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Second Month Observations
Posted:Sep 2, 2021 6:54 am
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2021 10:26 am
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The end of my second month on Senior Sizzle brings me to the conclusion that most people on here are paying for nothing. I even found myself in that situation. I had set up a meeting with another member. I was in my car, heading to our meeting location, when circumstances beyond my control forced me to cancel the meeting.

The unfortunate thing about it, is that I was so caught up in my "circumstances" that I neglected to tell the person I was meeting. I felt like such a hypocrite. Here I am complaining about fakes and flakes, and I turn out to be one. Fortunately we never get promoted above human, so I sent an apology once I had gotten past my mental flagellation.

It took a few days, but my intended meeting partner forgave me. We are set to meet again tonight. I won't flake on this encounter. This person sounds like a lot of fun. I will post about it later.

Now that I have my flake card punched, I intend to take steps to make sure it doesn't happen again. In that same vein, I wish others would do the same. I know how it feels to expect a meet, get to the location and sit there like a fool when the person doesn't show up. It's happened to me a few times. I think Karma had its way with me for my arrogance and lack of tolerance.

The biggest takeaway for me on this, is communication. My preference is to find out the person isn't coming, before the meeting. If that isn't possible, I expect the courtesy of an apology for missing the date.

I realize that is a pipe dream, because I am still convinced that the majority of people this site are not interested in meeting at all. They enjoy the hunt and the catch, but didn't have any intention of eating the meat.

Fortunately, I am not desperate for companionship. I can still take it in stride. However, i do reserve the right to bitch about it later on.
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First Blog and First month on Senior Sizzle
Posted:Jul 27, 2021 8:35 am
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2021 6:55 am
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My first month on Senior Sizzle has been fun, but not as fun as I would like. I'm not sure what I expected, but I feel slightly disappointed. I have made a couple of friends but have yet to meet anyone in person. Several people have indicated that they want to meet, will meet, and in one case, on the way to meet. Unfortunately, nothing has panned out at this point. I wonder if people are playing or get scared and back out at the last second because they secretly want to be wanted but don't want to follow through on anything.

I'm not desperate to meet anyone, so it's not that big of a deal. However, it is frustrating when I cancel plans to meet someone and back out at the last minute, or worse, don't show up at all. Then I've lost my original plans and the planned meeting.

I do my best to make sure anyone I meet is comfortable with it before the meeting. I am always willing to meet in a public place. I'm happy to share most of my information with the person. I will gladly show my ID, so the person knows I am who I say I am. I won't give them my address or other personal information until I know them, but I will share enough to prove I'm not a nut job.

I'm sure I will eventually meet real people. It just hasn't happened yet, so I remain hopeful. I have had fun, though, 's exciting to get a from someone and striking up a conversation over email or . People are less reserved online than in person.

There seems to be a lot more to this site than searching for people I fully intend to explore. I haven't made up my mind about paying to let non-gold members contact me. If the gold members are this flaky, I'd be surprised to find someone with no skin in the game at all to follow, though.

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