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Posted:Sep 11, 2005 10:03 am
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2009 9:53 pm
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We have a swinging background, although deborah was much more "into" swinging that Ron. But we also had a need and a desire to practice BDSM. So we have carved our own path, so to speak.
We are a 24/7 BDSM couple with Master/slave designations. Ron is Master and deborah is slave. However, we are on the constant search for play partners who we can "swing with" in a BDSM setting.
We have played with couples where the men were both the Masters and where the woman was the Domme over her husband/slave.
We have also played with women alone where Ron is master over both women. We enjoy this play the best. Deborah is bisexual and Ron is straight.
We are now in the process of building our own dungeon in our basement. We intend to hold "BDSM/Swinging" parties here. The play space will have about 1000 sq feet of play space with several stations as well as a King Size bed (with I bolts for tying up people).
We have noticed a BIG difference between BDSM people and Swingers. Some of them are as follows: 1) Swingers know how to meet people, while BDSM people seem to be afraid to meet anyone. 2) Swingers can have sex with you and not consider it a big deal, where with BDSM people, sex seems to be an afterthought. 3) Swingers know how to throw a convention with people having sex everywhere, where BDSM people usually prohibit "penetration" in public.
We have seen hopeful signs of change. Now at the big swingers conventions, they have a "BDSM Room" and we have been to BDSM conventions, i.e. Black Rose, where we had a 3some play on the dungeon floor with strap-on penetration for everyone to see.
So this is a topic we would like to see discussed and explored and any other thoughts people might have.
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