Does this happen to other older folks on here?
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Posted:Mar 22, 2021 4:08 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2021 1:36 am
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Every so often I see a here on Senior Sizzle or another site that looks almost identical to someone I grew up with, went to college with, worked with, or knew some way in the past. That is looks like they did back then, not as they would look now. My first thought is, "Could that possibly be ________'s /grandson. With my history of work and residency the odds are very the person I knew was a religious extremist who would flip just saying the URL here.
I was past 50 before I gave in to my desires to be with a man. I posted on another site, that no longer accepts those ads, with no pictures but I did give my age. I got a few inquiries but one seemed really interested. We exchanged a few emails. I never asked his age, I assumed he was my age since he knew my age and replied. Then he sent me a picture so I would know him when we met for lunch. He looked just like my best friend in , in his twenties. So I suddenly had something come up so we had to put our lunch off a week. During that time I asked about where he was originally from, where his parents grew up, where his grandparents grew up until he got a bit freaked and I had to explain. He assured me he was not related to my old friend but did understand my reluctance to have sex with his or grandson.
It was his first time too and he seemed to feel more secure with an older man. I gave him a full body massage, I was a massage therapist one point in my life. So I gave him the first happy ending and first blowjob I had ever given. I loved it! He freaked and he threw up. He clearly wanted so I left. He was unfailingly polite. A week or so later he emailed that he discovered a woman he had long had a thing for was interested in him and he wouldn't feel right seeing anyone else.
On the couple of occasions when for some odd reason someone significantly flirts with due to a complex or something I still get uneasy until I see their . I don't on much people generally but if a looks like an old acquaintance I can't click away fast enough.
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Objectively funny, personally frustrating
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Posted:May 1, 2020 3:52 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2021 1:38 am
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Accepting the gay part of my bisexuality took a long time and the universe, the gods, my subconscious, ... whatever seems to believe I should be punished a bit for having been so recalcitrant. Am I the only one here with what seems like 100 conversations, flirts, and hotlistings that went nowhere? And so many live on the dark side of the moon relative to my home.
I get the guys cheating on their wives, one of the reasons I am divorced is because I got tired of no affection at home and I am too old to have my right hand as my mistress. It bothered me at first to think about hooking up with a married guy, now it isn't a moral thing it is just that I would rather avoid the idea because it is too complicated and if I want drama I have a large DVD collection.
I sometimes wonder why I am here. I have hooked up with a total 5 guys in the last few years and met all of them through either Craigslist or Doublelist. Oh, I have met guys here I would LOVE to go down on but they have all been 3 or more Double-stitched. One man in particular I would be happy to set aside my desire for a regular, steady FWB for a hot weekend but every time I think about arranging to drive down for those couple of days the shit hits the fan somewhere and disrupts my focus and priorities.
Enough bitching and whining. Time to suck it up and go see if tomorrow is a better day.
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Regrets, so many regrets
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Posted:Mar 18, 2020 10:44 pm
Last Updated:May 1, 2020 3:20 am
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I waited far to long to accept that I am bi, even longer to accept I am a vers leaning towards being a bottom and not a top. So much pleasure missed.
But what I regret most is the across the street. No, I am not that perverted, he was the across the street when I was a . I wrote a few fictionalized stories that were what I wish had happened between us. I was attracted to him before I was attracted to girls. Since I started dating men I have thought about how to approach him. He never married, he is openly gay.
For a while I have tried to catch him home when I visited the town where we grew up and he still lives. I live within 45 minutes of a popular tourist area. My plan was to invite him to drive here, crash in my spare room for free, and I would take time and drive him over and we could do tourist shit for a few days.
One night, after more than a little alcohol, I would open up to him about the fact I am bi and always wanted to have sex with men but was to repressed. And that I had had a crush on him all my life, how much I wanted to suck his dick (which when we beat off together as was bigger and more beautiful than mine) and to have him fuck me bareback so I could feel his cum shoot into me. I had it all figured out, even accepted how I would react if he said no.
I recently talked to his sister. He isn't really old enough but he's been on statins for a number of years. He has Alzheimer's. The men with whom I have had a sexual relationship have been at best friends. My romantic feelings were always for women. But him...him I long ago accepted I love him, as a friend, a brother, and romantically. But I waited too long to come to grips with myself and then to have the courage to open up to folks back home.
If you read this and there is someone, regardless of gender, that you want an intimate romantic relationship with get off your ass and act! The older you get the more you regret and what you regret most is what you didn't do, not what you did.
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To be totally honest
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Posted:Oct 9, 2017 1:00 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2017 11:03 am
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If you look at my profile, and if you do I will take suggestions to improve it, you will see I am not looking for a lot of partners just a FWB, regular fuck and suck buddy. I also say that race doesn't matter and in the long run it doesn't.
I find masculine guys to be the most attractive, hairy is a turn on - but I can deal with shaved even though I don't understand the current hatred of hair, I don't care if he's a professor at a college or a guy who works with his hands to earn his keep as long as he's a bright guy - which doesn’t require a degree. But sometimes I see a twink and want him badly.
Part of me does crave variety. A fling with a guy from another culture. And affair with men from other races, Asian, Native American, Black. I really am drawn to black men and women. Maybe it is growing up in the rural south where relationships between people of two races could get you both beaten or worse, making them forbidden fruit and hence more tasty. It is just like in white women cinnamon/red heads are the most attractive in general to me.
So if the FWB I eventually find is white, and there are more of those than any other race, that is certainly true on Senior Sizzle, I really do hope I fnd a decent black guy and suck him dry before I agree to be exclusive with a FWB.
Maybe in the next few weeks...
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We men and our dicks
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Posted:Aug 31, 2017 2:31 am
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2018 8:20 am
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We men are proud of our dicks. Even guys who say they will only bottom or in their profile offer oral sex and make it clear they want no payback will have a "dick pic" if they have any photos. There are some beautiful ones that make my mouth fall open just looking at them and some that look terribly deformed, cut and uncut, ... all kinds.
Notice I didn't say all kinds and sizes. I didn't because reading the profiles, where there is a question to be answered from a drop box about length and girth, all sizes are not represented. Since coming back on Senior Sizzle after a year away I have looked at several dozen men's profiles. Not one of those men claimed to have a short/thin dick, not one. A couple did say their's was thin. Which might be a strategic move, I am an anal virgin who hates pain. If I had an experienced guy with six thin inches I'd drop by his place a couple of times a week for a month or two to let me get used to being a good bottom. But none are listed as short, even when there is a picture that shows a short dick.
Short & thin ones do exist, I have sucked one and enjoyed it. It was nice to be able to go "all in" and feel my chin on his balls and my nose buried in his public hair without worrying about choking or my gag reflex.
Let's try for a bit more honesty. And we can all list our correct weight while we are at it.
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Still trying to figure it out ....
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Posted:Nov 13, 2014 7:14 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2017 1:54 am
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I'm constantly amazed at the number of responses that go nowhere. Others have commented on it as well.
I'm not talking about those who may have not seen a picture, if you aren't into my type body, if you don't like hairy guys, etc. well I don't expect you'd want to meet. But if we've exchanged emails, talked a bit, made sure we are into the same kinds of things, etc. .... Well just disappearing makes no sense.
I'm beginning to wonder just how many guys on this site really want to get laid.
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