50 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    1. My objective? Two thoughts came to mind after โ€˜quotingโ€™ you, so I added them as โ€˜commentsโ€™ rather than โ€˜quotesโ€™. There was no need for redundancy and clutter.

    2. Is your goal to chafe at an old wound? Iโ€™ve already apologized to you. Am I now supposed to recall (verbatim) what I wrote two years ago, reflect on it - and offer another apology? Could self-aggrandizing intent be applied to your remarks herein? Or, letโ€™s take this off-line and study the details together - someplace where they serve good coffee?

    3. I hardly need a libation to - as you put it - โ€˜go atโ€™ people. As for their perceptions and opinions, everyone is entitled to their own. Humility? Yepโ€ฆ got tons of that as well. I also employ quite a bit of self-deprecating humor and sarcasm in everything I write. I understand sarcasm, in particular - although the simplest form of the chuckle - requires some intelligence to digest. I frequently make fun of myself, this island, and its inhabitants. Some people take themselves too seriously, including you perhaps?

    โ€œโ€ฆdisproportionate value you place on notoriety and fameโ€ฆโ€ - there ya go again. Thatโ€™s my sarcasm and its poked out and painted the wrong picture for you. No worriesโ€ฆ Iโ€™ll write more s l o w l y in the future.

    I'll read that gentlemanโ€™s remarks. Thanks for popping in. Drop by any time.
Yes, your 'tons' of humility really shine through clear as the morning sunshine in your comment on this post:

And the beat goes on

Such a shame for you that you can't go back and change those words though, eh?

Pull ma finger.........


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 1:40 pm

Well... it certainly sounds like a plan.
Let me know how that works out. OK?


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 3:39 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Yes, your 'tons' of humility really shine through clear as the morning sunshine in your comment on this post:

    And the beat goes on

    Such a shame for you that you can't go back and change those words though, eh?
Quoting Lindo: "Clearly very insecure and looking to drag people down to make himself feel better. But sucking the life out of things as he goes.......I'm going to drop that comment into his post, for his adoring public to see.

I have to confess that this place is feeling a bit jaded for me at the moment. Too much drama, Paul no doubt delighted that he's managed to put himself in the centre of it. For the first time ever I'm struggling to enjoy the lunacy of it all. Just cannae be arsed.

Hey, there are worse things in life than being fed up with the ville of blogs.

When can we get back to skelping arses, that's what I want to know!?!?

- - - - -
You're confused about things... and using cliches to hide the fact that you don't know a thing about what your're talking about.

What I want to know is: Where the fuck does your fake accent go from time to time?
And why fake it? Ya think it's cute?


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 4:01 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Yes, your 'tons' of humility really shine through clear as the morning sunshine in your comment on this post:

    And the beat goes on

    Such a shame for you that you can't go back and change those words though, eh?
Really no McBalls under that kilt, right?

No worries. I didn't expect more.


lindoboy100 57M
22163 posts
8/6/2020 4:24 pm

Anddddddโ€ฆโ€ฆ..you think itโ€™s okay, acceptable, to talk about women here, or anywhere else for that matter, in those terms? In any circumstances? Okayyyyyyyโ€ฆโ€ฆcrack on. But donโ€™t expect people to be silent about it, especially when youโ€™re so hypocritical elsewhere.

You know paul, several years ago I was having troubles with a couple of bullies, jealous people. I was talking with a wise old uncle about it ( he was your age at the time, assuming you are indeed 63yo), explaining the situation. In his usual measured way he said โ€˜McFucktard, McNaeBaws, whateva, maybe you should just continue on behaving as you do normally, calling out the things that are wrong in your usual calm way, and letting the people around who behave badly continue to do so, because all theyโ€™ll do is show themselves up for what they areโ€™. That has stayed with me ever since, like the wee guardian angel on yer shooder.

Iโ€™ll finish with this. I once engaged in mob-mentality here, not something Iโ€™m proud of. Most people here will not remember who or why. I do. Vividly. Shamefully. Never again. If anyone is lynching you, it ainโ€™t me. Our issues are your making. Your problems are your making. So I saw your pontificating post about sobriety and posting, I called it out. You chose, in your usual bizarre way, to go off on one, or two, or more. If anyone else is going at you, Iโ€™ll have no part of that. Your problems with Lala are yoursโ€™. While I agree with her, I wonโ€™t be raising anything other than individual issues. If you are being lynchedโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆmaybe just stop and ask yourself why. Not who. Why. Just a thought.

Be safe, stay safe, stay sober.

ps โ€“ ahโ€™m no the yin wiโ€™ the accent ya numpty!

Pull ma finger.........


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/6/2020 4:45 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Anddddddโ€ฆโ€ฆ..you think itโ€™s okay, acceptable, to talk about women here, or anywhere else for that matter, in those terms? In any circumstances? Okayyyyyyyโ€ฆโ€ฆcrack on. But donโ€™t expect people to be silent about it, especially when youโ€™re so hypocritical elsewhere.

    You know paul, several years ago I was having troubles with a couple of bullies, jealous people. I was talking with a wise old uncle about it ( he was your age at the time, assuming you are indeed 63yo), explaining the situation. In his usual measured way he said โ€˜McFucktard, McNaeBaws, whateva, maybe you should just continue on behaving as you do normally, calling out the things that are wrong in your usual calm way, and letting the people around who behave badly continue to do so, because all theyโ€™ll do is show themselves up for what they areโ€™. That has stayed with me ever since, like the wee guardian angel on yer shooder.

    Iโ€™ll finish with this. I once engaged in mob-mentality here, not something Iโ€™m proud of. Most people here will not remember who or why. I do. Vividly. Shamefully. Never again. If anyone is lynching you, it ainโ€™t me. Our issues are your making. Your problems are your making. So I saw your pontificating post about sobriety and posting, I called it out. You chose, in your usual bizarre way, to go off on one, or two, or more. If anyone else is going at you, Iโ€™ll have no part of that. Your problems with Lala are yoursโ€™. While I agree with her, I wonโ€™t be raising anything other than individual issues. If you are being lynchedโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆmaybe just stop and ask yourself why. Not who. Why. Just a thought.

    Be safe, stay safe, stay sober.

    ps โ€“ ahโ€™m no the yin wiโ€™ the accent ya numpty!
Look...
You don't know me from a hole in the wall. I have over 200 blogs our there.
You show up on THIS one to rag me about an event 2 years old, then go bouncing back to blah blah to happily use a bunch of adjectives to describe me.
You don't know squat about me nor have you ever tried. Don't wonder why people like my blogs; i'll tell you why.
Because I don't take myself or this island seriously. All that other stuff you see? It's crap. Ya wanna hit on me? No worries. Just do it to my face, that's all Im saying.

At this point, it seems like it would just be a pissing contest and a poor one at that. You've made up your mind about me.

Again, no worries - but if ya have a problem with me, just say it to my face, don't go crawling around behind my back gleefully burning an effigy of me.

That quote was NOT a generalization but specific to one man's plight and my commitment (quite sober) on how to deal with women.
You can replace the word 'woman' and replace it with men and it would work the same.

Taken out of context and read on it's own, it sounds as you perceive it to be. Tell me that all sexes don't take themselves too seriously at some point or another.

Do what you'll do and be who you'll be. Im not hard to understand. Im not the asshole you think I am. It's being drummed into your head. Read some of my blogs and you'll see. Why do people follow me? I make them either laugh or cry or something in between.

L8r


Randee_69 53M
47 posts
8/7/2020 11:14 am

Drinking and posting comments or trying to write, doesn't work.
You can establish a reputation which might be difficult to undo. But if that's what you want, go for it!


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/7/2020 9:23 pm

    Quoting Randee_69:
    Drinking and posting comments or trying to write, doesn't work.
    You can establish a reputation which might be difficult to undo. But if that's what you want, go for it!
Wise words my friend. Especially when people don't understand your sarcasm and you've been joking about it for a while. They presume anything you write is true.


smartasswoman 62F  
33368 posts
8/9/2020 12:15 pm

Hey, I tried Grammarly on my latest post! It found a few cases where it thought I had a redundant comma (I disagreed). And it did flag a missing word that was a legitimate error. After fixing that, I had a score of 95.

Feeling quite chuffed about myself right now!

Since I use the Chrome browser, I was able to add it in as a free 'extension'.


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/10/2020 2:43 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Hey, I tried Grammarly on my latest post! It found a few cases where it thought I had a redundant comma (I disagreed). And it did flag a missing word that was a legitimate error. After fixing that, I had a score of 95.

    Feeling quite chuffed about myself right now!

    Since I use the Chrome browser, I was able to add it in as a free 'extension'.
lol ๐Ÿ˜‚... Good for you. I know, right? It works great for me. I have it on my phone as well.
On the bottom left, you can choose which language you want to use. USA ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ English will use more commas while ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง UK English uses less.
I find the same issues with commas.
Glad to hear that it works for you! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š


Lila_lovelace 51T
29 posts
8/17/2020 8:53 am

I saw someone the other day wearing a t shirt that said.....
Drinks well with others!


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/17/2020 8:39 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good advice, I have never had an issue with this personally as you should never BLOG while your DRUNK!! Have a great Tuesday..
There seems to be a connection problem. What gives?


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/17/2020 8:40 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good advice, I have never had an issue with this personally as you should never BLOG while your DRUNK!! Have a great Tuesday..
Or is the problem on my end? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/17/2020 8:42 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good advice, I have never had an issue with this personally as you should never BLOG while your DRUNK!! Have a great Tuesday..
Since I notice we're still 'friends', as per Senior Sizzle. Should I take things up with A F F customer service, or is something else going on?
Let me know... Thanks. ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿท๐Ÿทโ—


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/18/2020 5:17 am

    Quoting Lila_lovelace:
    I saw someone the other day wearing a t shirt that said.....
    Drinks well with others!
Good advice under any circumstances! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š


Lionrawr69 45M
2 posts
8/22/2020 7:26 am

Never drink while blogging


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
8/22/2020 10:12 pm

Good safety tip. Thanks! โ— ๐Ÿ‘


Herts1973 47M
8 posts
8/31/2020 12:01 pm

Cheers


Paulxx001 63M
16369 posts
9/1/2020 1:19 am

Yep... Cheers to you as well !


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