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Nettie101 57F
18 posts
1/26/2022 8:48 am

Afternoon All.

Just kind of curious . Do people meet on here ? Are there group socials that people can attend and get to know each other ?

Don't really know how it works .

Be good if some of you can let me know .
Im hoping I can get to meet some of you

Thanks Nettie x

redduracell 51M
909 posts
1/26/2022 1:05 pm

Yes they meet.
Either one to one or via social group gatherings. Group membership has fallen dramatically the last years though.
Search groups either locally or by subject.
Expect nothing so anything else will be a bonus, lol.

Nettie101 57F
15 posts
1/27/2022 7:39 am

I might have to think about organising a social . Maybe somewhere easy to get to for people .
What do you thinK ?
Any suggestions ?
Input would be great .
Thanks x

Unzipmeslowly51x 52M
216 posts
1/29/2022 8:28 am

I met in a group a couple times a long time was good to put faces to usernames...we met in a pub central to all.

Nettie101 replies on 1/30/2022 9:50 am:
This what i am thinking . Meet in a pub . Get to know people for Future reference

Unzipmeslowly51x 52M
216 posts
1/30/2022 10:19 pm

It was a lot of fun. Some great people. The sites not the same anymore though. Too many fakes and scammers. Which is a shame. I left for a few years and when i came back everyone seemed to have left. We used to have our own little group on here. The group funnily enough is still here but no one is around anymore. We used put different topics on and everyone would comment. It was a way to get a feel for people. Hope this helps

Snogabilitybrown 50M
11 posts
1/31/2022 2:46 am

I'd try you on IM but we all know how well that works but yeah can only echo what others have said on here...

Nettie101 replies on 2/1/2022 2:09 am:
Thanks for the response. I seem to think that people don't want to meet. Rather disappointing .
I like to meet from here . Meet and hopefully leads to more . The wank chat men don't do nothing for me.
Maybe this is not a site for meets .

Unzipmeslowly51x 52M
216 posts
2/1/2022 3:32 am

Starting a group would be a good start i would say...see where it goes from there😊

Snogabilitybrown 50M
11 posts
2/1/2022 3:47 am

Hey not at all, appreciate you replying & there's no substitute for actual meets, otherwise what's the point? that's the only reason I'm still on here given how hard it is for free members to initiate anything but I can still be found on kik with the same name if you'd like to see where things could go...

Nettie101 replies on 2/1/2022 5:41 am:
I pretty much chat on here . But thanks for the offer. Maybe if i can get this social meet group going , you could possibly attend ?

redduracell 51M
909 posts
2/4/2022 5:28 am

Good afternoon Nettie. How are the preparations for that social meeting going?

Nettie101 replies on 2/5/2022 5:29 am:
Hello Red . Really not at all. I got told i shouldn't chat about it in chat room . I should be wary about giving out too much personal information .
I don't think it is going to happen . No interest.
I don't think its will be anything good with just 6 people .
Such a shame really .
People moaning in chat rooms that nobody will meet. But don't want to meet at an organised social .

Thanks Nettie x

slo2600 46M
286 posts
2/6/2022 5:00 pm

Things used to go like that here. Now it is much more moderated, and really only works for those that are really careful or pay lots of money.

Nettie101 replies on 2/17/2022 1:20 pm:
Pay lots of money for what? To go to a social ? Why would you need to charge to have a group social in a pub ?
Sorry i dont understand

slo2600 46M
286 posts
2/19/2022 3:54 pm

    Quoting slo2600:
    Things used to go like that here. Now it is much more moderated, and really only works for those that are really careful or pay lots of money.
I guess what I was trying to say back then was that it's really hard to have a social scene (either online or in person) using this site anymore, with the exception of people that invest heavily in gold memberships.

The problem that some of those folks have, though, is that there's very little that the site offers gold members any longer, at least compared to the "pre-sale" days.

So, even though this place used to be a great forum for what you're looking for, the way it works now isn't really that good for such things. It's pretty good, I guess, for long-time paying customers to use to build one-on-one connections, but the days of community gatherings are over, sadly.

redduracell 51M
909 posts
3/31/2022 7:10 am

Hi Nettie. You have not created a private message blog entry yet. It will save you from spending points to chat in IM... x

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