3 Some Delight
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Posted:Apr 17, 2015 11:03 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 8:49 pm
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I invite you over to my house telling you I had a surprise for you.
Turning on to my street you see another car in my driveway parked next to my car. Tiny was here! You take your shirt off the seat. You walk through the gate to the back yard and peek around the corner, nobody! The girls must be in the house. You enter through the sliding door of the patio you feel the cooling relief of the air conditioning. You walk quickly past the stairwell, your eyes looking down the stairs briefly as you go by. Your shirt now held loosely by your side as you walk towards my bedroom. You enter my bedroom, turn left towards the bed and literally froze at the sight before you.
I was lying on my stomach across the bed facing Tiny, who was standing in front of my mirror wearing a purple thong bikini. You admire the shape of Tiny's succulent ass as she turns her hips first to the right and then to the left. Her firm 36C breasts may just as well have been naked, for all the small wisps of material covering her hard nipples, showing just a hint of her aureoles. At 44 years old, 5’6" tall and with a 36-25-36 figure that Tiny works to maintain, she could still hold her own against any women half her age. She kept her own dark hair long, to the middle of her back so you can tease her breasts with it. You couldn’t help but stare at her near nakedness as if for the first time. Tiny had never worn a thong bikini before she obviously had reached a point of being proud enough to dare wear one.
I was wearing a thong. My firm ass facing you, my knees were slightly parted as I had both legs bent up and my ankles crossed. Your eyes zeroed in on the thong bottom stretched tight against my mound, my lips perfectly outlined by the thin material. A small dark spot in the crease caught your attention. I was getting sexually excited from watching Tiny's vogue-like poses in the mirror? As you continue to stare at the dark spot between my legs you saw my ass cheeks flexing ever so slightly, my hips barely, discernibly, pressing down into the furry fake mink bedspread.
"I don’t know Venus. " Tiny said as she continued to look at herself in the mirror. "It certainly is daring and naughty! But maybe I should go back and get the one that covers my breasts more. " As she said this, Tiny raises both her hands and cupped each breast. You watch as her knees move together and her ass cheeks definitely flexed hard as if she was trying to hold off from peeing, or was that cumming? You know I want her. You continue to stare at my ass, the curve of my hips as they meet my small waist. The bulging flesh of my breast pressed against the bedspread.
"Quinton?"
You were jerked out of your reverie by the sound of Tiny's voice. You look at her and see that she is looking directly at you, then at me, then back to you, a knowing smile on her face. You can feel your cheeks starting to burn. That same feeling as a caught with his hand in the cookie jar.
"What?" you reply. Now nervously looking back and forth from Tiny to me, I had turned and was now propped up on one elbow looking at you.
"How long have you been standing there?" Tiny asked demurely
Before you could answer I say "Looks like long enough for me. "
You look at Tiny and see her eyes focused directly on your bulging pants. You quickly move your shirt back in front of yourself to cover up, but not quick enough before you glance at me and see that I was also looking at your crotch.
"So, I guess you like me in my new bikini"? Tiny said to you as she walked seductively around the bed, exaggerating the bump and grind of her hips as she approaches you, her shoulders thrust back forcing her breasts to stand up tighter, her nipples, hard from the cold air, pointing at you like twin daggers.
You watch her walk towards you. Her breasts thrust forward, her seductive walk, the close proximity of the two of them in near nakedness in my bedroom had your heart pumping wildly. Your mind filling with naughty thoughts, one right after the other. You were acutely aware of your hard cock, which if it could speak, would be screaming to be free.
Tiny presses her body against your, her arms go around your neck as she kisses you, thrusting her tongue into you mouth.
You bring your hands around out of reflex and pull her close to you. Kissing her back, sucking her tongue and thrusting your own when she retreat.
A groan of pleasure escaped your lips as she presses her hips forward mashing her crotch into your hardness.
She reaches down with her right hand and caress your bulging pants.
"Oh,... God!... Tiny!... What are you... doing to me...?" You moan. "We are at Venus,... and we... uh ohh God!... uhhh!
"Does this feel good Quinton". She whispers in your ear, as she continue teasing your cock and now curving under and tickling your balls.
Your eyes involuntarily close and your head goes back against the closet door, your chest rising and falling as your pulse quickens , demanding more oxygen to keep up with your building lust. You could feel her hard nipples pushing into your flesh through your thin sweat soaked t -shirt. My presence in the room fuels your desire, your fantasies pushing all thoughts of modesty to some unknown region of your brain.
"She wants to watch us Quinton!" Tiny whispers as she unzips your pants and reach inside. "She wants to watch us fuck. " Her cold hand as she finally grabs your burgeoning tool causes you to suck in your breath, and sent a wave of pleasure through you. "I want her to watch us Quinton, and I know you want her to. Then I want to watch you fuck her Quinton. Fuck her good like you fuck me."
"Ohh Tiny... that feels so... good! Don’t stop!... yeah...! Anything for you... yes... I want to fuck her... please don’t stop!
"Look at her Quinton, Look at Venus,... " You open your eyes and look towards the bed. I am totally naked, lying back on the bed. My legs are splayed open as I frantically finger my pussy with my hand. I am staring intently at the lewd scene before me. My other hand had pushed my left breast to my own mouth and my tongue was hungrily licking my distend nipple. The look of lust in my eyes telling you how much I was enjoying watching you two perform.
Tiny drops to her knees and pulls your cock out. Taking a second to admire its girth and length, she slides her lips over the head and tickled the tip with her tongue.
"Oh YES, Oh YEAH, SUCK MY COCK!" You scream, as your eyes never leave mine. As if you were telling me to suck your cock, wanting me to suck your cock,... need me to... suck your cock.
Tiny was pulling your pants down from your hips with urgency all the while never letting your cock escape her lips and mouth. She deftly remove your shoes and socks as you lift each foot. She finally gets your pants off as you rip your shirt off.
You pull Tiny up off your cock and kiss her again spearing your tongue to the roof of her mouth, tasting your own precum. She greedily accepted your tongue, grinding her juice soaked crotch against you again. You remove her bikini top and grab her tits roughly, the force of which reflect the level of your desire, and pull on her distended nipples.
"Oh... Oh yeah... Quinton... suck... on... her... nipple... PLEASE. " You hear me says.
You bend your head and take Tiny’s right nipple between your lips, your left hand still squeezing, causing her harden nipple to swell even more, the added hot blood feeding her nerve endings, make it more sensitive.
It was as if your lips had touched them both at the same time, as both women moan aloud in unison.
You turn your head when you hear it, and feel Tiny’s moans of pleasure. You are looking at me lying there, my legs obscenely splayed open, wantonly masturbating in front of you and Tiny. Your fantasy, you knew, was coming true. All those wasted loads down the drain in the shower were going to be a thing of the past. Tiny’s hand, pumping your cock as you lick and suck her breast, you are watching my fingers, the light from the window glistening off of them, as if covered with liquid diamonds.
You let go of Tiny’s nipple with a slight pop. Your breathing is also labored with your passion, your chest rising and falling, your hand sliding down her flat belly. You watch me shake my head up and down, my eyes, slits of lust, my jaw clench so tightly shut, unable to say the word. You slide your hand under the wisp of cloth, the wetness of Tiny’s thong bottom immediately apparent on the back of your fingers. Tiny squeeze your cock harder.
"Oh yeah... finger my pussy...Quinton... fuck... I’m so... hot!!!
You brush your fingers across Tiny’s lips, her juices immediately cover your fingers, oozing in between them, enveloping them like a thick, warm hot tub. " God, you’re so wet. "
Tiny let out a loud "OH" and let's go of your cock and grab's your shoulders as her knees buckle. Your finger brushing against her blood engorged clit feel so fucking good! Her body shaking with her desire, convulsing in mini orgasms. " DON’T TEASE ME...!OH GOD...!STICK THEM IN...!!!
You push up and in with two fingers. No resistance was felt at all, her pussy open and hungry to swallow anything placed in it.
Tiny’s hips buck back and forth on your hand, her whole body straining with her orgasm, the only thing saving her from falling was your firm hold on her. The feel of your fingers, knowing that the sound of my moans and groans of pleasure were because of the lewd show you and she are putting on for me drove Tiny over the edge.
"OH... OH GOD! I’M CUMMING! SHIT! SO GOOOD! FINGER MY PUSSY QUINTON!!!!...
My moans mixs along with Tiny’s fill the room, sounding like the soundtrack from some porno movie. The sight of your cock, knowing I would soon be feeling that same cock that's in her hands, in her pussy, sending me into my own mind blowing orgasm. "AAAAAAHHH! OOOOOOOHHH! I’M CUUMMMIINNG! TINY! OOOOHH! FFFUUUCCKK!
You help Tiny slump onto the bed. Her body, exhausted and spent from her powerful orgasm, laying between my quivering legs. Both women, sweaty, despite the coolness of the room, breathing as if they had just run a marathon.
You go around the side of the bed and kneel beside me, your cock inches from my face. "Suck my cock Venus, please, suck my aching cock. "
I open my eyes and see the object of my previous and present desires. A string of pre-cum hanging, glistening in the light. Such a beautiful cock I thought. With only that split second of admiration, I lean forward and engulf the throbbing blood engorged man meat offered to me.
"Oh shit!... That’s good!" You hiss. Your hips bucking back and forth, fucking the luscious mouth of your fantasies.
I slide down on the bed, hooking my right hand under your left leg, I pull you over so you were straddling my face. Both hands grab your taut ass cheeks and pull your cock deeper into my mouth.
"Oh yeah!... Suck my cock... Venus...!"
Tiny looks up when she feels your weight on the bed. Watching as I admire your magnificent cock, watching as I wrap my mouth around it. Tiny was surprised at how exciting it was to watch another woman suck your cock. It was as if she was watching from across the room, detached from her body, as if watching herself.
Tiny watch me move you to straddle my face, your balls hanging, swinging back and forth with your thrusts, listening to your whimpers as I suck your cock, and tickle your sack. She watchs as my glistening pussy come to within inches of her face as she moves down on the bed, my scent entering Tiny’s brain, feeding the erotic scene before her.
Though she never considered herself bi or gay, Tiny would reflect later on how, for just a split second, an image of herself sucking her own pussy juices off her fingers filled her lust filled mind just before she lowered her head to my dripping cunt.
You turn your head upon my gasp of pleasure, my mouth leaving your cock, my body arching, bucking. Seeing Tiny eating me out was the icing on the cake, Tiny’s head bobbing up and down was the most erotic sight you had ever seen. Tiny’s muffled "uuumm... uumm... uummm... " mixed with my mews of pleasure as both women enjoy each other for the first time.
You leave the bed and go behind Tiny, grasping her under the hips, you pull her up until her ass was even with your raging cock. "Yeah Tiny, suck her pussy... God baby... you look so good sucking her pussy... don’t stop!"
I have my breasts firmly in my hand, pulling and pinching. My feet are firmly planted on the bed to push my willing pussy into Tiny’s tongue.
You guide your cock into Tiny’s pussy and slam your hips forward. Tiny’s mouth loses contact with my pussy for only an instant to cry out in exquisite pleasure as her pussy was finally filled with the hard cock she had been waiting for. You slam her back and forth with such force that she has to hold her tongue out constantly to continue making contact with my pussy. Her chin slapping, sliding across my clit with every forward thrust of your hips.
The three of us struggle towards orgasm together, sharing a closeness between us they had never known before, and wondering why we hadn’t shared it sooner, but knew, we would from now on.
Our moans and grunts fed each others journey towards their ultimate goal.
"OH... GOD... I’M CUMMING... " You cry as both of us orgasm. Tiny's pussy contracting and squeezing your cock as she lift's her head to cry out her pleasure, inserting three fingers into my gushing pussy, thumbing my clit at the same time, driving my orgasm as well.
The three of us collapse on the bed in a tangle of satiated flesh. Holding each other, gently stroking a back, a thigh, smooth buttock. Basking in the afterglow of our experience, sharing our intimacy on a romantic level as our animal lust subsided.
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Insercurity
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Posted:Apr 16, 2015 8:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2015 7:19 am
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A friend and I were talking about insecurity it got me thinking about when I was younger. Here is a little about me.
When I was younger I often felt inadequate and “not good enough” to be friends, lovers, or business partners with anyone. Sometimes I simply couldn’t understand what others saw in me. I was very insecure.
I ended all promising relationships because of my insecurity. In my mind, I felt it was easier for me to end it before they did or even began. Walking away rather than risking the heartbreak of rejection was how I justified my behavior to myself. But after awhile, as I grew emotionally, I began to realize that I wanted and needed the comfort and support of a relationships be it family, friends, lovers, or even business partners.
So what did I do, and what can you do if insecurity is damaging your relationships?
You need to understand that a good relationship is about sharing ideas and enjoyable moments with another, to help each other grow in healthy ways, both together socially and as individuals. If someone really does treat you poorly or hurts you and cheats you out of something, feeling insecure is a natural and reasonable response. However, if you’re actually in a generally good relationship with someone, then it’s time to…
Here is what I have come up with and used to help me.
Stop trying to read their minds: Relationship problems and associated social anxieties start with bad communication, which in turn leads to attempted mind reading. Mind reading occurs when two people assume that they know what the other is thinking when they don’t. This process of wondering and trying to guess what someone is thinking is a rapid route to feelings of insecurity and stress.
If someone says one thing, don’t assume they mean something else. If they say nothing at all, don’t assume their silence has some hidden, negative connotation. Likewise, don’t make the people in your life try to read your mind. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Give the people in your life the information they need, rather than expecting them to know the unknowable.
It’s also important to remember that you aren’t suppose to know every little thing going on in the minds of others, even the people closest to you. When you stop trying to read their minds, you really begin to respect their right to privacy. Everyone deserves the right to think private thoughts. Constantly asking, “What are you thinking?” can provoke a person to withdraw from a relationship to find space.
Stop looking for the perfect relationships: You will end up spending your entire life hopelessly seeking the right lover and the right friends if you expect them to be perfect. Even worse, the process of doing so will drive you mad, as you feel more and more insecure with every failed relationship that doesn’t live up to your fantasy of perfection.
We’re all seeking those special relationships that feel perfect for us, but if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to realize that there are no “perfect people” for you, just different flavors of imperfect ones. That’s because we are all imperfect in some way. You yourself are imperfect in many ways, and you seek out relationships with people who are imperfect in complementary ways.
It takes a lot of life experience to grow fully into yourself and realize your own imperfections; and it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest imperfections, your unsolvable flaws – the ones that truly define who you are – that you are able to proficiently select harmonious relationships. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for imperfect people who balance you out – the perfectly imperfect people for you.
Stop judging current relationships based on past relationships: Think about those times when you passed an unfair judgment on someone merely because they reminded you of someone from your past who treated you poorly. Sadly, some people pass judgments like these throughout the entire duration of their long-term relationships. Simply because they were once in a relationship with someone who was abusive, dishonest, or who left them, they respond defensively to everyone else who gets close to them, even though these new relationships have been nothing but kind and supportive.
If you carry old bricks from the failed relationships of your past to your present relationships, you will build the same flawed structures that fell apart before. So if you suspect that you have been making unfair comparisons between your present relationships and a negative one from the past, take a moment and consciously reflect on the hurtful qualities of this old, negative relationship, and then think of all the ways your present relationships differ. This small exercise will help you let go of the old bricks and remind you that past pains are not indicative of present possibilities.
Stop inventing problems that don’t exist: Inventing problems in our mind and then believing them is a clear path to self-sabotage. To often we amuse ourselves with anxious predictions, deceive ourselves with negative thinking, and ultimately live in a state of hallucination about worst-case scenarios. We overlook everything but the plain, downright, simple, honest truth.
When you invent problems in your relationships, your relationships ultimately suffer. Insecurity is often the culprit. If you doubt yourself and you don’t realize your own worth, you will pass on any opportunity to let others care for you, and you will remain stuck with the insecurity issues that weigh you down.
The insecure passenger does not trust anyone else to drive. They feel out of control. They imagine that the driver is not paying attention. Or they may even fantasize that the slight jolting of the driver stepping on the breaks is a sign of doom via an impending collision. They freak themselves out by assuming that the visions they have invented in their mind represents reality.
What you need to realize is that there are normal idiosyncrasies to any relationship. There are ups and downs and mood changes, moments of affection and closeness and moments of friction. These ups and downs are normal. Wanting to be absolutely close and intimate all the time is like wanting to be a passenger in a car that has no driver.
Next time you feel insecure, and you catch yourself stressing about problems that don’t exist, stop yourself and take a deep breath. Then tell yourself, “This problem I’m concerned with only exists in my mind.” Being able to distinguish between what you imagine and what is actually happening in your life is an important step towards self-confidence.
Stop focusing on the negatives: There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. Even if it seems perfect now, it won’t always be. Imperfection, however, is real and beautiful. The quality of the happiness between two people grows in direct proportion to their acceptance, and in inverse proportion to their intolerance and expectations. It’s how two people accept and deal with the imperfections of their relationship that make it ideal.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you have to accept everyone into your life who is willing to accept you, even if they are obviously not right for you. But it does mean that if there are occasional difficulties in your relationships, you don’t have to jump to the bold conclusion that the entire relationship is bad, and become so distressed that the relationship ends, or so insecure that the other person questions your intentions.
No meaningful relationship will always work flawlessly all the time. Being too black and white about the quality and health of a relationship spells trouble. There will always be difficulties present, but you can still focus on the good. Insecure people constantly look for signs of what’s not working in their relationships. What you need to do is look for signs of what is.
Having an appreciation for how remarkable the people in your life are leads to good places – productive, fulfilling, peaceful places. So notice their strong qualities, cheer for their victories, and encourage their goals and ambitions. Challenge them to be the best they can be. Every day, acknowledge just how amazing they are.
Here is a song that fits with what I am trying to say:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM
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Men call it morning wood.
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Posted:Apr 8, 2015 11:34 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 8:45 pm
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I was just talking to a friend and we were discussing perving. So this question came up in the morning most men have morning wood, but is it called when a woman wake's up horny first thing in the morning.
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Friendship Part II
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Posted:Apr 7, 2015 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 12:12 pm
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Not everyone has to be a close friend, but it’s integral to our happiness that we show people who we truly are, allow ourselves to know them in return, and then remind each other through actions—small or large—that we care.
We never need to be or feel alone in this world, but it’s up to us to create and allow opportunities to be together, enjoy each other, and be there for each other. It’s up to us to make our relationships priorities.
With this in mind, I compiled some of the ideas that resonated strongly with me. So some friends and I were sitting around a few days ago we started talking about friendships so each of us came up with some things that we think that makes true friends.
1. Always be there, even in silence.
2. Be kind and listen. Be fun and light. Be serious when needed, love extensively, and forgive always.
3. Don’t be scared to tell each other the truth, no matter how difficult it may be. But sometimes friends do find it hard they get scared of loosing there friends.
4. Guide each other in times of need with your honest opinions.
5. A true friend is someone who always listens and is genuinely interested in the good and bad, and someone who calls or writes just to say hello.
6. Be loyal in confidence and character, always open and inviting to share concerns, always honest even if you disagree.
7. A true friend tries his best to cheer you up when you are upset and makes you feel special.
8. Try and improve their life though your friendship.
9. Be who you truly are, be that vulnerable, and provide the other person the space, safety and choice to do the same.
10. Be genuinely happy when they get, receive, or achieve something they truly desire.
11. Share the truth in your heart, without the fear of misunderstandings.
12. Be loyal and forgive but: love and respect.
13. Accept the person as they are, as an individual, without conditions. Also, as important as it is for you to be there for them, sometimes you have to be willing to let them be there for you.
14. Remain friends despite a person’s choices in life and don’t bail on them when they aren’t who you want them to be.
15. A true friend always supports the person but doesn’t feel compelled to support the situation. A true friend knows how and when to say the firm, “No.”
16. Help yourself and those closest to you grow. To live means to grow, and a true friend is someone that you can honestly say has helped define you as an individual.
17. Celebrate the wins and be there to support the losses. Keep your word and acknowledge it when you don’t.
18. Walk in to a friend’s aid when others are walking out.
19. Don’t hold grudges over petty disagreements.
20. Show up! You can pretend to care but you cannot pretend to show up.
21. A true friend is someone you feel as comfortable with as you do when you are by yourself. No illusions, no holding back.
22. Be there for the other person in the same way you would be there for yourself. Granted, if you can’t be there for yourself, that’s probably something you should address first.
23. Don’t let your own stuff get in the way. The ego is powerful.
24. Know someone’s least admirable characteristics and still love and support them.
25. Share honest appreciation every chance you get.
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More about Alpha female
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Posted:Apr 6, 2015 11:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 12:22 pm
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Well, look who just spawned in? The highly ambitious kick-ass Alpha Female; give way to her my dear males. It’s the new era of women who love being highly ambitious, motivated and nothing can stop them from reaching their goal. The Alpha Female is a strong, majestic female. She can often be intimidating to those around her and isn’t afraid to ask for what she wants. She’s killing it in her career and has a solid group of friends to rely on that she trusts.
Not all men find her interesting, in fact most men find her to forward-thinking ambitious with over the top intelligence. She is the new age woman who steams up her bed, makes important decisions in the relationship, sexually and professionally confident and most of all demonstrates an openness to try out new things and new places. She’s the one who builds her contacts by socializing with influential individuals and has her own circle of royalties. The perfect companion to the Alpha Male, and any man who can handle her and is willing to walk behind the road she treads.
An Alpha Female although heterosexual does show a slight difference in her physical appearance. The ring finger and index finger for most women are of the same length. Alpha women have ring fingers that are slightly longer than the index. Their thoughts match men although they do display a feminine side.
The Alpha Woman eyes certain professions where they can display their dominance and stronghold. For ex. professions like running a business, teaching at the best universities and colleges, law and medicine is what suits them most. They generally prefer professions where there is an opportunity to network and learn. They prefer taking up degree or post graduate courses that will also help them reach their professional goal. Goes without saying that she prefers high profile job portfolios and will stop at nothing from getting where she wants to be. She is someone who would even hire a maid, cook and cleaner so that mundane household activities don’t get in her way.
Her sexual libido is much talked about as she does not mind her one night stands. Bold and competitive, playful and interesting sometimes she is the ultimate fantasy for a guy. She is known to bring passion with much ease.
She is fiercely independent and does not need anyone to take care of her. In fact she is someone who would put 100% of herself into her career to reach the top. Social conventions like traditional values, religion, marriage and politics is what she thinks is complete rubbishes. She is a power seeker, only natural that she likes to talk about politics, social issues, business and law. A perfect example of an opportunist, she is someone who does not hesitate at using her sexual skills or networks to get what she aims for. She is determined in every way and does not need help from her friends or family to get things done. Without a doubt she’s the leader of the female pack enjoying a large following but doesn't have many close friend and equally large women who despise her independent nature. Although most women hate the confidence and passion she lives by.
The Alpha Female is comfortable in her high heels exuberant a good sense of humor, is a crowd puller and is strung on high profile jobs that only men were considered for a few decades ago. She is not someone who would slave over a stove but would rather find help to do her chores.
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Conversation.
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Posted:Apr 5, 2015 9:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2015 8:18 pm
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Some will argue that the most difficult step in securing a lovely vixen for the evening is the approach, but the ensuing discussion is just as — if not more — intimidating. The obstacle in question is a logical one, but one that typically goes unnoticed by the untrained: as she is indeed a perfect stranger, her likes and dislikes remain a mystery. Feeling around in the dark for her favorite topics of conversation can be both challenging and risky, especially if your goal for the night centers on the loss of that hot cocktail dress. Conversation topics that lead to sex are launching platforms and work toward altering her mindset to match yours. If executed correctly, she’ll want to finish the discussion early and move on to more physical relations.
Food maybe sounds like a ho-hum topic , but like most other seemingly innocuous pieces of advice the Player has at his disposal, it’s an effective means to an end. It’s up to you to broach the conversation, but once it’s going, the direction of the discussion should be clear: you’re in a club or bar, which likely doesn’t feature any of her favorite foods. Perhaps she has a weakness for authentic Chinese food. And yep, you know just where to get some. Clearly, the goal is to separate her from the current location; get her alone and the rest should take care of itself. Better yet, if you’re not a bad cook and she mentions something doable, you could always insist on making it for her. Don’t suggest it for that night (that's too transparent), but how about next weekend?
If you have a passion about something, flaunt it. There’s one thing that’s beginning to fall by the wayside, and women seem to be especially in tune to this lacking. For some reason, ambition and motivation appears to be at an all-time low amongst the 20-somethings out there, which means if you have a particular passion, flaunt it. Here’s one universal rule: women find passionate men attractive. If you are passionate about your work or your favorite hobby, there’s a damn good chance you inject that amount of emotional force into other aspects of your life. It doesn’t have to be anything sexy or even remotely feminine in nature; you could be a total gearhead, or maybe your passion is something like camping. Don’t talk her ear off; just get a little animated and get that sparkle in your eye. She’ll take notice, and she’ll want to learn more about you.
This may seem too forward, but you’ll want to be covert in establishing this particular conversation topic that leads to sex. You don’t want to be detailed or graphic, and you certainly don’t want to get personal too early. These approaches will lead to a collapse of the conversation, which you can easily spot by examining her body language. She’ll start to draw away, her eyes will shift, her answers will be abrupt and clipped, and obviously, she’s seconds from bailing. However, you can avoid this if you have a humorous story that only indirectly ties in with sex, or you can try delving into the more intellectual and societal aspects of the topic. You could talk about the constantly changing night scene, how different women have drastically different viewpoints on the subject and you should do it all without risking the scary, creepy guy label. Just be light and casual, and be ready with an easy laugh.
Depending on the type of woman sitting next to you, you could try something taboo in an effort to seal the deal with no wasted words. However, before trying this, you need to establish a safe base of operations; you have to feel around to see if she’ll be receptive. The wrong woman can send a drink up your nose if you’re not careful, so take a few minutes to make the correct assessment. Once you’ve done this, and you think she’ll respond to your taboo topics with a sly grin and a wink, you can select from any number of sexy subjects. Perhaps it can be something simple, like the concept of “friends with benefits” (always a Player favorite), or you can launch into a more exotic tact that consists of threesomes, role-playing and fantasies. Again, though, do what you can to keep it light. If she latches on, the heat will indefinitely arrive later.
Conversation topics that lead to sex rely heavily on your ability to begin and carry a discussion, so that’s paramount. Regardless of the chosen topic, you need to be engaging, affable and, in the end, desirable. Obviously, not all women will respond in the same way, but with the preceding ideas, you should be able to spark a conversation that doesn’t officially end until the next morning.
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How to Identify the Legendary Creature "Alpha Female"
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Posted:Apr 2, 2015 1:14 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 12:23 pm
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Some more on my research:
Say your at a party or even a dinner party. It might be instinctively obvious to you who the alpha female is, but if not, there are some surefire ways to identify her:
• She'll reach out and touch someone (or everyone), without permission, and without reserve.
• It will seem that her mother never taught her that it's impolite to stare. She's not shy about boring holes through anyone, for any reason.
• Eye contact is one of her power points. She'll never lose an Old Stone face contest.
• Interruption is common. If she's got something to say, she will ensure that it makes its way into the current conversation, no matter how irrelevant.
• She might not be pregnant, but her pauses will be. When she stops in the middle of speaking for dramatic effect, she's creating verbal cliffhangers that will keep her audience hanging on for dear life.
• The alpha female's opinion matters to the group. Whether a joke is told or a new idea is pitched, everyone in the group will usually look to the alpha female for her reaction before they display their own.
• She'll use time to create power. If the group's in a hurry, she'll find an old boyfriend to talk to. If everyone's hungry, she'll go the restroom and hold up the ordering. If there's a fire, she might reapply lipstick while she's waiting for a beta male to come along and lower the fire escape. By forcing those around her to adhere to her schedule, she's demonstrating her power.
• When with other females, the alpha female will generally walk into a room first. This marks her as the leader.
• If she's hungry, she'll eat. If she's thirsty, she'll drink. Unless she's completed finishing school, and passed with flying colors, she will never feel compelled to wait for others to start.
• She'll stand or sit tall. She rarely slouches.
• She won't fidget, dart her eyes, chew her fingernails, breathe shallowly, or jump when someone taps her on the shoulder. Her breathing will come from low in her torso; it will be barely detectable.
• She'll impersonate Barbara Walters often…asking lots of questions of others, but divulging little about herself.
• Like an extra in a breath mint commercial, she'll move in for the close talk. She's not trying to kiss, she's simply taking her slice of space from others, because she deserves it.
The alpha female generally gets lots of attention. That's part of her power…her power of attraction, her power for steering the conversation, and her power for convincing everyone else what she already knows: that she's right.
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The Unveiling Of The Alpha Female
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Posted:Apr 2, 2015 12:17 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 12:23 pm
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What my research has found:
What about the Alpha Male counterpart? Some say she's only been captured in a mere snapshot......a still image. Others say she's only a legend, an enigma like the unicorn, the mermaid or the dragon.
The concept of alpha female barely existed. Strange, considering that this remarkable woman is as old as the alpha male himself.
Let's put aside history for her story. Allow me to introduce you to the stuff legends are made of: The Alpha Female.
There's a good chance that you know an Alpha Female, and there's also a good chance that you don't like her. You might respect her, but being liked by others is certainly not on the top of her to-do list.
Some major traits of a Alpha Female:
1. She's strong-minded. If she's got a plan, she won't quit until it's the plan.
2. She'll take charge.
3. She's a loner. She is not dependent on friends or family for motivation, encouragement, or camaraderie. Her moxy comes from within.
4. She's not a stereotypical nurturer. She's got people for that.
5. She always has her eye on a prize -- always looking to the next project. If no goal has presented itself to her, she'll create one.
6. She's not afraid to threaten. Though the threat may not be accompanied by the baring of teeth or the "cat fight" stance, she will make it very clear that she is not to be tampered with. She will not flinch at eliminating anyone who stands in the way of her goals.
7. She has lofty standards. Not only does the alpha female measure her own achievements with a yardstick that's about 5 ½ feet long, she assesses others' achievements in the same manner.
8. She won't stand for argument. "Talk to the hand" should be the alpha female's mantra, because she's not going to engage herself in lengthy arguments about the principles of her ideals. She's right. Get used to it.
9. Personal success dominates her life. The alpha female will usually gauge her success in terms of how many she's landed or how many acronyms tail her name.
10. She's competitive. Often obsessed with being the best, she won't be ashamed to admit she's "out for blood."
11. She's a natural leader. Others will logically look to her in times of turmoil.
12. She views other women in a dim light. Though the alpha female recognizes that she's not male, she also sees herself as a sort of enhanced woman, rejecting the attributes that are typically considered to be feminine (sensitive, nurturing, delicate).
13. She's sweet when she has to be. The alpha female has charm, and she knows how, and when, to turn it on. The method of conquering isn't important to her…but the resulting power is.
I was also wondering so did a little bit more research, why the Alpha Male is celebrated. The Alpha Female is rarely consider or even mentioned or identified. The Alpha Female has been condemned or even punished. The trait listed above aren't undesirable in the business industry, but they can hinder a woman in a relationship.
Throughout most of the history of mankind, the female has been valued for her reproductive capacity. Attraction factors of the female body that are considered beautiful today are hold overs from when men chose women for their -bearing and -rearing fitness (small waists, wide pelvic floors, wide hips, short arms, large breasts).
Keeping this evolutionary attraction factor in mind, consider the problems that alpha female behavior might pose for yesterday's (and even today's) average woman:
1. Because the alpha female harbors a fear of being lumped together with the rest of the weak females, she'll avoid falling into traditional wife, mother, and nurturer roles.
2. If the alpha female has already established a family, she'll likely spend less time with her than the average wife and mother. Because of this, she may have to endure "bad mother" accusations.
3. Because the alpha female is strong, opinionated, and unlikely to endure compromise, men may either avoid her or withdraw from her (particularly beta males, who typically experience increased stress in the face of confrontation).
4.For reasons that are probably already obvious, marriage can be difficult for the alpha female. A noted exception makes itself known in the case of an alpha female marrying an alpha male. He'll likely be one of the few people she'll willingly concede to.
5. Often, many of the alpha female's relationships are notably devoid of emotion. She'll maintain ties that promote success, but will rarely form any type of relationship for the sake of love or comradeship alone.
6. Because the alpha female has difficulty forging strong personal bonds, she'll likely spend much of her life feeling lonely, even if she's surrounded with people.
Will add more from my research at a later date.
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Research on Alpha Male's.
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Posted:Apr 2, 2015 10:01 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2015 9:03 pm
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Since I did a blog on Alpha's and got a couple of good response's I have done some research I googled Alpha male's trait's. During my research I have found that a alpha male does have a lot of fascinating and impressive positive traits. That’s what makes him so desired and awed. But as with anything that has an extremely positive side, there’s also a negative and dark side.
Good Trait's:
#1 Strength. An alpha male is strong. If he doesn’t have brute strength, he has loads of mental strength to think under pressure.
#2 A leader. An alpha male is always a leader. He doesn’t try to be one, he instinctively takes the lead when the circumstances arrive his way.
#3 Will to win. He has the will to win, and will do anything it takes as long as he gets what he wants. He always tries to be the last man standing.
#4 Ambitious. He’s a dreamer and is full of ambitions. He doesn’t think small, and is full of ideas that other people haven’t begun to comprehend.
#5 Competitive. An alpha male is extremely competitive, and takes immense pleasure in winning over his rivals.
#6 Charismatic. He’s charismatic, but not necessarily charming. He inspires everyone around him and awes people through his dreams and ideas.
#7 Challenging. He doesn’t shy away from challenges. In fact, he always goes looking for challenges.
#8 Confident. An alpha male doesn’t mind silence in a conversation because he’s not nervous. He’s extremely confident and doesn’t need anyone else’s approval for anything.
#9 Rule breaker. He doesn’t follow rules and he paves his own path whenever he sees an opportunity. Almost always, he makes his own fortune using his own means.
#10 Inspiration. An alpha male inspires others, and almost all men he meets want to be more like him. He’s a role model, and all guys either hate him or envy him.
#11 Ingenuity. He’s smart, be it street smart or book smart.
#12 Optimistic. Optimism oozes out of every orifice of his. He’s extremely optimistic and is always convinced that what he’s doing is the right thing and the right way.
#13 Protective instinct. His protective instinct is always on. He’s alert and aware of what’s going on around him all the time.
#14 Calculative. An alpha male knows his plans. He knows what he’s doing, and approaches his goals with a reckless and yet, calculative mind.
#15 Egotism. His ego is unaffected by the opinion of others. He doesn’t care what other people think of him because he thinks he’s above mere mortals.
#16 He draws people. Every other guy and girl wants to be around him. He draws people with his ideas and his visions, or with his dreams.
#17 Risk taker. What others would call mad recklessness, he calls it his life. An alpha male loves taking risks, especially when he believes that it would work in his favor.
#18 Focus. An alpha male is very focused with his ideas. His determination pushes him through adversities.
#19 He creates his destiny. An alpha male writes his own fate. He doesn’t believe in fate and has a high internal locus of control. He believes that any events in his life are a result of his own actions.
#20 He’s dependable. An alpha male is a solution finder. He’s dependable and a workhorse, and won’t rest until he’s convinced he has what he needs.
Dark trait's:
#1 Arrogance. With a lot of confidence, unfortunately, comes arrogance. Alpha males are very arrogant, even if they don’t reveal this trait to the rest of the world.
#2 Intense rivalry. The will to win of an alpha male almost always turns into rivalry. Like in a death match, an alpha male takes all pitfalls and challenges personally, and that can cloud his better judgment.
#3 Perfectionist. An alpha male is a perfectionist and ends up demanding perfection from everyone around him. He can be very unforgiving when others around him don’t match up to his level of perfection.
#4 Bullheaded. He can be very stubborn when he truly believes in something, even if he’s completely wrong.
#5 Perseverance. He doesn’t know when to stop pursuing something because he’s so overly confident about his own abilities. He may achieve what he wants, but the journey may drain him.
#6 Ruthlessness. Anything that comes in the way of an alpha male’s pursuit, he tries to eliminate it.
#7 Recklessness. His desire to win may be so intense, that he may end up turning himself into a reckless madman who doesn’t weigh the odds before doing something.
#8 Dominating. Alpha males can be very dominating, to the point where others could fear him or get frustrated with his behavior.
#9 Apologies. An alpha male is unapologetic if he assumes he’s right.
#10 Pressure. He thrives under pressure and loves it. Even if it takes a toll on his health or the well being of others around him, he continues to live life on the edge.
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My opinion On Alpha females and Alpha males.
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Posted:Apr 1, 2015 11:02 pm
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2015 9:28 am
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Tonight friends and I had a discussion about "Alpha." First we discussed alpha female, then we discussed alpha males.This is what we come up with for alpha female: An alpha female is confident, ambitious and energetic. They don't wait for things to happen to them, an alpha female will makes things happen on there own. Many alpha females think they are attractive, and most we have discovered they are and acting in an alpha manner will improve there life because they will go out and take the things they want.
Most "alpha" personality we have discovered are leadership personality. For alpha female to lead they need to be the best at it. Most alpha females tend to be extremely competitive. This doesn't necessarily mean they will be competitive in every part of their lives. This comes from the desire not only to succeed, but to succeed above other people.
All alpha female know they are good at what they do. This means they can talk to people without fear, can speak publicly and don't back down when they know they are right. To be in charge, they know that they can do it. After all, if they don't, then they can't expect other people to have faith in them. So, alpha females have high levels of self-confidence.
From our discussion alpha females are so goal-driven, they can be extremely aggressive. This is because they know what they want and they don't take kindly to people getting in their way. When they are given the choice between smooth social interactions and achieving their goals, alpha females will choose their goals every time.
Alpha female is self-serving. This doesn't mean they're absolutely selfish, but it does mean that they think of themselves first. When they makes decisions, they don't run through a list of who may be offended and what the possible consequences could be. Rather, they just think about whether it's a good decision for them, and they do it. They are not overtly selfish, but they do get what they want.
Alpha male:
What we discussed about the alpha male: The alpha male is physically strong or well built, he has traits that others males don't have.Most females find them attractive. They are willing to fight aggressively, physically if need be, for what they have and want, and to maintain there status. Most of the time, he is confident.
What we have discussed as well is that many alpha males associate being the dominant male with money, because they want a solid financial status usually that person engage in more activities, meet more people or acquire things others want and admire. Potential partners also usually like to see that a man is in a good financial position before they commit to a relationship with him. Alpha males who have this title typically are very well groomed, like being the center of attention, act both suave and cocky, excel at there work place and are able to get along with many different types of people. Other male's might describe him as a "lady's man" or a "man's man," they think that way because of how many women are attracted to them, and most of the other men want to be like them and look to them for behavioral cues.
Alpha males will achieve their status by using their physical strength to overpower weaker competitors. They also use superior intelligence to outwit others, in some cases this manifests as verbal threats or psychological manipulation.
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Freindship
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Posted:Mar 31, 2015 9:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2015 8:38 am
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I have been doing some thinking on friendship lately. A few friends and I talked about this subject tonight while we were out. The question that arises is: why do we have the kind of chemistry encapsulated by the word friend with only a few people we know and not scores of others? The closer we look for the answer the more elusive it became. It may not in fact be possible to know or answer, but the characteristics that define a friend relationship most certainly are.
If you have made a true friend then you will always listen to them and make a commitment to your and their happiness. A true friend is consistently willing to put your happiness before your friendship. A true friend won't refrain from telling you something you don't want to hear, something that may even risk fracturing the friendship. If it is a true friendship then nothing should be able to fracture it. That being said a true friend: will not lack the mercy to correct you when you're wrong. A true friend will not ask you to place that friendship before your principles. A true friend is also a good influence on you. He or she always inspires you to live up to your best potential and encourages you to do your best.
There still seems to be an extra factor, an attraction similar to that which draws people together romantically, that cements friends together irrevocably, often immediately, for no reason either person can identify. When you find these people, they're like priceless gems.
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Mens Tickle Trunk
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Posted:Mar 31, 2015 2:50 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2015 8:52 pm
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I have been talking to a friend of mine and the subject has come up about a woman tickle trunk. My question to you gentlemen what is in your tickle trunk or do you even have one.
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