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Controlling Men
Posted:Aug 2, 2014 4:15 pm
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2014 10:53 pm
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Why is it that a man can be on this site to find a woman or women, or any preference they may choose, and when he accomplishes that feat, he accuses the woman (or said other party) of being pretty much a and screwing anyone she runs across???? I have had many men call us women on this site a . What are the men? Why is it because a woman is on this site she's screwing anything in her path???? Not all women are like this. Not all men are like this. Yet, the ones that are serial on here expect women to be true to them.

This such man has done this to me. He refuses to be exclusive in any fashion and makes it very clear he does not want exclusivity, but yet ACCUSES me on a regular basis of screwing other men...and now he's adding women to the mix...even though I'm straight. So just because i am not available when he texts me IMMEDIATELY...I am out screwing someone else. I gave this said person my schedule. Friday I invited him to lunch, Friday night I invited him to an event I was at but he could not make it because he was working. I was with my and my brother. Saturday morning I was dropping my off at one event and joining my at another event. Of course, I was accused of not being where I said I was and I was accused of fucking other men. Numerous other men. When someone tells you exactly where they are...it's easy to check up. Would I really tell you I was at Building A with someone knowing you could check up...or would I just say I'm sorry, I'm busy today.

I am an honest woman. I do not lie to men to get what I want or what I need. What you see is what you get. I have met many people off of this site and yet not screwed them. Men need to decide what they want and then go with it. But don't expect to not give exclusivity to a woman and expect her to give it to you.

If you don't want to be with someone, make it clear. Don't try to blame them and accuse them of demeanor YOU are doing. Like when I am out with you and your phone goes off with women on the other side and you excuse yourself to the restroom to answer them. How much more disgusting can you be in my company????

I guess I know who I am done with as of today. My heart was with this man but he totally blew me away today with his abusive demeanor and words. As I have said on this site many many times...be careful who trust. They aren't everything they say they are.

One less person in my mind as of today.
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One Night Stand
Posted:Jul 7, 2014 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2017 11:47 am
5343 Views

If I was to send you a post and ask you for a one night stand...what would you say? How would you respond? How would you envision the evening/day?

I know this is a loaded question but I want to see how the imagination flies...
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No More Caution
Posted:Jul 5, 2014 9:54 am
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2014 4:02 pm
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Seems I can't get anywhere being an honest, truthful woman who has integrity and morals. The so called "good men" I meet seem to be not so good, waste time, really don't want any more than a quickie in the sack and the list goes on. Get jealous because they claim they want a monogamous relationship, but yet they are the ones that are having fun, too, busy, not enough time, too much work, and the endless list of excuses goes on as they bop one woman and move on to the next.

Men, you wonder why women get up-tight and post such messages to you or on their walls that seem like they are a bitch or have an ego. It's the same games we face all over the globe by the sounds of it. Respect for another human being has seemed to go down the drain and is replaced with how many pieces of ass someone can get. Since when did quantity over ride quality.

I guess I need to throw caution to the wind and start trying to see people I would never meet and leave the ones I would meet alone. I guess I"ll try the get trashed and gang bang on a date just so the guys think they have a hot woman on their arm. Cuz they really can't seem to realize when they have a good woman on their arm...They never seem happy and something is always missing.
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